“The Lesson of Nothing” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“The Lesson of Nothing” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: The Lesson of Nothing 

October 4, 2014

Alfred:

Hello everyone and welcome to GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE - Wisdom for Your Soul. This is the Padawan to the Modern Day Mystic himself, Hans Christian King. I will be here to help through  the Announcements before turning the show over. Today's topic: The Lesson of Nothing. 

But before we get to that, we have the Announcements. Jennifer, can you tell us what's going on this week and what's coming up?

Jennifer:

Thank you Alfred. We have two exciting events coming up this week. On Thursday, October 9th, Hans' Interview "Spirituality in the Now" will be replaying on Awaken to Your Greatest Life. And also on October 9th, Hans will be appearing live on "Beyond The Ordinary" with John Burgos. This is a perfect opportunity to call in and talk to Hans live. The links for both of these interviews are on the Events page on HansKing.com and they will also be posted on Hans' Facebook page.

Speaking of Facebook, thank you so much everyone for sharing Hans' posts. Keep sharing! We have a lot more goodies to give away in our on-going Random Acts of Kindness Event. That's it for this week. We'll announce more Events for the month of October as the dates get closer. Back to you Alfred.

Alfred:

And of course you can find all of this through HansKing.com under our “Spiritual Community” where you will find our “Event Calendar”. Of course you can always sign up for our Newsletter. If you haven't signed up for our Newsletter already, please sign up and you will receive a Free MP3 not only when you sign up, but every month when we send our once a month Newsletter you will receive an MP3 also just to thank you for being on our Newsletter. We never share your information, give away information, no one ever ever gets your information. It's just us, just sending you a Newsletter once a month. 

Feel free to "follow" us on Facebook to get Daily Quotes and other information about what's happening in our world and how we're trying to reach out to you. So getting to the topic of today: The Lesson of Nothing. I present to you the Modern Day Mystic himself Hans Christian King.

Hans:

Hello everybody and welcome to the show. It's with great laughter in my heart that we picked this topic. "We" being Spirit and I. Actually Alfred and I were in Lowes, and Spirit said to me this morning: I want you to talk about the value of "nothing". And Alfred looked at me and he said: What? I said: That's what they say - a show about “nothing”. I said: Yes, a show about “nothing”. And it reminded me of when Jerry Seinfeld decided to do a show about “nothing” for NBC. It's kind of on that vein. 

Do you know how much power there is, children, in "nothing"? Think about it a minute. If there's nothing going on, if you bring yourself to a loving safe place of nothingness, quietness... Not full of what happened yesterday...disappointment that somebody didn't call you...You know, I wonder if they're going to call me, I wonder if my mother's still mad at me, I wonder whether or not my boss likes me... What if there's "nothing" in that space?

You know when I do my readings, and I think for those of you who have been with us a long time know this little story. But when I teach you, the classes or I do readings for people, I kind of draw and doodle on a legal pad. And when I get to a certain point in the class or in the reading, I turn the page over and at first I say: Would you rather have this page, which their life has been written on this page here, or I say: Or would you rather have this page? And I show them the next page which is blank. Over 75% - 78% of the people will choose the page that's already written on. 

The value in the "unknown" is enormous. The value in "nothingness" is enormous. But our mind chatter tells us there must always be “something” in the space of “nothing”. Because if there's “nothing” in the space of “nothing”, something could be wrong, something might go wrong. What if nothing ever comes in to the nothing space...what if? A show about "nothing"...a class. If you sit in a class and the teacher says: This class is about "nothing" today, the mind chatter that starts to run in that class is deafening. 

If I say to a client when doing work with them: You need a space of "nothingness", most clients think that's strange, and most clients think that something bad could happen to them without being in control of the "nothing" space. So we have been taught, throughout our life, that there has to be something running through our mind at all times.

Alfred, you know of this through your teaching. What have you found?

Alfred:

I found that one of the most amazing spiritual paths is through "nothing". And it's the basis of meditation, it's the purpose of meditation actually, is to get to a point of "nothingness". And what we do through Hans' Intuitive Development Class and my Automatic Writing and Advanced Channeling Class is to take you beyond "nothing". To use the basis of "nothing" as a point where you can go far beyond what you could ever possibly comprehend. Now what does that mean? "Nothing" means there's no humanness or as little humanness as possible.

Hans:

Absolutely.

Alfred:

And that's what we're talking about. I'm sure Hans is going to bring up the "mind chatter" and the purpose of not having mind chatter.

Hans:

Which is the opposite of having mind chatter is nothingness.

Alfred:

Exactly. And that's what we're talking about here is "nothing" is actually a spiritual path. Because through "nothing" you're actually disconnecting through everything human. With not having anything human, you've got "nothing".

Hans:

Thank you Alfred. Doesn't it sound funny? What are you going to do today? Nothing. Well certainly you have to do something because you have time. So you must do something. No, I think I will do "nothing". I think I will just "be". Well what does that mean? Aah, there goes the mind chatter again. It doesn't matter what it will be, it simply is. This sounds a little bit like a round-about but what I want you to understand is "perfection in human form is nothingness". In other words, being "in" the world but not "of" it.

While Alfred was taking his welding class, I happened to turn on the news, and I had sworn off the news a year and a half ago. And living in Mexico for as long as I have, we don't get American news except for CNN and then it's the International CNN. And I turned this on and I heard all of these people spreading all of these rumors about Ebola. One person, from Africa, stopping off in Texas brought the virus with them, unknown to them. Passed the health test before they left Africa. And that has grown from 1 person infected, out of 335 million people, into a plague on the United States is about to happen. Shame on the President for not knowing this...and oh, he said it wouldn't be a plague... It's not, it's 1 person. It could be as many as 20 "if" all the people that person came in touch with got the virus. At that point, Guidance says to me: “Nothing”. Got it, turned it right off. 

Went to the Discovery Channel and just sat for a moment looking at some glaciers that were melting and trout that were coming up a stream. Nothing going through my mind...nothing. Have you ever sat in the park, and let's say the park is very empty, very quiet, and you see a squirrel coming along looking under leaves, looking for where he may have buried one of the nuts from this season's crop...but nothing else was going on in your mind just watching the squirrel. You ever heard of that adage: I lost track of time. Isn't that wonderful? Alfred, would you like to comment on that?

Alfred:

It's through "nothing" that you can find happiness, joy, bliss... It's why when you go out into nature and you stop thinking about human things - work, stress, what you have to do - that you're happy. That you actually can connect to God and Spirit better when you're in nature. Because you go to a state, or as much as possible, a state of "nothingness" releasing humanness. That's why when you sit there and think of nothing and watch the squirrel try to dig up a nut, you're in bliss. You're thinking that doesn't make any sense.

Hans:

Absolutely.

Alfred:

Exactly. It's not supposed to make sense. If it makes sense, you're thinking back to humanness which goes back to stress. We don't want that. We're telling you, if you're looking for happiness and bliss and God and Spirit and the Universe and Oneness, start at "nothing".

Hans:

It already "is". You've often heard me tell the story of the Buddha and the dandelion. And looking and the dandelion and looking at it and he doesn't say anything. And finally one of the devotees says to him: Gurudev, we fail to understand the value in this lesson. And he takes the dandelion flower and he points it to the group of people and he says: That it is is sufficient. It doesn't need to be explained. It was a metaphor. For when something "is", a tree "is", the squirrel "is" - it doesn't need to be analyzed because it's already bliss. It's simplicity itself. Truth is simplicity itself. But the more you try to "understand", the more you confuse the bliss of your moment. 

I have a friend who still is my friend but he's now in Spirit. And he used to say when he came upon something that was rather large, he would just turn to his internal child and say: Well here's something interesting. Let's see if we can play with this today. No matter how negative something may appear...because what he had learned of his 83 years, what he had learned was: Nothing is as it appears to be. Everything is an illusion that we or someone else has created. You see folks?

So when you finally get that "nothingness", being peaceful... I have a lady that I know who goes whenever she can...she lives in Santa Fe, New Mexico, and whenever she can she goes up to one of the Reservations, and one of them has this beautiful little stream, and she's found this wonderful rock to sit on. And she goes and she takes a little cushion, and she sits on the rock and she just does nothing but sits there. No thinking, no reading a book, just "be in the moment". And she's done this for a very, very long time...over 40 years. You too can learn the value of "nothing". 

If I have a pitcher and I want to spoon out water, okay? At some point, I will run out of water. When you refill the water pitcher, you're saying: I trust. So in that moment you're not asking yourself why you're filling the watcher pitcher, what is  all that about... In the moment you're going to refill the water pitcher and it's automatic. When you breathe, you're not saying: Gee, I wonder if there will be another breath. Nothing. Sitting in a place of "nothing", there is peace. Our minds are so constructed to think that there's something wrong with silence. We, and this is part of the book that's coming out for us that I'm currently doing, we have been programmed to go from one subject in life to another. And in the process of doing that we tend to validate the current pain by a pain from the past. Rather than say: I have had a wonderful life up until now. I choose to just "be" for a little bit. I'm not going to be fearful, I'm not going to be angry, I'm not going to wonder, I'm simply going to sit and "be". You see?

Alfred, any comments?

Alfred:

What we're trying to get at is through the search for something, the search for knowledge, the attempt to understand, the attempt to think things through - you're actually disconnecting yourself from Spirit, from God, from the Universe. You're actually in limitation because you're focusing on using your human self, whatever that "something" is, in order to get through life. And what we're trying to tell you is if you're looking for your connection to God, if you're looking for your connection to Spirit, it is through the letting go process in an attempt to get to "nothing" that  you'll find clarity, you'll release the limitation. And it is through the release of the limitation that you can be who you truly are. You're not piling anything on top of your perfect soul that already has everything it already needs. You're not piling on limitation to yourself. It is through the "nothing" that you'll find clarity.

Hans:

Thank you Alfred. You know we are taught throughout our lives, and you know this is one of my pet peeves, we are taught throughout our life to be somebody. We can be somebody. This makes the Spirit World insane. They didn't send nothing people here. No nothingness came here. You already were. You are someone and you're resonating in that moment because that moment is where you are supposed to be. And when children get fractured, and adults get fractured, is when others keep reminding them that they're not enough, reminding them that they should try harder, reminding them they should do better. That gets locked into that child's soul and never goes away. And they keep trying harder and trying harder. And I want all of you who are thinking: Yes, but isn't that good? Nnnooooo. Because it's taking you away from the essence of who you are. Find out who you are and see what you would like to have the experience of in life. That's what we should be teaching our children. Oh yes, they need to know their ABC's and math and all of that. I understand that. 

But the greatness of the soul does not lie in what it does. The greatness of the soul is in who it is. And in that is a place of quiet knowing which is "nothing". What if you found out today there was no place you needed to go, nothing you needed to accomplish, that just who you are in this moment is enough for God, you see? Nothing. And once you find a safe place in "nothing", everything in your life will change. Everything. Yes, there are human things that come up again. Because we put them in motion. Our parents, our grandparents, our employers, our employees, have put these, what they perceive to be deeds, in motion. 

I was talking with Alfred the other morning at breakfast and we were just talking about how he got to where there was a shift. And he said to me: You know, it was like an internal voice that came out of my chest that was telling me something but I wasn't paying attention. Alfred, you tell the story please.

Alfred:

Hans, that's the story of when I left my career in Banking. There was just some internal voice inside my chest that said: Okay, you've had enough of this time to leave your job and do something meaningful. And I said: Who are you and what's meaningful? Well, a year later, after its still yelling at me and raising its voice saying you have to quit what you're doing and leave and just go back to California and we'll explain it to you later. Finally I got to the point of stopping arguing. I just resigned and left and came back to the U.S.

So what's the point of all of this? If you want to be led by Spirit, if you want to receive Guidance, if you want to follow your path, sometimes you need to l”et go”  of what you're holding onto no matter how important, how successful, that you think it is in order to allow Spirit to enter your life. Sometimes you have to go to "nothing" and we really go over this in great detail in our Video Class, The Void. I think it's about 6 hours of the "good" that can come from when things are taken or when you release them from you.

Hans:

So what I want everyone to really get from today's show is having the appearance of "nothing" is a huge step towards your spiritual growth. Very quietly buried in the "nothing" is a trust. You're actually saying I trust that even though I'm not orchestrating my life at this moment and I choose to simply be quiet and be peaceful, I know Spirit and God have my back. You see? That's what they see. They see: Ah, she believes. Ah, he gets it.

Remember that old adage that says: When you finally get it, when you finally see it, when you finally hear it, doors appear where previously there were no doors. The reason was you were standing in front of the door and thought it was a wall. You didn't know it was a door. "Nothingness" allows you to see a blank page as beautiful. 

When a painter looks at a blank canvas, they envision something in the "nothing" and they create that. But they're not forced to. That comes from a place of quiet knowing and quiet trust, that I know out of "nothing" will come what I need to hear, will come what I need to know and will teach me. I know that. So when you turn loose of what you perceive is important, Spirit presents another door and I can't tell you the thousands of people through these many, many years in service who have said to me later: It all happened when I let go. I was holding on to something because I thought that was what my safety was. I didn't believe that Spirit, God would take care of me. 

For many people, Alfred, going to a place of "nothing" is extremely fearful. Because for all they say that they believe, for all they work at believing, inside of them, they're still trying to control the outcome of the "nothing".

Did you ever have that experience?

Alfred:

That's a really good point Hans and as you've seen over the many years for those who have been following us, a huge part of the path of spirituality is merely a perception change. What the brain has been taught, especially in western civilization is that more is better, gathering is good. It's security. You can be a better person by getting more, whatever more is. And what we're trying to tell you in terms of changing your perception is that if you wish to lead a spiritual life, “nothing and less are better”. And we're saying not just "less" is better, but "nothing" is actually much, much, much better. 

Because that means you've gotten to a point where you've released so much that you're in clarity, you just "are". I just "am". You have no judgments, no opinions. You're in a constant state, or as much as possible, a constant state of meditation, of connection with Source Energy, your vibration stays high as much as possible. 

So in this perception change that we're asking you, you really need to look at and say: what do I value more? Am I a human that occasionally has spiritual experiences or am I a spirit, a soul, that happens to have some human experiences? And if your focus is being a soul, then we're telling you look at changing your perception that "less" or even "nothing" is a spiritual path.

Hans:

Very good, Alfred. You know my friends, one of the great things that Alfred brought to my practice was a simple statement that I had, for many years known about but hadn't incorporated it into my teaching. Now, let me backtrack here. People say well how can we go someplace and do someplace if we live in "nothingness". That's not what Spirit is saying. If you believe, and you say to them: In my life ahead I would like the feeling of... And let it go - whatever it is. And you go back to "nothingness" because you believe at that point that Spirit heard you. You believe they're going to organize. When you say to Spirit: In my new life I would like the feeling...I would like to feel so and so... That's something you can do. That's something you can tell them that you want. You can also tell them you would like the experience of whatever you want. But before you get to that place, you have to first believe. And the belief comes through "nothingness", getting to a place where you stop the control of all that's going on and are hurt by all that's going on. Okay? 

Alfred, anything more on this subject today from you?

Alfred:

What we're trying to tell you about is the huge, immense value of "nothing". And again this is a massive perception shift compared to what most of us have gotten beaten into us that acquiring stuff is better. What we're trying to tell you is acquiring stuff, thinking about stuff, trying to make yourself better in the western way may take you away in an opposite direction if you wish to lead a spiritual life. All of Hans' harping over the many years about mind chatter is all about releasing, letting go, and every single spiritual methodology that there is, everyone will always talk about surrendering, trust, belief. And it is through the of letting go, and getting to a state of "nothing" that you could have true meditative experiences, that you could have true bliss, true joy in your life, and that's what we're trying to tell you is the value, spiritually speaking, of "nothing".

Hans:

Yes. Alright, Alfred, I think that will conclude the lesson for the day. And I thank you for your wonderful input. I thank all of you for being patient. What I want you all to do is listen to this show several times, and I want you to write down bits and pieces from it that you think affect you and what you'd like to look on. Okay?

“Soul Mate Family, Friends and Animals” - Rebroadcast from February 14, 2013 Modern Day Mysticism - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“Soul Mate Family, Friends and Animals” - Rebroadcast from February 14, 2013 Modern Day Mysticism -  by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Soul Mate Family, Friends and Animals

September 28, 2014

Jennifer:

Hello everyone. Welcome to GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE - Wisdom for Your Soul. This is Jennifer, grateful to be with you on this beautiful day. Hans is a little under the weather today so we're broadcasting a Replay on the theme of Relationships that Hans has been teaching about recently. Hans will be well very soon. But if you'd like to send prayers to him for a speedy recovery, please do so via The Prayer Request link on HansKing.com.

For those of you who have sent in questions, we do appreciate your patience. Hans will respond to those questions on the next radio show. As for the Announcements this week - Hans' Interview "Transform Your Life By Changing Your Intentions" is playing all of this weekend on “Your Life Without Limits”. You can find the link to this on the Events Page on HansKing.com and on Hans' Facebook Page.

If you haven't already done so, please look for Hans Christian King1, on Facebook and check out Hans' Daily Quotes and Upcoming Events and have a look at our Random Acts of Kindness Event where Hans is giving away Lessons, Classes and other goodies to those who share his posts. All upcoming Interviews  and Events are always posted on Hans' Facebook Page.

That's all for the Announcements this week, so sit back, relax, and enjoy today's Show.

Alfred:

Hello everyone and welcome to MODERN DAY MYSTICISM being broadcast on The World Puja Network. Today's topic is: Soul Mate Family, Friends and Animals. And to discuss the infinite forms that soul mates come from, I present to you Hans Christian King.

Hans:

Good evening everyone. Welcome, welcome, welcome. We have a tendency to forget the value of the people who are presented to us for our lessons. Those come in many different kinds. They come in parents, lovers as friends, lovers as lovers. Even our little animal friends have agreed to come forward to help us to learn to love and to give unconditional love. 

Most of the time we reincarnate with specific parents and soul mate friends because we find it easier to work with people that we've actually worked with and have known before. So what happens is that when we have that little rountable meeting that you've heard me discuss with you and someone who was your mother last time and you were the child says: Well, you know you didn't get the grasp of what I was doing, how about we reverse the roles? And you'll become the opposite of the last role that we had. And you'll say: Well why? And your Guides and Helpers say: Because you're looking at it from only one point of view. You see?

Let's take the lesson for all old souls - the lesson of self-esteem, for instance. We are presented with the lesson of self-esteem because as an old soul it is sort of in the end, it's sort of the last of the things that we have chosen to learn...not an easy subject, my friends. Not an easy subject. So we will have set in place a series of events that have a debilitating impact on the humanness of us. A parent may not ever say I love you. A parent may not be there. Just not show up or be working or gone all the time. A parent may not be able to see who you are to recognize the wonder of who you are and you're always searching, searching, searching, trying to get the parent to acknowledge the importance of you. 

Why would we do that? Why would we put ourself in a situation where we couldn't be seen by the parents? We do so because our soul has chosen to arise above the appearance of humanness to be the essence of God in the form you are in at the moment in your evolutionary process. That just who you are...you've heard me say this forever now...just who you are is enough. Despite what a parent might say, or a boss might say, or anybody might say. So your job is to rise above that. And as much as you may love your parents, the fact that they can't get who you are is not your problem, it's their problem.

Now you've heard me say this many, many times and I know it always sounds like it's insulting, but it isn't. It is a truism: What someone thinks of you is none of your concern. What you think of what they think of you should be very much your concern. I have asked Alfred in the past to expound upon his parents, I have told all of you all of you what my situation was about a father who left when I was 4 or 5 years old and a mother who loved me, there was no doubt about that, had no idea who I was, absolutely no idea who I was. But that doesn't speak to the character of the person, it speaks to the pain of the child. The child doesn't know that it's set this lesson in place, and actually the parents don't know. 

So one of the things that I say to parents these days: Take the time to find out who your child is. Not who you want the child to be. But who the child actually is. Because the child is the embodiment of the Godforce in human form. And attached to that form are a series of lessons that that child has chosen to learn. So it doesn't behoove you to be guilty because you might have said something, or might have done something. What you need to do to help the child advance is to recognize the child. Help the child become better than their current perception.

So we reincarnate with soul mate friends, soul mate lovers, soul mate animals,  based on what our soul has chosen to learn. You agreed in advance that your parents and friends would present karmic lessons to you. They don't know that, and you don't know that. But that's how it works. You can say to me: Oh Hansy, I would never have done that. I would never, ever have set that in motion. But you don't know that. You think you know that, but you don't. You don't know exactly what your lessons are. But if you watch yourself and you keep repeating the same lesson over and over and over...  Like how we choose our partners. If you find you're fishing in the same pond all the time, trying to get a different result, then you have a serious problem. 

If you and your parents realize you and your children have karma with each other... Here we go again: You're not here by accident, you're in fact here by design...by design. So both parents and children have the same vested karmic interest in the lessons we have chosen to learn with each other. You see? 

Now I know that my father loves me. And how do I know that? I know my father loves me because he came back to a very fine Medium one day in Asheville, North Carolina, and he said to me: Son, remember that your mother only has one side of the issue. There are in fact, two sides to the issue. And at that moment, I realized that my mother in her anger, her rage about my father, had started manufacturing things out of her subconscious mind that actually weren't true. So that helped to free me up to understand that my mother had a terrific lesson, I mean really a hard lesson, because she set that in motion and my father had agreed to do what he did, and I had agreed with my father that he would not show up in my life, and I had agreed that my mother would cause all this trouble... All that, you see...all that minutia made me who I am today.

So what you have to do is you have to look at where you came from, and if you're very clever, which you all are, you can watch the synchronicity as you move through your life. As a child you may have agreed to present your parents with lessons. I'm quite certain that I did. Both my parents. You did also. So as a child you have agreed to present your parents with lessons. And your parents have agreed to present you with lessons. As a parent, please look for ways that you might help your children along their path.

Alfred, I would like to bring you in here, and I'm going to just sit here, and I want you to tell the people how you navigated through that karmic situation with your parents.

Alfred:

Well that's a good one, Hans. That definitely is a, oh, I like to say a mind bender, when you start looking at karmic relationships from a human perspective because it's really difficult for the human mind to comprehend that children, for example, have a karmic obligation to present lessons to their parents. And that is really difficult to think: Okay, I can get the fact that as a child my parents have presented lessons to me, but at what point do I, as a child, turn around and present lessons to my parents, and what lessons are those things? 

All of this, of course, is preordained, already agreed upon, and of course we have the wonderful part of nobody remembers anything that they agreed to. But it is part of the enlightenment process. It does become clearer the more spiritual you become, and it does help when you follow along your own path to really just go with the flow, not try to blame anyone, just simply say: I'm following a spiritual path and if my parents want to follow that path and they want to learn from it, great, if they don't want to learn from it, great. That's what I really got out of it.

Hans:

Was that difficult for you?

Alfred:

It was really difficult because you have to follow the lessons of having no expectations. And having no expectations of saving or helping your parents is extremely difficult. I think we get that issue in every single class we do.

Hans:

We do. It's just common.

Alfred:

When children wake up and they become spiritual and they become happy, they instinctively want to help their parents in the same way that they've been helped, and that's an investment, that's an expectation, and it's incredibly hard not to have an expectation that your parents are going to understand you, what you're doing, or that they're going to want what you have. However, it's you job to present what you're doing. It is not your job to have an expectation that they're going to learn from it.

Hans:

I have a question for you. I know how difficult your childhood was. In the process of coming out of the old awareness into the new awareness, what did you do with the anger?

Alfred:

That's part of the spiritual growth is as you let go of your past, of illusions, of opinions, the anger goes away instinctively. The anger is just a by-product of hanging onto the past. And once you let go of the past, the anger goes away. It's the same thing we used to say in the classes that: If you're standing in front of a fire, you can pour water over your head until kingdom come, and you're still going to be hot. What we say is: Pour water on the fire and then you won't be hot anymore.

Hans:

(Laughing) And then you'll be fine...exactly.

Alfred:

So you deal with the root cause of the symptom. The symptom is that you're angry. What is the root cause? My parents abused me. I'm an abused child. Well, I'm sorry those are past events. That's your opinion of a past event, and if you just let that go and live in the now, you won't be angry. And that's easier said than done.

Hans:

Well, I think for all of us, even for those of us who follow a spiritual path, I think it's still hard to deal with the inner child, and soothe that child. We might be able to rationalize, Alfred, that this is what we should do, and there's a reason for all of this. But there still is a little wounding in the child, no matter what happens. That's for you, for me, for just about anybody listening to the show tonight. You make the pain okay. It's okay. It's alright. And I know with you Alfred, if I say to you the plate is hot. What will you do?

Alfred:

I'm going to touch it.

Hans:

There you go. That's what I'm getting at.

Alfred:

I love that. It drives Hans crazy.

Hans:

(Laughing) It drives people in restaurants crazy that are trying to serve him. And they're saying: Hot plate! He'll pick it up anyway...

Alfred:

Well I've learned not to pick it up, I just touch it a little... Nothing like a little pain to wake you up.

Hans:

Oooohhhh! 

Alfred:

Yes.

Hans:

You got it! 

Alfred:

Yes.

Hans:

You see? Nothing like a little pain to wake you up.

Alfred:

And that's what we try to teach people is when you feel a symptom, look for the root cause of the symptom. It's not: Okay, I'm aggravated, let me go to the Gym. I'm aggravated, let me have a drink or do something else. I'm aggravated, let me do meditation. No. What we try to teach is that if you're aggravated, what is the button that somebody pushed that triggered that aggravation? Look at that root cause and I guarantee you it has nothing to do with being in the moment.

It's either: I'm frustrated, I'm not where I should be in the future, I'm aggravated because something happened...

Hans:

I don't have as much money as I thought was going to have...

Alfred:

I don't know what you're talking about...

Hans:

(Laughing) I know you well.

Alfred:

Yes. So it's looking for the root cause of the aggravation. Yes, you can do it in meditation. But it's getting at the root cause of it and a lot of what we're trying to explain in this soul mate topic has to do with a lot of the things that you have an opinion that are negative, or hurtful, or painful, really aren't. They're actually lessons that you requested people present you with.

Hans:

Yes. You hit upon that and I think it's really, really important. You simply can't blame others for your pain. We all want to do this. We all want to believe our parents did this to us, or our husband or our wife did that to us in the divorce... We all want to blame, blame, blame. But what we forget is - we set it in place. 

The main lessons of this soul mate topic are, for instance, don't blame others for painful relationships. Know how much you love them. But also, how much you will not allow them to put guilt upon you. That's a very big lesson because that guilt is put there deliberately to demean you. It is put there deliberately to demean you because you chose for it to be put there. Your job is to turn to anybody who demeans you and say: Excuse me. That is only your interpretation of who I am. My interpretation tells me I'm wonderful and my God loves me. They have no comeback for that. 

Be grateful, be grateful that you have had all these lessons come into your life because one day, one day when you make that transition...one day, as I like to say when you fall off your perch... One day you'll be able to look back with a bunch of friends and loved ones and see this last episode of your incarnation cycle and say: By golly, here's what I wanted to do and this is what I left having learned. And then your soul soars.

Sometimes I have to say to people very difficult things. I remember when Alfred was getting started, he just fought me tooth and nail, thinking he had the answer. And time after time after time, Spirit proved he did not. That is was nothing more than a lesson.

So what I want you all to hear is there is no way you should ever be so angry with anyone that you lose your self-awareness, that you lose your spiritual being. There should never be a time in your life when lessons are so strong that you want to give up. Because the truth of the matter is you put them in place. And the wonderful thing about it is once you really begin to understand: Oh, I see there's a continuity in what I'm doing, I keep repeating the the same things over and over again. Why are you doing that? What is going on for you that you continue to do this? Time in, time out, over and over and over. It is because you have not learned the lesson of the lesson. You have not gotten the value. But the moment you get the value, it's like this great weight is suddenly removed from you. Relax children. Soul mate friends, soul mate animals, are there for you to also have fun with, and provide unconditional love.

How many of you today emailed someone that you think may be feeling alone and wished them Happy Valentines Day? I did that this morning. I sent out Valentines to people I know happen to be by themselves right now. Think, everyone of you, send one person, even though it's late, send one person a Valentines Greeting. Just a kind word, that's all. And watch how much better you feel for doing that. It will help change your life.

Alright Alfred that concludes the lesson for this evening.

“Understanding Your Own Soul” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“Understanding Your Own Soul” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Understanding Your Own Soul

September 20, 2014

Alfred:

Welcome to GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE - Wisdom for Your Soul. I'm Alfred the Padawan to the Modern Day Mystic himself Hans Christian King. Say Hi to everyone Hans.

Hans:

Hello everyone. Welcome, welcome to the show, welcome to the class.

Alfred:

And we're going to see if we're going to be transferring the show from audio only to video. So we'll see what happens. Let's go over our Housekeeping for the show, as always. The Announcements for this week is there is going to be a replay of Transform Your Life By Changing Your Intentions on the Your Life Without Limits Tele-seminar. That replay is going to start on September 26. That and all the other replays we always announce on Facebook. 

And we're ever so grateful if you are "following" us. If you're not "following" us, please go to Hans Christian King1 or go to HansKing.com and look for the Facebook link and "follow" us. Not only do you get to find out when there are going to be Interviews, you're also signing up to get a Daily Quote that comes directly from Hans himself. 

And of course, we sincerely appreciate everybody who "follows" us and "shares" what we do on Facebook and Social Media. We're posting through Facebook; we're tweeting. Hans is actually tweeting on his own, specifically through Twitter once in awhile. So if you're RT (re-tweeting) or "sharing" on Facebook, we sincerely appreciate it and we are continuing with our Random Acts of Kindness. If you share what we do, we may pick you to get classes, audio or other goodies to share the good karma. Okay? I think that's pretty much it for the Announcements. 

So onto this topic. Our topic for this video is Soul Mate Relationships Part 1 - "Understanding Your Own Soul". Soul mate relationships are agreements between two souls. If you want a great soul mate relationship, make sure you're able to hold up your side of the bargain. It's difficult to have a strong relationship with other souls until you have a strong relationship with yourself. So Hans, let's start with the basics of "you"..."the soul". Can you help people understand that they are a "soul in human form"?

Hans:

Well certainly, Alfred. Thank you. One of the things that I like to remind people, that Spirit reminds me...they love saying this: We're just baby angels having a human experience. We are not the body. We are not the mind. We are simply Spirit. And when we begin to understand that... I think it's crucial for you to know that you can't have a relationship...a meaningful, powerful relationship, unless you have something to bring to the relationship. This is important. So many people look to others to define who they are. "I'm looking for my other half" or "I'm looking for my better half".

One has to realize that just who you are in this moment is all you will ever need to be. It is "perfect". No one can make you better than you are. That's simply an Old Wives Tale. Because Spirit did not make a mistake when you were created. If you are going to participate in a soul mate relationship, it takes two souls of equal power. You have your power, they have their power, and you come together in a way that you share your gifts with each other, and with those that you love. 

So soul mate relationships... In order to have a soul mate relationship, you yourself have to have a relationship with yourself. You've often heard me say Dr. James Allen's famous saying: They themselves are makers of themselves. It's very important that these little things that I say like that go home to your heart. Because what you have to understand is no other episode, no other person, is going to make you complete. That is impossible. 

Alfred:

And that's a good summary of this session. Part 1 - "Understanding Your Own Soul" and the importance of your own soul in soul mate relationships. Here's some examples of what Hans is talking about...some internal soul problems that maybe you want to take a look at if you're looking for a soul mate relationship. What we're saying is "go inwards first".

For example, Hans, are people drawn to the same type of problematic relationships?

Hans:

Yes.

Alfred:

Can you give an example of what that's like.

Hans:

Well, in relationships we already have a set karma/dharma that we wanted to work on. If we wanted to work on personal self-esteem, we might actually continue to create relationships that actually invalidate us. If we wanted to work on being good enough, we'll attract people that put us down. So it's important to remember, that what we said earlier, is that we have to arrive at relationships as  equals.

Now if you keep attracting the same relationship over and over and over again, it says you're not learning the lesson. I've had many clients who have literally had the same relationship 4, 5, 6 times with different people. Because their expectations remain the same. They never change. They want the person to be a certain way, to do a certain thing, to be treated a certain way... When they don't realize that already who they are is enough. But they have such little self-esteem sometimes that what happens is that they don't believe they're enough. And this can really affect your ability to have a loving relationship.

Alfred:

And another issue...this is a really big one with the clients that we have internally  as a soul...and these issues really do cover up the loving soul that you are. For example, do you have issues with your parents? How often does that come up Hans?

Hans:

Well, we're going to be dealing with this as we go through this class but it's huge, Alfred. It's really huge. Because it's some of the very first "learning's" that we ever allow into ourself is the judgments, or the love, or the criticism, or the acceptance, of our parents. Okay? So it's really important to understand that we are products of our humanness if we're not careful. 

If you tell a child, for instance, that when they're born that they can first start to understand how perfect they are, if you tell them how wonderful they are, if you tell them that just who they are is enough and God loves them just that way, you're going to wind up with a very balanced adult. On the other-hand, if you're born into a situation where you've chosen self-esteem as the primary lesson, then you will feel a sense of rejection, you will feel that nobody understands you, and you will line yourself up for the relationships that will absolutely invalidate you. 

So your job, literally, is to catch yourself and say: Wait a minute. That's not what I signed on for. That's not who I am. Who I am is this baby angel that God loves so much.

Alfred:

And we're just continuing on this theme right now of "why" having a stable relationship with yourself is so important to start. This is just an awareness.. For example, are you a victim? Are you bringing that victim role to your relationships? 

How many clients have you had Hans that have been victims?

Hans:

Thousands...thousands. I had two today. Thousands of people are victims of their history...their human history. Victims of false perceptions, victims of not really understanding the whole picture, and then having the mind chatter invalidate or cause problems. The mind literally works overtime in its attempt to disengage you from your spiritual essence, your soul, your heart's lesson. It works overtime in trying to create drama, guilt. It works overtime trying to make you less than you are. So that you become so dependent on the mind chatter that the heart and the soul have no place to speak, hear, or feel. 

So it's important that we learn, early days, and you can learn that all of your life, it doesn't matter how old you get, you can still learn this lesson: You are already enough. Okay?

Alfred:

And here's a good one Hans. How many times have you heard people blaming God for their problems, been blaming God for the life that they have?

Hans:

Well that's very convenient because that way you don't have to take responsibility. You can become a victim of a situation and people will feel sorry for you and again you don't have to even worry about it because you are not being responsible because it's not your fault. And as long as you continue to do that, you will never learn the lesson.

Alfred:

And what we're trying to communicate here is that in order to be a good soul in a soul mate relationship, what we want you to do is find your peace, your happiness, joy, bliss, by starting inside yourself. Okay? And what we're going to do is outline two different steps right now to help you to get to that inner love, that inner peace, that connection to your own soul, to start the relationship with your own soul, to form the relationship with your own soul, so that when you get to a soul mate relationship with others, you show up as a soul, not as trauma, not as your history, not as things that you think that happened to you. But instead you show up peaceful, happy.

The first step, and this is the basis of Hans King's teachings, is to remove the "junk" inside your mind. Otherwise known as mind chatter. Hans, walk us through very quickly how getting rid of mind chatter can help you form a relationship with yourself, your soul.

Hans:

The mind chatter is the filter by which you view the world. So the mind chatter has the judgment of everything that it sees, that it hears, that it feels. The mind chatter always reminds you that you're not quite enough. And as long as you allow the mind chatter to do this... People say: Well I'm helpless. I can't help what the mind chatter's going to say...

The other day we did a show Alfred, as you remember, and we said that: Fear and Doubt can only live in the house you build. Remember, all that's going on in your mind is attached to a house you built. You were not born this way. This is not a "naturalness". This is something that you applied at some point along the way because as children we tend to believe what our parents tell us, what society tells us, even though it's not true. And it's only when we begin to question, and we say wait a minute, that doesn't feel right to me. 

Alfred, you're very big on feelings, telling people how to "try this feeling", "try that feeling". It's very important, Alfred, for people to understand that the mind chatter is not the most important thing in their life. It's the least important thing in their life. Their humanness, their attachment, their connection to God, is of paramount importance.  And at any stage of the game, anywhere along the way, you can literally change your mind's perception. 

Alfred:

And that is a pretty good overview about the first steps in how to uncover your soul, unburden your soul, so that when you walk into a soul mate relationship it's actually you, the soul, not your perceptions, your opinions, your expectations, your trauma.

This is a very quick overview of the two different steps. We're just talking about step one right now. We'll be getting into these exercises of letting go of mind chatter, psychic development, letting go of all these things in a little more detail. Right now we're just making you aware of what is so important in soul mate relationships.

The second step that we're going to be walking you though is how to build your own self-esteem, how to love yourself, how to realize you are enough. Why is that so important when forming a relationship?

Hans:

Because all of what you just said, so rightfully so, all of that comes out of the mind chatter. It doesn't come out of the soul. It doesn't come out of the spiritual heart. No Godforce is telling you that. Spirit isn't telling you that. You are actually telling yourself something that is a lie, that it is not true. And once you begin to really understand: Wait a minute, my mind's telling me things that aren't true.

For instance, the mind will constantly warn you what "could" happen, what "might" happen...constantly. When you finally understand that it's not telling you the truth, yet you're reacting to it continuously... I have a dear client that I received information from today and this poor thing has worried about her house being sold, worried about getting a house, how all of this was going to happen... And Spirit's advice to her, continuously along this path was: Follow your heart. 

And when you understand that by following your heart, the Spirit is holding that heart in their hands and they will open the doors for all that you need, all that you require, when you stop listening to the mind chatter. Because the soul cannot operate with the Spirit when you are busy occupying that place with mind chatter.

Alfred:

How about loving yourself first Hans. Why is loving yourself so important?

Hans:

Because it's all you have Alfred, basically. You don't have anything else. You don't own any part of the body, including the mind chatter. The love of yourself is the greatest gift you give to yourself. 

You know we have a product out there called "You Are Enough". And in the opening it says: What if you discovered that tomorrow morning there was nowhere you needed to go, nothing you needed to do, no one you needed to become, nothing you needed to learn... That who you were in that moment was enough for God. I said that on The Allen Cohen Show and he said: My God, what a concept. 

You already are enough. And we're so invested, Alfred, in how we look, how we dress, the makeup we put on, the clothes we wear...I mean it's just unbelievable. The houses we live in, the cars that we drive. All this in an attempt to make us better. And that breaks Spirit's heart because they already made you perfect. You were perfect when you were born, you are perfect now. So giving yourself the gift of that awareness, that you already are enough, will change your life.

Alfred:

And these two steps that we're talking about - Step 1: Removing the "junk", removing the mind chatter and then Step 2: Of loving yourself. Realizing you're enough. Building your spiritual self-esteem. They help each other. The more mind chatter that you let go of, the more you're able to build your self confidence. The more you let go of trauma and your past, the more you're able to love yourself in the moment.

Hans:

Yes.

Alfred:

And we're going to be going through these two steps in much more detail, giving you more exercise in the upcoming lessons. But we wanted to, at least, get the point across that the most important soul in any soul mate relationship is you.

Hans:

Alfred, I received an email today from one of our Spiritual Circle Members who said that after a year he finally got it. And he said he woke up this morning and all the weight from all the fear and the doubt and the money stuff and the relationship stuff...all the stuff that he had created through the mind chatter had vanished because he had turned his life over to Spirit. He said this morning it felt like a giant weight had been lifted off of him. 

And that's what I want our dear friends out there to understand that you can, absolutely, without fail, lift all of the sadness, all the despair, all the loneliness, attract to you the perfect partner, attract to you the abundance that you seek. All of that is already there, and the only person who's blocking that is you. So giving yourself you, giving yourself the love of you, is the greatest gift you will ever give yourself.

Alfred:

Well Hans that pretty much wraps up Part 1 of Soul Mate Relationships. Anything you want to add just to wrap that up?

Hans:

Yes. Everyone can do this. This isn't reserved for enlightened people. Everyone can learn to go to the mind chatter and close the door. That's going to be the key for this week. Close the door to the mind chatter and watch and see, Alfred, how peaceful people become. This is going to be paramount and I look forward to continuing this class next week.

Alfred:

Thanks everyone for joining us in Part 1 of Soul Mate Relationships. Stay tuned for Part 2.

“The Magic Within Us” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“The Magic Within Us” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: The Magic Within Us

September 13, 2014

Alfred;

Hello everyone and welcome to GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE - Wisdom for Your Soul. This is Alfred, the Padawan to the Modern Day Mystic himself Hans Christian King. We are traveling so sorry about the interesting audio quality. But as always, we do our best to give you a just a little bit of guidance so that your soul can shine each and every day that you incarnated in this human life. Today's topic is: "The Magic Within Us". And before we get to The Magic Within Us, I'd like to pass it over to Jennifer to go over what's happening this week that's coming up.

Jennifer:

Thank you Alfred. We have one Special Event that's actually occurring right now, through the entire weekend, and that's the replay of The Awakening To Abundance Tele-seminar. "Spirituality in the Now" is the topic. The links for this can be found on Hans' Facebook page and on the Events page on HansKing.com. And I have to add, just for a second, how much I admire your dedication to everyone even when you're traveling on the road managing to get the show out and questions answered and lessons taught. That's wonderful. Thank you. We have lots more coming up in the near future so stay tuned. Back to you Alfred.

Alfred:

Great Jennifer. Thanks for those announcements and of course you can keep up-to-date with what's going on either by going to our Facebook page. If you haven't already, please "like" us on Facebook and we're ever so grateful if you "like" us and want to "share" what we do with your Facebook Friends. We really appreciate it. We don't do any traditional advertising so we rely on you and  your word of mouth in telling other people to help get the word out and help us help others. Of course you can also go to HansKing.com and under “Spiritual  Community” you can find our “Event Calendar”. Of course you can always sign up for our Newsletter also. And if you sign up for our Newsletter you get free mp3's as soon as you sign up and also you get free mp3 audio lessons every single month that you're signing up for our Newsletter. So which ever way you want to communicate, or contact with us we are ever so grateful. So now off to the topic for the day, I present to you the Modern Day Mystic himself Hans Christian King.

Hans:

Hello everybody. Welcome on-board. I was kind of amazed when Spirit told me what the topic would be today. I had asked: Well what you like to speak about today? And they said: The Magic Within Us All. And then I said: Well explain. And he said: This is what I was told. When we come onto this plane, we also arrive with a little...a little stack of magic tricks, okay? And those magic tricks are “forever”. We can use them, we can apply them to whatever situation that we want, we can conjure up all kinds of things. But The Magic Within Us All means that if you have “faith” and you “believe”, you can make your life and any situation in that life go your way. Miracles, magic. You are the magician of your own life. You can pick what you would like to do, where you would like to go, the results you would like to see. You are the magician of your own life. And what's so wonderful about that is nobody else actually has your bag of tricks. Nobody. Because your bag of tricks was given to you based on your particular dharma and the karma that you have accumulated. So it's unique unto you...unique. And so what I want everyone to understand is that no one doesn't have a magic bag. We all have a magic bag. What does that mean? It means that in each and every one of us there is a place of belief that miracles can attach to. There's a place inside of each and every one of us that holds the answer we're already seeking. So our little bag of magic tricks simply says: I believe them. Now when a magician, he or she, we'll just call it a magician, is about to do a trick, they never say: Gee, I wonder if this would work. They already know it works and half of the trick is the magician knowing it works. Half of your getting through this incarnation is “knowing” you have gifts. There's a magic within each and every one of us that connects directly to Spirit. So we can say: Well, I started to do this but I don't like it so I'd like to change it and I'm going to go down this road instead. Boom! Suddenly out of nowhere, energy produces itself to make that trick happen. So we can re-set our magic over and over and over again. And remember no one else has our bag of tricks. Alfred, would you like to say something here?

Alfred:

Well I think there's a lot of different things that we have when we're born. Some of them are specific skill sets that have to do with our dharma. Such as if you desire to be a musician, you just were able to pick up a guitar and play it, or were able to just play the piano without lessons. That's part of the magic that follows you into this lifetime are the things that come natural to you are pretty much in tune with that which you wanted to experience - your dharma, your path in life. And I think that's a huge part of the magic that you were born with, that comes with you, that's inside of you.

Hans:

Yes. We are all born with our own little bag of goodies. And remember that we are all unique to our own magic. Others may look like they're walking the same path but they're not. Their path is slightly different than your path which is slightly different than someone else's path. We're all going in the same direction, we're just in different cars. So recognizing that there is a magic about you that you can literally make anything you wish come true... Now, mind you, sometimes it happens right away, sometimes it takes a little while. But if you set your intention, and know and believe like the magician does, absolutely you will see this dream come true. It doesn't matter. And no negative karma can ever stop your bag of tricks from helping you create your life. Never. So when you say to yourself: Ah, I would like the experience of doing this or doing that...whatever it is. I wonder what I have in my bag of tricks to make this come true? And the very first thing  you pull out of your bag is "I believe". When you say "I believe", it reinforces the intention. Then, with the "I believe", you trust in the reality of it. So all of these little goodies are in your bag. Now here's the wonderful thing...I keep bringing this up because I think it's important because I have a lot of people who say to me: Can I change my mind or am I stuck in what I originally started to create? You may change your mind at any time. However children, always remember that there is a "time" element. Now what do I mean by that? When you set your intention and you pull out your goodies from the bag to make it happen. And then you say: You know what this is not going the way I wanted it to, I don't think this is what I wanted to do, but I think what I would like to do is thus. Spirit then has to pull the energy back from what you were creating with your bag of magic, put the tricks back in the bag, and then they have to clear the space and then they say: Okay, where to from here? So don't think that you can be going on one path and shift in the middle of it and immediately it will change, because it won't. It takes just a little time. What is time? It is irrelevant to Spirit. Whenever the energy redesigns itself. It can be a matter of an hour, a day, it can be two weeks. However, knowing that it is changing to the new intention is the key. So “belief”  and “trust” and “knowing” are three of the ingredients in your bag of tricks. Having those... You're dreaming...I want you to think about dreaming. Dreaming and wishing and hoping and all of those things are all part of the magic of your life. You can literally be sitting in your chair in your living room and project yourself into that pretty house that you saw down the block. Just literally project yourself right into it. And you can say something like this: I know and I believe that some day I will have the experience of living in a house like that. So you take one of your tricks "I believe", you take "faith", you take "knowing", you take "trust", and you point them in that direction. Somewhere along your path, if it is meant to be, and most of our dreams are, that will come to pass. I have probably a thousand clients through the years who have said to me: I dreamed it when I was a child. I knew it and I believed it and here it is. How do we know this? Once again because energy follows thought. So your bag of tricks is very, very powerful. You always hear me say: Be careful what you pray for. Because you are entitled to operate with your bag of tricks in creating your life. And no dharma is ever so destined that it would ruin your ability to create with your bag of tricks - ever. So inside of each and every one of us is a little magician waiting to pop out. And the energy for that magician is "faith" and "belief", "knowing"...no doubting. Have you ever noticed that people on this show will say: Do you think I'll get this job? What have they actually done kids? They've actually said: I'm not certain I'm going to get this job. So they've added a negative thought to a positive wish. And they cancel each other out. And if you cancel out the intention for your own dream, then nobody else can dream it for you. 

Alfred:

That's a really good point Hans is a lot of us know the very unique gifts that we were born with. I'll go back to say, the guitar player that he "knows" he's a gifted musician. That he was born with the skills to be a musician. But does he doubt  that that's what he's supposed to do? Or does he say? I “trust” this is what I'm supposed to do and “believe” that the universe will provide him enough opportunity to bring what he does, play his music to the world, and he can earn enough money to keep a roof over his head. And that's what we're talking about. Is what you've requested to do with your dharma is not only the magic that's inside of you, it's what the universe has been requested to support you in. So if you're a musician and you decide to become a banker, you're going to be wondering why you keep getting fired and having fights...

Hans:

That's right.

Alfred:

However if you do trust the universe that you are supposed to be a musician and not follow what everybody else does, then you truly believe that they will support you in that. Those are the miracles that we're talking about.

Hans:

Yes.

Alfred:

That following what's inside of you and trusting that the universe will provide the miracles needed for you to follow your dharma is what Hans is talking about.

Hans:

Each and every one of you is your own magician. Each and every one of you have a facet of the Godforce within you that no other person has quite the same. You are "unique" with your bag of tricks. You were given all that you need...all that you need. Your job is to stand in the moment and say: I am and it is enough. No more striving to be better. No more striving to change your life. Just “know” it. Project it forward. Take your tricks out of your bag and say: I "know" that the perfect job for me, that feels the following way, is already on the way as I am writing, as I am speaking. Having no doubts. But your mind doesn't like your bag of tricks. And your mind will say: Oh, don't be silly. You know that doesn't work. Well yes, it works for other people but you're not good enough for it to work for you. I talked to a person yesterday, just having a conversation, and they said to me: I really wish I could do this or I really wish I could do that...I know that's not going to happen but boy I sure wish it would. Now what do you think their changes are of making that happen are? Two: slim and none. But the person who absolutely "knows"... My goodness kids how many people have we watched on TV or read about who came from abject poverty, no education, but had inside of them a little fire that says: I am somebody. I'm not the bottom to any pile. I am somebody and my God loves me and this is where I'm going. Didn't know how they were going to get there, that's irrelevant. That's the mind demanding to know "how" and "why" and “where” and "when". I remember a story that Alfred told me quite a few years ago in which he said he “knew” the kind of banking job that he wanted. He wanted to be an International Banker, he wanted to travel, he wanted to do all the things that they do. Nobody was offering him this job and the jobs they did offer him were not what he wanted. But he never lost his belief that that's what would happen to him one day. And out of nowhere one day, a year later I think he said it was, someone said: Well we need somebody to do this kind of a job. We need somebody to travel for us. We need someone to live overseas. And Alfred what did you say? I'm your man or something like that? (laughing)

Alfred:

I'm in. But it has to do with an internal knowing with what you're supposed to do with your life. You have two choices - do you ignore that internal knowing of what you're supposed to do because you think it's just some fantasy of hope dream or do you follow that dream. And that's what we're trying to tell you is that dream that you were born with, those innate skills that you just have, that inner knowing of what you're supposed to do with your life... You can ignore it or you can tie into that magic and tie into the magic of the support of the universe...

Hans:

Yes, and tie into your bag of tricks. Absolutely. So Alfred was there a place where you doubted you would get this kind of a job or did you always know it?

Alfred:

No, I just always knew it. And that's the funny part and that's what I try to teach some of my students is: If you don't know where the words are coming from, if you don't know why you say certain things, if you don't know why you desire certain things - that's where you're supposed to go. If you try to figure out life, if you try to understand life, if you "think yourself into something" , if you can give yourself 10 reasons why you should be doing something, be very afraid, because that's your mind trying to comprehend life. What we're talking about is the miracles in life. That which you don't understand, that which is innate, that which you were born with, that which is just part of you. If you follow "that", then you're going to have a pretty cool life.

Hans:

So again, your bag of tricks centers in your "belief". And Spirit and the Godforce doesn't believe in anyone more in the world than you. When you do, as Alfred was telling you, and you have this absolute innate knowing, you "know" it's true...you don't know how, you don't know where but you "know", you “know” that is going to happen for you because that is the experience that you have chosen. You get your bag of goodies out - trust, belief, faith, knowing - all the energy that is around you is then focused like a magnifying glass and eventually you can burn a hole through all the despair, all the no's, all the aggravations to a clear, new space. So having a quiet knowing, having a quiet understanding that it already is so, that it is already in the making because you have set the intention with trust and faith. You use all your little magic. And you know you never run out. The bag never runs out of tricks...ever. So the same bag of goodies that you arrived with is the same bag of goodies you'll take home with you. So you never run out of: Yes I am; Yes I can. Never. It's only when the mind chatter comes in and starts to tell us "why" something can't happen that we get ourself in trouble. That's why I asked Alfred was there ever a time that you "didn't believe" you would get it. And he said: No, I always knew it. And that folks is the key. So we have seen people come from terrible places, from wars, from concentration camps, limbs lost, families lost and take their life with their bag of tricks and turn it into something rather extraordinary...extraordinary. Because they "knew it", and they "believed it", and they worked and they did what Spirit sent for them to do. Okay? So, yes you are unique. No, no one else has a better bag of tricks than you do. You say: Well how come Joe Blow over there is worth $500,000,000 and I'm worth $500? You don't know what that soul's experience is about. You don't know that. But if you say: I know that I'm going to have more than enough as I do now, but a larger enough. Everything in your life begins to gravitate towards that. I have a client folks that you all know and he lost his fortune 4 times. Count them - 4 times. None of which were his fault. Each time he lost his fortune...some of those fortunes were $200,000,000, $300,000,000... Each time he simply sat down in a chair, got out his bag of magic tricks and within several years had recreated what had been lost. Because there was no place within him that said: I can't do this. There's no place inside of him that turned him into a victim. Oh, look what's been done to me. Didn't have time for that nonsense. Had a "knowing", had an understanding. So each one of you have the same bag, different ingredients, but they equal the same based on your dharma, based on your karma. No one's bag of tricks is greater than anyone else's bag of tricks. Okay? So such joy and hope follow "belief", "knowing", “accepting your divinity”, “accepting the Godforce within you”, “knowing that your God does not love anyone more than you”, knowing no matter how meaningless your life may seem - to a person who can't walk - you getting off your sofa and going for a walk after this show is a miracle beyond comprehension. For a person who can't see - to be able to see a hummingbird, as Alfred saw yesterday, just hanging out - is a miracle. You are a miracle to someone who is dying. The miracle of you is enormous and your bag of tricks never fails. It is always there. It is always there with you. Okay? Alfred I think that will conclude the lesson for today.