"New Beginnings" - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Show Transcription

“New Beginnings” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: New Beginnings
November 9, 2015


HANS:
Hi everyone. Today’s topic is “New Beginnings.” In the last couple of weeks we’ve been dealing with learning how the process is for letting go. Looking at the fears that occur with letting go, looking at the possibilities of letting go. This show today will be the next logical step—how to prepare your new platform. You’ve let go, so now it’s like building a new house when there’s a current house on the lot. You’ve torn down the house and pulled out the plumbing, re-arranged the ground for electrical work, you’ve done all this, now—what do you want?

That’s where you have to go now.

Your new beginning is coming up because you’ve created a vacuum. You’ve created a void. Where do you want to go? What is it you want to see happen in your life? How do you want to feel in your new beginning? Very important—how do you want to feel? All of you who have let go, have let go of stuff that doesn’t work anymore in your life, so you know how that feels. How do you want to feel in your new life?

What Spirit is looking for—you’ve heard me mention this any number of times—They want to see an intention in you. When They see the intention, your job is to tell Spirit what you’d like the experience of and Their job, after you’ve let go of what doesn’t work anymore, is to bring the doors of opportunity for that. So as you let go, as you clear your space, you begin to set your intentions, Spirit’s job then is to back you up. That’s what today’s topic is about.

ALFRED:
Let us help you with understanding how you get what you want if you don’t know what you want.

HANS:
That’s okay.

ALFRED:
It’s actually okay if you don’t know what you want, because what we’re trying to help you with is: it’s good enough to understand how do I want to feel? I want to feel happy. I want to feel peaceful. I want to feel love. I wish to feel abundant. I wish to feel at one with the world. That is good enough!

HANS:
It really is for now.

ALFRED:
When you’re asking for the experience of, you can say, “I wish for the experience of feeling happy.” Then the way that you communicate that is not simply repeating to yourself, “I wish to feel happy, I wish to feel happy.” No. That’s inviting the human-ness in. Do this on a spiritual basis which is: I wish to feel happy. Give off the vibration of the emotion. You’re actually communicating with the other side on a vibrational and energetic basis.

So when you’re saying to the other side, “I wish the experience of happiness,” you’re projecting out from the center of your chest, how you would like to feel the feeling of happiness. You’re communicating with the other side through vibration and energy.

HANS:
What we’re saying to you is, it’s okay in not knowing. For the moment. It’s okay. But if you’ve set your intention to find out, that’s what They want to see. It may not come right away. You may say to yourself, I don’t know what I want, I’m just going to do nothing. Okay, that’s fine. You don’t want to stay in that place, but the key to everything is setting your intention to have a new beginning. You might only have one thing. I would like the experience of a new job.  I would like the experience of a new relationship.  I would like the experience of finding and seeing myself. Set those intentions. Spirit listens intensely to the intention—never the deed—only the intention. So as we move forward in life, in our new beginning, we are literally projecting ourself away from the old life; what you did, what happened to you, where you went, what didn’t work, the pain, the good, whatever was back there that doesn’t serve you anymore, we’ve let go of now.

Sometimes in the letting go, there’s just nothing. And in the nothing comes fear. Automatically, because we tend in the human form, to put a dragon in the unknown. So the whole process of letting go is about trust. About believing in the blankness of letting go.

ALFRED:
It is about holding the vibration regardless of whether you understand—you don’t understand what you’re looking for, you don’t understand what you want, you don’t understand where you’re going, perfectly fine. Your job is to hold the vibration—of happiness, of peacefulness, and that is what you’re communicating out. And if you hold that, as much as possible, then what will happen is—that is what will be attracted to you.

HANS:
Absolutely. The most important thing that Spirit is looking for is trust by you for Them, to Them, and setting the intention. So you’re letting go and you’re saying, “I trust that you know what is best for me. I’m going to tell you what I’d like to experience, I’m going to tell you how I’d like to feel in the experience and I trust that you Spirit, you God, will bring those doors to me.” That’s very, very important. The trust factor. Because They always do. But there’s something that always occurs during all of this sounding good; there’s a little green meanie inside of everybody that says—but what if you’re wrong?

ALFRED:
And that’s a good start for our next topic: Doubt and Fear.

HANS:
Well, they’re each other’s best friend.

ALFRED:
Yes. During this process when we are starting out on our new beginnings, what happens when you get doubtful? What happens when you get fearful?

HANS:
It’s nothing more, children, than a lesson that you set to learn. It’s okay to get doubtful. It’s okay to get fearful. It’s not okay to stay there. The moment you start to get fearful or doubts come, you immediately turn to your inner child and say, “We’re turning to Spirit to take care of this for us. We know we place our faith in Spirit.”

When you place your trust in Spirit, when you place your trust in God, all the little stuff gets done. But the lesson is going to be: do you actually stay in the fear and the doubt or do you rise above it and say, “I choose not to give you a home anymore.”

Remember the show we did last year when we said doubt and fear can only live in the house you build? We are choosing not to re-open the door to that house.

ALFRED:
That’s a good exercise. When you are communicating to the other side what you want, the energy and vibration of what you’re giving off is the energy you want, that you request to have in your life. It is not the energy of the way that you were. There’s an old saying in spirituality, don’t say, “I don’t want this,” because that is what is going to be attracted to you. What you don’t want is the vibration you are holding. “I don’t want chaos, I don’t want insanity, I don’t want drama.” Guess what the vibration you are giving off is? Insanity, drama, that is the vibration you are giving off because that is what is in your consciousness. The word not really doesn’t do too much.

So if you’re remembering and saying, “I don’t want this, I don’t want this,” that’s what you’re going to get. What’s really important is holding your vibration steady. Instead of the vibration that was, think about the vibration that’s coming to you. You’re holding the vibration of peacefulness, of happiness.

What helps you hold that? Trust. Faith. What will tempt you to waiver is fear. Doubt. What you are paying attention to in the exercise is, how do you feel? What is the vibration you are giving off? If you allow fear or doubt into your consciousness, the vibration you are going to give off is going to waver. You are going to a place and giving off a vibration of things you don’t want in your life—but guess what? That’s your vibration. What did we learn? What we are trying to say is on a spiritual level to hold your vibration constant. If fear, doubt, thinking about your past come in, try to let them go. Don’t allow them to stay in your being.

HANS:
It all sounds very complex. It sounds difficult, but once you start to deal with truth, pure and simple truth…. Truth is simplicity itself. That’s the normal flow of life, is truth, so once you learn that there’s nothing to be afraid of, that all of that you’re going through you’re making up in the mind and you’re processing your own fears, you’re creating your own anxieties, once you understand that, the truth and the flow gets easier and easier and easier.

So we’ve spent two weeks of learning to let go of what doesn’t work anymore and now we’re going to move on to our new platform. What we don’t want will no longer be here. I like to say, at this time, take it in little bits. Don’t try to have a great big grand scheme of things, pick little things you’d like the experience of at first. If you’re going to build a house, you don’t build a house without the plans. You have to start somewhere. You start at the front doorstep, but mind how you go, one day at a time and as you begin to work this, assimilate your new life one step at a time.

Alfred is playing the song ‘Don’t Worry - Be Happy” now.

ALFRED:
Be happy. Hold the vibration of happiness, of peace, and that’s enough.

HANS:
If you get a chance, listen to the whole song in it’s entirety.  “Don’t worry. Be happy.” Thank you, Alfred. I’m very proud of you! We used to at the end of each class always… Jennifer, Alfred, Bella, and I… we’d get up and dance back and forth across the camera to that song!


And that will conclude the lesson for today.

"Letting Go to Receive" - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Show Transcription

“Letting Go to Receive” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Letting Go to Receive
October 31, 2015


HANS:
Hi everyone. Today’s topic is “Letting Go to Receive.” I got quite a few emails from you this week about, “Hansie, I’ve identified my ‘stuck space’ what I need to let go of, and also what i don’t seem to be able to let go of. Even though I know in my heart it doesn’t serve me anymore, I’m just having a really hard time letting go.”

You’re getting fearful of letting go. It’s a big thing.

ALFRED:
It’s huge. Even from extremely educated people I have heard - well, it’s the devil I know, and what happens if the devil I don’t know is worse than the devil I know? It’s a very difficult situation to be in fear of what you don’t know. Letting go of what you do know, regardless how painful what you do know is.

HANS:
It’s that old blank page thing that I do with my clients. I say, “Here, I’ve just written your whole life would you rather have this page or,” and I turn it over to an empty page, “this page.” Seventy-five per cent of people choose the page that’s already written on. The gift you give yourself is when you say, “I’m letting this page go.”

So that’s what some of you are facing right now. Letting go of the page you identify with that doesn’t work anymore.

ALFRED:
Exactly. And one is control - what your brain understands - the complete opposite has to do with trust,
surrender, belief. Those are very intangible things. And that’s the way Spirit works. Belief and trust in the intangible.

HANS:
Yes. You’re saying to your Guides, you’re saying to Spirit, “I trust you, even though I may be fearful, I’m going to do it anyway because I know you will handle what is best for me.”

ALFRED:
And that’s what we are trying to get to in the letting go process. If you find that you are hesitant, then we want you to take a look at it quite simply. The hesitant aspect of you has to do with your human-ness. Relying on your human-ness in understanding what you do. The other aspect has to do with surrendering. Surrendering is the basis for every single spiritual teaching in the universe. Surrender. Let go of what is removing yourself from your human-ness. Unfortunately it’s a little difficult to have both. If you want to be spiritual but you want to hold onto things, that’s probably why you get stuck.

HANS:
It’s not, Alfred, that the God Force, the Spirit doesn’t love them. It’s just, when you won’t go past a place you know already is a dead zone, you give Spirit no space to help you.

ALFRED:
That’s exactly it. Spirit wants to see trust. They want to see that you are willing to work with Them - willing to be a partner with Spirit.

HANS:
Very important - be a partner with Spirit.

ALFRED:
It’s not that you say, “Well, I’ll let go of my relationship when I see another relationship is available.”

HANS:
That’s not trusting.

ALFRED:
Unfortunately, that’s not the way the universe works. It starts with trust and belief.

HANS:
When you ask Spirit for the experience like I taught you, you have to be willing to show Spirit that you’re willing to let go of what doesn’t work anymore. If you’re asking Spirit, “I would like a new relationship, but I’m going to hang on to my old one,” you’re saying to Spirit, “I don’t trust you. I don’t believe if I let go of this I’ll ever get anything else.” All of us have had friends like that. It isn’t true. When you say, “I’m going to let go of this because I know it’s no longer good for me, it’s not in my best interest.” It may have been then but it’s no longer now. You just say, “Please present me with the doors…” That’s when you really begin to move forward. It’s very difficult letting go of things we think benefit us when we know that they’re not.

ALFRED:
And that is where spiritual growth happens.

HANS:
That’s right.

ALFRED:
When you go out of your comfort zone and into a place of trusting. That is spiritual growth. And that leads us to our second topic. 

Why? Why do you need to let go? Why do you need to let go in order to get something?

HANS:
In the other room, I have a glass of iced tea. I have this iced tea and I change my mind and I only have one clean glass. I think I would like some juice instead of iced tea. What do I have to do with the iced tea? I have to pour it out. I have to rinse the glass out. Then I have to pour the juice. Such is spirituality in movement. You can’t have and get at the same time. You have to open your hand and let go of what you’re doing and then you can say what you’d like the experience of. That’s a key element. I’m willing to let go if I can see the other one first.

ALFRED:
That doesn’t leave Spirit any room to work with you. 

HANS:
No, it doesn’t.

ALFRED:
Spirit and you would be better off working from a blank slate. A painter starts with a blank canvas.

HANS:
A sculptor starts with a ball of clay.

ALFRED:
That’s a huge reason why, spiritually speaking, it’s better to let go, go into a void, a space of nothingness, a place of reflection and then wait to work with the other side in co-operation and trust. You’re creating a space where there’s nothing that’s going to be interfering if something comes in. It’s not just simply trusting that the other side will help you, it’s making sure there’s a space, a clear space without interference. Very similar to meditation. When you’re in meditation what do you want? You want to make sure there’s no interference. Whenever you’re working with the other side, you want a nice clean blank slate, as much as possible to work with the other side.

HANS:
That’s nicely put - as much as possible - sometimes it takes people some time longer. When I first met Alfred ten years ago, he was dealing with a very complicated family problem.

ALFRED:
That’s putting it mildly.

HANS:
Yes. It wrenched his soul. It wrenched his heart, to the point where he would do really stupid things. Not hurt anybody, but hurt himself. One day he said, “I don’t understand what you mean, let it go?” Let it go. It’s your perception of the matter that’s hurting you. Let it go. Don’t be involved anymore. Don’t write letters anymore. Don’t answer the phone. Let it all go. Because what has happened is that you’re caught up in the drama. The appearance of the drama. Now he teaches this. So when someone says to Alfred, “I don’t know how to let go.” He says, “Stop funding energy to it!” Which is what Spirit taught him.

ALFRED:
And energetically, cut your energetic ties to it. Stop thinking about it. Stop trying to figure it out. Stop asking why? Look at expectations you have. Expectations and judgments of family - they’re family! They’re supposed to be like this or that.

HANS:
That’s a big one.

ALFRED:
All that has to do with your human connection to it. So what we’re talking about here is with the understanding in working with the other side, there should be a clean slate. To do that you need to look at the ties that have energetic and emotional ties to whatever it is, especially family.

HANS:
So Alfred has learned that if he lets it go, it gets handled on its own. And that’s the key.

ALFRED:
That’s what happens when you surrender it, when you trust, all of a sudden you open yourself up to an army of supporters who want to help you.

HANS:
Yes.

ALFRED:
You have to give it to them. You have to release control. You have to tell them I trust you. I surrender it to you, for them to come into that space and work with you.

HANS:
I think it’s very important that people realize how much Spirit is actually there for them. They’re just waiting for you to make up your mind. Spirit won’t tell you what to do, or run your life. That’s your job. Their job is to provide the space after you ask for it.

So, from now on for everybody - Letting go is getting. Letting go is gaining. Letting go is freedom.

ALFRED:
Creating a blank space is a nice empty bucket, a nice clean glass.

HANS:
Why do people look at a blank space and think there’s something wrong? Because there’s nothing there?

ALFRED:
Because it’s the opposite of human. Human is all about getting, acquiring. We’re saying, “No. Surrendering, letting go creates a space for Spirit to come into your life. If you’re acquiring and controlling, there’s no space for Spirit to enter your life.”

HANS:
And folks, like with finances… Let’s say you get a little low in finances and that old devil fear starts to come in. If you say to yourself, “Oh, this is the harbinger.” This is the announcer of new money - because it’s true. You never stay down there. Ever. Haven’t you noticed you always recover? You always come back up. Always. It’s simply a time and a lesson in your life.

So letting go of the relationships, letting go of fear, of work issues, letting go of everything - is the beginning of your new beginning.

I think that will conclude the lesson for today.

"Fall Cleaning" - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Show Transcription

“Fall Cleaning” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Fall Cleaning
October 24, 2015


HANS:
Hi Everyone. Today’s topic is “Fall Cleaning.” As many of you know who’ve been with the show for the last five years, my favorite season is fall. People say to me, “Why? It looks like everything’s dying!” That’s exactly why I love it so much. It’s the end of a time; and what is happening is all the old that doesn’t work anymore begins to… fade away. This is the time of year I ask you all to sit down and make a list of all the things you don’t want to participate in your life anymore. All the things that don’t work for you. Things you’re not willing to give energy to anymore.

Why do we do that? The same reason that trees shed all their leaves because new growth can’t grow where old growth is. So they have to drop their leaves, prepare to go into hibernation. Clean themselves up inside, drop the sap, and rest. And then as we get towards March and April, they begin to slowly resurrect themselves. You can do the same thing, but you don’t have to wait so long. This is the time of letting go. One of Alfred’s favorite topics is letting go.

ALFRED:
Yes, actually we have a little saying that has to do with: no two things can be in the same place at the same time.

We’ll pick an example, we get a lot of clients asking us about relationships - you’re in a relationship that’s not working, and you’re asking God - where’s my new relationship? And the most common answer is…

HANS:
...you have to let go of what you’re holding onto first.

ALFRED:
Spirit needs to see your intention, your desire, your trust. Trust, that if I let go of what I have, I trust the next stage is going to come. Hence the example of the tree letting go of its leaves - it trusts instinctively it’s going to get new leaves.

HANS:
It knows that. It’s internal. What we need to do is be more like the trees. When we make the list of the things we choose not to participate in anymore, we’re saying to God, I trust that you have another plan. I’m going to let go of what I’m holding onto now for dear life, in the knowledge that it doesn’t work for me anymore. In the knowledge, I’m going to clean myself up, I’m going to get ready for my new beginning. You see? So, in my world, letting go is gaining.

ALFRED:
Which is the opposite of what your mind tells you. It’s the time we start talking to you about mind chatter. What to look for in mind chatter when mind chatter tells you, “No, you can’t let go. What happens if you can’t get anything else and nothing else shows up?”

HANS:
Oh dear, what a painful life that could be. 

ALFRED:
So I don’t want to let go of what’s causing me to be miserable, because I might not have anything. So as soon as your mind chatter tells you I can’t let go of what I have because I might get something worse, or I might not get anything or anyone, you say, “At least I’ll be peaceful.”

HANS:
Yes. The tree goes into a peaceful time. We live here in Asheville, North Carolina, and we sit in the middle of the trees and we see baby trees coming up, we see the tops of older trees, but they’re all doing the same thing, no matter what the age of the tree is - they’re letting go. And that’s the key folks, trust and believe.

The tree never wonders if it will spring to life again come next year - never! It let’s go of it’s leaves; some of those leaves may have a fungus on them, and so the letting go cleans the tree up. When a bear goes in for hibernation it never wonders whether it’s going to wake up in the spring, it knows it. When we begin to let go of the things that don’t work in our lives any more, as Alfred mentioned, the mind chatter gets very active. What do you mean? You can’t let go of this? This is all you have! When you’re hanging onto a relationship that simply doesn’t work anymore, when you’re hanging on for dear life, are you hanging on because you love the person or are you hanging on because you think that’s all you got and will ever have?

The tree knows to let go of the leaves. You don’t see the tree trying to hold on through winter with it’s leaves on. We need to also believe that when we let go and we’re willing to move forward in the light, all of our dreams suddenly are made possible.

ALFRED:
And that brings us up to topic number two. What happens after you let go?

HANS:
If you’re in human form you often go though the “Oh my God, what have I done!”

ALFRED:
Mind chatter comes up again and says, “Get him back!”

HANS:
Folks, I cannot tell you how many times I’ll be in a reading with somebody and they’ll say, “Hans, do you think I can get him back?” And I will say these words, “Well what happened to all the pain of before?” 

“It’ll be different this time.”

No, it won’t. Let it go. Love the person you’re letting go, bless them, let them go, and that’s it. Know that Spirit will take them where they need to be and will open the doors because at the end of each show you hear me say - always remember, kids, God doesn’t love anyone more in this world than you - and God’s not loving that person less than God is loving you just because you have an opinion of what happened to the relationship. It’s only your opinion. That’s all it is.

ALFRED:
So after you let go, what’s in store? What happens then? That’s what we call the void. What’s the void do? It creates space. 

HANS:
It creates a vacuum. We all were taught in school that a vacuum cannot exist, something comes in to fill the void, the vacuum. Your job as spiritual beings in human form is to make the void good. Make it wonderful. Don’t make it a challenge. It’s peaceful. The void is a peaceful place.

I have a rocking chair out here on my front porch that looks directly at the trees and the forest. I go out there in the morning with my coffee and I sit down, and in that moment I become one with the trees. At that moment I see squirrels, woodpeckers, voles, chipmunks, we’ve got a mama bear now with four cubs, and I become part of all I see.

ALFRED:
So it’s in the void you become clear about what you want in your life. What you don’t want in your life. What you would like with your life. You can work on cleaning other areas of your life, making sure there’s a nice clean place for the next stage in your life.

HANS:
One of the things that Spirit teaches us, Alfred, is that we can’t create a masterpiece over a masterpiece. We have to be willing to take the masterpiece we have and go hang it on the wall and start from a blank, clean place. And that’s what the void is.

ALFRED:
That’s the way a painter loves to work. The way Spirit loves to work is when they come in, a blank space. When you’re learning to channel you need to be a blank space. When you go into mediation, you search for a blank space. You are happy when you are peaceful and there is a blank space in your life. So actually having space in your life is a positive; not just for spiritual growth, not just for letting go of the things that don’t serve you anymore, but because you’re making space for the next stage in your life - whether it’s a relationship, a job, or whatever else is going away - you’re making space for the next thing to come in.

HANS:
And it always comes in. So what you want to look forward to in the void is the nothingness. That’s the key. You have an opportunity in cleaning out the old. There is an opportunity to discover the self buried under all the minutia, all the stuff you’ve piled on top of your heart, piled on top of your spiritual being. You’ve just covered it up, covered it up. There comes a time when you can say, “Oh, there you are! I forgot you!” 

And so, you come in with nothing and you go out with nothing, but in the meantime, this quiet beautiful space of you exists outside of the mind - the mind chatter - so the fall is the time to begin the renewal process of our soul.

And that will conclude the lesson for today.

“Why Does Life Seem So Difficult?” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“Why Does Life Seem So Difficult?” by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Why Does Life Seem So Difficult
October 10, 2015

HANS:

Hi everyone! The topic for today is “Why Does Life Seem So Difficult?” Even though we’re having fun with you today, for many people life seems very difficult. I don’t know how to say it any clearer than this. It’s how we view what’s going on. There are situations that happen in our life that seem insurmountable. They seem like your life is drowning, like you’re being thrown to the wolves, but our human-ness continues to inform us of what is wrong. 

Now sometimes, for instance, a relationship… people have been together for awhile, maybe they’ve produced children, maybe they have really worked hard, and one day out of nowhere it goes - poof! Our immediate human-ness is to respond to that in such a way that we wonder what’s wrong. What happened? What if we found out that what happened was the energy that ran the relationship had run it’s time.

ALFRED:

Disconnect energy. That it was planned. And the other side is working with you to disconnect that which was planned.

HANS:

And you agreed to it because you set it up in the first place!

ALFRED:

It’s part of your life path.

HANS:

So what I’m saying to you is - even in the most difficult of moments, with every kind of scenario you can think, Spirit is there with you. Walking with you. Opening the doors in front of you. No matter how painful, when they close a door they open a window - you’ve heard that your whole life.

ALFRED:

I saw a quote about that today. Tragedies are actually opportunities in disguise. It depends how you look at it.

HANS:

Let’s go back to what we were talking about when we said the relationship went poof! All we can see in front of us is the pain of the moment. We want to run back into the history of the relationship. We want to rekindle it, we want to pull it forward into the new unknown. No, no, no. It’s over. Love each other. Be friends with each other. Let it go into the Light.

It’s very simple for me to sit here and say this to you, but that’s what Spirit expects. By the letting go of what wasn’t working anymore, you freed up your tomorrows, even though in the moment all you can see is blankness. It is blank. By letting go you have created a vacuum, and in the vacuum the new life comes.

ALFRED:

Working wth Spirit to let go of what doesn’t work anymore.

HANS:

Remember that old saying that says: one day at a time? That’s just what Spirit is saying to you. Just ask for the energy, kids, of one day at a time. And when you do that, you’re saying to Spirit, ”I believe, I trust you. I know that for all the pain I’m in at the moment, there is a rainbow at the end of this pain.”

ALFRED:

Then we get on to trust and surrendering. Surrendering that what is actually happening is part of your Dharma, part of your life path… is happening for a reason.

HANS:

You can’t get, if you don’t let go, children. You can’t continue to get and get. You have to let go in order to receive. When we’re in the middle of the pain it feels so real - you know that, Alfred.

ALFRED:

It does.

HANS:

I know that and all of you know. It looks real. It feels real. But it really isn’t. It’s our mind chatter at work.

ALFRED:

Yes, and whenever something feels stressful, painful, realize that is human-ness coming into the picture. Spiritually speaking, when you realize there’s human-ness - what’s your option? Surrender into it! Be peaceful with it. Let it go. Realize there’s a higher purpose. Go with the flow. Let go of the negative energy versus trying to control it. Where is it? I want it back in my life, and the other side is saying - no.

HANS:

There’s no more there. It’s over. There’s no more energy available, and the more you struggled after it, the more you keep trying to resurrect it, the more pain you put yourself in. Then you get mad and yell at God for not being on your side.

ALFRED:

You have two options here. You can focus on what isn’t working and get upset about it, or realize your glass is half full, realize and focus on what is working. If you focus on what isn’t working, you’re putting negative energy when the Universe is trying to help you versus being grateful for where you are, going back to being peaceful and letting this energy dissolve as it’s supposed to dissolve. Don’t put your energy on what isn’t working because if your focus, your attention is on what isn’t working — guess what is going to be attracted into your life? Spiritually speaking, if you put your energy on what isn’t working, that is the energy and the feeling and emotions you’re going to keep with you.

HANS:

They themselves are makers of themselves. We continue to draw to us our own consciousness.

ALFRED:

So when you have something you feel is being removed, taken away from you - spiritually speaking - put your energy, your focus, your attention on being peaceful, on what is working, your spiritual growth, working with your Guides. Go look at a flower. Go for a walk. Whatever it is to reconnect during this type of turmoil to take your energy away from that and your focus is on the positive.

HANS:

Exactly.

ALFRED:

How’s that for a short lesson? And now for our next topic which is - Being in the Void. Something was taken away from you, the Universe is saying, “That’s no longer part of your experience. We need to put you in the void for a little while.” All of a sudden there’s just nothing. Lack of a relationship, lack of a job, lack of money, lack of a car, lack of a partner, lack of friends…. So, lesson number two: when Spirit is removing something for you - your job is to focus on the good aspects of your life and connecting. What do you do when you’re in the void? When there is a lack of a relationship, lack of job, lack of money, and you’re wondering what’s going on here? What is somebody supposed to do during that time Hans?

HANS:

Be peaceful. Now folks, when you find yourself in the void, and you find more things going away from you than coming towards you - what do you do? What are your options? You make the void perfect at the moment. Now that’s really really tough to do. You bring back all the Hansie principles: What if there’s nothing wrong? What if I’m exactly where I need to be? What if my God loves me and sees where I am right now and is taking care of it? The key here, is in the void - do nothing.

I’m serious kids. Do nothing. Simply learn to be in that moment, because what is for you is already known by the Spirit. Stop the infernal praying. They already know. Okay? What is for you is automatically on the way.

So, don’t worry. You’re not going to be alone. Yes, there’s a person for you. I have rarely ever met anyone that did not have a soulmate on this side. There are instances, I had a lady today who said her children don’t speak to her because the father had poisoned their minds, and I pointed out to her - no, the children poisoned their own minds and they’ll get through it and come out the other side.

When children find themselves in divorce, for instance, they immediately need to blame someone. So, in the void, as you watch the things go away, know the children will return, because they will. Know there will be another relationship, because there will. And just have a quiet knowing, that in the void, in that moment - it’s perfect.

ALFRED:

So - two ways to handle the void. The first thing is to look at any aspect of human-ness, blame, understanding, stress, control, these are things to try to not do when you’re in the void. You can’t control, can’t completely understand your Dharma. You’re here on purpose not understanding your Dharma. If you’re trying to understand why things are being taken away from you, why this is not in your life, you’re going to drive yourself crazy. Drive yourself into human-ness and disconnect energy. 

The void is all about connecting to the nothingness, connecting to the peacefulness, surrendering to - ready - trusting that the other side has a plan.

HANS:

Because they do. You’re not here by accident.

ALFRED:

Exactly. So what you’re supposed to do in the void is: #1. Trust.

HANS:

There’s a tough one.

ALFRED:

Yes.

HANS:

I was watching this one over here, Mr. Alfred. Lord, didn’t he go through something last week, and I had to remind him that all he was going through was his own mind chatter. We don’t want to hear that. The truth of the matter is whatever lessons are being presented to you are the lessons you chose to learn.

ALFRED:

And the faster that you trust, this is part of your path, and you surrender into it, the more clearly you will see the lesson.

HANS:

That’s the key! When you surrender into it and don’t allow your mind chatter to believe that something’s wrong, suddenly there’s a lightness that comes in your heart and a little light goes on over your head like Felix the Cat in my day, bingo! I’m driving myself crazy. Hello? Nothing’s wrong. 

ALFRED:

That’s a good short lesson.

HANS:

I like that. This is one of the top five hardest lessons to learn - to believe and let go. That’s just really really tough.

And that will conclude our lesson for today.

“Faith, Trust and Belief” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Show Transcription

“Faith, Trust and Belief” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Faith, Trust and Belief

August 22, 2015

HANS:

Hi everybody. Welcome to the Show today. The topic for today is "Faith, Trust and Belief." You know there's an overlying fear in the world and with a lot of our people about Faith. Faith falls under a simple headline called "Do you believe." It's very simple for someone to say: Oh, I have absolutely faith that whatever I'm going to do is going to be okay... it's going to work. And that rolls off the tongue very nicely.

However, when something begins to appear that could be a bit challenging, Faith seems to begin to go out the window. And the old mind chatter, the old fears, they tend to start pulling themselves forward. And even with the best of intentioned peopled, this happens. Alfred, you've seen this in your work, haven't you?

ALFRED:

Yes. And these series of topics are meant to help with the beginning... the foundations. If I'm going to transfer into spirituality, where do I start? And one of the main topics is: Faith. Do you put your trust in something that you can't see, can't hear, can't understand... can't yet. Okay? 

The topics in this Show, and of course all the products that we have, are meant to help you understand what is Faith, what is Trust, how to hear, how to work with The Other Side. So one of the foundation principles that we're trying to bring to you is in the transition from ego based life, human based life, into a spiritual based life, is holding on to Faith.

HANS:

Very true. And you know folks, again I want to say to you, even those of you who have been with us for years and years and you're working on it, it's simple to say... not so simple to do. And I don't want anyone beating yourself up because you think you let yourself down. Being in the human form is an on-going lesson for all of us. And for all of the people I know who have been in the business, and I know a lot of people, they're still working on their stuff.

I don't know, at this time, of anyone who isn't still working on something. So it's perfectly okay to put yourself in Faith and don't punish yourself if you appear to let yourself down. Okay? That's not going to do you any good... continue to re-set to fail. We're going to talk about that as we go through this morning's topics. So you just want to continue to believe and have Faith.

And Alfred, the second topic for today?

ALFRED:

Belief.

HANS:

Belief.

ALFRED:

Belief in something that you can't see with your eyes... you can't hear with your ears...

HANS:

That's tough, isn't it? That's really tough.

ALFRED:

Belief that there's an organization on The Other Side. Belief in Karma, Belief in Your Life Path, Belief in things that don't really make sense... but they're not supposed to make sense.

HANS:

Well I think that's what Yoda said when he was talking to Skywalker, he said: You just be. Be is believe. That when you believe in what is happening in your life, you believe that The Spirit is there for you, you believe you're on the right path, things just fall into place.

You know the old adage "Let Go and Let God." That is total Belief right there. And when you do that, when you Let Go and Let God, you're actually saying to the Universe: I trust you. I believe in you. I know you have my back. I know, for a fact, that you have me on the right track. I don't second guess this anymore. I'm here so that you can be here with me.

And sometimes there are things that come up folks, you just scratch your head and say: For all the good I've been doing, how could this have come into my life? It is because The Spirit has found a little tweaking that needed to be done.

You remember those days don't you, Alfred? They still happen today from time to time.

ALFRED:

Yes. And a lot of what we're talking about today is "not understanding." And that is the truth. What person could possibly understand the totality of God and the Universe? What person totally understands their life? Why are they here? 

So, Belief really has to do with believing there is something so much greater than you, that you put Faith into, that you put your Belief into... that you are believing that there are Spirits and Guides and Angels on The Other Side that are doing things on your behalf.

HANS:

Constantly. Because remember The Other Side has a copy of our Dharma. They have a copy. So They know, more than you, where you're supposed to be, what you're supposed to be experiencing.

ALFRED:

Here's an interesting thing to believe. That souls on The Other Side know more about your life than you do.

HANS:

Yes, They do.

ALFRED:

There's something to believe in.

HANS:

Well, I'd say Thank Goodness, wouldn't you? (Chuckling) Because left on our own, well sometimes we don't do very well. 

Sometimes we are given a challenge. A dear friend of mine, her husband recently passed away, and went downhill very, very quickly. And she said she tried to hold on to her faith, she tried to believe, but she said it crushed her. When you're married to someone for 36 years, that's most likely going to happen. And she's struggling right now in believing God is good. Why did God take her husband? 

God didn't take her husband. He left at the appointed time. She's going where he went. Right now she's in a bit of anger, a bit of fear. But when she left the other day she said to me: I still believe. And that's the key. I can remember, Alfred, when you went through terrible times. And you always came back because you believed.

ALFRED:

And that brings us to our next topic: Trust. You can have Faith and Belief that there is a larger picture, a larger organization... You can believe and have all the faith in the world that there are souls watching over you. But do you Trust them? Do you Trust that what They're sending for you is for your highest good? Do you Trust that where you are is where you're supposed to be?

HANS:

Do you remember, you struggled with this?

ALFRED:

Yes. Do you Trust even though you don't understand?

HANS:

And sometimes we feel that Spirit really doesn't hear us.

ALFRED:

Yes.

HANS:

They may be listening, but do They actually hear what we're saying?

ALFRED:

Do you Trust if you pray? Do you Trust if you make a wish that They actually heard you?

HANS:

Here's a novel concept. I used to say this to Alfred. When you pray, don't expect anything. Pray because you'd like to put something in motion, but don't have an expectation that "we" think it is. Now you've seen that many times in your life haven't you?

ALFRED:

Expectations. There's a good one.

HANS:

Are limitations. 

ALFRED:

Expectations are limitations.

HANS:

Absolutely.

ALFRED:

And do you Trust that what you're limited mind, which is limitation, do you Trust that the Universe has a bigger picture? And do you Trust that what They're doing and how They are guiding you is actually better than your expectation? That's a hard thing... to Trust.

HANS:

It is, it is. So when you put something out there and you say to Spirit: I really would like to see this or that happen, try very hard to not have an expectation of how it's supposed to look. That's why I always teach you - say: I'd like the experience of the following please. Rather than say: This is what I want.

When you say: I'd like the experience of the following please, don't put an addendum to it and say: And this is how I want it to show up. No, no, no. Trust, Believe and have Faith that Spirit, knowing your higher purpose, what you're supposed to be learning, is in fact working on this at this time even though perhaps nothing shows up for awhile. Because if you want to truly believe, then know in your heart, and trust in your heart, that The Other Side is working on that. 

And I know Alfred, you've had some trouble with that from time to time.

ALFRED:

Yes. These are foundation principles. These are where you start. If there is a crack in your foundation it is hard to build higher principles... to go further in spirituality. In order to lean over, have a spiritual life, we're going to be going through some basic spiritual principles that really will help you have a foundation... things to fall back on.

HANS:

That's the key right there.

ALFRED:

Where do you fall back on? And trusting that The Other Side is guiding you to where you need to be no matter how rocky the water is, no matter how difficult the situation is...

HANS:

No matter how it appears.

ALFRED:

No matter how it appears.

HANS:

Remember, it's an illusion how it's appearing.

ALFRED:

So Trust that you're going through this for your higher good.

HANS:

So, Alfred, at what point did you go from thinking “you know” to believing “They do?” That's a toughy.

ALFRED:

Oh! It was very simple actually...

HANS:

Oh, really? Okay.

ALFRED:

I was arguing with Hans... and arguing and arguing and arguing from my educational experience... and Hans looked at me and said: Who knows more, you or God? 

HANS:

That did it. Right then and there.

ALFRED:

And then I happened to come by a quote from Einstein at the later part of his life that said: I want to know God's thoughts, the rest are details.

HANS:

(Laughing) That's exactly right.

ALFRED:

So what we're trying to tell you is once you have a foundation of Faith, Trust and Belief, you can then move on to more advanced principles such as communicating with Spirit... hearing Guidance. But through these foundations and trusting... starting out with Trust that letting go... Trusting there is something infinitely more knowledgeable about your life may be one of the most important decisions you could make.

HANS:

That's very, very true, Alfred. Thank you for that. And that will conclude the lesson for today.

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“Soul Mate Relationships: Preparing Yourself” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Show Transcription

“Soul Mate Relationships: Preparing Yourself” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Soul Mate Relationships: Preparing Yourself 

August 1, 2015

HANS:

The topic for today is "Soul Mate Relationships.” We actually have contracts with individuals that we have been with before in previous lifetimes. Then we agreed to do certain things... their Guides, your Guides, everybody got together before we came in here... had a little tea-party. And they all decided what was best in this lifetime for you.

And certain people said: Well let me help you with that because you helped me with the other before. So what happens is you come here and gradually the people that you are supposed to meet, you are drawn to. And a lot of times I have clients that will say: Are you sure I chose that person I'm living with? And I'll say: Yes, you did.

But Soul Mates... In order to get to where you start to deal with your Soul Mates that come through your life, you first have to find a clear spot within yourself. Now this sounds very simple, but it is not. If you picture a square and you cut the square into 4's and you put little titles on it: My Capability To Love, The Attraction Aspect, My Availability Aspect... And then you come over to this little one on the right-hand side and it says: Trust. And that one, for many, many, many thousands of people is the one they have the hardest time with.

So if they have been out of a relationship for awhile, the trust factor begins to listen to the mind chatter. And as it listens to the mind chatter, what it's doing is very slowly disconnecting us from the possibilities. Because it sends false signals to the trust department and saying: Well, you know what, if you venture out to that you could get hurt. What happened last time could happen again.

And pretty soon it talks us out of it. So the other 3 are saying: Yes, I'm available. You're verbalizing: Yes, I'm available. But actually there's no room in the heart for the trust factor.

ALFRED:

And that has to do a lot with letting go of previous traumas, previous issues, previous experiences, that caused you not to trust. Now, of course, using all of Hans King's wisdom and guidance, you'll be learning about how to let go of the past so that you can allow yourself to trust once again. But the most important thing is, when building trust, is not to bring previous relationships into your current relationship.

HANS:

That's the key.

ALFRED:

And if you are not trusting, that's because of something that's happened in a previous relationship. And what we're talking about is making space for a new relationship. If your old relationship is still with you, still in your heart-space, as Hans says: You have a padlock.

HANS:

Yes. For many of you, you've not only locked the door, but you've actually had a padlock installed. And sometimes the Spirit will say to you: Please, if you can't open the door, will you just unlock it for a moment to allow us to work with you?

I actually have clients that will say to me: I'm not going to make myself available for another relationship until my perfect lover shows up. Well folks, you can't do that. Because life with Spirit is about trust. But each of you, go into your heart, and ask yourself have you cleared up that space? Okay?

Another thing that the mind chatter tells you is that you may not be good enough for a relationship... you may not be pretty enough... you may not be handsome enough... there may be something wrong with you physically you think. And so you start to talk yourself out of the possibility.

But I'll tell you this: Everyone has someone. Everyone. You are never destined to be alone unless your entire life's lesson is about "The Power of The One." And most of you haven't come to that place quite yet in your life.

If you feel, in your heart, and I know Peter, we've been dealing with this with you in New York. And what I'm saying to you is: It's never of matter of "when," my friend, it's a matter of "believing that it is already happening." That's the key. Know in your heart it's already. Don't wonder it, don't doubt it, don't run your safety mechanisms by it,  and don't run your trust mechanisms by it - "know" it. 

And every time that mind chatter comes up and tries to engage you and say: You know what, you can't put yourself out there, you can't trust this issue. You need to turn to that and say: No, that's not true.

Another aspect to consider, when looking for a Soul Mate Relationships is: Do I love myself enough to allow myself to be happy? That's a tough one folks. We've been told, since the day we're born, if not by parents... perhaps you have totally supportive parents... but somewhere along the way - in schools, somewhere watching television, advertising, you will be informed that you are not good enough “yet.” And if you buy this product, if you take this course, if you do this thing, then you could begin to get good enough. 

Implementing a state of trust into your life is key to you finding the relationship with yourself that supports and allows for a relationship with someone else. Alfred?

ALFRED:

The topic that we're trying to get to right now is making sure that you are ready, that you are available for a Soul Mate Relationship. It is not about a Soul Mate coming in and fixing you. It is about you being available, being ready. Okay? Being who you are. A perfect soul with perfect confidence - that you are who you are. And then attracting a Soul Mate with that vibration.

HANS:

And trusting.

ALFRED:

And trusting. So if you happen to have the vibration of: I'm not good enough, I'm not deserving, what do you think is going to be attracted to you?

HANS:

Yes.

ALFRED:

People who are going to tell you you're not good enough, you're not deserving.  You're not going to get your proper Soul Mate. Instead you're going to get people attracted to you with a similar vibration. Okay? So what we're trying to tell you is "before" you start looking for your Soul Mate, make sure you've done your inner work. As we've talked about previously, make sure you've opened the trust factor. 

And in this topic, what we're making sure that you look at is: Are you "deserving" of that Soul Mate Relationship? And that is the vibration that you put out - that you are deserving of love, you are deserving of kindness, you are deserving of joy, and those are the things that you want and will have in your life.

HANS:

And you will. Now folks, sometimes people will say to me: Well Hansie, I'm 52 years old. I mean, I'm getting a little long in the tooth. And when is this going to happen? I said: When you learn to love yourself enough to give yourself someone new. So many people are still waiting. You've heard me hound you about this through the years. So many people are waiting for someone to show up to tell them they're okay. You need to tell yourself you're already okay. 

All the people that we see on the television, in the movies, people who have become very big in whatever endeavor, whatever field they're in... very respected... never said: I'm hoping somebody will tell me I'm okay to do this... I'm hoping somebody will come and validate my existence. They already knew it.

I just was reading a story today about the richest woman in China. Her first name is Zhou. She starting working in a factory, as a teenager... a factory. She got $1.00 a day. And they showed her little security card she had used to get into the factory. Today she is the wealthiest woman in China. Her company makes all the glass on iPhones, iPads. Her company makes half of all the glass on half of all the computers in the world.

She had to drop out of High School because she couldn't afford to go. Do you think ever, in that woman's life, she ever told herself she wasn't good enough... that she couldn't make it? In reading her story today, she said somewhere in her she always knew. She believed that there was something greater for her than what her circumstances ever dictated to. 

Relationships. When you build the relationship with yourself there are tons of possibilities that can occur.

And that concludes the lesson for today. 

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