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Saturday, August 22, 2015

“Faith, Trust and Belief” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Show Transcription

“Faith, Trust and Belief” - by Hans Christian King 
Spiritual Radio Show Transcription
GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show
with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com
and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com
Topic: Faith, Trust and Belief
August 22, 2015


HANS:
Hi everybody. Welcome to the Show today. The topic for today is "Faith, Trust and Belief." You know there's an overlying fear in the world and with a lot of our people about Faith. Faith falls under a simple headline called "Do you believe." It's very simple for someone to say: Oh, I have absolutely faith that whatever I'm going to do is going to be okay... it's going to work. And that rolls off the tongue very nicely.

However, when something begins to appear that could be a bit challenging, Faith seems to begin to go out the window. And the old mind chatter, the old fears, they tend to start pulling themselves forward. And even with the best of intentioned peopled, this happens. Alfred, you've seen this in your work, haven't you?

ALFRED:
Yes. And these series of topics are meant to help with the beginning... the foundations. If I'm going to transfer into spirituality, where do I start? And one of the main topics is: Faith. Do you put your trust in something that you can't see, can't hear, can't understand... can't yet. Okay? 

The topics in this Show, and of course all the products that we have, are meant to help you understand what is Faith, what is Trust, how to hear, how to work with The Other Side. So one of the foundation principles that we're trying to bring to you is in the transition from ego based life, human based life, into a spiritual based life, is holding on to Faith.

HANS:
Very true. And you know folks, again I want to say to you, even those of you who have been with us for years and years and you're working on it, it's simple to say... not so simple to do. And I don't want anyone beating yourself up because you think you let yourself down. Being in the human form is an on-going lesson for all of us. And for all of the people I know who have been in the business, and I know a lot of people, they're still working on their stuff.

I don't know, at this time, of anyone who isn't still working on something. So it's perfectly okay to put yourself in Faith and don't punish yourself if you appear to let yourself down. Okay? That's not going to do you any good... continue to re-set to fail. We're going to talk about that as we go through this morning's topics. So you just want to continue to believe and have Faith.

And Alfred, the second topic for today?

ALFRED:
Belief.

HANS:
Belief.

ALFRED:
Belief in something that you can't see with your eyes... you can't hear with your ears...

HANS:
That's tough, isn't it? That's really tough.

ALFRED:
Belief that there's an organization on The Other Side. Belief in Karma, Belief in Your Life Path, Belief in things that don't really make sense... but they're not supposed to make sense.

HANS:
Well I think that's what Yoda said when he was talking to Skywalker, he said: You just be. Be is believe. That when you believe in what is happening in your life, you believe that The Spirit is there for you, you believe you're on the right path, things just fall into place.

You know the old adage "Let Go and Let God." That is total Belief right there. And when you do that, when you Let Go and Let God, you're actually saying to the Universe: I trust you. I believe in you. I know you have my back. I know, for a fact, that you have me on the right track. I don't second guess this anymore. I'm here so that you can be here with me.

And sometimes there are things that come up folks, you just scratch your head and say: For all the good I've been doing, how could this have come into my life? It is because The Spirit has found a little tweaking that needed to be done.

You remember those days don't you, Alfred? They still happen today from time to time.

ALFRED:
Yes. And a lot of what we're talking about today is "not understanding." And that is the truth. What person could possibly understand the totality of God and the Universe? What person totally understands their life? Why are they here? 

So, Belief really has to do with believing there is something so much greater than you, that you put Faith into, that you put your Belief into... that you are believing that there are Spirits and Guides and Angels on The Other Side that are doing things on your behalf.

HANS:
Constantly. Because remember The Other Side has a copy of our Dharma. They have a copy. So They know, more than you, where you're supposed to be, what you're supposed to be experiencing.

ALFRED:
Here's an interesting thing to believe. That souls on The Other Side know more about your life than you do.

HANS:
Yes, They do.

ALFRED:
There's something to believe in.

HANS:
Well, I'd say Thank Goodness, wouldn't you? (Chuckling) Because left on our own, well sometimes we don't do very well. 

Sometimes we are given a challenge. A dear friend of mine, her husband recently passed away, and went downhill very, very quickly. And she said she tried to hold on to her faith, she tried to believe, but she said it crushed her. When you're married to someone for 36 years, that's most likely going to happen. And she's struggling right now in believing God is good. Why did God take her husband? 

God didn't take her husband. He left at the appointed time. She's going where he went. Right now she's in a bit of anger, a bit of fear. But when she left the other day she said to me: I still believe. And that's the key. I can remember, Alfred, when you went through terrible times. And you always came back because you believed.

ALFRED:
And that brings us to our next topic: Trust. You can have Faith and Belief that there is a larger picture, a larger organization... You can believe and have all the faith in the world that there are souls watching over you. But do you Trust them? Do you Trust that what They're sending for you is for your highest good? Do you Trust that where you are is where you're supposed to be?

HANS:
Do you remember, you struggled with this?

ALFRED:
Yes. Do you Trust even though you don't understand?

HANS:
And sometimes we feel that Spirit really doesn't hear us.

ALFRED:
Yes.

HANS:
They may be listening, but do They actually hear what we're saying?

ALFRED:
Do you Trust if you pray? Do you Trust if you make a wish that They actually heard you?

HANS:
Here's a novel concept. I used to say this to Alfred. When you pray, don't expect anything. Pray because you'd like to put something in motion, but don't have an expectation that "we" think it is. Now you've seen that many times in your life haven't you?

ALFRED:
Expectations. There's a good one.

HANS:
Are limitations. 

ALFRED:
Expectations are limitations.

HANS:
Absolutely.

ALFRED:
And do you Trust that what you're limited mind, which is limitation, do you Trust that the Universe has a bigger picture? And do you Trust that what They're doing and how They are guiding you is actually better than your expectation? That's a hard thing... to Trust.

HANS:
It is, it is. So when you put something out there and you say to Spirit: I really would like to see this or that happen, try very hard to not have an expectation of how it's supposed to look. That's why I always teach you - say: I'd like the experience of the following please. Rather than say: This is what I want.

When you say: I'd like the experience of the following please, don't put an addendum to it and say: And this is how I want it to show up. No, no, no. Trust, Believe and have Faith that Spirit, knowing your higher purpose, what you're supposed to be learning, is in fact working on this at this time even though perhaps nothing shows up for awhile. Because if you want to truly believe, then know in your heart, and trust in your heart, that The Other Side is working on that. 

And I know Alfred, you've had some trouble with that from time to time.

ALFRED:
Yes. These are foundation principles. These are where you start. If there is a crack in your foundation it is hard to build higher principles... to go further in spirituality. In order to lean over, have a spiritual life, we're going to be going through some basic spiritual principles that really will help you have a foundation... things to fall back on.

HANS:
That's the key right there.

ALFRED:
Where do you fall back on? And trusting that The Other Side is guiding you to where you need to be no matter how rocky the water is, no matter how difficult the situation is...

HANS:
No matter how it appears.

ALFRED:
No matter how it appears.

HANS:
Remember, it's an illusion how it's appearing.

ALFRED:
So Trust that you're going through this for your higher good.

HANS:
So, Alfred, at what point did you go from thinking “you know” to believing “They do?” That's a toughy.

ALFRED:
Oh! It was very simple actually...

HANS:
Oh, really? Okay.

ALFRED:
I was arguing with Hans... and arguing and arguing and arguing from my educational experience... and Hans looked at me and said: Who knows more, you or God? 

HANS:
That did it. Right then and there.

ALFRED:
And then I happened to come by a quote from Einstein at the later part of his life that said: I want to know God's thoughts, the rest are details.

HANS:
(Laughing) That's exactly right.

ALFRED:
So what we're trying to tell you is once you have a foundation of Faith, Trust and Belief, you can then move on to more advanced principles such as communicating with Spirit... hearing Guidance. But through these foundations and trusting... starting out with Trust that letting go... Trusting there is something infinitely more knowledgeable about your life may be one of the most important decisions you could make.

HANS:
That's very, very true, Alfred. Thank you for that. And that will conclude the lesson for today.

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Monday, April 6, 2015

“Judgment and Opinion”- by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“Judgment and Opinion”- by Hans Christian King 
Spiritual Radio Show Transcription
GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show
with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com
and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com
Topic: Judgment and Opinion
April 6, 2015





HANS:
Good day everybody. So glad to be back with you today. "Judgment and Opinion"... Wow, can you imagine going through your life with no judgment or no opinion? You know, that's what we were supposed to do. That's what Spirit, that's what God lined us up for. No judgments, no opinion.

But unfortunately, we live in a society that points out to us, every single day, what's wrong. What “could” happen, what “might” happen, what “has”  happened... every day. And then we have all the pundents on TV and all the reporters and the writers for the magazines who all have their opinion, which is nothing more than a judgment. They don't know. I'm watching, right now, the country go crazy with this nuclear deal with Iran when nobody knows the truth but the President and Secretary of State and his staff. But all these judgments, all these opinions, all this fear, is pouring forward. Whether you like Mr. Obama or you do not like Mr. Obama, he has the best interest of our country at heart... and always has had. 

So when you come into this world, you come in with no judgments and no opinions. Well, where do you get judgments and opinions from? Well, it starts with your family. Because each member of your family has arrived and wherever they are in their life, having gone through multitudes of pain and upset-ness and not knowing, and most people don't have really peaceful times anymore, and so they sort of built up this wall and they make it somebody else's fault. Oh, well your grandfather did this, and you know if your grandfather had just taken his money and put it in here we wouldn't have this problem we have today with money, and your father lost his job and nothing's ever been the same since. 

That's what we do. We start forming judgments and opinions. True spiritual performance for the self is when you say: It is that it is and it is fine. Because every single thing, kids, that you come across in your life is meant to help you. Every relationship, every child, your parents, are meant to grow you. Therefore “nothing is wrong.” 

I remember when that Buddhist Monk said to me... He said: Well young man, what if you found out that absolutely nothing was wrong? And I couldn't... I couldn't, kids, get my head around that thought that actually nothing was wrong. He said: It's only your perception of what is happening that makes it look wrong to you. Okay? Only your perception. And that's where your spirituality comes into play. 

Because when we have a perception, it says that we have a knowing. No we don't. We have an idea of what we think should be right. But someone once said: There's your opinion, my opinion, and the truth. Interesting, isn't that? In every argument there are two sides who believe they are correct. In every war both sides pray to some kind of a god. 

Simplicity, always children, is truth itself. And the simpler you make your life, the less turning on FOX News, or listening to pundents, the less you do that, the less you set yourself up to hear discord, anger, resentment, the purer the energy around you becomes. And as that energy becomes purer, your life becomes sweeter, it becomes kinder, it becomes nicer. But when you allow the mind chatter to rail on and on and on about this is wrong or that is wrong or why did this happen... It just “is.”

You will always be taken care of by Spirit - always. God knows you're here. Yeah, for some of you you've chosen what appears to be little more challenging lives. I did. Alfred did. But does that mean... And this is what I want you to really all hear - does that mean anything is wrong because you have a more challenging life? No. It's just that you chose very challenging situations to grow your character. And it is your character that you take back to Spirit when you leave here. How you did, how you handled... Remember, Spirit never looks at the deed - ever, ever, ever. They only look at the intention behind the deed. I've been telling you kids for years now.

We set ourself up in a situation that says: If only I had this... Or if only I could do that... If only I had a partner I know my life would be perfect. But that's not true and you all know that's not true. If only I had enough money, everything would be perfect. Well, there have been times where you've had plenty of money and then you worried about not having it.

Learning that you are enough, learning that you have enough, learning that fear is about the possibility of lack, fear is about the possibility of not finding love. I'm counseling a dear friend of mine and she keeps talking about a relationship... not having a relationship. And I said: It's not about the relationship. It's about the relationship you have with yourself. And on Saturday, we spent 3 hours helping people to understand that it's not about the love out there, it's about the love in here, the love inside of us. 

We present ourselves to Spirit and to God as very needy and very sad because we don't have something. When we have surrounding us, every day, love... every day, love. But we don't look at that as an asset. We look at it as: Yes, we have love but it's us, where's my partner? That's not what it's about. Love always comes when you're not looking. Stop looking for love. It never happens that way. Only when you're not looking, it shows up. And it shows up in the most unusual ways. Okay?

Judgment, anger, resentment, are all products of a sad place in our heart. We need to blame people, we need to become victims of people, and we need to become victims of situations. When if we would stop one day, sit down and say: I'm done; It's over. I'm going to listen to Hansie's "You Are Enough." And I'm going to follow my life from that point. I absolutely refuse to be intimidated, I refuse to allow myself to be fearful, and no matter what negative thought comes into my head I intend for it not to be able to stay any longer.

Alfred?

ALFRED:
A lot of people try to understand what happened. Where do these judgment and opinions come from? Why are they so prevalent? A lot of it is because of the way we grew up. We looked towards others who we thought knew more than us. Thus we took on their judgments, their opinions of life, whether they're family, friends, or media. And part of spiritual growth is to understand that you are unique. There is absolutely no need for you to take on anyone else's opinions and judgments. And in reality, any judgment, any opinion, is simply mind chatter because you understand the universal truth - that it is impossible to have a proper judgment or opinion.

Because you don't  know everything. You don't know complete dharma, karma, experiences, attitude... anything. So quite simply the simple spiritual practice is by doing the inner work you're letting go of all of those judgments and opinions. That is a huge part of letting go of mind chatter, that is a huge step towards getting inner peace is letting go of all of those things you picked up as you were growing up.

HANS:
And Alfred, I think it's important for people to remember they didn't do it deliberately.

ALFRED:
No.

HANS:
Nobody set out to be in pain, nobody set out to be unhappy. It happened along the way. Okay? It happened along the way. I was watching a movie on TV and the young man about 13 or 14, he found out that his girlfriend really didn't like him very much and she gave him back his ring. And he came home and his dad sat him down and said: What's going on, son? And he told him. And he said: Ah, growth. And the kid said: Well, what do you mean? He said: Now you're growing. Remember something, you're more important than the ring. You're more important than the person that you love. You are enough for yourself. And it was just like somebody took a page out of a book of mine. And I thought: Isn't that wonderful that this is going out?

Knowing that no matter what appears, it's only a lesson. It's not going to do you in. We pick our lives, we pick our partners, we pick whatever lessons that we choose to learn. But judgment shows a weakness in the soul itself. Judgment, blame, victimization, all of these things show a lack of understanding of the principles of truth. So sit yourself down and say: From this point forward, I will no longer live in the space that I have been in that is causing me such sadness. 

And children I know people who have more than enough abundance who God has blessed unbelievably who still struggle every day. So having funds, having good health does not mean it brings happiness. Happiness is a place that resides in your heart when you touch the Godforce within.


And Alfred, I think that will conclude the lessons for today.

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Sunday, March 8, 2015

“The Appearance of Lost Dreams”- by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“The Appearance of Lost Dreams”- by Hans Christian King 
Spiritual Radio Show Transcription
GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show
with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com
and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com
Topic: The Appearance of Lost Dreams
March 8, 2015




HANS:
Hello everybody. What a beautiful day today. Thank you for joining us! Our topic today is "The Appearance of Lost Dreams." I opened my emails this morning and I had 122 Prayer Requests. And I started busily on those as I do because I open each one and pray on the issue for each person. And I would say that probably I've gone through 30 this morning and answered them as best I can. And all of them, almost all of them, had to do with Lost Dreams - The Appearance of Lost Dreams.

Something doesn't happen that we put our heart into. We work so hard and a relationship may flounder, a business may flounder, a job may flounder... Any number of things happen as we're moving through our life. But I would like you all to remember - that the Spirit sees everything. And sometimes They try to warn us and They'll say: Oh, the timing is not quite right for this. Or: Not quite right for that. And we have this little hesitation before we set out but we're going to do it anyway. So sometimes what happens is, we're actually Alfred, in front of our own timing. You've had that happen to you haven't you?

ALFRED:
Absolutely. Even if you know something is "for you," you just have this gut feeling - “time is not real” - especially in terms of spiritual awareness. You may be aware that something is for you. But when it happens in physical form, when it manifests itself on this side, it's all about the flow. Are  all the important people in the flow? Are you in the flow? And sometimes things just don't flow, they just don't gel, and sometimes you're just way ahead of things. That's really tough.

HANS:
Yes. It is because, Alfred, so many times what we do is we pin a hope or a dream onto God loving us. You see? And when it doesn't happen, in our time-frame, it's not necessarily that it's not going to happen, but if it doesn't happen in our time-frame we begin to think: Oh my God, God must not love me, what did I do wrong, maybe my belief system isn't correct, and we begin to tear our belief apart. 

Now what I want to say to you... Remember I always talk about my friend Alexandra, everybody? And when anything would have the appearance of harming her dream, or anything like that, she would turn to it and say to God these words: Oh, I wonder what lesson is in this for me today? And she said to me: Honey, it almost was always that I was doubting my own belief. I didn't know, she said, when God had this. This is when I wanted this to be done. And she's now 102 and she said: But I've learned in my long life, she said, that most everything I ever prayed for came true. One way or another, it came true. And so the lesson she learned was not have a time-frame affixed to a dream. 

When you remove the time scenario from a dream, you let Spirit run with it, literally. And yes, you may say: I'd like to buy this house. And you and your partner, you get together, you put your resources together, you iron out your financing, you look at the possibilities and the cost of moving and everything and you finally get it together and you say: Okay, this is the house we want and this is the dream we have. And you say: I'm giving this to Spirit. And then Spirit doesn't buy the darn house. Oh, dear what happened? You weren't supposed to have that house. It's very simple.

Alfred, have you noticed that in your short life, that you get what you're supposed to have at the right time?

ALFRED:
And that's really, really, really tough to reflect upon. But the most wonderful thing is the more spiritually aware you become, the more you let go of your past, the more you see your past for what it is... I never saw all the miracles that happened to me in my past because I was so angry at the time. But once you let go of the anger, the blame, the could've, should've, would've, you let go of all that stuff. Then you finally get to see your past and what really happened and all the miracles that happened in your past. You don't really see them when they happen. It's when you can really reflect upon your past clearly, that you see them.

HANS:
Absolutely, Alfred. And therein lies the crux of the teaching for today. BELIEVE. If you hold absolute belief... Now, let's use the housing situation... You can attach it to anything that you want. Rather than say: I would like the experience of having that house. Say: I would like to have the experience of a house that has some of these and many of these characteristics and here's how I would like to feel when living in the house. Then you remove from the 'have to have that house' from Spirit. And you say: I believe that a house like that, that has everything I need, is on the way, at the right time. And that's how you begin to dream. A dream is a wish the heart makes. Okay? I think Disney said that. "A dream is a wish the heart makes."

Life, for most of us, is actually longer than we imagined. It's short, but it's longer than we can  imagine. And you're not going to pass away, you're not going to get sick, nothing's going to happen to you on the way to your dream - if you believe. You're going to get a cold, there may be a fender-bender, there may be a lost job. I remember very well, Alfred, this young couple, husband and wife, and they wanted to get their dream house as all couples do. And they applied and they barely passed it because they were both very young with their credit, but they got the loan. And the day after they got the loan, she was let go. Through no fault of her own. The company just decided that they were going to down-size, first hired, first fired. And she says: Hans what do I do? And I said: Tell the loan company. Be honest. Go to the loan company and tell them. 

Do you know what the loan company did? They talked to the escrow people and they gave them a 60 day extension on the deal. And during that 60 days, within a week and a half, she actually got another job that made her, not much but maybe $300, $400 a month more. She called the loan company, the escrow people, and boom they were in the house. And she said: What did it for me Hans, is you told me to believe that the experience was mine.

Don't give up on your dreams because your mind chatter is busy telling you it didn't happen this way therefore it can't happen. Because nothing children, nothing, can be further from the truth. You remember that old saying that says: The Lord moves in mysterious ways, the wonders to be hold.

Where my sadness comes is when I see my beautiful students and all my friends out there and they have a dream and the dream gets squashed in their opinion. In their eyes they see their dream squashed. I'll give you an example. I know this gentleman... Met this wonderful lady and they just hit it right off and within 6 months he asked her to marry him. And she said: Well of course, I'd love to be your wife. Okay, sounds great. So he's busy and she's busy making all of these plans and she woke up one morning and she said: I don't think this is going to work for me. And he had said to me already: I don't think there's anybody I could ever love more than her. So he was pre-setting it. So she came to him and said: Honey, I love you very much but this isn't going to work for me. And she said, rather than continue the relationship, I think I will end the relationship. But know that I love you very much. But I don't feel marriage is the place I need to go.

He was devastated. He called me, he's crying. Set up 2 appointments to try to work it out. And I said: What you are saying isn't true. He said: What? I said: You said: I'll never love anyone as much as that person again. I said: You don't know that. You don't know that whatsoever. He said: No, I know how I am. He said: I'm 42 years old. This is the greatest love I've ever had. I said: It is an opening for you. It has taught you how to love. Now your true love will come in. 5 months lady, sure enough, in comes this other lady, out of nowhere and they are now married and have a little daughter. And he said to me during his Christmas salutations, he said: Hans, I would never have believed it without you. I said: It had nothing to do with me. You changed yourself enough to allow for the miracle to happen. 

So "The Appearance of Lost Dreams" is only an appearance. It is not a reality. Alfred, anything you'd like to say on this so far? You always have these pearls of wisdom.

ALFRED:
A lot of it has to do with simply trusting. Number one, that if you have a dream, that Spirit did hear you. You don't have to pray a million times. That They heard your dreams. But even more important than trusting that They heard you is the simple belief that each one of us has a dharma - a path in life - that we actually had a huge part of creating. And when we come down here, the Other Side has agreed to help walk us through those experiences that we asked to experience. If your dreams, if your requests, are in bounds of helping you experience those things that you wished to, according to your dharma, then they probably will appear in one form or another. 

But the huge aspect of this is those things that you dream for that would take you off your path, are purposefully excluded, as per your instructions.

HANS:
Absolutely.

ALFRED:
Okay? So you really have to believe in the cycle of incarnation and the review process and that 'you' actually created your dharma. 'You' are the one who determined what would be in and not be in your life.

HANS:
Exactly.

ALFRED:
So if you get over here and all of a sudden you see something oh, shiny, pretty, I want that! And the Other Side says: No, you purposefully told us not to give you that because you wanted this over here.

HANS:
Right. You know Alfred, this conversation feeds into spiritual teachings that say: What makes you think anything's wrong? It sounds sort of crass, but there's a teaching: Why are you thinking that anything's wrong? That's using a lower vibration. Okay? Many of you may not be Country and Western fans but I'm a huge Garth Brooks fan, and in one of his songs he says, and I've said this many times before... He says: Sometimes I thank God for unanswered prayers. 

And I think we need to all hear that. You're not abandoned. You're not alone. Spirit hears you. No matter what your mind chatter says to you, They're working on the deal. Doesn't matter what the deal is kids, They're working on it. And you can say to me: Well Hansie, I've been alone for 20 years. No, you're not. And then I would say to you: And why are you making yourself alone? There are 320 million people in the United States of America. But you think there's no one for you? 

But sometimes when somebody leaves us, or a relationship doesn't pan out and we're heart-broken, that's a real term – heart-broken - we believe that we better lock ourself in a closet lest we get hurt again. On the contrary, turn to that little child inside of you and say: If not this one, God is then sending the next because God has my back and God knows what's best for me. And you can go ahead and cry, you can go ahead and moan and groan, and  you know have a good cry-day. And that's perfectly fine. Spirit doesn't care. But don't stay there and don't believe what its telling you. Okay?

ALFRED:
That's a really tough one, a lot of times, for people to hear that they are the reason something or someone is not showing up in their life.

HANS:
That's right. It's like the man who's standing at the subway station and all the subway trains keep going by because he never gets on when the door opens and saying why can't I catch a train?

ALFRED:
Yes, I don't know how many times you've said...even recently at Agape, where we're going to be teaching classes, that when somebody says I want a relationship and you tell them: Well you need to take the Not Available sign off your heart...

HANS:
Off your forehead actually... 

ALFRED:
....off your forehead. And they wonder why they're not getting a relationship.

HANS:
What I say is: How about taking the No Vacancy sign off your forehead?

ALFRED:
So a lot of that again has to do with the inner work to see not just your past clearly but see where you are presently clearly. To say: If you want a relationship, did you do your inner work so that your soul shines through so that your soul mate can find you. Okay?

HANS:
Alfred, I think that will conclude the lesson for today.


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Saturday, January 24, 2015

“Fear” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

“Fear” - by Hans Christian King 
Spiritual Radio Show Transcription
GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show
with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com
and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com
Topic:  Fear
January 23, 2015






Hans:
Hello everybody, welcome, welcome, welcome. Our topic today is "Fear." You know, my friends, over the years we've dealt with fear in many different ways. But I've been getting a lot of emails and phone calls lately, people saying "is this going to happen, is this true?" A gentleman who I love and been part of our work for a long time called me and said I just heard someone say that the... I won't name the party but you'll just use your imagination. One of the political parties now said it's time to cut Social Security. He says I get my first check next month. He said am I going to be able to get that check? This fear that's out there now is an opportunity for all of you to practice what Alfred and I have been teaching you lo these many years. For me, a lot longer than Alfred's been alive. And fear is not real. Fear is an emotional place within you. 

Remember when we did that show... oh, I don't know... 2 or 3 months ago and we did it from Mexico and it was entitled "Fear and Doubt Can Only Live in the House You Build." Some of you have seem to have gotten away from that reality. And I've noticed that in some of the questions over the last couple of months you can hear the fear that's creeping in. I want to say to all of you that says to yourself that you have a deliberate intention, an intention, to allow the fear in. Fear again can only live in the house that you build. And remember fear is its own food. It keeps reproducing itself over and over and over and each time fear reproduces itself it gets just a little larger and it sort of sticks itself deep into your soul. The only thing that we have to fear is fear itself, as Mr. Roosevelt said back in 1941. 
But that is the essence of truth because fear is a manufactured product of your own consciousness. And you do things in a conscious mind that you would simply never do when you get into fear. 

People have strange fears about... I'll give you one that you all heard me talk about - Ebola - and Spirit said to you: It's irrational. There's 7 billion people on the planet, 300 of them have Ebola. One person came to the United States with Ebola. We have 315 million people in the country...One. But the headlines were filled with Ebola this and one party's blaming the other party, it's a pandemic, it's going to sweep Europe and all... nonsense. And we told you nonsense at the time. And before that it was Putin and the Ukraine, and it was taking over the Crimea and Russia's coming to occupy Europe, and why isn't the United States going to war to protect... all this. Fear, fear, fear. And we have one group of people in this country who thrive, who literally thrive, on the possibility of fear. And many of these people think they're good, well-intentioned Christian people. But if they were, they wouldn't have the judgment, and they wouldn't have the fear either. 

We have locked ourself into – in this country – into a fear based lifestyle. A fear if we don't get this education we won't be able to get a good job. Fear. If I want to make my dreams come true I need to leave what I'm doing and pursue them. Fear being: Well, what if I fail? What if that doesn't work? What if I'm doing the wrong thing? Never thinking that at that moment that fear is opportunity knocking. Opportunity knocking. Opportunity saying: Wait a minute, this is all made up. You don't have to do this. You are a unique example of God in human form. There are no limitations with the Godforce, I am not making that up. The same God that got me this far will get me to my destination, or my next part of my journey. But the whole country... turn on the TV's sometimes folks and go just to two channels - MSNBC and FOX. The difference between those two channels is so shocking to me. I'm not going to say one is better than the other. I'm talking about the message, people. The message. The things that people say. Remember back when during this current Administration all those predictions of the collapse of the United States, immigrants were going to take over the country, the economy was going to fail, everybody would loose their savings, there would be riots in the streets... I heard all of that. And suddenly out of nowhere - oh, well the economy is better - oh, well we are working on the middle class - oh, well no it wasn't quite as bad as we thought - oh, Ebola didn't sweep the nation. FEAR. Fear of an unknown. 

Some years ago I was talking to you about fear and Spirit said to me, while I'm talking to all of you, They said: Well, explain something to me Hans. And this was one of my main Guides. And I said: What? He said: What can you be afraid of what you don't know if you don't know it? Think about it, folks. How can you be afraid of what you don't know if you don't know it? Because your mind always puts a dragon in the unknown. That's why. And when you do that you say to God I don't believe that you're there for me. You say to Spirit I don't trust that you're there for me. And somehow you manage to negotiate the freeways, and the restaurants, and getting kids to school, and the snowstorms... Somehow you manage to get from Point A to Point B. 

I have a client that I've had for many, many, many years and he has to fly continuously around the world. And we're sitting doing a session in San Francisco once and he said: Hans, I find it so hard to believe. I said: How many miles did you fly last year? Well, he says: Well in excess of 200,000. I said: And you don't believe? And he thought for a moment. I said: How many plane flights did you take? He said: I can't calculate it. And I said: And you don't believe? You get in a cigar tin can and fly 38,000 feet in the air, through the atmosphere, you've taken how many flights, taken off, landed, and you're still here and you don't believe? Somewhere in you, you believe enough in the universe to allow yourself to get on that plane even though you know there's a possibility that plane could fall down. But you believe somewhere or you wouldn't get on the plane. So sometimes when we're busy thinking of what bad could happen to us we forget all the good that has happened and already is happening to us in this moment. 

Have you noticed, children that fear is always about something that "might" happen? Might happen. This could happen, that could happen. And when you start down that path you become a victim of fear. Not a nice thing to say, I understand that. But you become a victim of fear. And as you become a victim of fear, it keeps feeding itself and reproducing itself and one day you wake up at 2:00 in the morning, 5:00 in the morning, and you're in a cold sweat because fear has even entered into your sleeping form causing you nightmares. So you have an opportunity in life to say: I choose to not live in fear and I choose that my God loves me so and will take care of me. I have nothing to fear but being afraid myself and doing this to myself because I'm perfect in my God's eyes and I'm taken care of. You have that choice. You can make that choice. You can say: I'm enough not to be afraid. All that I need, all that I desire is in front of me. I'm the only one that's blocking it. Okay? So there's no written agreement with you in your contract that says you are to be and remain in fear. That is all self induced and man-made. 

The other day I heard something on the television that was shocking. They said in the 50 years that airliners have been flying to Hawaii from the West Coast, we're talking about hundreds of thousands of flights, we've never lost one. But the fear generated at the possibility is huge. Fear is something that you can control or it can control you. You have to decide which it is. When I was a very young man, for a very short period of time, I was afraid to be in crowds, I was afraid to be in the public. Because what I didn't realize was that I was clairsentient. Nobody told me. And I found out I was clairsentient so I was actually picking up sort of vibrations from peoples and crowds and many of you have had this feeling and I just wouldn't go because it was too scary. And people used to say he wouldn't go into a room where there were more than six people in it. And that was pretty much the truth. Now I go into a room with 1,000 people. It's perfectly fine. Because I've learned that my fears were irrational. There was no truth. 

Have you ever noticed something that we do kids, have you ever noticed that if we're afraid of something we'll try to defend why we're afraid of it? With no rational real reason but we'll make one up? And here's a big one - well, it "could happen." It could happen. Yes, it could happen. But it's not going to. So why do we need for it to happen? By believing it is going to happen or it might happen. Why do we do that? Why don't we just say: I'm not afraid and I refuse to defend the fear that I have. I choose this day to be happy. I choose to be light. I choose to be love. If you don't have $5 to your name, you can say that. You can open that door. And when you open that door, everything begins to change, everything. Because the essence of God that flows through you has no fear. The essence of Spirit, which is your strength, has no fear. Remember what we always teach you - You cannot shine the dark in the light. The light will always prevail, in every situation. There are dark moments that humans put us into, out of our control - wars and what have you. But we can rise above that. We can rise above that. 

Somebody asked me the other day what I thought of the movie "American Sniper." Now folks, I'm not going to get into that today. But it's a real good reminder why war is insanity in motion. Pure, unadulterated insanity, pointless, no reason. Why, why? I watched some people being interviewed and they said these words: Well, we have to have those people because the other ones are coming to get us. No. No one's coming to get us. We don't need snipers to defend ourself. We never have. We never will. Okay? So what I want you all to do today is to sit down and look at your Fear Book. Look and see where you are. Look and see are you allowing any fear, doubt, worry, or concerns to interfere with the flow of your life, the beauty. Remember something, oftentimes the humblest of people we know, the humblest of people we meet, are some of the happiest people we'll ever experience. Always. Because they know that their God loves them. Hands down, I've said this for years, some of the happiest people I've ever met in Mexico, of the poorest of citizens on the beach on a Sunday, the love, the family. They don't have any money but they've got a 6-pack and they've got food they can make and BBQ and the kids got a little pool to play in... They have a ball but they have no money to speak of compared to what we are used to seeing.

And I'll never forget that ride I had to the airport... the taxi driver. And he said to me: Can I ask you a question? I said: Certainly. He says: Why are Americans so afraid? Why? He said: They act as though something's coming to get them. I had to reach for an answer. But the real answer is because that's what we're taught - that something's coming to get us. Nothing, folks, is coming to get you. Get on with your life. Take the principles that Alfred and I have tried to teach you. Alfred, a little something from you on this subject.

Alfred:
The question is why is fear so important? Why is dealing with fear so important? It's because if you are fearful of doing things, you're not going to follow the advice of your Guidance. If your Guidance says, for example, here is this magnificent opportunity, we know that you have it in you to follow through with this opportunity, here it is, we're giving it to you, this is what you've asked to experience. If you're fearful, you're not going to follow through with that opportunity that you asked for and that your Guidance has provided you. Fear is going to keep you from the life you asked to experience. It's going to keep you from your abundance. It'll keep you from your happiness. I couldn't imagine a crazier life if the Other Side is working on your behalf and you say: No. That's a reason why fear is really important to deal with.

Hans:
Yes, to learn from. But have you ever noticed Alfred, that when you try to take fear away from someone they fight to bring it back?

Alfred:
Well, it's as I heard a long time ago from a couple of people I thought I respected and they said and: Well it's the devil you know or the devil you don't know. And I looked at them and said: You know you're holding onto a devil because you don't know what else there could possibly be?

(Hans Laughing)

Hans:
Yeah, it doesn't even make any sense. Honest to goodness, it doesn't.

Alfred:
Wait.

Hans:
Hello. Wait a minute here.

Alfred:
Isn't it welcoming the thing that you don't know because it's a thing that you know that's getting you into trouble and maybe by surrendering what you know and asking the Other Side for help...

Hans:
If you surrender Alfred, you'd be out of control.

Alfred:
Exactly!

Hans:
There's some fear attached to that one.

Alfred:
Yes. Being out of control so you can control the devil you know and keep what you have. Yeah, life as a human. So what we try to do is teach you to live as Spirit. Spirit is all about surrendering. Spirit is all about trust, faith and belief that what is coming for you is for your highest good. That is the way of Spirit. Fear is the way of humanness.

Hans:
Yes, absolutely. I think Alfred, that will conclude the lesson. I don't want to appear as beating them over the head.

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Sunday, January 4, 2015

“New Year's Intentions” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

“New Year's Intentions” - by Hans Christian King 
Spiritual Radio Show Transcription
GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show
with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com
and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com
Topic: New Year's Intentions
January 4, 2015





Hans:
Happy New Year everyone. I hope that you had a joyous and happy holiday season. And from our house to you, the best for this coming year. Our topic today is "New Year's Intentions." You know so many times I hear people talk about their New Year's Resolutions rather than their New Year's Intentions. I have a feeling inside of me that New Year's Resolutions sort of bind us. And then at the end of the year we punish ourself and are disappointed with ourself for not having lived up to those Resolutions. Folks, don't do that. Why don't we change that to "New Year's Intentions?" My intention in this coming year is to have an experience of the following - something like that. So that you give yourself the opportunity to allow Spirit to come in and work with you with those intentions rather than literally making sort of a demand from the Spirit by New Year's Resolutions - I'm going to do this and I'm going to do that. Folks, you don't know what the New Year holds for you. You don't know what the energies are for this year or where you're going. But, there is a divine flow of energy between you and Spirit that if you say: I would like the experience of...my intentions are the following... I'd like the experience of these intentions. Then you give Spirit an opportunity or a chance to begin to open a series of doors for you that those experiences, in one fashion or another, can be brought to you. And by the end of the year, you look back and say: Wow, look what happened. And you're not so bound by that narrow parameter that you've given yourself on your Resolutions. So I want you to change your Resolutions to Intentions. What do you think, Alfred?

Alfred:
The way I like to look at Resolutions is “I have this Resolution,” is “I'm going to do this.” And as we know, when you use the word "I" you isolate yourself through your humanness. Intention is “I am working with the universe, I have the intention, put the energy forth, have the vibration of this happening in my life and if it is for my highest good or whichever shape or form is for my highest good, then I agree to work with Spirit in order to create that, manifest that into my life.” So the big difference from my point of view is Resolutions about what "you" as an individual human can do, but intentions follow spiritual principles of course - are you working "with" the universe for your highest good? 

Hans:
Absolutely, Alfred. You know folks, this is a wonderful time of the year to begin anew. To set those Intentions. To try new things, to open ourself up to all kinds of new possibilities. We must not go backwards to go forwards. That wonderful song that Dionne Warwick sang about 40 years ago and she said: And a fool will loose tomorrow reaching back for yesterday. “Let all of those things that have been go." If there was love, pull them forward. If there was a teaching that you felt really helped you, pull it forward. Let the rest go. Clear a space in your heart and in your head for Spirit to present you with wonderful new opportunities. And since you are in charge of the type of opportunities you would like to see happen, then their job is to follow through with those doors that I talk about. Doors being of course, opportunities. People call them "windows of opportunities," I call them "doors of opportunities." It doesn't make any difference, same thing. 

But sometimes we get caught in the guilt of not living up to our New Year's Resolutions and we think: Ooop, there I didn't do it again this year. Oh, you know can't hold it. Shame on me. Don't do any of that. If you did have New Year's Resolutions last year and they didn't happen, laugh at it, giggle at it, poke fun at it. Don't punish yourself. Don't say: Well, I'm not strong enough, or I can't do it. No, no, no. This year we're going to wipe the slate clean. We're going to say: Okay, my intention in this coming year is to feel the following. And one of the Intentions that I say that I feel is very helpful for me, is I say: In this coming year, I would like to feel and have the intention of feeling love. And since love comes in many forms you open yourself up to all kinds of wonderful new things. It can be a lover, a loved one, it could be an animal, it could be bliss, it could be flowers. This is all kinds of wonderful forms of love. And in your Intentions include that one. Let love into your life in all of its form and you will find how peaceful you become in this New Year. Alright, Alfred, when did you start realizing that Intentions and Resolutions or however you want to call it, were completely different?

Alfred:
Again, a lot of it has to do with your opinion of what you think you would like in your life because us, as humans, on purpose, by design, don't know what we wanted in our life, we don't know, we don't remember what we asked to experience before we came here.

Hans:
No, that's correct.

Alfred:
Okay. It's through the inner search that we can connect who we truly are in order to feel and become aware of that which is for our highest good. Resolutions are all about what our humanness thinks we should do.

Hans:
Exactly.

Alfred:
Quit smoking, you know, things like that.

Hans:
My resolution is I'm going to lose 10 pounds.

Alfred:
Okay. Intentions, so much focus on the spiritual principles of working with the Other Side, of surrendering what possibilities you might imagine, trusting that the Other Side has your best interest at heart, believing that they know what you asked for, having faith that what arrives is according to your highest good, and then being grateful that which arrives, that which is in your life, that which may  not be in your life, regardless of whether you understand it or not. All of these are spiritual principles and Intentions lead us down that direction and as we've been saying time and time and time again, the simplest changes such as changing your perception about something can lead to the greatest life changes. So what we're talking about now is the perception difference between Resolutions and Intentions.

Hans:
Yes, absolutely. In your New Year's Intentions, say something like this: My intention is to love myself more this year than last year. My intention is to be kind to myself. My intention is not to find fault in myself. My intention is to find love. And again folks, remember that love comes in many, many different forms and expressions. So, let's change Resolutions to Intentions and watch how much changes between now and next New Year's. I think you'll be absolutely surprised.

Alfred:
And that's a wonderful point Hans, is Resolutions really focus on human aspects.

Hans:
Yes.

Alfred:
Okay. And Intentions really also touch on aspects of abundance, such as the abundance of love, the abundance of family, the abundance of friendship, the abundance of joy, the abundance of peace, harmony. All of those aspects you can have the intention to have in your life. So again when you're looking at your New Year's Intentions, look at it from a spiritual perspective. Look at it as if to say: If I was a spiritual being, what would be in my life all the time? I'd be connected, I'd have a high vibration, I'd pay attention to my Guidance, I'd go with the flow. All of those can be in your Intentions.

Hans:

Thank you Alfred, that's beautiful. Alfred, I think that will conclude the lesson for today because I understand we have quite a few questions today.

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