“Soul Mate Relationships: Preparing Yourself” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Show Transcription

“Soul Mate Relationships: Preparing Yourself” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Soul Mate Relationships: Preparing Yourself 

August 1, 2015

HANS:

The topic for today is "Soul Mate Relationships.” We actually have contracts with individuals that we have been with before in previous lifetimes. Then we agreed to do certain things... their Guides, your Guides, everybody got together before we came in here... had a little tea-party. And they all decided what was best in this lifetime for you.

And certain people said: Well let me help you with that because you helped me with the other before. So what happens is you come here and gradually the people that you are supposed to meet, you are drawn to. And a lot of times I have clients that will say: Are you sure I chose that person I'm living with? And I'll say: Yes, you did.

But Soul Mates... In order to get to where you start to deal with your Soul Mates that come through your life, you first have to find a clear spot within yourself. Now this sounds very simple, but it is not. If you picture a square and you cut the square into 4's and you put little titles on it: My Capability To Love, The Attraction Aspect, My Availability Aspect... And then you come over to this little one on the right-hand side and it says: Trust. And that one, for many, many, many thousands of people is the one they have the hardest time with.

So if they have been out of a relationship for awhile, the trust factor begins to listen to the mind chatter. And as it listens to the mind chatter, what it's doing is very slowly disconnecting us from the possibilities. Because it sends false signals to the trust department and saying: Well, you know what, if you venture out to that you could get hurt. What happened last time could happen again.

And pretty soon it talks us out of it. So the other 3 are saying: Yes, I'm available. You're verbalizing: Yes, I'm available. But actually there's no room in the heart for the trust factor.

ALFRED:

And that has to do a lot with letting go of previous traumas, previous issues, previous experiences, that caused you not to trust. Now, of course, using all of Hans King's wisdom and guidance, you'll be learning about how to let go of the past so that you can allow yourself to trust once again. But the most important thing is, when building trust, is not to bring previous relationships into your current relationship.

HANS:

That's the key.

ALFRED:

And if you are not trusting, that's because of something that's happened in a previous relationship. And what we're talking about is making space for a new relationship. If your old relationship is still with you, still in your heart-space, as Hans says: You have a padlock.

HANS:

Yes. For many of you, you've not only locked the door, but you've actually had a padlock installed. And sometimes the Spirit will say to you: Please, if you can't open the door, will you just unlock it for a moment to allow us to work with you?

I actually have clients that will say to me: I'm not going to make myself available for another relationship until my perfect lover shows up. Well folks, you can't do that. Because life with Spirit is about trust. But each of you, go into your heart, and ask yourself have you cleared up that space? Okay?

Another thing that the mind chatter tells you is that you may not be good enough for a relationship... you may not be pretty enough... you may not be handsome enough... there may be something wrong with you physically you think. And so you start to talk yourself out of the possibility.

But I'll tell you this: Everyone has someone. Everyone. You are never destined to be alone unless your entire life's lesson is about "The Power of The One." And most of you haven't come to that place quite yet in your life.

If you feel, in your heart, and I know Peter, we've been dealing with this with you in New York. And what I'm saying to you is: It's never of matter of "when," my friend, it's a matter of "believing that it is already happening." That's the key. Know in your heart it's already. Don't wonder it, don't doubt it, don't run your safety mechanisms by it,  and don't run your trust mechanisms by it - "know" it. 

And every time that mind chatter comes up and tries to engage you and say: You know what, you can't put yourself out there, you can't trust this issue. You need to turn to that and say: No, that's not true.

Another aspect to consider, when looking for a Soul Mate Relationships is: Do I love myself enough to allow myself to be happy? That's a tough one folks. We've been told, since the day we're born, if not by parents... perhaps you have totally supportive parents... but somewhere along the way - in schools, somewhere watching television, advertising, you will be informed that you are not good enough “yet.” And if you buy this product, if you take this course, if you do this thing, then you could begin to get good enough. 

Implementing a state of trust into your life is key to you finding the relationship with yourself that supports and allows for a relationship with someone else. Alfred?

ALFRED:

The topic that we're trying to get to right now is making sure that you are ready, that you are available for a Soul Mate Relationship. It is not about a Soul Mate coming in and fixing you. It is about you being available, being ready. Okay? Being who you are. A perfect soul with perfect confidence - that you are who you are. And then attracting a Soul Mate with that vibration.

HANS:

And trusting.

ALFRED:

And trusting. So if you happen to have the vibration of: I'm not good enough, I'm not deserving, what do you think is going to be attracted to you?

HANS:

Yes.

ALFRED:

People who are going to tell you you're not good enough, you're not deserving.  You're not going to get your proper Soul Mate. Instead you're going to get people attracted to you with a similar vibration. Okay? So what we're trying to tell you is "before" you start looking for your Soul Mate, make sure you've done your inner work. As we've talked about previously, make sure you've opened the trust factor. 

And in this topic, what we're making sure that you look at is: Are you "deserving" of that Soul Mate Relationship? And that is the vibration that you put out - that you are deserving of love, you are deserving of kindness, you are deserving of joy, and those are the things that you want and will have in your life.

HANS:

And you will. Now folks, sometimes people will say to me: Well Hansie, I'm 52 years old. I mean, I'm getting a little long in the tooth. And when is this going to happen? I said: When you learn to love yourself enough to give yourself someone new. So many people are still waiting. You've heard me hound you about this through the years. So many people are waiting for someone to show up to tell them they're okay. You need to tell yourself you're already okay. 

All the people that we see on the television, in the movies, people who have become very big in whatever endeavor, whatever field they're in... very respected... never said: I'm hoping somebody will tell me I'm okay to do this... I'm hoping somebody will come and validate my existence. They already knew it.

I just was reading a story today about the richest woman in China. Her first name is Zhou. She starting working in a factory, as a teenager... a factory. She got $1.00 a day. And they showed her little security card she had used to get into the factory. Today she is the wealthiest woman in China. Her company makes all the glass on iPhones, iPads. Her company makes half of all the glass on half of all the computers in the world.

She had to drop out of High School because she couldn't afford to go. Do you think ever, in that woman's life, she ever told herself she wasn't good enough... that she couldn't make it? In reading her story today, she said somewhere in her she always knew. She believed that there was something greater for her than what her circumstances ever dictated to. 

Relationships. When you build the relationship with yourself there are tons of possibilities that can occur.

And that concludes the lesson for today. 

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“Being in Service”- by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“Being in Service”- by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Being in Service

March 21, 2015

HANS:

Hello everyone. Today's topic is "Being in Service." What does it mean to "Be in Service?" It starts with an intention. There's an old saying that goes something like: Kindness and compassion are the coin of service. It's the highest state while in human form you can possibly reach. Okay? So again, kindness and compassion are the coins of service. It really is the highest state you can achieve in human form. What does that mean? It means that each day you wake up with an intention to serve another person. Not to throw yourself to the ground and worship at the feet of anyone. But to have a kind thought, to do a kind deed. To set out each day to make the world just a tiny bit better than when you woke up because you were in it.

My father, all his life, woke up every morning to make someone laugh. Up until his 80's that's what he loved to do is make someone laugh. I myself wake up every day to make a difference for someone in the world. And I am blessed to be able to accomplish that each and every day.

ALFRED:

Something that people really are concerned about Hans... We've heard this many, many, many times from our clients is: When you are of service does it mean that you need to give up your income?

HANS:

Oh Good Lord No. Thank you for bringing that up Alfred. It doesn't mean that at all. People didn't give up their income, Alfred, to take down the Berlin Wall. They didn't give up their income to destroy the Soviet Empire. We did it with intention to make a difference. To bring light into a darkened place. Again, intention, service. This is what changes mankind.

ALFRED:

So again, on a similar theme, do you need to give away what you do for free? Is that 'of service?'

HANS:

Well that's all very nice and if you're in that position I say absolutely. But you can't lose the value of your service because you work for free. What I'm trying to get at is, in the Bible it says: A man is worthy of his hire. So if there's no one to pay your rent and your electricity bill and buy your food and all those wonderful things... and there are people who do that for people in service. If there isn't someone to do that for you then no, you need to charge for what you're doing. 

I've often said that it is very strange in America that if you have 3 people in service, and 2 who charge nothing, and 1 who charges say $25 or $30, who will they go and see? They will go and see the person who charges the $25 or $30. Because in our country we believe that more is better. However, that's not a license to gouge. And I've had so many people say to me: Oh, I wouldn't charge if I read. And I said: Well how would you survive? And they never yet had an answer.

ALFRED:

From my point of view, when it was a transition from giving things away to actually charging, the way I look at is: Is the person receiving more value than what you're charging?

HANS:

Yes.

ALFRED:

Are you changing their life? If you're changing their life, okay. Then do you think they really care about the $50 or $100 you're charging them?

HANS:

Exactly... exactly.

ALFRED:

Okay? 

HANS:

And I know it sounds, folks, it may sound very self-serving. But it is true that you must place a value on what you do. You simply must.

ALFRED:

Here's a good question, Hans. Does God approve if you help others and receive an income?

HANS:

Of course. I've said for years... I joke with all you kids on the Show, you think God doesn't know what it costs to live here? Come on, It invented it. Of course it does. And if you can't maintain yourself... This is what happens folks... If you're not able to maintain yourself in your service through your fees, you go into what I call survival issues. 

And survival becomes all that there is and you desperately are looking for work or you're working part-time or everything is about can I meet the rent, can I pay the bills. And when you go into that place, you lose the value of service because that's where your concentration is. You cannot be effective.

Now I also want to say one thing, Alfred, it doesn't mean that there's a license to gouge either. Be reasonable in your fees.

ALFRED:

Here's a good one, Hans. From all your years of being in service and raising your rates throughout the years, what advice can you give people? How can they make a living being in service?

HANS:

You have to start from the beginning with the intention is what I've always taught you guys. You have to start with an intention. And, we know, science now seems to understand what we've been saying - That energy follows thought. And if you have pure intention to be of service... 

Here, I'll give you an example. I knew this wonderful gal, I still do, who worked in a big Silicon Valley company, middle-management, and she was one of the best clairvoyants I had ever met. This was a couple of years ago and she was just a crackerjack. But she said to me: Hansie, I can't make a living at it. And I said: Well here's what I want you to do. I said: Do you have Psychic Fairs around your area? She said: Oh, yeah. I said: Okay. I said: Go and register for those Psychic Fairs and they'll make you charge a minimum, little fee, and I said: Begin to do more and more of those as you can. Wherever you can, give some service away, volunteer, do things for people, so that you begin to build up an understanding that it isn't about money, it's about the service. However, the money is important.

Now, I'm not sitting here today telling you she makes as much money as she did when she was full-time at the computer company. However, what she did was learn to balance the two together. So she works 3 days with one, and 4 days with another. So it does work out.

ALFRED:

And that's a really hard thing is that a lot of times it's not a clean transition from being in corporate or to make money.

HANS:

Exactly, Alfred. Here's one of the things that I think that happens for many people who are so incredibly believing and wanting, Alfred, to serve and all that... And they say: Now God will open the doors and I'll walk out of one into the other.

Normally, children, that does not happen. Normally, there's a foot-path. I remember, Alfred, when you first got started, and you were so frustrated because it didn't happen in your perception. And yet, I said: Keep going, keep going. And gradually, the Spirit balances your energy and before you even know it, someone says: I'd like to give you this. And they'll give you $25 or $50 or $100 and you'll look at them and they'll say: Oh no, that was worth that to me.

And slowly the Spirit then opens... See, you already are abundant as we've all worked on abundance issues. So what you're doing is by saying: I'm going to harmonize myself with my abundance through service. It takes a little time. But, oh, don't lose your patience please. Okay?

ALFRED:

Yes. A lot of people say they wind up having to work two jobs for a little while...

HANS:

But that's fine. You know what that shows, Alfred? That shows Spirit your intention to serve. If you're willing to stretch yourself... I was talking to Alfred the other night and I said: You know I drove over a million miles in my service. I flew over a million and a quarter. And I went to lectures where there were only 6 to 8 people in the audience. I drove over snowy mountains, and through snowy passes, and ice, and skidding, and all that, to see 4 people because they had signed up. They were showing me their intention, now I needed to show them mine.

I remember when Brian Weiss was coming into the Central Valley in California. And he came to do a lecture and there were either 6 or 8 people in the audience. And what did he do? He just said: Alright everybody, come on down to just these front seats here. Let's just be a family today. We'll sit in our living room. And that's what service is. It's not having an expectation of, oh, if you don't have... 

I'll give you an example. I was to do a lecture recently. It was a 3 hour class and the people sponsoring it said: Well, you know, we only have 12 people who have signed up. And Alfred and I said: Oh, that's just fine. And when we got there we noticed that a class was letting out because there were all these people in the room and I assumed the class was letting out. I said: Well how soon can they get out because we've got to get started. We have a time limit on the room. And they said: No, these are your people. There was 137 people in the room.

Set your intention and Spirit will fill the vacuum. Okay?

ALFRED:

And a lot of this has to do with 'patience.'

HANS:

Oh Lord... Don't you dislike that word, Alfred? (Laughing) Patience...

ALFRED:

Patience. And no matter what religion or spirituality...always patience is a virtue.

HANS:

I remember when Alfred would holler and jump up and down and carry on... "I'm tired of waiting." Remember those days, Alfred?

ALFRED:

Yes... (Hans and Alfred laughing) Waiting... waiting and being patient.

HANS:

It is a lesson but it brings me, Alfred, always back to that old saying: And what makes you think anything is wrong? These lessons, if you watch them through the years as we give them to you, you will see, kids, how they weave themselves together and form a tapestry of trust and belief. Yes, Great One?

ALFRED:

Well that seems to be the end of the topic for today, Hans. What do you think?

HANS:

Yes. 

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