“What If Nothing Is Wrong- by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“What If Nothing Is Wrong- by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: What If Nothing Is Wrong

February 7, 2015

Hans:

Hello everybody. Thank you for being on-board with us today. Today's topic is "What if Nothing is Wrong?" I've noticed with the questions there is this sort of flow of concern that comes with almost every question. And I've addressed this before but I'm going to try to see if I maybe work it a little differently to help you out. Every time you send in a question, I want you to notice the manner in which you send the question. I am always here, along with Spirit, to answer any question, no matter what. Always happy to be so, without having a judgment of where you're coming from or what's going on. But Spirit is taking this opportunity to maybe give us a little lesson on love and acceptance. In other words, knowing that everything is okay. It is only our perceptual mind that is taking an unknown and making it a wrong for us. Making it scary for us. 

For instance, someone says: this person isn't responding to me the way I would hope that she would respond to me, can you tell me if she's going to respond to me? Spirit will say, at that point: Now, now. What's the importance? Why do you need this to happen? And why are you making it sound like there's something wrong if she doesn't respond to you? Because in the Spirit they operate out of "exactly's," as I call them. Something either "is" or "it is not." They don't have a gray place, like maybe it could be or maybe it could happen. So right now, what they're trying to help you all to understand is, coming from a basic place of spiritual reality, that nothing is really wrong. And if you want answers to the question, it's just out of curiosity, nothing more. But so many people, when you listen to their questions... Now we have 2 groups of questions that we're going to be answering this week because we were traveling. And so everyone listen to the questions and feel the concern from the individual. If you remove the concern of the situation from you and simply have a quiet knowing, it is what it is and will be what it's going to be. Without having expectation, all the concern, the worry, the fussing, starts to disappear. 

I know a lady, who I'm very fond of, who is worried and concerned about every single solitary thing in her life and she does it every waking moment of her life. What if the coffee maker is broken? What if I can't make coffee? What if there's ice on the step and I can't go get my mail? And she starts with this the moment she wakes up. And her life, for someone who is financially as blessed as she is, her life is simply miserable because of the concerns. So her questions are always directed at: is this going to happen, is my mother going to understand what I'm saying, how long do I have to wait for an answer from this company. She just never stops it. And therefore she disturbs her ease. And she's constantly ill. 

When you're asking a question, try not to make it sound like your life depends on the answer. Because it really doesn't. And I know about those heart ones, those love questions, I understand those. But sometimes you get questions from individuals who already know the answer to the question but they're asking it anyway. And all of you can see where that comes from. Does he love me? Well now you know the answer to that. Because if he loves you, you know it. Does she want to stay with me? You know the answer to that question also. Because if you're asking it, there is doubt. And if there is doubt there is a problem. You see? 

So the way our world operates is in a constant flux of survival. This constant flux of: will I get this job, is this going to happen, is that going to happen, does my partner love me, are my kids going to be okay... It's a non-stop flow of fear and uncertainty. So I want everyone to start going back to a quiet, simple place. So I think a good place, Alfred, for everyone to start and graduating to that peaceful place is for them to listen to "You Are Enough." 

Alfred:

Yes. A lot of it has to do with you understanding that you don't need anything. Everything that you need is available to you in the moment.

Hans:

Yes, you already have it.

Alfred:

And it is through things like worrying that you separate yourself from that which you have and place yourself into a place of limitation, a humanness place, a place of suffering, pain, by worrying about it, by trying to find that which is already available to you. By focusing on the You Are Already Enough and everything you need is available to you if you simply have faith, have trust, believe in what we're telling you, then all of a sudden that which you're looking for will appear.

Hans:

Yes. So asking questions to clarify things that you already know is you trying to change the outcome of what you already know to make it what you would like to see and hear. That doesn't work well. You know, you can fit a square peg in a round hole if you shave the peg to make it fit. But does that mean that's supposed to be in that hole? A whole other thing entirely. So what I want all of you to understand is that you have a resource here with Alfred and I that can basically change the outlook of your life. And when you change the outlook of your life, you change the direction of your life. You see? So when we say: What if you woke up tomorrow morning and found out that nothing was wrong? It's really hard to wrap your head around that. When I first said that to Alfred he said you're full of prunes. So the more he worked on that, the easier it got. Yes, Alfred?

Alfred:

And it is something that can be worked on. It is part of the inner work. It really is removing those aspects of you that think you have to be in control, that you have to protect yourself, that the outcome is up to you, you get what you negotiate. It's by removing the things that protect you by focusing on your goals. All of these things were beat into us. We all know what they are. And it is through the inner work, by removing them piece by piece, brick by brick, that you're much more able to be in the moment. To understand that there's nothing more important than to be connected with universe, to be in-sync with your Guidance, to just simply be in bliss and listen to what the Other Side has to tell you. Even if they tell you: Everything's fine, everything's okay. Your job is to "not to understand," to just have faith that what they're telling you is the truth. By questioning, by trying to understand, you separate yourself from that which you're trying to get. If that makes any sense at all.

Hans:

It makes sense. Thank you. Try to write that down will you?

Alfred:

Yes.

Hans:

What I've noticed throughout the years we've been on the radio with you is that questions from a lot of people come in to us from a place of fear, a place of doubt, a place of unknowing. When if we could teach you to simply know that there wasn't anything wrong. Only our perception of what is going on. That's what's telling us. Our perception is telling us something is wrong. You see? So just look at this as a new way of being, a new way of learning for this new year. Okay? That this is a time now when everyone can start to let in all the light, all the hope, all the joy that is theirs, without having that filter of fear. That filter that says: Well this could happen, or that could happen, or what if this doesn't happen, how will it affect that? And we build up this scenario of fear and doubt. 

And sometimes when things happen to us that appear bad, well it's actually a blessing in disguise. And if we knew that in advance, we would be able to say: Well, that's the way it was supposed to be so I'm good with that, I'm on the right track. Now your mind chatter's going to come in and is going to tell you a whole new story. Like if you break up with someone, for instance. You'll going to run all of this stuff by about what you might or could have said better, what they could have said, or why didn't this work. Be grateful in the moment, bless the relationship, bless that person who has been with you, wish them well, no guilt, and move on. Because the best is yet to be. 

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“The Pain of Lost Expectations” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“The Pain of Lost Expectations” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: The Pain of Lost Expectations

October 25, 2014

Alfred:

Hello everyone and welcome to GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE - Wisdom for Your Soul. This is Alfred, the Padawan to the Modern Day Mystic himself, Hans Christian King. He's going to be joining us in a few seconds, but first the housekeeping. I want to say Thank You All - everyone of you has been "sharing" what we do on Facebook. We're ever so grateful for when you do "share" what we do with your friends, and by telling them that you believe in us, you help us reach out and help others. We don't do any traditional advertising, so thank you very much for helping us get the world out!

And of course, if you haven't seen already on Facebook, we have our Random Acts of Kindness Contest. If you do "share" what we do or if you RT (re-tweet) then we will randomly pick people to get all kinds of goodies - Audio Lessons, Classes, and other kinds of wonderful stuff. We love to keep the positive karma going. So no expectations, but we may pick you if you happen to help "share" or RT (re-tweet) what we're doing out in social media.

And for today's topic: "The Pain of Lost Expectations". So without further ado, I present the Modern Day Mystic himself, Hans Christian King.

Hans:

Hello everyone. Welcome to the show. Alfred, can I participate in that Contest on Facebook?

Alfred:

Absolutely Hans, if you'd like to win your own products.

Hans:

(Laughing) Well that might be nice. I could give them to somebody else. You know folks, throughout my lifetime in service, there is one recurring theme that is extremely painful for a lot of people. If you listen, everyone, to the questions that people send in, there sort of is a theme. Now what is that theme? A lost expectation. 

How do we get to lost expectations? In our humanness, we from time to time, have a strong feeling in our heart or in our mind that we should know this person or we should move to this place or we should be doing this kind of a job or we should be doing this service work of some kind... And oftentimes, the expectation isn't met.

Let's go to relationships folks. A lot of people will say to me: But Hans I knew it in my heart. Let's talk about the gals first, then we'll talk about the guys. Gals, a lot of times you see somebody, and there's this thug that comes in the chest and you just feel that you know this person, you just feel that you want to have something to do with this person, even perhaps become lovers and partners. And this is very strong, and this is POW! it just hits you so hard. But nothing happens. And the person is very nice to you. They talk to you about their partner or what they're doing, but you don't see a lean in towards a relationship. What is happened there is most likely you have met someone from a previous lifetime. So it isn't just the mind and the heart, the soul recognizes that person. And when the soul recognizes that person, it hones right in, and says: Oh, there's my old friend; Oh, there's my old husband, my old wife... Okay?

But what you're doing is,what you've heard me refer to before as "soul crossing". Where you just go by each other to say hello and be remembered. But the humaneness of you sets an expectation. And when the humanness of you sets an expectation, because you believe, you tell God you would like a response to your expectation, even if God, the Spirit, is trying to say to you: Just passing by.  You don't want to hear that, you don't want to know that, you don't want to project into this. Because you "know", because you have this "feeling". So this feeling of "I know that person, and I know I'm going to be with that person"... A lot of the times comes out of the need to be loved. It comes out of a need to be "seen", a need to be "accepted", a need to be someone's "everything". Even though it isn't to be, for you. I cannot tell you how many people Spirit and I counsel a week just listening to people talk about they know that this person is to be in their life. And sometimes, no matter what I say, no matter what I do, they don't want to hear it.

You might check around yourself, see if there's some things in here that you might be holding onto with expectations that you may want to say: Is this causing me pain? Alfred, what do you say on this? I always like to bring Alfred in when it's like a deer in the headlight moment...

Alfred:

Expectations are a very difficult spiritual lesson. Yet, this lesson can have really profound results...

Hans:

Absolutely.

Alfred:

...in terms of your peace and happiness. Expectation is the mind's view of what should happen, the outcome, in the future. So what you're looking at is getting your humanness, your mind chatter involved as to what it thinks the future should be. Spirituality as we all know is surrendering the future, being in the moment, and letting go of those things that we desire, or our mind chatter tells us we should have. And that's where we get ourselves in trouble is when our mind sets us up to expect something in our life and it doesn't happen. The mind has a really hard time understanding: Well, why didn't this happen?

Hans:

Exactly. And oftentimes Alfred, I'm sure you've found, like I have, that the mind often blames the Spirit or blames God. Why didn't God do this for me? Why didn't God give me this? This is what I wanted. I knew it would happen. And we kind of get ourself in a belief trauma as well.

Alfred:

Yes, and a lot of spirituality is about surrendering. It's about being peaceful and happy in the moment. About being grateful for what you have. Realizing that your glass is half full. Having an expectation is that my glass is going to be completely full, or it's going to be more full than it already is. The opposite is: No, I'm peaceful and grateful where I am in the moment.

Hans:

Very good. Thank you Alfred. That's the key right there - being peaceful in the moment. Not setting an expectation. Folks, do you think the Spirit doesn't know what's in your heart? Do you think they don't know your longing, your needs, your desires? Of course they do. But they also know your plan. They have a carbon copy of your dharma. They know where you're supposed to be and who you're supposed to be with. But in the game of life, as we see it, people come by us, who we recognize and we think: Oh, there's my soul mate.

Now let's go away from relationships for a minute and go to expectations regarding things that you would like to have in your life - a new house, a new car, a new job... Let's go to job. A lot of times we set our expectations for a new position, if we don't have a job, we set our expectations for a job. But when we do that. we also fantasize into it about how it needs to look so we can be okay with it. Rather than say: I'm available for that perfect job that is for me at this time. Not tomorrow, not next week, at this time. Thank you for bringing the doors for this to me.

We set our statement, and then we add all of these little subtleties to it, and before you know it, what was just getting you a maintenance job for a moment,  has turned into this lifelong dream of yours to do this or do that. So lost expectations come about when we set them. So the expectation happens when we say... Rather than say: I would like the feeling and I would like the awareness of this particular thing...and I would enjoy seeing how this might be in my life and letting it go...and I would say: to my highest good always. 

So they get it, they hear where you're coming from. You're not saying you're going to be less than if it doesn't happen. You're already enough as you right now. You don't need anything whatsoever. You might like the experience of something. And as Alfred would throw in: And here's how I would like to feel in the experience. That's how you set, what we call today, expectations. Where we don't say: And I want it to show up this way, and I need for this person to love me, and I need this particular job... And all these things that we do in our humanness. They're roadblocks. Somebody wrote, Alfred, I don't know who, but they said: "Expectations are limitations". You remember that?

Alfred:

Expectations are a limitation because it is something that your mind chatter created. It's part of ego, maybe it's something that you saw on television, maybe it's something that your parents told you you deserved, maybe you're trying to live up to the Jones or your friends, and unknowingly you set an expectation of "this is what I want in my live" and it becomes a limitation because everything else that comes across that doesn't look like what your mind is telling you you should have, is now instantly dismissed. However, how do you know what is being presented to you isn't for your highest good? A person that may not meet all of your items on your list may be your soul mate.

Hans:

Yes.

Alfred:

However, you have an expectation written down in your list of what your soul mate should look like and the Other Side presents you with your soul mate and you dismiss that person. So having an expectation, having an opinion, a judgment of what should be in your life and what it should look like is an absolute limitation because then you are dismissing, without even a consideration, those things that Spirit presents to you.

Hans:

Folks, sometimes when we set our agenda, we sort of say to Spirit, taking off on what Alfred was just talking about: And this is how I want it to look, and this is how I want it to arrive. If you have perfect faith, if you believe, then you tell the Spirit what you would like the experience of and that's it...and how you would like to feel. Those two things. I think two-thirds of all the questions that come into this radio show are from lost expectations. If you go back and you listen to all the show... My gosh Alfred, how many shows have we done now? Quite a few...

Alfred:

Four years...about four years.

Hans:

Well that's almost 200 shows. And many of you are the ones who are in the pain of the lost expectation. Folks, I'm not saying it isn't painful. But what you don't realize is why would you want someone who doesn't want you? Why would you do that to yourself? Why would you put yourself in that position? And I hear people say all the time: Oh, I knew that they were for me. I knew it. It's their fault. They're not living up to what they're supposed to do. And very rarely, but it does happen, that's true. But Spirit always has a contingency for a contingency for every contingency.

So if you're supposed to be loved at a certain level, you will be. It may not be by this person. But they bring another person in and you'll say: Oh, I'm so glad that I didn't get first person because this person really works wonderful for me. Letting go of expectations regarding parents. This is the tough one folks. When you let go of the pain and the expectations of the parents, your life gets so much easier. Does it not Alfred?

Alfred:

It really does because then you stop putting energy towards something that might happen in the future. That's number one is you think that thing in the future will actually fix you. If this happens, then I'll be happier, if this person comes into my life, I'll be better. And the reality is, by letting go of anything that has to do with the future, the past, as we all know also, helps you become more peaceful and happy and blissful and joyful in the moment. Expectations are a reflection of what's happened in our past and projects us out into our future which takes us away from being grateful in the moment. So again, it's a huge step towards your spiritual growth to let go of expectations in order for you to be grateful and peaceful in the moment.

Hans:

Folks, many of you run on a time constraint. Oh, I'm getting old, Oh, if I get much older I can't have children, will she still want me when I get to be 50? We run under this fear umbrella of we're running out of time. Folks, there is no time. Oftentimes when the Spirit speaks to you, they say something, they're saying that person will be in your life, probably coming up next lifetime. Not always this one. So letting yourself simply learn to "be" with no expectations. I'm here in this moment, this is the experience I would like to have, I give it to you to do for me to my highest good, and bring those doors to me. Then you're saying: I trust you. I know that this pain in my heart really is self induced. 

And one thing in lost expectations, children, never, ever, ever, become a victim or make the other person a villain. I know clients who have made other people villains in their life only because they didn't live up to this person or that person's expectation of how that person would be. So they pre-set the expectation of how it had to be. But the other person wasn't at that spot. But that doesn't make any difference. Because these people say: Oh, but I knew it was for me, there was no doubt it was for me, and I'm coming to stick this out.

One of the biggest things that people do is when they fall in love with married people, or committed people. I know she's for me, I know he's for me, and I know they're going to leave that person, and I know they're going to be with me. What you are picking up is your experience of that person from a previous lifetime and you get confused about this. If a person is in a relationship, you need to honor that and walk away - period. Under almost any circumstance. If that relationship is to be, it will show up somewhere down the road with you having absolutely no expectations, and nothing to do with it. Okay?

Now, as you go through your life, there are going to be moments when you see someone or something you would really, really like the experience of. Sit down, be quiet, and say to Spirit: I don't know if this situation or this person is for me. But I am available if they are. I'm available to my highest good. Please show me where I need to be with this issue and drop it. Make yourself, of course, available in your heart, but have no expectation of how it has to happen, how it has to show up. 

I know a person, a couple of months ago, who met a person on an airplane. And they struck up a conversation and he was a married person and this girl felt she knew him and she started running all the fantasies and what have you... She drove herself to the point where she had to go to the hospital in a panic attack because he had not called her. When he never said he would. But she knew it, in her heart, that he was going to call. This is what I'm talking about when we disturb our peace, when we disturb our ease. Okay? 

So having a quiet awareness that where you... Folks, why do you think Alfred and I talk so much about being in the now? Making this moment right now all there is. I am enough. Why do you think we do that? Because it's only the mind that brings attachments to the peace. The heart doesn't have to. Only the mind disturbs the peace. The heart never does. So when we learn: Oh, I got to feel something, isn't that wonderful, I'm still alive...

The other day Alfred and I were walking somewhere and the wind was whistling and Alfred's dressed up looking like a polar bear, you can't even see his face with the hoodie he's got on. and I'm in a T-shirt. And he said something and I said under my breath: Yes, but at least I have feelings. I can feel it. Isn't that wonderful? Feeling the cold wind on your face, feeling the Caribbean sand in your feet, feeling a smile on your face when you see a puppy... Those are the things folks, that are important.

So the greatest gift you give yourself is to stop expectations and replace them with a knowing and an understanding that Spirit is here for you. They know what's supposed to be for you. Let them do their work and many times their work does not show up in your expectation. Alfred, what did Mick Jagger say in that song? You don't always get what you want...

Alfred:

...but if you try sometimes you just might find you get what you need.

Hans:

There is a metaphysical statement if ever there was one. So where you already are, right now folks, is perfect. Have you ever noticed everyone that no matter how bad things seem to get, somehow you always get through? No matter how broke you are, no matter how poor you may be in a moment, somehow, something happens and you get through? Have you ever noticed that when you've had a relationship you think it's your end-all, be-all, and this person says: I'm sorry it doesn't work for you. Your heart is broken, it's shattered and on the floor. A year later you wonder what you ever saw in the person because you're with somebody else. 

Just being peaceful, in the moment, will bring to you all the lessons you need to learn. So less expectations is less pain. Alfred, I think that will conclude the lesson for today.

“Ebola and Fear” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“Ebola and Fear” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Ebola and Fear

October 18, 2014

Alfred:

Hello everyone and welcome to GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE. This is Alfred, the Padawan Learner to the Modern Day Mystic himself, Hans Christian King. We have a very relevant topic today: Ebola and Fear. If you want to know Spirit's perspective of Ebola, listen on. 

But a little bit of housekeeping. We've got Jennifer, who takes care of our Appointment Calendar, to let us know what's going on next week.

Jennifer:

Yes, Alfred. We have 2 Events coming up this week. The first is on Monday, October 20th, and it's a Live Q & A on Energized Living Today, and that will be at 2:00 p.m. Pacific Time, and 5:00 p.m. Eastern Time. And on Thursday, October 23rd, we have a replay of Awakening To Abundance and the topic is Spirituality In The Now. These will all be posted on Facebook and if any other Events pop up, we'll put them on Facebook too. Thank you.

Alfred:

Great Jennifer. Thank you very much for that. Last week we had a Q & A and there were hundreds of people on the line. Hans talked to many of them for well over an hour and I suspect that this is another opportunity for you to call in. It's your chance to talk directly to Hans King. So as with the announcement of the Live Q & A Session that happened last week and is happening this week, you can get a lot of opportunities to either talk to Hans, listen to Interviews, get Daily Quotes from Hans King by "liking" us on Facebook. Or if you're a Twitter person, you can "follow" us on Twitter. That's the way we get the word out. Of  course, also through our Monthly Newsletter. 

If you join up, or anybody else joins up for our Monthly Newsletter, you get a free MP3 Audio Lesson. Not just when you sign up, but also each month. So free chances to talk to Hans, "follow" us on Facebook, free Daily Quotes, "follow" us on Facebook or join us on Twitter. Free MP3's and what's going on - we send out just one email a month. We never, ever give out your information. Join our Newsletter. And since these are the only ways that we reach out to you, we really appreciate it when you "share" our Newsletter, "share" our Quotes on Facebook or Re-Tweet (RT) us. We really appreciate that you support us in what we do. We're here to be of service and if you can help us help others, we're very grateful. So on to the topic of the day: Ebola and Fear. So Hans, what does Spirit think about the News that's going across the U.S. and also internationally, about Ebola?

Hans:

Well they're a little bit perplexed to be perfectly frank with you. Although they admit that Ebola is certainly something to be concerned about, the hysteria that's being created is almost as bad. Let's put this in proper perspective. One person in the United States has died from Ebola who had come to the country from West Africa. A terrible tragedy indeed. Another person has been infected. We have a nation here of approximately 318 to 320 million people. One and half people, and yet the Radio Shows, the TV Shows, the Newspapers, the Magazines, are simply terrifying people. Airline traffic, passenger traffic is dropping. People are canceling trips to Europe, the Middle East. 

And I have to say to all of you, with due respect, why is it this country feels it needs to be led by fear? If it isn't fear of one thing, it's fear of something else. You all remember the Swine Flu "the epidemic", the peril, all running to the Doctors and getting the shot? You remember all that?

Alfred:

Then there was "The Bird Flu".

Hans:

The Bird Flu was another one. Remember all that? It's spreading all over Europe, it's coming to the U.S., it's going to kill thousands. We find out later that there was no epidemic. The normal amount of people who get it, got it. So we have to sit down sometime and ask ourself why we allow the Media to destroy our peace, to destroy our ease. And this is what the Spirit is asking me to say to you: Please stop being afraid. Your chances of getting Ebola are so remote as almost not being able to calculate. 

I have a dear lady friend of mine in Los Angeles who is so terrified for her children, of Ebola, that she has made herself sick and she's had to put herself in bed. Now folks, enough is enough now. I don't know what it is, but no other country that I know of terrifies itself of as much as the United States does. You won't find this fear in Canada, you won't find it Mexico, you won't find it in England, or Japan, or China, or Australia. You'll only find it here in the U.S.

Alfred:

Well actually let's talk about that.

Hans:

Yes.

Alfred:

Let's talk about why it's here in the U.S. Let's talk about advertising specifically. There's two types of advertising that I can think of off the top of my head and I love to get Spirit's opinion on these two. Number one - Fear someone might break into your house. Fear that someone might take something away from you. Fear that something could possibly happen.

The second fear is - Fear that you're not good enough. Fear that you're not thin enough, fear that you're not pretty enough.

Hans:

Yes, but Alfred we're taught this.

Alfred:

Exactly. So what's the spiritual perspective on buying products because they tell you something might or possibly could happen, Hans?

Hans:

Well Spirit's point of view is when you're doing this, you say: I don't believe. I don't trust. No folks, I'm not saying to get on a Liberian Airliner and fly to West Africa. No, no. I'm saying, don't be afraid of it. Don't pick up Newspapers whose headlines are there to scare you. Don't turn on the News. All of these people on the News, and all these Talk Shows, even my MSNBC, FOX, all of these, are here for nothing but their "opinions" to be printed or heard aloud. "Opinions". Think about it folks. They're reporting as "fact", "opinions". Have you ever noticed on one of the channels...well, I'll just say it, FOX Alert, Alert. Red lights flashing. It's nothing more than a story. It's nothing that's happened.

All this fear, Alfred, is based on, as you put it so succinctly, is based on what "might" happen. Not what has happened, not actually what's going to happen. But what "might" happen. The President doesn't know what to do. The CDC doesn't know what to do. They're trying desperately to stop the spread of fear which is far worse than the spread of Ebola in our country.

Alfred:

So let's talk about spiritual principles - about what "might", "possibly", "could", happen. Those are all of the things people consider what might happen in the "future".

Hans:

Yes.

Alfred:

Okay? The future has to do with worrying. Worrying about what "might" happen. And Hans, I think one of the basic spiritual principles that we try to teach is: If you trust and believe that God has you, that you're on your right path, you instead focus on your peace and joy in the moment.

Hans:

That's right. And yes there are things... Something came into my life today that just hit me out of nowhere folks. Just being up front with you kids. Just knocked me flat for a second. Like "Oh, that's interesting. I didn't know that I had to do that". Nothing is really wrong everybody, just unexpectedly "something" happened. And I vented about it for a couple minutes about it to Alfred, and he reminded me of my teachings, which made me want to take him and shake him, but he was right. In that moment I kind of lost it for a little bit. That's the goodness of being in human form, folks.  You're allowed that little frailty every once in awhile. What is it that we teach you? We're just baby angels in form, therefore we're entitled to our human frailties every once in awhile. Laugh at it. I did. I made it better. I'm fine with it now. It'll work out. It's not my problem. Somebody else will handle it. I'll be fine. 

I'll give you an example folks. Everybody remembers Fukushima...the atomic reactor in Japan that broke. I have friends who the husband has been offered a six figure job, and they need the money, they really require the money. They've got four kids, two of them about to enter College. And he's been offered this job in Hawaii. But the wife is so horrified of the huge radiation levels in Hawaii, that she doesn't know is true at all, she wants him to not take the job. And Spirit says: Don't be ridiculous. Of course take the job. The children and you are just fine. 

So what happened there? The News Media took the leak and blew it out of all current proportions...

Alfred:

And wasn't that just a single student's theory on what "might" happen?

Hans:

That is correct Alfred. So this single student has been monitoring the spread of the radioactivity. Oh, it hit California...the debris is just now coming to the Pacific Northwest. Folks, you get more radiation every single day of your life by watching television. These are the scientific facts. But the fear, our need... And Alfred, I'm going to put it that way, "our need to be afraid". And this is something that I don't understand Alfred.

Alfred:

Alright. Well let's look at that from a spiritual standpoint.

Hans:

Hold on, hold on. I'm going with you. I had a lady today who was terrified of something she had made up in her mind and what I said to her: Well, do you know this is a fact? She says: No, but they'll be nothing there. It'll be a blank space. And she said: And I'm afraid. I said: You're afraid of what? She said: I'm afraid of what I don't know. I said: How in the name of all that's holy can you be afraid of something you don't know? And Alfred, that dovetails into what you were talking about. We're taught to be afraid of what we don't know. 

Alfred:

Exactly and that is again the opposite of what our spiritual teachings are which is: No, you are perfect just the way that you are. 

Hans:

Yes.

Alfred:

Okay. Let's look at all the other types of, shall we say, fear based advertising. Fear that you're not good enough, fear that you won't be recognized, fear that you're overweight, fear that you're too thin, fear that you're not too healthy, fear that you're eating the wrong thing. All of those fears have to do again with -  you're not good enough in the moment - and you need something to be better.

Hans:

Yes.

Alfred:

If you're in tune with your soul, if you're in harmony with the universe, you'll realize that anyone, anyone, can connect to Spirit and be in absolute perfect bliss within a minute, within a couple of seconds, within a very short time and that is your connection to the universe. And all of these things about trying to make you better, separate you, not make you better, separate you, isolate you.

Hans:

But here, Alfred, take this into consideration. The CDC - Centers for Disease Control have really been helpful for our people for a long, long time. The CDC said for us to stop worrying. There will be no spread of Ebola to the U.S. Watch the fear mongers who have been trying to take the CDC, pull it apart, to prove a theory that they have is correct and the CDC is wrong. They need to prove to us the fear is here. They're attacking our security, they're attacking the President, they're attacking the government, because they say they are lying to us. 

But they have no proof of that and they never will. So that deep-seated need to be afraid... And Alfred, I'm going to stick my neck out here, there are some News Media outlets that truly need to be called forward and become more responsible for what they're saying, on all issues. They are scaring their people. Alfred, you have a lovely couple that you know, who live by the word of these people. And don't they have guns everywhere and aren't they packing stuff and terrified?

Alfred:

Yes. Some of the sweetest people that I know, for some reason...

Hans:

And they are absolutely sweet people.

Alfred:

...live in a very Republican county and because everybody else listens to FOX News, they listen to FOX News and he has not one, but multiple guns in the house. I'm not talking little guns, I'm not talking the big guns that you see on television and in the movies. Because somebody might enter the house, and it might be D-Day, and they have a SUV in case they might need to drive off-road and...

Hans:

It's never ending.

Alfred:

...and these people are the absolute sweetest, kindest, gentlest people otherwise. But for some reason they're invested in believing what FOX News says. 

Hans:

Yes.

Alfred:

That is the power of Media.

Hans:

Here's Spirit's lesson. One of the things Spirit has always taught me, and I've always taught all of you, is that fear is choice. You're not naturally born with fear. Fear is a choice. You're born with a need to be loved, held. That's what you're born with. So fear is a foreign agent that has entered into you. 

Now let's say your mother was extremely fearful when you were pregnant.  There's a decent chance you may be a little fearful also. But most people are fairly well balanced. So you have to ask yourself why do I make a choice to scare myself? Why? What is it inside of me that is so painful that I need to torture myself with fear? So it's a really good spiritual lesson. And the lesson is: Are you not good enough to not be afraid? Which is, Alfred, what you were talking about earlier.

Alfred:

Okay. Ask that question again please. I was checking something.

Hans:

Okay. What I'm trying to say is you have to ask yourself WHY is it that you feel, whoever you are, need to listen to situations, read situations, watch situations, that disturb your ease? And what I was saying dovetails into what you were talking about being "taught” fear and doubt.

Alfred:

A lot of it has to do with anxiety. There's this thing called adrenaline. Okay? And fear, as far as I can tell, I'm not a doctor here but I'm remembering my human experiences, is that rush of control, that rush of trying to control the outcome, that total feeling of being in control...

Hans:

That's a misnomer. We're not in control of anything. 

Alfred:

Yes, in essence, going so far into being human, testosterone, Eeerrr, that type of stuff, it gives you a little bit of a high.

Hans:

Yes, but it's a false high.

Alfred:

Exactly, but I'm talking about why do people do it.

Hans:

It's because they're taught that that rush is okay.

Alfred:

Yes. We're taught that it's good to be in control.

Hans:

Did you know Alfred, that that same rush can be turned into a rush of spirituality?

Alfred:

And that's why we're here...and that's why they listen.

Hans:

What is it that you call it? A natural high? It can be termed the same rush, which actually depletes your net energy, can be turned around and focused into the Spirit.

Alfred:

And that's why people listen to us, which is to say: What other option is there? What other choice is there than to give into the fear, do what the advertisers tell us, follow the crowd? Okay, what we're telling you is: Trust, faith and belief.

Hans:

Yes. You know, early days when you were first getting started, something happened to you, and I'll tell you what happened. One day I said to you: Go out and look at that rose. And you went on and you said: What? I said: Go out and look at that rose. And I had a spectacular rose that was blooming. And Alfred went out and he started looking at the rose. and he was out there looking, and turning his head, and he's looking all around. And he came back in and said: I got a natural rush after looking at the rose. Remember that?

Alfred:

Yes. And that's what we're trying to tell is it's more important to have faith, trust and belief, and to live in the moment, than it is to be in control. It is by being in control that you're separate of the beauty, the joy of life. You separate yourself "from" the oneness of God, you separate yourself "from" your Guidance. By being in control, the Other Side looks at you and says: Hmm, okay, how's it working out for you? 

Hans:

Exactly. So this is a wonderful opportunity for everyone to learn the value of simplicity in peace. Here's one thing I want all of you to look at. Have you ever noticed everyone, that all of the dire predictions over the last 25 years that have been given to us by these naysayers, have never come true?

Alfred:

Oh, I have a joke Mr. Nostradamus being reincarnated and making predictions...

Hans:

(Laughing)

Alfred:

You know they tried to say that Nostradamus, 500 years ago, predicted what happened with the planes in New York City?

Hans:

Hmm...

Alfred:

Because they said: Oh, there is truth in these fear predictions.

Hans:

Yes. Folks, most of you don't know what Alfred is talking about here. There is a book out by a friend of mine, Walter Semkiw, and in the book, it's a good book, by that I mean it's rather interesting. His theory is that I am the reincarnation of Nostradamus. It's in that book, it's in several other books. It's in a new book that's coming out of India and another one in Australia. I can't say anything to that, other than, he was not always correct. Okay? And I think that's what Alfred is trying to get at.

Alfred:

No. They're saying that Nostradamus, a great predictor of, in this case a horrible catastrophe, actually did predict a huge catastrophe. 

Hans:

Yes.

Alfred:

When people make these predictions you should listen.

Hans:

Folks, it's as silly as the following, saying to the 14 million people who live in Southern California: Folks, there's going to be a major earthquake, you need to be prepared. Every single day 8 million people are flying around the world in a plane somewhere. Folks, I'm going to predict that one of these days shortly,  there's going to be a major airplane crash. Okay? Living in a hurricane zone, a tornado zone... Anybody can predict, folks, that something's going to happen. And when it does, they say: Oh look! It's been happening for millions of years. It has nothing to do with prediction. We are living on a planet that is currently growing. As I like to point out, the north end of the Golden Gate Bridge is currently growing towards Alaska, and we'll get there eventually because they'll have to start adding on to it... 

Don't be afraid, my dear friends. Stop the fear. Don't be afraid you'll run out of money. Know that you won't. Don't be afraid of your health. Know you're in good health. Don't listen to these naysayers, don't listen to these... Folks, you watch, in a month and a half, where the Ebola story is in the headlines. Watch, just watch. Folks, you remember last summer this enormous immigration problem with children and they said: Oh, they're all coming across the border and Senators were down there - how dare they let these kids in... What happened to that? Where'd it go? Where'd it go? Well I'll tell you where it went. The Mexican Government stepped in and stopped the train. That was that. U.S. Government went down to Central American countries and said we're going to send them back so there's no need in sending them. 

This constant need... And from the Ebola, we're getting ready to have it go to the Elections. Watch and see how spooky that is. And folks, let me tell you something. To be very honest you, it won't matter who wins the election this year. The country has a separate path its set upon. And that path is being brought to us bit by bit. Everyone...for those of you, and I have a dear friend of mine in Colorado who is extremely sensitive to vibrational patterns, for those of you who are very susceptible to vibrational patterns, please know all you're doing is picking up other people's fear. 

Our country's actually better off than it was a hundred years ago. It's certainly better off than when I was born. Okay? We'll get there. Just you bring the light that you are seeking in your life. You bring it to yourself.

Alrighty Alfred, I think that concludes the lesson for today.   

“Understanding Your Own Soul” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“Understanding Your Own Soul” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Understanding Your Own Soul

September 20, 2014

Alfred:

Welcome to GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE - Wisdom for Your Soul. I'm Alfred the Padawan to the Modern Day Mystic himself Hans Christian King. Say Hi to everyone Hans.

Hans:

Hello everyone. Welcome, welcome to the show, welcome to the class.

Alfred:

And we're going to see if we're going to be transferring the show from audio only to video. So we'll see what happens. Let's go over our Housekeeping for the show, as always. The Announcements for this week is there is going to be a replay of Transform Your Life By Changing Your Intentions on the Your Life Without Limits Tele-seminar. That replay is going to start on September 26. That and all the other replays we always announce on Facebook. 

And we're ever so grateful if you are "following" us. If you're not "following" us, please go to Hans Christian King1 or go to HansKing.com and look for the Facebook link and "follow" us. Not only do you get to find out when there are going to be Interviews, you're also signing up to get a Daily Quote that comes directly from Hans himself. 

And of course, we sincerely appreciate everybody who "follows" us and "shares" what we do on Facebook and Social Media. We're posting through Facebook; we're tweeting. Hans is actually tweeting on his own, specifically through Twitter once in awhile. So if you're RT (re-tweeting) or "sharing" on Facebook, we sincerely appreciate it and we are continuing with our Random Acts of Kindness. If you share what we do, we may pick you to get classes, audio or other goodies to share the good karma. Okay? I think that's pretty much it for the Announcements. 

So onto this topic. Our topic for this video is Soul Mate Relationships Part 1 - "Understanding Your Own Soul". Soul mate relationships are agreements between two souls. If you want a great soul mate relationship, make sure you're able to hold up your side of the bargain. It's difficult to have a strong relationship with other souls until you have a strong relationship with yourself. So Hans, let's start with the basics of "you"..."the soul". Can you help people understand that they are a "soul in human form"?

Hans:

Well certainly, Alfred. Thank you. One of the things that I like to remind people, that Spirit reminds me...they love saying this: We're just baby angels having a human experience. We are not the body. We are not the mind. We are simply Spirit. And when we begin to understand that... I think it's crucial for you to know that you can't have a relationship...a meaningful, powerful relationship, unless you have something to bring to the relationship. This is important. So many people look to others to define who they are. "I'm looking for my other half" or "I'm looking for my better half".

One has to realize that just who you are in this moment is all you will ever need to be. It is "perfect". No one can make you better than you are. That's simply an Old Wives Tale. Because Spirit did not make a mistake when you were created. If you are going to participate in a soul mate relationship, it takes two souls of equal power. You have your power, they have their power, and you come together in a way that you share your gifts with each other, and with those that you love. 

So soul mate relationships... In order to have a soul mate relationship, you yourself have to have a relationship with yourself. You've often heard me say Dr. James Allen's famous saying: They themselves are makers of themselves. It's very important that these little things that I say like that go home to your heart. Because what you have to understand is no other episode, no other person, is going to make you complete. That is impossible. 

Alfred:

And that's a good summary of this session. Part 1 - "Understanding Your Own Soul" and the importance of your own soul in soul mate relationships. Here's some examples of what Hans is talking about...some internal soul problems that maybe you want to take a look at if you're looking for a soul mate relationship. What we're saying is "go inwards first".

For example, Hans, are people drawn to the same type of problematic relationships?

Hans:

Yes.

Alfred:

Can you give an example of what that's like.

Hans:

Well, in relationships we already have a set karma/dharma that we wanted to work on. If we wanted to work on personal self-esteem, we might actually continue to create relationships that actually invalidate us. If we wanted to work on being good enough, we'll attract people that put us down. So it's important to remember, that what we said earlier, is that we have to arrive at relationships as  equals.

Now if you keep attracting the same relationship over and over and over again, it says you're not learning the lesson. I've had many clients who have literally had the same relationship 4, 5, 6 times with different people. Because their expectations remain the same. They never change. They want the person to be a certain way, to do a certain thing, to be treated a certain way... When they don't realize that already who they are is enough. But they have such little self-esteem sometimes that what happens is that they don't believe they're enough. And this can really affect your ability to have a loving relationship.

Alfred:

And another issue...this is a really big one with the clients that we have internally  as a soul...and these issues really do cover up the loving soul that you are. For example, do you have issues with your parents? How often does that come up Hans?

Hans:

Well, we're going to be dealing with this as we go through this class but it's huge, Alfred. It's really huge. Because it's some of the very first "learning's" that we ever allow into ourself is the judgments, or the love, or the criticism, or the acceptance, of our parents. Okay? So it's really important to understand that we are products of our humanness if we're not careful. 

If you tell a child, for instance, that when they're born that they can first start to understand how perfect they are, if you tell them how wonderful they are, if you tell them that just who they are is enough and God loves them just that way, you're going to wind up with a very balanced adult. On the other-hand, if you're born into a situation where you've chosen self-esteem as the primary lesson, then you will feel a sense of rejection, you will feel that nobody understands you, and you will line yourself up for the relationships that will absolutely invalidate you. 

So your job, literally, is to catch yourself and say: Wait a minute. That's not what I signed on for. That's not who I am. Who I am is this baby angel that God loves so much.

Alfred:

And we're just continuing on this theme right now of "why" having a stable relationship with yourself is so important to start. This is just an awareness.. For example, are you a victim? Are you bringing that victim role to your relationships? 

How many clients have you had Hans that have been victims?

Hans:

Thousands...thousands. I had two today. Thousands of people are victims of their history...their human history. Victims of false perceptions, victims of not really understanding the whole picture, and then having the mind chatter invalidate or cause problems. The mind literally works overtime in its attempt to disengage you from your spiritual essence, your soul, your heart's lesson. It works overtime in trying to create drama, guilt. It works overtime trying to make you less than you are. So that you become so dependent on the mind chatter that the heart and the soul have no place to speak, hear, or feel. 

So it's important that we learn, early days, and you can learn that all of your life, it doesn't matter how old you get, you can still learn this lesson: You are already enough. Okay?

Alfred:

And here's a good one Hans. How many times have you heard people blaming God for their problems, been blaming God for the life that they have?

Hans:

Well that's very convenient because that way you don't have to take responsibility. You can become a victim of a situation and people will feel sorry for you and again you don't have to even worry about it because you are not being responsible because it's not your fault. And as long as you continue to do that, you will never learn the lesson.

Alfred:

And what we're trying to communicate here is that in order to be a good soul in a soul mate relationship, what we want you to do is find your peace, your happiness, joy, bliss, by starting inside yourself. Okay? And what we're going to do is outline two different steps right now to help you to get to that inner love, that inner peace, that connection to your own soul, to start the relationship with your own soul, to form the relationship with your own soul, so that when you get to a soul mate relationship with others, you show up as a soul, not as trauma, not as your history, not as things that you think that happened to you. But instead you show up peaceful, happy.

The first step, and this is the basis of Hans King's teachings, is to remove the "junk" inside your mind. Otherwise known as mind chatter. Hans, walk us through very quickly how getting rid of mind chatter can help you form a relationship with yourself, your soul.

Hans:

The mind chatter is the filter by which you view the world. So the mind chatter has the judgment of everything that it sees, that it hears, that it feels. The mind chatter always reminds you that you're not quite enough. And as long as you allow the mind chatter to do this... People say: Well I'm helpless. I can't help what the mind chatter's going to say...

The other day we did a show Alfred, as you remember, and we said that: Fear and Doubt can only live in the house you build. Remember, all that's going on in your mind is attached to a house you built. You were not born this way. This is not a "naturalness". This is something that you applied at some point along the way because as children we tend to believe what our parents tell us, what society tells us, even though it's not true. And it's only when we begin to question, and we say wait a minute, that doesn't feel right to me. 

Alfred, you're very big on feelings, telling people how to "try this feeling", "try that feeling". It's very important, Alfred, for people to understand that the mind chatter is not the most important thing in their life. It's the least important thing in their life. Their humanness, their attachment, their connection to God, is of paramount importance.  And at any stage of the game, anywhere along the way, you can literally change your mind's perception. 

Alfred:

And that is a pretty good overview about the first steps in how to uncover your soul, unburden your soul, so that when you walk into a soul mate relationship it's actually you, the soul, not your perceptions, your opinions, your expectations, your trauma.

This is a very quick overview of the two different steps. We're just talking about step one right now. We'll be getting into these exercises of letting go of mind chatter, psychic development, letting go of all these things in a little more detail. Right now we're just making you aware of what is so important in soul mate relationships.

The second step that we're going to be walking you though is how to build your own self-esteem, how to love yourself, how to realize you are enough. Why is that so important when forming a relationship?

Hans:

Because all of what you just said, so rightfully so, all of that comes out of the mind chatter. It doesn't come out of the soul. It doesn't come out of the spiritual heart. No Godforce is telling you that. Spirit isn't telling you that. You are actually telling yourself something that is a lie, that it is not true. And once you begin to really understand: Wait a minute, my mind's telling me things that aren't true.

For instance, the mind will constantly warn you what "could" happen, what "might" happen...constantly. When you finally understand that it's not telling you the truth, yet you're reacting to it continuously... I have a dear client that I received information from today and this poor thing has worried about her house being sold, worried about getting a house, how all of this was going to happen... And Spirit's advice to her, continuously along this path was: Follow your heart. 

And when you understand that by following your heart, the Spirit is holding that heart in their hands and they will open the doors for all that you need, all that you require, when you stop listening to the mind chatter. Because the soul cannot operate with the Spirit when you are busy occupying that place with mind chatter.

Alfred:

How about loving yourself first Hans. Why is loving yourself so important?

Hans:

Because it's all you have Alfred, basically. You don't have anything else. You don't own any part of the body, including the mind chatter. The love of yourself is the greatest gift you give to yourself. 

You know we have a product out there called "You Are Enough". And in the opening it says: What if you discovered that tomorrow morning there was nowhere you needed to go, nothing you needed to do, no one you needed to become, nothing you needed to learn... That who you were in that moment was enough for God. I said that on The Allen Cohen Show and he said: My God, what a concept. 

You already are enough. And we're so invested, Alfred, in how we look, how we dress, the makeup we put on, the clothes we wear...I mean it's just unbelievable. The houses we live in, the cars that we drive. All this in an attempt to make us better. And that breaks Spirit's heart because they already made you perfect. You were perfect when you were born, you are perfect now. So giving yourself the gift of that awareness, that you already are enough, will change your life.

Alfred:

And these two steps that we're talking about - Step 1: Removing the "junk", removing the mind chatter and then Step 2: Of loving yourself. Realizing you're enough. Building your spiritual self-esteem. They help each other. The more mind chatter that you let go of, the more you're able to build your self confidence. The more you let go of trauma and your past, the more you're able to love yourself in the moment.

Hans:

Yes.

Alfred:

And we're going to be going through these two steps in much more detail, giving you more exercise in the upcoming lessons. But we wanted to, at least, get the point across that the most important soul in any soul mate relationship is you.

Hans:

Alfred, I received an email today from one of our Spiritual Circle Members who said that after a year he finally got it. And he said he woke up this morning and all the weight from all the fear and the doubt and the money stuff and the relationship stuff...all the stuff that he had created through the mind chatter had vanished because he had turned his life over to Spirit. He said this morning it felt like a giant weight had been lifted off of him. 

And that's what I want our dear friends out there to understand that you can, absolutely, without fail, lift all of the sadness, all the despair, all the loneliness, attract to you the perfect partner, attract to you the abundance that you seek. All of that is already there, and the only person who's blocking that is you. So giving yourself you, giving yourself the love of you, is the greatest gift you will ever give yourself.

Alfred:

Well Hans that pretty much wraps up Part 1 of Soul Mate Relationships. Anything you want to add just to wrap that up?

Hans:

Yes. Everyone can do this. This isn't reserved for enlightened people. Everyone can learn to go to the mind chatter and close the door. That's going to be the key for this week. Close the door to the mind chatter and watch and see, Alfred, how peaceful people become. This is going to be paramount and I look forward to continuing this class next week.

Alfred:

Thanks everyone for joining us in Part 1 of Soul Mate Relationships. Stay tuned for Part 2.