“Working With Spirit” (More is Really Less) - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

“Working With Spirit” (More is Really Less) - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Working With Spirit (More is Really Less)

January 10, 2015

Hans:

Hello everyone. Our topic today is "Working with Spirit." You know, I mentioned a little bit ago about my generation... We were not trained, neither the media or magazines or anything to be fearful, we weren't trained that we're not enough unless we have more. We were not trained in such a way that we were taught to devalue ourself by looking at people who suddenly are successful, therefore better then we are. None of this happened. And if you go to peaceful and calm countries, you will find it doesn't happen there either. So what we need to look at is: What disturbs our ease, what disturbs our peace? For many of us, it's watching television. For many of us, it's being so involved with our work that we become what we're doing. 

This is a really big issue, folks. Because so many people I know, their entire life, in one form or another, revolves around their work. And what they don't realize is that one day, whether they like it or they don't, it goes away completely. And if you haven't set a strong foundation of love for yourself, possibilities for yourself, possibilities in your life, then you are left dangling in the wind basically. So before that happens, we try to teach you is that the less you follow this constant  harangue of news is... remember news organizations are not only there to report what appears to be news, they're there to manufacture the news. All the pundit shows are nothing more than someone else's opinion. That's it. And we tend to buy into the fear. And so, the less fear, the less worrisome you are, the lighter and the higher you go. Alfred, how did that work for you?

Alfred:

Well that was a really tricky one to get into the habit of realizing by doing less you're actually doing more. And quite simply put, by being peaceful, you can more easily find the flow, that we've talked about previously, the energy that supports your life. You can find what things you're being guided "to" if you're not listening to your mind. You can actually listen to energy, you can listen to vibration, you can listen to your Guidance. Because they're on the Other Side working on your behalf. And you basically have two choices – do what you think is correct, which creates a disconnect energy from the Other Side – or be peaceful and listen to what the Other Side is doing on your behalf. So you can actually get more done by doing less.

Hans:

Yes. That's the key. And it doesn't mean, children, that you should not be responsible for what you put yourself in charge of – your family, your children, your spouse. It doesn't mean you shouldn't be responsible to your job. What it means is all of that is an add-on to your life. You are the source of everything else that you are part of. So you have to keep that source in very, very good condition. Not to worry, not to do things that disturb your ease, to go for walks, to watch sweet, fun movies. Saw a movie the other night called "Love Actually" and it was a wonderful, fun film. I recommend it to all of you. And just having an awareness that you're already enough and that nothing out there, all those ads, all that stuff that they talk about, none of that will ever make you better. And folks that includes going from making $30,000 a year to making $300,000 a year will not make you better than you already are. Because all of that is an illusion. The houses, the cars, all of this is an illusion. It's something that you've created.

There are two things here, you can create a luxury lifestyle simply because you love the sense of it. You love a beautiful car, you love a beautiful house. That's fine. Because that's what you do, that's not who you are. But if you acquire these things to be better, to show that you are someone, to say look at me I've made it, then you've lost the entire game. And you have to dig deep inside of your heart and say do I really need this. Do I need this dress? I have some dear clients who I'm very fond of who have turned their work into their everything. Totally. Everything. They are totally stressed out all the time because their handlers, their managers, don't live up to their expectations of what is needed and they are fearful, and they become angry and disillusioned. None of it is important. And you say, well Hans you just can't walk away from your job you've had for 25 years. That's very true. But you can change your expectations. Lower your expectations. Alfred, you went through that didn't you?

Alfred:

Yes, because most of the time when we have expectations, they're from a human perspective - what we think we should have in our life, what other people have told us we should have in our life, what the media tells us we should have in our life, what our neighbors have in their lives. Those expectations take us away, distract us from the real reasons that we came here. And that's a real mind-bender is to realize that, on purpose, you don't remember why you came here. However, those on the Other Side do remember why you came here, they do remember what you wanted to experience, and by trusting, having faith, believing that there is this structure in the Universe, they can guide you by listening, by getting in touch with the flow, by doing the inner work, they can guide you to that which you wished to experience. Anything else, anything human, will take you away, will separate you from that. So that's another way to understand how to work with Spirit is by letting go of the human aspect of expectations, what your humanness believes you should have in your life. You get in touch with the Other Side in order for them to guide you “to” that which you truly wish to experience for this lifetime.

Hans:

Absolutely. I know so many people, my friends, with incredible wealth. Wealth that would shock you. I don't know one of them who's happy. You always hear this and say well how can this be true? So many people believe that more is better. More is better. But it isn't. Hugging your kitty or your dog or your spouse, sitting by a lake, going for a walk in the park, this is better. And if you turn your income over to the Spirit, one way or the other they will help you to get through. Everyone has had a huge sense of loss during this recession which is now beginning to wind down. When I was asked back in 2008, 2009 how long would this last, the Spirit said until 2015. And everybody looked at me and they said oh no, that would never happen, never go that long, that's longer than the Great Depression. And I said it is. This is the Great Recession. And here we are now, we're getting ready to go into 2015, things are turning around, they have turned around, we have a good stock market, gas prices have come down... that while that's very good news for so many people, you also, children, must remember all the people now who are losing their jobs, who are suffering, the restaurants that cater to the oil rig workers, all of this was based on $80 oil. Well, we don't have that anymore. So the big companies have to adjust themselves and unfortunately who gets hurt is always it's the working person. So let our hearts go out to those people, knowing that in time it will turn around for them and God loves them so. Okay? So for everything you have, sometimes you have to give up. That's normally what happens. Alfred, what was your biggest – kind of throwing Alfred a curve ball here – what was your biggest surprise when you gave up some of the control and the dynamics of the changes you were making. What was that sense? What was that fear?

Alfred:

Well, first of all so many of us are taught that you get what you negotiate, you get what you manipulate, you get what you control, and that's a very human aspect of looking at things. It's a very stressful, low vibration way of looking at things and so many of us were very successful at being like that. Being successful in human terms. However, many of us know when you're stressed out of your mind trying to control your life, you're pretty much miserable. And that was the big revelation to me to say if I'm so successful why am I so stinking miserable and stressed out of my mind? If you look at that in a different way, if you look at it as surrendering your problems in a spiritual sense, you are no longer putting energy towards those things that are causing you problems and that was one of the most massive, life-changing revelations was the more you work on your problems, the more you put energy towards those problems, the more you give your problems away to the Other Side and let go of them, all of a sudden this spiritual sense, they disappear.

Hans:

Alright, listen, this is so critical what you just said. I can hear people saying yes, Alfred, but how do you find the courage to let go?

Alfred:

It's like everything else we tell you about. Try it. Just try it. The worst case scenario is you go back to the way that you were. Try it for a month, try it for a couple of weeks.

Hans:

Where do people go to look for the courage?

Alfred:

I think we have a couple of topics that are like $3 or $4 for Spiritual Courage, actually. Think we did that a couple of months ago.

Hans:

Yes. It's so important the way you're wording this because people give lip service sometimes to an idea that they have, or a belief system that they think they believe in, but when it comes time to actually let go, the fear comes up about what if I fail, what if it isn't true, what if what I'm practicing really isn't real? And all this fear comes up. That's why I like this book so much with Jerry Jampolsky when he said “face the fear and do it anyway.” So that's kind of what you're saying right now is face the fear and do it anyway.

Alfred:

I think it was Eleanor Roosevelt who said, “You must do the thing you think you can't do.”

Hans:

Absolutely. Always, always. Because what you will find is the power of you thinking you can't do it is the power that motivates you to the successful completion of that task.

Alfred:

So it's all about where you place your energy, where you place your focus. The reality is where you place your energy and focus is what is prevalent in your life. And by not placing energy, by surrendering those problems in your life... I cannot tell you the massive life-shift to place your attention on what is going good in your life, which is gratefulness, and letting go of those things in my life that weren't working, and within months those which weren't working disappeared. And it just shocked me. And all of a sudden the things that were working, were working really, really good.

Hans:

Yes. 

Alfred:

And what disappeared was the stress. All of a sudden the energy to work on the things that weren't working wasn't needed, the stress that weren't working wasn't needed, and all of a sudden you're in this happy, blissful state of being grateful for that which is working and your entire life changes.

Hans:

Yes, it does because you've been living in a capsule of fear.

Alfred:

Yes. So what we're telling you is change your perspective about how to go about life. Really.

Hans:

You know folks, you've heard me say, and I repeat this every once in awhile, and I'll say to you: Don't tell me what you want to do. I'm not interested in what you want to do. Now doesn't that sound cruel? But it isn't. You've used the word "want" which is a disconnect energy. But if you say: This is what I'm going to do. I'll sit there and talk to you all night long. Because that a positive energy to a positive thought. So when you talk about what I want to do, you're actually saying: I'm not certain... it'd be nice... gee I hope, and all of that is a disconnect energy. And what we want you all to understand is: Yes, you can. Anything you can put your mind to, you can do. Yes, sometimes you say: Oh my goodness, how long is it going to take me? I've been working on this forever. Sometimes we get in front of our own energy time. But I have seen the most remarkable things anyone can imagine in my career from people who started behind, who had nothing, no money, nothing. And become these incredible painters, entrepreneurs, poets, writers, you name it. Because they got "I want to" out of their way and got the "I'm going to" into its place and you all can do the same. Don't let society pull you down. Don't allow that. 

All those pretty girls you see in those magazines, all those muscular men you see in those magazines, all those big houses...all disappear. All of it disappears. The only thing that remains is your soul. And if you are blessed with, say more than some others, thank Spirit every day, try not to create problems for yourself. There are others who may try to cause you problems. It's none of your concern. You find peace and bliss. Okay? Yes, Alfred, any more on this particular subject you want to talk about?

Alfred:

No, that's about it.

Hans:

Alrighty, that will complete the lesson for today. 

For more information, you may like:
Becoming One with Guidance Audio Lesson
Active Communication with Spirit 2 Audio Lesson

“Understanding Your Own Soul” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“Understanding Your Own Soul” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Understanding Your Own Soul

September 20, 2014

Alfred:

Welcome to GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE - Wisdom for Your Soul. I'm Alfred the Padawan to the Modern Day Mystic himself Hans Christian King. Say Hi to everyone Hans.

Hans:

Hello everyone. Welcome, welcome to the show, welcome to the class.

Alfred:

And we're going to see if we're going to be transferring the show from audio only to video. So we'll see what happens. Let's go over our Housekeeping for the show, as always. The Announcements for this week is there is going to be a replay of Transform Your Life By Changing Your Intentions on the Your Life Without Limits Tele-seminar. That replay is going to start on September 26. That and all the other replays we always announce on Facebook. 

And we're ever so grateful if you are "following" us. If you're not "following" us, please go to Hans Christian King1 or go to HansKing.com and look for the Facebook link and "follow" us. Not only do you get to find out when there are going to be Interviews, you're also signing up to get a Daily Quote that comes directly from Hans himself. 

And of course, we sincerely appreciate everybody who "follows" us and "shares" what we do on Facebook and Social Media. We're posting through Facebook; we're tweeting. Hans is actually tweeting on his own, specifically through Twitter once in awhile. So if you're RT (re-tweeting) or "sharing" on Facebook, we sincerely appreciate it and we are continuing with our Random Acts of Kindness. If you share what we do, we may pick you to get classes, audio or other goodies to share the good karma. Okay? I think that's pretty much it for the Announcements. 

So onto this topic. Our topic for this video is Soul Mate Relationships Part 1 - "Understanding Your Own Soul". Soul mate relationships are agreements between two souls. If you want a great soul mate relationship, make sure you're able to hold up your side of the bargain. It's difficult to have a strong relationship with other souls until you have a strong relationship with yourself. So Hans, let's start with the basics of "you"..."the soul". Can you help people understand that they are a "soul in human form"?

Hans:

Well certainly, Alfred. Thank you. One of the things that I like to remind people, that Spirit reminds me...they love saying this: We're just baby angels having a human experience. We are not the body. We are not the mind. We are simply Spirit. And when we begin to understand that... I think it's crucial for you to know that you can't have a relationship...a meaningful, powerful relationship, unless you have something to bring to the relationship. This is important. So many people look to others to define who they are. "I'm looking for my other half" or "I'm looking for my better half".

One has to realize that just who you are in this moment is all you will ever need to be. It is "perfect". No one can make you better than you are. That's simply an Old Wives Tale. Because Spirit did not make a mistake when you were created. If you are going to participate in a soul mate relationship, it takes two souls of equal power. You have your power, they have their power, and you come together in a way that you share your gifts with each other, and with those that you love. 

So soul mate relationships... In order to have a soul mate relationship, you yourself have to have a relationship with yourself. You've often heard me say Dr. James Allen's famous saying: They themselves are makers of themselves. It's very important that these little things that I say like that go home to your heart. Because what you have to understand is no other episode, no other person, is going to make you complete. That is impossible. 

Alfred:

And that's a good summary of this session. Part 1 - "Understanding Your Own Soul" and the importance of your own soul in soul mate relationships. Here's some examples of what Hans is talking about...some internal soul problems that maybe you want to take a look at if you're looking for a soul mate relationship. What we're saying is "go inwards first".

For example, Hans, are people drawn to the same type of problematic relationships?

Hans:

Yes.

Alfred:

Can you give an example of what that's like.

Hans:

Well, in relationships we already have a set karma/dharma that we wanted to work on. If we wanted to work on personal self-esteem, we might actually continue to create relationships that actually invalidate us. If we wanted to work on being good enough, we'll attract people that put us down. So it's important to remember, that what we said earlier, is that we have to arrive at relationships as  equals.

Now if you keep attracting the same relationship over and over and over again, it says you're not learning the lesson. I've had many clients who have literally had the same relationship 4, 5, 6 times with different people. Because their expectations remain the same. They never change. They want the person to be a certain way, to do a certain thing, to be treated a certain way... When they don't realize that already who they are is enough. But they have such little self-esteem sometimes that what happens is that they don't believe they're enough. And this can really affect your ability to have a loving relationship.

Alfred:

And another issue...this is a really big one with the clients that we have internally  as a soul...and these issues really do cover up the loving soul that you are. For example, do you have issues with your parents? How often does that come up Hans?

Hans:

Well, we're going to be dealing with this as we go through this class but it's huge, Alfred. It's really huge. Because it's some of the very first "learning's" that we ever allow into ourself is the judgments, or the love, or the criticism, or the acceptance, of our parents. Okay? So it's really important to understand that we are products of our humanness if we're not careful. 

If you tell a child, for instance, that when they're born that they can first start to understand how perfect they are, if you tell them how wonderful they are, if you tell them that just who they are is enough and God loves them just that way, you're going to wind up with a very balanced adult. On the other-hand, if you're born into a situation where you've chosen self-esteem as the primary lesson, then you will feel a sense of rejection, you will feel that nobody understands you, and you will line yourself up for the relationships that will absolutely invalidate you. 

So your job, literally, is to catch yourself and say: Wait a minute. That's not what I signed on for. That's not who I am. Who I am is this baby angel that God loves so much.

Alfred:

And we're just continuing on this theme right now of "why" having a stable relationship with yourself is so important to start. This is just an awareness.. For example, are you a victim? Are you bringing that victim role to your relationships? 

How many clients have you had Hans that have been victims?

Hans:

Thousands...thousands. I had two today. Thousands of people are victims of their history...their human history. Victims of false perceptions, victims of not really understanding the whole picture, and then having the mind chatter invalidate or cause problems. The mind literally works overtime in its attempt to disengage you from your spiritual essence, your soul, your heart's lesson. It works overtime in trying to create drama, guilt. It works overtime trying to make you less than you are. So that you become so dependent on the mind chatter that the heart and the soul have no place to speak, hear, or feel. 

So it's important that we learn, early days, and you can learn that all of your life, it doesn't matter how old you get, you can still learn this lesson: You are already enough. Okay?

Alfred:

And here's a good one Hans. How many times have you heard people blaming God for their problems, been blaming God for the life that they have?

Hans:

Well that's very convenient because that way you don't have to take responsibility. You can become a victim of a situation and people will feel sorry for you and again you don't have to even worry about it because you are not being responsible because it's not your fault. And as long as you continue to do that, you will never learn the lesson.

Alfred:

And what we're trying to communicate here is that in order to be a good soul in a soul mate relationship, what we want you to do is find your peace, your happiness, joy, bliss, by starting inside yourself. Okay? And what we're going to do is outline two different steps right now to help you to get to that inner love, that inner peace, that connection to your own soul, to start the relationship with your own soul, to form the relationship with your own soul, so that when you get to a soul mate relationship with others, you show up as a soul, not as trauma, not as your history, not as things that you think that happened to you. But instead you show up peaceful, happy.

The first step, and this is the basis of Hans King's teachings, is to remove the "junk" inside your mind. Otherwise known as mind chatter. Hans, walk us through very quickly how getting rid of mind chatter can help you form a relationship with yourself, your soul.

Hans:

The mind chatter is the filter by which you view the world. So the mind chatter has the judgment of everything that it sees, that it hears, that it feels. The mind chatter always reminds you that you're not quite enough. And as long as you allow the mind chatter to do this... People say: Well I'm helpless. I can't help what the mind chatter's going to say...

The other day we did a show Alfred, as you remember, and we said that: Fear and Doubt can only live in the house you build. Remember, all that's going on in your mind is attached to a house you built. You were not born this way. This is not a "naturalness". This is something that you applied at some point along the way because as children we tend to believe what our parents tell us, what society tells us, even though it's not true. And it's only when we begin to question, and we say wait a minute, that doesn't feel right to me. 

Alfred, you're very big on feelings, telling people how to "try this feeling", "try that feeling". It's very important, Alfred, for people to understand that the mind chatter is not the most important thing in their life. It's the least important thing in their life. Their humanness, their attachment, their connection to God, is of paramount importance.  And at any stage of the game, anywhere along the way, you can literally change your mind's perception. 

Alfred:

And that is a pretty good overview about the first steps in how to uncover your soul, unburden your soul, so that when you walk into a soul mate relationship it's actually you, the soul, not your perceptions, your opinions, your expectations, your trauma.

This is a very quick overview of the two different steps. We're just talking about step one right now. We'll be getting into these exercises of letting go of mind chatter, psychic development, letting go of all these things in a little more detail. Right now we're just making you aware of what is so important in soul mate relationships.

The second step that we're going to be walking you though is how to build your own self-esteem, how to love yourself, how to realize you are enough. Why is that so important when forming a relationship?

Hans:

Because all of what you just said, so rightfully so, all of that comes out of the mind chatter. It doesn't come out of the soul. It doesn't come out of the spiritual heart. No Godforce is telling you that. Spirit isn't telling you that. You are actually telling yourself something that is a lie, that it is not true. And once you begin to really understand: Wait a minute, my mind's telling me things that aren't true.

For instance, the mind will constantly warn you what "could" happen, what "might" happen...constantly. When you finally understand that it's not telling you the truth, yet you're reacting to it continuously... I have a dear client that I received information from today and this poor thing has worried about her house being sold, worried about getting a house, how all of this was going to happen... And Spirit's advice to her, continuously along this path was: Follow your heart. 

And when you understand that by following your heart, the Spirit is holding that heart in their hands and they will open the doors for all that you need, all that you require, when you stop listening to the mind chatter. Because the soul cannot operate with the Spirit when you are busy occupying that place with mind chatter.

Alfred:

How about loving yourself first Hans. Why is loving yourself so important?

Hans:

Because it's all you have Alfred, basically. You don't have anything else. You don't own any part of the body, including the mind chatter. The love of yourself is the greatest gift you give to yourself. 

You know we have a product out there called "You Are Enough". And in the opening it says: What if you discovered that tomorrow morning there was nowhere you needed to go, nothing you needed to do, no one you needed to become, nothing you needed to learn... That who you were in that moment was enough for God. I said that on The Allen Cohen Show and he said: My God, what a concept. 

You already are enough. And we're so invested, Alfred, in how we look, how we dress, the makeup we put on, the clothes we wear...I mean it's just unbelievable. The houses we live in, the cars that we drive. All this in an attempt to make us better. And that breaks Spirit's heart because they already made you perfect. You were perfect when you were born, you are perfect now. So giving yourself the gift of that awareness, that you already are enough, will change your life.

Alfred:

And these two steps that we're talking about - Step 1: Removing the "junk", removing the mind chatter and then Step 2: Of loving yourself. Realizing you're enough. Building your spiritual self-esteem. They help each other. The more mind chatter that you let go of, the more you're able to build your self confidence. The more you let go of trauma and your past, the more you're able to love yourself in the moment.

Hans:

Yes.

Alfred:

And we're going to be going through these two steps in much more detail, giving you more exercise in the upcoming lessons. But we wanted to, at least, get the point across that the most important soul in any soul mate relationship is you.

Hans:

Alfred, I received an email today from one of our Spiritual Circle Members who said that after a year he finally got it. And he said he woke up this morning and all the weight from all the fear and the doubt and the money stuff and the relationship stuff...all the stuff that he had created through the mind chatter had vanished because he had turned his life over to Spirit. He said this morning it felt like a giant weight had been lifted off of him. 

And that's what I want our dear friends out there to understand that you can, absolutely, without fail, lift all of the sadness, all the despair, all the loneliness, attract to you the perfect partner, attract to you the abundance that you seek. All of that is already there, and the only person who's blocking that is you. So giving yourself you, giving yourself the love of you, is the greatest gift you will ever give yourself.

Alfred:

Well Hans that pretty much wraps up Part 1 of Soul Mate Relationships. Anything you want to add just to wrap that up?

Hans:

Yes. Everyone can do this. This isn't reserved for enlightened people. Everyone can learn to go to the mind chatter and close the door. That's going to be the key for this week. Close the door to the mind chatter and watch and see, Alfred, how peaceful people become. This is going to be paramount and I look forward to continuing this class next week.

Alfred:

Thanks everyone for joining us in Part 1 of Soul Mate Relationships. Stay tuned for Part 2.

“Being Spiritual in a Human Form” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“Being Spiritual in a Human Form” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Being Spiritual in a Human Form

June 14, 2014

Alfred:

Hello everyone and welcome to GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE. This is Alfred the Padawan to the Modern Day Mystic himself who is right next to me. First a few announcements as usual. You know that we're back in Asheville and July 12th we're going to be part of a Spiritual Conference that's happening at the Masonic Temple. We just got the latest information in and we'll be posting that to Facebook as well as our Announcements under "The Spiritual Community" on HansKing.com. Second, on Facebook we just finished our first contest of "Share Hans and Get Your Friends To Like" and we'll be announcing the winner for that coming up on Facebook in the next couple of days once we tally all of the people who have shared and gotten their friends to "Like" us. Third is we've got a lot of appearances for Hans that are coming up during the next couple of weeks so please check our Newsletter. Yes, we know there's a couple of broken links but we're doing our best to work on that. We do the the best we can do that's it. Our intention is to be of service so we love that you're sticking with us and hopefully we're being of service. So that’s it for the announcements.

Hans:

Now Alfred we forgot on little thing that I'd like to bring up. And that is that you wanted...and I know you're going to get embarrassed, but you asked me to remind you to thank all the wonderful people who sent you Birthday Wishes. (Hans Laughing)

Alfred:

Yes, Thank You everyone who sent me birthday wishes. That was very kind of you all.

Hans:

There were a bunch of them so we thank you for that.

Alfred:

I tend not to think about myself when we're focusing on the Radio Show.

Hans:

I know...I know.

Alfred:

It's one of those rare times.

Hans:

But you'll say to me later: Oh why didn't you tell me? I forgot. So...

Alfred:

Today's topic - "Being Spiritual in a Human World" was presented to us by one of our Spiritual Circle Members - Susanna in England. And if you have a topic you'd like to share with us that we'd like to talk about on Air, you can message us on Facebook or you can send it to us via HansKing.com. So again today's topic sent in to us from one of our Spiritual Circle Members - "Being Spiritual in a Human World" and to further explain I present to you the Modern Day Mystic himself Hans Christian King.

Hans:

Good afternoon everybody. Wonderful to be back with you. This is a wonderful topic. Many years ago I was reminded of something that I had heard when I was a very young boy and it went like this: Somewhere in the Bible, The Christ is reported to have said: "Learn to be in the Earth but not of it". Wow, that sounds so simple doesn't it? Learn to be in the world...I'll just be spiritual but I won't be a... Well, you know as we go down the path, we find ourselves - since we're angels in human form - we wind up wondering how we got caught up in the appearance of our existence. In other words - reacting. Constantly reacting to things that occur around us. Something someone says or something at work or a disgruntled client or a colleague says something or your mom calls or your dad tells you he's disappointed in you - these types of things. So years ago I attached a little statement to those things that come up in life and the statement was: Not my problem. So being spiritual in a human world, in a human existence, means not reacting to the appearance of difficulty. Knowing that you are perfectly safe, knowing that what needs to happen for you will happen for you. What you need to learn will be presented for you to learn. You can look at that two ways. Number one, you can say: Oh, here's another lesson I think I'll learn that or you can say: Why me? Why do I have to go through this pain? You see what I'm saying? So if you separate yourself from the 'humanness of you'...remember what we've told you - that the body is just a cloak that we wear. That our soul - the essence of our being - remains sacred to Spirit. So when we're trying to be spiritual in a human world it means - who's our old nemesis - mind chatter! It means we make a deliberate attempt not to listen to the mind chatter. Alfred...and listen when I tell you this is not pre-rehearsed - I just sort of give Alfred these things and he looks like a deer in the headlights. Alfred when you were coming out of a very difficult first part of your life when did you notice that there was a separation between your spiritual being and the human world you were involved in?

Alfred:

It's what a lot of us do is we get dragged between the two worlds. In one moment we're happy and blissful and connected and in the other moment we feel that we're getting dragged either through the media, peer pressure, emphasis on money...it's really easy to lose yourself. It's 'what should I be following'? You know, following what's on the media, following what your friends do, following what your parents are telling you seems to be so much easier in the short run than following spiritual principles.

Hans:

Yes, that's very true.

Alfred:

And that's why we're really trying to focus this session on what practices should you focus on to be spiritual in a human world. What things are more important? There are, as you know, hundreds of different spiritual practices. But when you're getting torn back and forth and you don't know which direction to go in then here's some clues.

Hans:

Well you know Alfred, with all the media, peer pressure and the emphasis on money it's really easy to get lost. How do you deal with that?

Alfred:

Well the question is - what do you do? And should you become a chameleon?  Should you blend in? And that's one of the main things that we're trying to emphasis and we're actually reflecting back on what we were talking about in the previous topic is: Your job, in the enlightened path, is to find your own unique individual path. If you're becoming a chameleon and trying to blend in then you're bowing down to peer pressure, you're bowing down to whatever it is around you instead of following your uniqueness. Okay? And so when you're looking at it and say: Okay, you know, I want friends, I want money, I want my job, I want people to like me...

Hans:

Stop...stop for just a second. You just hit on something really, really important - "I want people to like me". Expound upon that for us will you?

Alfred:

It's a human desire to have people like you...

Hans:

Yes.

Alfred:

... It's a human desire to fit it. It's a human desire to have friends. And what we're telling you is there's two ways to go about it. You can go about it by say being a chameleon and trying to be all Mr. or Ms. popular or you can go the spiritual path which is: You know what, it's my job as a spiritual being in a human body to find my unique path and when I follow that path then people of like vibration, of like mind-set, of like being will be attracted to me. "That which you are you attract". So that's the hard choice. It really is.

Hans:

Yes, it certainly is.

Alfred:

Is to first follow on your spiritual path then wait for those like vibration beings to be attracted to you "or" to just give in and follow what seems to be the easier of the two paths.

Hans:

Alfred, sometimes individuals who are very spiritual have a difficult time in attracting friendships because they tend to see past the illusion and then there's a sense of loneliness that comes. How do you think people who you think are very sensitive and who are very spiritual how can they feel that they're loved as much as people who have lots of friends do you suppose?

Alfred:

Well that goes back to the lesson of self esteem. You are loved, you are enough, you don't need these external things that everybody tells you you need. You don't need to be popular, you don't need to have a bunch of friends. What you need to do is "find who you are". That is a spiritual path. And then once you find out who you are, once you become centered, then you can go out into the world and find true friends according to who you really are. So you can find friends according to your image, according to your ego, according to peer pressure - or you can find yourself and then find your true friends.

Hans:

Excellent...excellent. Because the reason I brought that up Alfred is I have lots of clients who will say to me: I don't feel comfortable Hans in groups of people. I don't feel comfortable with having too many people around me. But then they equate that to: Maybe God doesn't love me or maybe there's something the matter with me and that type of thing... But I like the way you put things. I think it's important for people to remember that they're never alone. That they always have their Guides around them. They always have helpers, they always have friends. So being a spiritual person in a human world...sometimes you feel like you're disconnected from what they call 'reality'. Sometimes very spiritual people don't wind up with a lot or an abundance of friendships. And the question I had for you is that when you were making that transition to having a lot of human friends to having spiritual friends did you feel lonely in that transition between the two? Because I remember it took a little while before you got more friends.

Alfred:

Yes, it's a really difficult transition because what happens is that you end up leaving so many of what you thought were friends who really were acquaintances in a human sense and then working with the Universe, working with your Guidance, working with your Soul Mates, working with your Angels, working with the Universal Energy and that becomes your path. That becomes your source.  That becomes your comfort. It is a completely different mind set about what is important. And it reminds me something that I tell a lot of my clients is: The friends that you've always looked for, the ever supportive, always loving compassionate family that you've always looked for, the support you've always looked for, is always there but you have to give up the human attachment in order to get the truly supportive, truly compassionate, truly loving ability to connect with Spirit, with the Universe is you can't have both. It's really difficult to hold onto your human friends, to hold onto your humanness...

Hans:

And there's nothing the matter with those friends, Alfred.

Alfred:

Well it depends if they are of like vibration or not.

Hans:

They simply don't fit.

Alfred:

Yes. So in some sense there is a little bit of a problem because they may be dragging you down. They may be trying to trying to deal with you on a peer pressure basis and a lot of times you're giving up friends left and right and what's left? Dealing with invisible people you can't see that you're having faith, trust and belief that they really do exist.

Hans:

Right. Well put.

Alfred:

That is a very difficult transition.

Hans:

Well put. What practices should you focus on to be spiritual in the human world? This was part of the original question sent in by Susanna in England. What practice? Faith and belief that you already are enough. That Spirit, in it's infinite wisdom, is in the process of drawing to you all the lessons that you have chosen to learn. But they're also drawing to you all the possibilities of learning those lessons. They don't just say: Here's a piece of paper with a whole bunch of stuff on it, deal with it. No, they don't do that. They present you with the lesson, a repetitive thing that keeps coming up in your life over and over and over. But they also present you with the spiritual answer that if you be still and say to Spirit: I am now available to understand the purpose in this lesson. You will hear, very shortly, a very quiet sound coming from your spiritual being through your chest. Then you say: Aah, I was wondering about that. Maybe that's what the lesson is. What's the greatest lesson for old souls - always children - self esteem. So many, many things will be presented to you under the guise of self esteem and how you handle those directly relates to your spiritual character. So practicing spirituality in the humanness of your life opens the door for the lessons, opens the door to clear the path that you see better, opens the door to let you come away from victimizations of the lesson. It opens a whole new set of being. So practice - love, acceptance, compassion. And those things right there - practice them on yourself first. Okay? Alfred.

Alfred:

And that's a really good thing to focus on. If you're going to be focusing on something it's self esteem: I am enough. I am perfect. So that it gives you the strength, the inner strength to make the right decision, to go the path that you know that's right, to go against peer pressure, to go against the grain of what you see everybody else going towards. To go against what maybe some life long friends are telling you, to go against what your family is telling you and to go "with" the direction of what you feel inside to be correct. That really requires some self esteem. That requires some self confidence. That what you're feeling inside is really the right path “for” you.

Hans:

That is tough Alfred. That is tough. Another question Alfred, should you practice energetic boundaries? For many people Alfred energetic boundaries sounds very complicated. It really isn't. I'm sure you know that right?

Alfred:

Yes and this is something that we talk about in the Intuitive Development Class is the more spiritual you become, the more you become sensitive to the vibrations of others. And as we've been talking about there's a lot of things that are not going to be of like vibration as you go down your spiritual path. And in order to deal with those things sometimes you have to deal with people or situations that you really don't think are of like vibration. You can feel the negativity, you can feel the negative energy. Then we say: Protect yourself energetically. You're not blocking the person, you're not having a judgment of the person. You're just saying: I'm putting up an energetic boundary around me so that negative vibration, that negative energy just doesn't affect me as I become more spiritual. It's helping you stay centered. It's really helping you adjust to your new way of being and it's a wonderful practice to help in that adjustment as you go from being human to being much more spiritual in a human world.

Hans:

Well, absolutely. And one of the things that I taught Alfred early days was learning to put that invisible bubble around you. That invisible white light. So that...one of the things I always say is tell Spirit: To please bring light into that that might bring darkness around you today. Darkness could be somebody else's 'thinking' that is counter productive to you, it could be the news, it could be any sense of small - like depression, your own mind chatter. "Please bring light into that that would bring darkness around me today". And just picture that little thin energetic wall being put up around you. It keeps you in the mix but it becomes once again "learning to be in the world but not of it". Alfred this is a good one. How can you have compassion for others but still stay on track with oneself? I believe those are two entirely different issues. You can always practice compassion for others by having no judgment of them. By whatever you see they're doing, whatever they're saying, whatever they're saying to you or to others, whatever it is - so long as you send them compassion. I don't judge you, bless you. I say "to bless you" I don't know how many times a day. But you can still stay on the track with one's self. Alfred?

Alfred:

Staying on track with oneself is absolutely the most important thing. Staying true to your unique path, your Guidance, being in touch with the Universe, being centered, being peaceful, having non-judgment, realizing nothing's wrong, keeping your vibration high - that is absolutely the first and foremost what you should be focusing on. And then while you're in that peaceful place, yes, you can have compassion for others - for what they're going through. But first of all realizing there is nothing wrong with what they're going through. There are a great many people in the world going through a great many things that are on unique paths that have asked to experience very unique things. Your job is not to have a judgment. If there's no judgment it really shouldn't sway you. That's one of the topics that we've gone over many, many times is having no judgment, having no opinion of what's going on. However, when you see suffering, when you see pain, when you see agony, absolutely you can have compassion for people to try to understand what's going on to determine if you should be involved in trying to alleviate the pain and suffering that is going on. And if not, you're not going to get involved, then there's no reason you shouldn't bless the person. So compassion really shouldn't take you off of your center. Always you want to be in your center before going out to serve, to make sure you are connected, you are who you truly are, your Guidance is with you. So make sure when you see pain and suffering in the world that you first go to your center and make sure that there is no judgment of the situation, you have no opinion of what's going on and from that point, I think, is a good start to have compassion for what's going on around you. So Hans what do you think about being a chameleon in a human world?

Hans:

Well I think what's really important for people to understand is they don't have to be a chameleon. What they have to do is 'don't fit in to dysfunction'. Make yourself unique. Make yourself different. Chameleons blend into their surroundings so nobody will see them, so nobody will know that they're there. They hide from the appearance of physical reality. What I'm saying to everyone is: Let your light shine. Let your spiritual light shine. Learn to be in the world but not of it. Carve your own path in life and people will say: Wow, you've got a really great life. If you listen to the questions from so many of our wonderful people, you can hear them as they struggle while learning to be in the world but not of it. But what Spirit continues to look at is: Have you set your intention? And so they don't look at the deed, they still look at the intention. So don't be a chameleon. Blend in but don't become "of it". You can walk through the world but you don't have to come of the world. Okay? So being spiritual in a human world means opening yourself up to all the uniqueness that is inherent in your spiritual being. Alfred I think that will conclude the lesson for today. 

"What Should We Really Value?" by Hans Christian King - Spiritual Radio Show transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show 
with Hans Christian King  www.HansKing.com 
and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com 
November 2, 2013 
Topic: What Should We Really Value?

Alfred: 

Hello everyone and welcome to Guidance For Your Life. We'll be spending some time at the beginning of the show discussing new events, our new broadcasting, our new situation here in Asheville, North Carolina, what we're doing with our broadcasting with our new International people with the new way we're getting out via 880 AM  and iHeart Radio, and some upcoming classes that are happening with our new location in Asheville, North Carolina. So Hans where do you want to start?

Hans:

Well I'd first like to start by saying Good Afternoon Everybody, Welcome to the Show. Especially all of our new people who are just turning in and turning on today. Thank you for being part of us. It's beautiful here in Asheville, North Carolina. For those of you who don't actually know where Asheville is, it's in the western Smokey Mountains of North Carolina. Beautiful. I like to say the biggest house in the United States is in Asheville, North Carolina. I look out and all the trees are dropping their leaves turning different colors. It's a wonderful time of the year to begin to shed what doesn't work in your life anymore. And since we're nearing the end of the year, this is a good time to sit down with a good cup of hot chocolate and listen to your heart and ask your heart what it would like to let go of as we approach the end of the year. And Alfred, how do you feel about this time of the year? Because I was born in Los Angeles so...

Alfred: 

I started my live in New England. I don't remember very much watching the trees change but it is absolutely phenomenal being up here in the mountains and seeing the trees change. It is spiritual...it really is.

Hans:

You had a motorcycle ride the other day on the Blue Ridge Parkway did you not?

Alfred:

I did. And that is one of the main things we were talking about with  somebody who is visiting. And they said "Blue Ridge Parkway - what's that"? That is the reason you come to this area.

Hans:

Follow me and I will show you what it's like! Last night was Halloween and I hope all of you had a great time. We went to an outing at a dear friend's house last night. It's a really a fun time of the year. Alfred, would you like to explain a little bit about the radio show to those people who don't know us or know what it is we are trying to do?

Alfred:

Sure. For the last few years, we've been broadcasting a show and we've called it Modern Day Mysticism with the Modern Day Mystic himself, Hans Christian King. Since we've moved to Asheville we've become associated with 880 AM The Revolution and we decided to open up the show to our new fan base, our local base, which we haven't had in awhile, to Asheville and call it Guidance For Your Life. Now it's the same show. We're going to be doing it the exact same way but we decided to make it a little more understandable. Guidance, what is Guidance? Guidance very simply is "that which comes through you from the other side and provides either life guidance for yourself or for somebody else”. Now a lot of people as you know, Hans is a Medium. A Medium is a person who hears what the other side says and then speaks it. So it is through Hans that I understood the concept of Guidance and it's through a lot of the classes that we teach you how to get Guidance. And Guidance is exactly that. For your life. It is to help you through your life, it is to help you be of service to others. The guidance can be for yourself, the guidance can be for others that you are serving. Hence the new title of the show - Guidance For Your Life.

Hans:

I like that title. It rings very nicely. And I hope that our family that's been with us for so many years likes the new name as well. As Alfred says, nothing in this show actually will be changing except we're broadcasting through 880 and I'm very happy to be working with them. Again they have gone beyond the pale to help us and I'm eternally grateful. 

Alfred:

So with 880 AM, we're not doing the broadcasting anymore. We're going through them and I'm so happy to hand this off to them.

Hans:

Aren't you?

Alfred:

So we've just found out recently through iHeart Radio that we're broadcasting through, we are broadcasting over the internet through iHeart Radio through the U.S., through New Zealand and Australia. Of course there's some copyright thing that we just found out. So what we've done is we've opened up the Podcasting Service so anyone in Canada, in Europe, in South America, in the Middle East you will have access to our latest show via our Podcasting Service which is also is available on the Radio Show page on hansking.com

Hans:

A question for you Alfred, how will the people in those countries know what we just said? Have we posted this information on the web page yet?

Alfred:

Yes. It's on the webpage. I've done my best to try to explain the differences. OK, if you're  here in the U. S. or Australia or New Zealand you can listen, just click here through iHeart Radio. If you're International you can listen, click here for the Podcast. Hopefully I've done a good job.

Hans:

Hopefully everyone will get in line and we'll get our act together and everybody will get their act together. This came a little bit of a surprise to us because we've been broadcasting world-wide now for any number of years. A small glitch, but the same show and the same show goes out and will go to the same people who want to listen to it they just have to look at it in a different venue that's all.

Alfred:

So. What is the show? What is Guidance For Your Life for those people who are joining us who are listening to us through 880 AM or streaming through iHeart Radio? The show comes in two parts. The first part is we that we have a Teaching, a Spiritual Teaching. We have guidance to help you with a specific aspect of your life.

Hans:

Where do these lessons come from Alfred?

Alfred:

We actually ask our Spiritual Circle Members to send in issues, spiritual lessons that they're dealing with. We'll go into more about what it's like to be a Spiritual Circle Member but just one of the member benefits is we ask them: What are you dealing with in your spiritual quest when you're going out there? And today's topic "What Should We Really Value" that's the topic for today, was given to us by one of our members. And basically we try to post as far in advance, at least 3 or 4 weeks in advance, the topics so that you can see the topics we'll be talking about. And if this is a topic that you think others would benefit from, we kindly ask you to share with your friends or social media - Facebook or you can Tweet it - or whichever way you want to share the link. The link should be available through the show page on hansking.com. The links will be available to share on 880 AM. You can share with your friends or social media on either of those. We do this for free. We're happy that anyone, anywhere can listen to the show for free. You don't have to be a Spiritual Circle Member to listen. We're just happy to broadcast to anyone, anywhere. We're just happy to be of service. That's why we're here is to give guidance.

Hans:

You know Alfred, for a lot of folks that may not be able to sign up right now to be a member, I want you to know what value they get from listening to the questions from other people.

Alfred:

And that's the second half of the show. Once we're done with, shall we say the Teaching for the day, our Guidance - the guidance that comes through us to help you on a particular topic. In the second half of the show we open our e-mails and we go into answering questions that are given to us from our Spiritual Circle Members. That's another one of the member benefits of being a Spiritual Circle Member, is that each week you can send in a question of what you're dealing with personally and Hans and I will do our best to provide guidance to help that individual with whatever life issue, spiritual issue that they're dealing with. So again that's the second half of the show. Now there is a chance at the end of the show there might be some time that we have and we go to a couple of places. We go to our emails that we might have received through our 880 AM show page or on our Facebook page and we might take some questions from there also, if we happen to have time. But we take care of our members first. Now as Hans was saying people learn a lot from the questions and the answers that are sent in because these are real life issues that our members are dealing with. Aren't they Hans?

Hans:

Yes they are. And what applies to one oftentimes applies to many. So even though you may not be able to join our circle it makes no difference because you get the value of the show and you get the value of us answering other people's questions and you know the answers come from The Spirit itself. I'm what's referred to as a Direct Voice Medium. And so when Spirit speaks, I hear it speaking it out at the same time. It's pretty rare. I've been very blessed to have had this.

Alfred:

Now a lot of people ask us "What's the difference between being a Spiritual Circle member and getting a reading with Hans? Now a lot of people know that getting a reading with Hans is pretty in-depth. It's pretty life changing, it's like getting your life on a silver platter. Basically the difference is during the show we answer questions in a, shall we say rapid fire manner. We answer of course each one with as much compassion as we possibly can but we don't go into as much detail as we would in a reading. Basically we tried to come up with a way that we can be as supportive as possible to as many people as possible whether you are a member or not a member. But if you would like more in-depth support then Hans or I would spend a much greater amount of detail helping you with your life then that's something that you would look at and go to hansking.com and you can find out more about Personal Readings.

Hans:

Alright and on that note, Alfred I would like to say a little bit about What Should We Really Value. My friends, in the long run in life when your life here is over the only value that you will take with you when you go is your character. When you go back to the other side you will take the character, what you have learned, how you have triumphed over adversity, how you have gotten rid of your demons and your devils, how you have not lived a life filled with fear and regret and guilt. You add that to your higher consciousness. You add that to your consciousness and your character grows. So that each time you come back you're sort of one more rung up on the evolutionary ladder. I believe that what we really need to value is Love. That's what I think we need to value. We need to understand that nothing we are going to do, nothing that we are going to accumulate or acquire, nothing do we get to keep except Love. How we loved, how we allowed our self to be loved that's it. And we spend all this time, great quantities of our time, trying to fix this or make that work and running crazies through our mind chatter,being mad at someone, feeling disenfranchised from society. Sometimes we live in a place of guilt, sometimes we live in a place of anger..

Alfred:

Being a victim

Hans:

Thank you Alfred, I was searching for that word. Big time in society today. Somebody else had made me do this, I am this because somebody else did that. Nonsense children, nonsense. You'll always hear me say that they themselves are makers of themselves. I didn't invent that. But what you want to hear is that you are the creator and the creation of you. You are here by your design. You are not here by accident, you are here by design. So the value...The Christ put it very very well - great teacher - he said: Learn to be in the world but not of  it. Hear that children. Learn to be in the world but not of it. We get so focused of it that we believe it's true. We believe that all that's going on is real. And it's not. Everything that's going on everyday in your life is somebody's idea of what's happening. Did you ever listen to the pundents on Fox? The pundents on MSNBC? The pundents on CNN? Do you understand that's their opinion? There's no truth in what they're saying basically. It's their opinion of the events that are going on. Right now there's a great drive by a certain group of people in this country to destabilize our economy. To destabilize our government. We actually voted yesterday to eliminate food for 43 million people, 12 million are  children. The rest of the world this morning, if you go on-line, is stunned. The Europeans, Chinese, Australians. You eliminated but you have a 700 Billion Dollar Defense Budget? Now you all know my politics okay? What should we value? Love, generosity of the heart. Compassion should lead your way everyday. Folks I never pretend to be Holier than Thou but there's something  that I've done since I was a little boy. And it came about quite naturally. Nobody told me to do it. It just sort of happened that I did it. Whenever I would be going along on the bus to school, or wherever I was as I grew up in society and I saw somebody that perhaps was sleeping on a piece of cardboard or was obviously in great distress, I would always say: Please God bless that person, bring them food, bring them abundance, show them where they need to be for whatever reason they're in this situation. Give them the light that leads them to the reality that brings them out of this suffering. I've been doing that since I was six years old. And again nobody taught me. Compassion is a natural place in the heart. Did you ever see a baby with his first little kitten or his first little dog? What does he want to do? He wants to hug the animal. Isn't that right Mr. Alfred?

Alfred:

It's just hilarious that no matter what kind of baby it is it could be a Pug, it could be a baby alligator, every type of of baby is just cute. I mean to the point they made a TV program about it - "It's Too Cute".

Hans:

If you have The Animal Channel you need to go there and watch these little animals as they grow up. It's wonderful. Alfred I noticed something with you. Everyone knows your history and all that or most people do. It's quite a wonderful history but did you notice something happened to you when Bella came into your life? 

Alfred:

The little princess super model who captured me is with a little animal or any type of animal or pet, you really get to practice compassion. You get to practice unconditional love. And practicing that without any mind chatter, without any thought of "should I be doing this", "should I be giving this much love" which a lot of times we do in human relationships. Can I trust this person? It is an amazing spiritual practice because so many times in our human relationships we judge how much love we should be giving, how much we should trust, how much we should open ourselves up. And with an animal, a pet, you don't have to worry. You can practice unconditional love opening yourself up surrendering into that love connecting to that love.

Hans:

And Alfred that can be a little vulnerable sometimes can't it because a lot of people aren't used to that?

Alfred:

Exactly. It is an amazing feeling to be able to participate in the purity of compassion. The purity of unconditional love. That's spiritual practice. Without having judgment. Without having mind chatter.

Hans:

So what should we really value? That. That. I mentioned this the other day on one of the shows and I said "Did you ever look at a picture of yourself as a baby?" If you don't giggle there's something the matter with you honestly. Look how cute you are. Look at this great innocent budding personality who doesn't have a clue about fear and doubt and money and stock markets. None of that. It just wants to be fed and where's the puppy? That's it. And when it comes down to the end of your life that will still be children all that really mattered. Sometimes gravity and humanness cause things to form much slower for us. And this brings us to a place, to sort of, learn patience. Alfred how are you doing with patience?

Alfred:

Patience is amazing. It is just an unbelievable lesson.  It really is. It is a very difficult lesson but once you get the hang of patience then you realize how much happier and peaceful you become by practicing patience.

Hans:

Yes.

Alfred:

Because we're taught in the Western World that the more have, the quicker you get it, the better you are. We're teaching you the exact opposite. We're teaching you in our lessons the spiritual way to go about things. Which is pretty much domestically opposed the exact opposite of what those of us were taught in the western world. We're taught in the western world if you want to make yourself better to accumulate more, accumulate faster. We're teaching you "Less is More". 

Hans:

You know Alfred the inability to see all that is around us tests us to have faith I believe in the unseen. That's a big big topic for a lot of people Alfred. Patience and faith in the unseen.

Alfred:

Faith, Trust and Belief. It's probably one of the most common themes that we talk about is to have faith. That there is organization. There is spirits. There are angels. God does know what's going on.

Hans:

Oh yes.

Alfred:

To have belief.

Hans:

Well they have the other copy of your blueprint - your dharma.

Alfred:

To believe they know your life path. They know your life path even though you don't remember it. To trust that the Universe has your back. Faith, Trust and Belief are very difficult to implement into your daily life but they are fundamental spiritual practices that we do talk about as much as possible.

Hans:

Having faith and trust in the unknown says "I believe...I believe." Our job as spirits in human form are to tell Spirit what we would like the experience of.... to our Highest Good of course. Their job is to present the doors that lead to that reality. And sometimes kids, sometimes we ask for something and for whatever reason there's a delay. What I want to share is the reason for what the delay is. Many times certain things are supposed to happen at a certain time on your journey. And sometimes we try to jump ahead. Like going up a ladder and skipping three rungs. What we forget is, the value is in each rung. So Spirit will back us down again. And then we'll say well then "God must not love me". I asked for it and it didn't show up. Patience. Practice patience. It's a word that I don't happen to like but it's a word that Spirit likes a lot. Alrighty. You know the obvious path to follow, the crowd challenges us to follow what we feel inside. Sometimes society appears like a bunch of lemmings. Here, let's all jump off this cliff because the cliff is there. And by golly everyone else is doing it. Sometimes when we're driving in the car, Alfred is a very good driver, a very good driver. but I watch sometimes he starts to keep up with the cars that are speeding. And when I say to him "Well you know Alfred you're going 10 miles above the speed limit" he says "Well so is everybody else". And I have to remind him that he is not everybody else. You don't like that too well do you?

Alfred:

Well pretty much you can understand that the concept of an old soul is if your life has not fit, if you don't do well trying to follow the social norm, if trying to be like somebody else is not working then you're an old soul. That means you're pretty much destined to find your own path in life. 

Hans:

You know there's a lady down in Solita in Mexico just north of Puerto   Vallarta about 40 miles and she was living in this world that was all crazy and she was trying to be a corp exec and she was aging and she said "Oh my goodness I'm getting lines on my face" and she just was not happy. She wasn't being the person that she set out to be. And one day she woke up and she heard an internal voice say "This is not you. Why are you playing at this?" This lady now owns 2 restaurants. Little, like hot dog stands. One in Puerto Vallarta and one in Solita. She makes more money now then she did before and she goes to the beach every day. And she has a life. This is what we're trying to say to you. When our mind chatter overruns our spiritual being and common sense we wind up becoming victims of the appearance of what we call reality. True bliss can be achieved by surrendering into the life of service. Alfred, how would you define service?

Alfred:

Service is giving. It's that simple. It is again the exact opposite of the typical western way of going about finding happiness. And following the teachings in my Spirituality and Career Course we have coming up in Asheville....

Hans:

Do you have a date on that Alfred by any chance?

Alfred:

Yes I do. We'll be talking about that after the teaching.

Hans:

Oh I'm sorry, I'm leaping ahead on you.

Alfred:

No problem. But we do have a course coming up in Asheville. I'll talk about that after the teaching. But anyway one of the main teachings in Spirituality and Career is you have two options. The first option is to work really hard and make a lot of money and then buy as many toys as you possibly can in order to try to achieve happiness. That's pretty much the western way of going about things. That's why we're a consumer society because they have pretty much drilled that into you and Lord knows that's where I came from. The second option is what we try to teach you in a spiritual way. Is do what makes you happy. Do what brings bliss to you. Do what you find is your soul's calling. Do that. And then you will be in bliss. You will be in the flow. You will find doors of opportunity where there weren't (quoting Joseph Campbell). And then simply ask the Universe to give you enough abundance to help support you in that which makes you happy. Now pretty much everybody who follows this path is going to find meaning in true bliss through service. Service is not focusing on you. Focusing on others. 

Hans:

You know, the Buddhists say if one person is brought to their enlightenment by an act of yours, your whole dharma has just been validated. That's all you ever need to do. Just one person. We now have 7.3 billion people on earth and if every one each day did one nice thing, smiled, shared some rice, watched a movie together, went for a walk. Can you imagine what this world would look like? What a difference we would have. Inner peace comes from the steadfast belief that the Universe has our back. Of all the things we've discussed today I believe this to be the most important. If you know that no matter what it looks like, no matter how crazy life appears to you if you realize that Spirit actually has your back and whatever is coming by you is only passing by, it has not come to live. Remember that children. The pain, the doubt, the confusion, the fear is mind chatter that is coming to visit. It does not stay. Only Love is real.

Alfred:

And then again this is probably one of the most exact opposites of shall we say typical teachings from the west of how to be happy. It's you're in control. You need to get what's yours. I've got mine. You get yours. Sound familiar? And we're teaching the exact opposite. To surrender. To release control. To say "I don't need to control anything". By being in the flow, that which is for me will be presented to me. These are just really some of the things that we find of what you should really value.

Hans:

Right

Alfred:

Some of the spiritual practices, the directions, the paths in life that you can choose to be blissful to be truly happy.

Hans:

I would like to remind every one that we have... It is not our job on this show to sit here and try to sell you merchandise. That's not what we do. For those of you who wish to continue in the exploration of their spiritual life, their spiritual possibilities, we have over the last 7 years created an enormous amount of information from The Spirit. For everything. There's nothing you can think of that Spirit hasn't addressed in a CD, an MP3 download, nothing - so I encourage you to go and look at the resources available. Not necessarily to get them, but to know they're there for a rainy day and know you can go and pull this out and say "Oh, this pertains to what I'm doing". There's an awful lot of free information. Isn't there Alfred? 

Alfred:

There is a lot of free information that we have on hansking.com. Again we try to do our best to be of service to as many people as we possibly can. And on hansking.com we have a huge amount of links under Free Resources - Free Downloads - Free Recordings - Of course our Weekly Free Radio Show - Free Astrology Chart - Free Recommendations - Free Articles for Women - Free Introduction Classes. There's a lot of stuff that we try to give away for free because that's our job, to be of service. However, just like everybody else in the world God hasn't taken away our ability to pay for our utilities and just like every other religion we have to pass the basket just like everybody else. But we don't pass the basket just for the sake of passing it. We just say "Hey, go to our store, look at a particular topic that you like and if you see something that you think would help you...  Sure we just charge a price that helps us keep the radio show going and helps us pay for the products. Now if you happen to be a Spiritual Circle Member another one of the benefits is that you get huge discounts.

Hans:

How big are those discounts? You keep on saying "huge" and I went on-line and looked and you do have "huge" discounts!

Alfred:

Yes

Hans:

You're real close to giving them away.

Alfred:

It's close. If you're a member you get right now, I don't know how long it's going to last for, 80% off. Someday I may go in there and reduce that to something but we love our members because our members support the show with a monthly fee and you can find more about that under Spiritual Community, Spiritual Unfoldment Circle. For $39.00 a month not only do you get the ability to send in topics that we talk about, you can send in a question  each week that Hans and possibly myself will answer each week on air. You get access to over 3 years of Show Archives which are 3 years of spiritual teachings and all of those are described by certain topics and discounts. Yes it is 80% off all audio, video, classes, lessons that we have 80% currently. That's well worth being a member. You even get 10% off any Personal Reading with Hans and people in Asheville may be interested in this, you get access to our Spiritual Bulletin Board. You get to network with other members in your area or other like-minded people and just be part of a Spiritual Community. That's what it's like to be part of the Spiritual Unfoldment Circle. But you do not have to. You can listen to the show free each week, you can get a hold of our free resources, you can tell other people about the free resources and free radio show. It's perfectly fine. Completely up to you.

Hans:

So Alfred, I believe that completes the lesson for today.