“The Law of Unconditional Love” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

“The Law of Unconditional Love” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: The Law of Unconditional Love

December 12, 2014

Hans:

Hello everybody. What a beautiful day today and we're so blessed to have God in our life. Today I want to talk about the Universal Law of Unconditional Love. This is a really difficult lesson because in our world, as we go through our daily lives doing all the things that we have put in motion to do, we come across situations, we come across people, circumstances, things, that just, may I say, just tick us off, make us upset, press our buttons... a friend says something that you thought was unkind, or a parent calls and tells you they were disappointed in you about something. And it's just really hard to just say: You know what, I love them, I bless them, I release my judgment of this. And folks, when we look at the news and hear all the things that are going on every day, it's hard to remember that we're in a world of illusion that has been created by mankind. There is no reality to what is going on. It's just different people's illusions of what should be. And of course when you turn on your television, what you have is a bunch of pundits, a bunch of people who surmise they know something, that they're going to tell you how it really is. But all it is is their opinion. Nothing more kids, nothing more. Simply their opinion. So the wonderful thing about unconditional love, if we put it in our heart, is that we begin to view life a bit differently. Okay? A bit differently. We say: Oh wait a minute, I'm not going there because I'm going to get a judgment in there and that's not what I want to do. That's not where I want to be. And so, when we learn to filter the appearance of reality, we stop being bothered and hurt by it. 

I had a friend who called me recently and she was very, very concerned because she thought I had said something. What she heard was that I was unhappy with her or displeased with her. And I had her go back and read the email that she sent me about her hurt. And I paused here for a moment. I said: Where you're saying this, where this is coming from, what is that for you? Did you hear me say those words? And she said: No, I didn't. But I thought the way you had written it was that you were displeased with me. I said: Well, I'm a very big boy now and I'm capable of telling you if I'm displeased with you and I wasn't. But I wonder why you're coming from that place. Where in you, does what I was saying, turn into a condemnation? And so we sat down and we had a look at it. And what she saw was through her childhood, she had learned to view things a little bit askew because she couldn't figure out what was going on. And so her mind chatter simply made up what she perceives the reality might be. 

And there's an old saying that you have heard me say for many years that says: You see what you look for, you know. And if you're slightly depressed, or there's a dark cloud hanging over you and you're walking around with it, you will see depressing things children. You will see it. If you're slightly depressed, nothing you're doing will seem like it fits, seem like it's real. But if you stop for a moment and you say: From this day forward, I'm deciding not to listen to anything but unconditional love. I'm going to give it and I'm going to be available for it. This brings up another problem. Because, Alfred, haven't you noticed that so many people find that maybe they're not good enough for unconditional love?

Alfred:

And it's really those aspects of mind chatter, of humanness, that take us away from our spiritual true selves. It's when we are as Spirit, expressing unconditional love as our natural state, but what really limits us is the mind chatter, the humanness of fear, of judgment, of doubt. Okay? It's those areas or basically any aspects of humanness that limit us from vibrating, from being as Spirit and from expressing unconditional love effortlessly.

Hans:

You know Alfred, in the Spirit there is no such thing as depression. There is only unconditional love, not conditional love. So we actually, Alfred, come from, our resource actually, is unconditional love.

Alfred:

Yes, it's our mind chatter, our humanness that puts conditions on the love. And the definition of unconditional is there is nothing. And that is true spirituality is there is no judgment, there is no opinion, there is no fear, there is no doubt. And it is by removing those things, by doing the inner work, that you're more able, more freely able, more effortlessly able to express unconditional love.

Hans:

Absolutely. You know Alfred, for many years one of my primary teachings has been: What if you found out that nothing was wrong? Absolutely nothing. That all the pain comes out of your mind's perception of what is real. Not what is real. Because the only reality is love. The only true reality is God. And the unconditional love that you have from the Spirit World is unconditional at all times. So any time you say to me: Well, God must not love me or why isn't God protecting me... All this, all of these things, come out of a place of conditional love which is what your mind programs you to see. 

You know I had one parent who said to her daughter: You know if you loved me you wouldn't treat me this way. Well, that child grew up that way. She grew up thinking she wasn't capable of giving unconditional love. I said: No, that's just only your mother's perception of who you are and what you're doing and saying. If we all go back and we look at how our behavior from 20 or 30 years ago, we're not that same person. As we have grown, the Spirit has grown with us and brought us forward. But they keep pointing out to us unconditional love. Unconditional love. This is the key of life. Unconditional love. Not being offended by someone else's thoughts. Not offending somebody else by our thoughts. Any time we start to develop a negative thought, we need to stop for a moment and say: Wait a minute. I don't really know this person. I'm judging their behavior. But then, am I judging them as well? I don't know them. I don't know where they've come from. Native American peoples used to say: Judge no man unless you walk a mile in his moccasins. Very true. I taught you for years folks that who somebody is and their behavior are always two different things. 

Folks, spiritual opinion as given to me is: That all is perfect. All is in perfect right order. Nothing is wrong. But our mind chatter is so active in pointing out this individual, or that situation, and then trying to comprehend somebody else's thinking, which is of course totally impossible. Deal with your own emotion. Alfred used to say, back in the day, when he was beginning to develop himself... One of the things Spirit told him to do was if you want to see perfect and unconditional love, go look at a flower. Remember that Alfred?

Alfred:

Absolutely and it is the separation of your true self from that which limits you. It is functioning as who you truly are that opens you. It is removing the mind chatter that has to do with fear, with judgment, with opinion, that allows you to more freely express yourself as who you truly are – as a loving spirit. These are the paths that we try to help you with in order to be happy here, more blissful, more loving on a daily basis.

Hans:

Every time I see someone who I think is in a difficult situation, I always say to Spirit: Bless that person please. Surround them in pure white light. Help them to understand whatever lesson there may be in this for them. And bring all that they need to them that they might discover who they are and to see past this illusion for themselves. That's really, really important. I tell the story of a young lady that I met may years ago in Carmel, California and she had wanted, very badly, to design fabrics I think, some of you have heard this before, and every time she designed a fabric, it looked like a batik from Bali. And one day her grandmother, she was 17 then, sent her to see me and in the process of her reading I said: You know you have some connection with Bali. And she said: Funnily enough, you know I've always wanted to go there and she said: I'm not certain why. And I pointed out that she had some connection with artwork and she said: Well I like to do batiks and she said: I feel that there's some connection but I don't know what it is. And I said: Well you won't discover it until you go to Bali. Well she says: Well I have no money for that Hans. I think I have $600.00 in my savings account. Right now that isn't going to happen, but it could happen one day perhaps. 

Well the grandmother heard the reading. Because in those days I used to tape them. Anybody remember taping? And she heard that and when the granddaughter, for her 18th birthday, the grandmother gave her a ticket and a two week all expense paid trip to Bali. And the girl came to see me and what Spirit said to her was: Keep your eyes and your ears open with no perception of finding anything. Just go and be. Well ,she did and she still lives there today. She married an Australian boy. She began to design fabrics and her fabrics sell at Neiman Marcus... all the big stores, all around the world. And she's very famous. And she sent me an email once and she said: All I needed to do was be quiet and accept the unconditional love that God was giving me at that moment. And she said: That's what I've tried to give back. She went not knowing.

Alfred:

Isn't that one of the hardest lessons Hans? Is just not to “give” unconditional love but be wiling to “accept” unconditional love?

Hans:

That's what I was trying to say earlier, Alfred. Absolutely. It's much easier to give than to receive. Because when we receive our little boy and our little girl inside us is saying: Uh, I wonder why they're giving me this. Do I deserve this? What are they up to? I didn't ask for this. And starts to go through a whole series of mind boggling mind chatter. When you just should say: Thank you. Oh my gosh, this is wonderful! Have you ever had a little child, Alfred, give you a flower or give you a little painting that they have drawn for you? It's huge. It's huge.

Alfred:

Yes, it's not the size or the value of the present. It's that they gave it to you with love.

Hans:

Yes.

Alfred:

And a lot of times you'll hear that about owners or cooks of restaurants is that they're not serving food, it's that they're serving love one plate at a time.

Hans:

Absolutely, absolutely. And that's what they're well known for is individual love. I knew a restaurant in Los Angeles and it's name was King's Foreign Land and it was a very upscale 
Oriental restaurant. Mr. King was a wonderful guy, he came from Hong Kong. But when you sat down, the owner would come to you and bring the chef and they would say: What are you looking to taste tonight? How are you feeling? What would you like us to do? They never had a menu. And they would create these incredible meals based on what somebody was feeling that night. That is unconditional love. And if there were a little more of it in this world we would all be better off. You see folks, unconditional love means you have no judgment. How's that for a tough one? 

I know some of the most beautiful people in this world who still suffer from judgment – the appearance of what's wrong. Nothing is wrong, it's our perception of what's going on. Alfred fought me on this one for quite a long time. I said: That's only your perception. And he would get... being a Sicilian, he would get very crabby. He says: No, I can see it's hurt... My dad was the same. He used to say to me: Where is my God? Why is my God letting this happen to these people? Filled with love, filled with compassion, but he couldn't understand pain. Okay? He couldn't understand pain. I'll tell you one thing about the lesson of unconditional love, Alfred, the reason I'm cutting this short a little bit today is because people are really thinking about what we're saying.

Alfred:

Yes, there was a lot in that lesson. There really was.

Hans:

There really was.

Alfred:

I mean it is not about loving. It is about allowing yourself to let go of judgment, let go of opinion, let go of fear, so that you can naturally be a loving soul, a loving spirit.

Hans:

That's right.

Alfred:

It's like if you're trying to be happy, don't try to make yourself happy.

Hans:

No.

Alfred:

It's you can make yourself happy by giving. Then you will find true happiness.

Hans:

Yes, absolutely.

Alfred:

Okay, so what the lesson really has to do with is shedding those things, those mind chatters, those ways of being, those habits...

Hans:

Let me go back and talk about perception. We need to shed perception. Replace it with unconditional love. Even, Alfred, even if it doesn't mean any sense to you at the moment, as long as you begin to practice it, that's what you will begin to draw towards you and that really makes the Spirit smile. And that will conclude our lesson for today.

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“Soul Mate Family, Friends and Animals” - Rebroadcast from February 14, 2013 Modern Day Mysticism - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“Soul Mate Family, Friends and Animals” - Rebroadcast from February 14, 2013 Modern Day Mysticism -  by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Soul Mate Family, Friends and Animals

September 28, 2014

Jennifer:

Hello everyone. Welcome to GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE - Wisdom for Your Soul. This is Jennifer, grateful to be with you on this beautiful day. Hans is a little under the weather today so we're broadcasting a Replay on the theme of Relationships that Hans has been teaching about recently. Hans will be well very soon. But if you'd like to send prayers to him for a speedy recovery, please do so via The Prayer Request link on HansKing.com.

For those of you who have sent in questions, we do appreciate your patience. Hans will respond to those questions on the next radio show. As for the Announcements this week - Hans' Interview "Transform Your Life By Changing Your Intentions" is playing all of this weekend on “Your Life Without Limits”. You can find the link to this on the Events Page on HansKing.com and on Hans' Facebook Page.

If you haven't already done so, please look for Hans Christian King1, on Facebook and check out Hans' Daily Quotes and Upcoming Events and have a look at our Random Acts of Kindness Event where Hans is giving away Lessons, Classes and other goodies to those who share his posts. All upcoming Interviews  and Events are always posted on Hans' Facebook Page.

That's all for the Announcements this week, so sit back, relax, and enjoy today's Show.

Alfred:

Hello everyone and welcome to MODERN DAY MYSTICISM being broadcast on The World Puja Network. Today's topic is: Soul Mate Family, Friends and Animals. And to discuss the infinite forms that soul mates come from, I present to you Hans Christian King.

Hans:

Good evening everyone. Welcome, welcome, welcome. We have a tendency to forget the value of the people who are presented to us for our lessons. Those come in many different kinds. They come in parents, lovers as friends, lovers as lovers. Even our little animal friends have agreed to come forward to help us to learn to love and to give unconditional love. 

Most of the time we reincarnate with specific parents and soul mate friends because we find it easier to work with people that we've actually worked with and have known before. So what happens is that when we have that little rountable meeting that you've heard me discuss with you and someone who was your mother last time and you were the child says: Well, you know you didn't get the grasp of what I was doing, how about we reverse the roles? And you'll become the opposite of the last role that we had. And you'll say: Well why? And your Guides and Helpers say: Because you're looking at it from only one point of view. You see?

Let's take the lesson for all old souls - the lesson of self-esteem, for instance. We are presented with the lesson of self-esteem because as an old soul it is sort of in the end, it's sort of the last of the things that we have chosen to learn...not an easy subject, my friends. Not an easy subject. So we will have set in place a series of events that have a debilitating impact on the humanness of us. A parent may not ever say I love you. A parent may not be there. Just not show up or be working or gone all the time. A parent may not be able to see who you are to recognize the wonder of who you are and you're always searching, searching, searching, trying to get the parent to acknowledge the importance of you. 

Why would we do that? Why would we put ourself in a situation where we couldn't be seen by the parents? We do so because our soul has chosen to arise above the appearance of humanness to be the essence of God in the form you are in at the moment in your evolutionary process. That just who you are...you've heard me say this forever now...just who you are is enough. Despite what a parent might say, or a boss might say, or anybody might say. So your job is to rise above that. And as much as you may love your parents, the fact that they can't get who you are is not your problem, it's their problem.

Now you've heard me say this many, many times and I know it always sounds like it's insulting, but it isn't. It is a truism: What someone thinks of you is none of your concern. What you think of what they think of you should be very much your concern. I have asked Alfred in the past to expound upon his parents, I have told all of you all of you what my situation was about a father who left when I was 4 or 5 years old and a mother who loved me, there was no doubt about that, had no idea who I was, absolutely no idea who I was. But that doesn't speak to the character of the person, it speaks to the pain of the child. The child doesn't know that it's set this lesson in place, and actually the parents don't know. 

So one of the things that I say to parents these days: Take the time to find out who your child is. Not who you want the child to be. But who the child actually is. Because the child is the embodiment of the Godforce in human form. And attached to that form are a series of lessons that that child has chosen to learn. So it doesn't behoove you to be guilty because you might have said something, or might have done something. What you need to do to help the child advance is to recognize the child. Help the child become better than their current perception.

So we reincarnate with soul mate friends, soul mate lovers, soul mate animals,  based on what our soul has chosen to learn. You agreed in advance that your parents and friends would present karmic lessons to you. They don't know that, and you don't know that. But that's how it works. You can say to me: Oh Hansy, I would never have done that. I would never, ever have set that in motion. But you don't know that. You think you know that, but you don't. You don't know exactly what your lessons are. But if you watch yourself and you keep repeating the same lesson over and over and over...  Like how we choose our partners. If you find you're fishing in the same pond all the time, trying to get a different result, then you have a serious problem. 

If you and your parents realize you and your children have karma with each other... Here we go again: You're not here by accident, you're in fact here by design...by design. So both parents and children have the same vested karmic interest in the lessons we have chosen to learn with each other. You see? 

Now I know that my father loves me. And how do I know that? I know my father loves me because he came back to a very fine Medium one day in Asheville, North Carolina, and he said to me: Son, remember that your mother only has one side of the issue. There are in fact, two sides to the issue. And at that moment, I realized that my mother in her anger, her rage about my father, had started manufacturing things out of her subconscious mind that actually weren't true. So that helped to free me up to understand that my mother had a terrific lesson, I mean really a hard lesson, because she set that in motion and my father had agreed to do what he did, and I had agreed with my father that he would not show up in my life, and I had agreed that my mother would cause all this trouble... All that, you see...all that minutia made me who I am today.

So what you have to do is you have to look at where you came from, and if you're very clever, which you all are, you can watch the synchronicity as you move through your life. As a child you may have agreed to present your parents with lessons. I'm quite certain that I did. Both my parents. You did also. So as a child you have agreed to present your parents with lessons. And your parents have agreed to present you with lessons. As a parent, please look for ways that you might help your children along their path.

Alfred, I would like to bring you in here, and I'm going to just sit here, and I want you to tell the people how you navigated through that karmic situation with your parents.

Alfred:

Well that's a good one, Hans. That definitely is a, oh, I like to say a mind bender, when you start looking at karmic relationships from a human perspective because it's really difficult for the human mind to comprehend that children, for example, have a karmic obligation to present lessons to their parents. And that is really difficult to think: Okay, I can get the fact that as a child my parents have presented lessons to me, but at what point do I, as a child, turn around and present lessons to my parents, and what lessons are those things? 

All of this, of course, is preordained, already agreed upon, and of course we have the wonderful part of nobody remembers anything that they agreed to. But it is part of the enlightenment process. It does become clearer the more spiritual you become, and it does help when you follow along your own path to really just go with the flow, not try to blame anyone, just simply say: I'm following a spiritual path and if my parents want to follow that path and they want to learn from it, great, if they don't want to learn from it, great. That's what I really got out of it.

Hans:

Was that difficult for you?

Alfred:

It was really difficult because you have to follow the lessons of having no expectations. And having no expectations of saving or helping your parents is extremely difficult. I think we get that issue in every single class we do.

Hans:

We do. It's just common.

Alfred:

When children wake up and they become spiritual and they become happy, they instinctively want to help their parents in the same way that they've been helped, and that's an investment, that's an expectation, and it's incredibly hard not to have an expectation that your parents are going to understand you, what you're doing, or that they're going to want what you have. However, it's you job to present what you're doing. It is not your job to have an expectation that they're going to learn from it.

Hans:

I have a question for you. I know how difficult your childhood was. In the process of coming out of the old awareness into the new awareness, what did you do with the anger?

Alfred:

That's part of the spiritual growth is as you let go of your past, of illusions, of opinions, the anger goes away instinctively. The anger is just a by-product of hanging onto the past. And once you let go of the past, the anger goes away. It's the same thing we used to say in the classes that: If you're standing in front of a fire, you can pour water over your head until kingdom come, and you're still going to be hot. What we say is: Pour water on the fire and then you won't be hot anymore.

Hans:

(Laughing) And then you'll be fine...exactly.

Alfred:

So you deal with the root cause of the symptom. The symptom is that you're angry. What is the root cause? My parents abused me. I'm an abused child. Well, I'm sorry those are past events. That's your opinion of a past event, and if you just let that go and live in the now, you won't be angry. And that's easier said than done.

Hans:

Well, I think for all of us, even for those of us who follow a spiritual path, I think it's still hard to deal with the inner child, and soothe that child. We might be able to rationalize, Alfred, that this is what we should do, and there's a reason for all of this. But there still is a little wounding in the child, no matter what happens. That's for you, for me, for just about anybody listening to the show tonight. You make the pain okay. It's okay. It's alright. And I know with you Alfred, if I say to you the plate is hot. What will you do?

Alfred:

I'm going to touch it.

Hans:

There you go. That's what I'm getting at.

Alfred:

I love that. It drives Hans crazy.

Hans:

(Laughing) It drives people in restaurants crazy that are trying to serve him. And they're saying: Hot plate! He'll pick it up anyway...

Alfred:

Well I've learned not to pick it up, I just touch it a little... Nothing like a little pain to wake you up.

Hans:

Oooohhhh! 

Alfred:

Yes.

Hans:

You got it! 

Alfred:

Yes.

Hans:

You see? Nothing like a little pain to wake you up.

Alfred:

And that's what we try to teach people is when you feel a symptom, look for the root cause of the symptom. It's not: Okay, I'm aggravated, let me go to the Gym. I'm aggravated, let me have a drink or do something else. I'm aggravated, let me do meditation. No. What we try to teach is that if you're aggravated, what is the button that somebody pushed that triggered that aggravation? Look at that root cause and I guarantee you it has nothing to do with being in the moment.

It's either: I'm frustrated, I'm not where I should be in the future, I'm aggravated because something happened...

Hans:

I don't have as much money as I thought was going to have...

Alfred:

I don't know what you're talking about...

Hans:

(Laughing) I know you well.

Alfred:

Yes. So it's looking for the root cause of the aggravation. Yes, you can do it in meditation. But it's getting at the root cause of it and a lot of what we're trying to explain in this soul mate topic has to do with a lot of the things that you have an opinion that are negative, or hurtful, or painful, really aren't. They're actually lessons that you requested people present you with.

Hans:

Yes. You hit upon that and I think it's really, really important. You simply can't blame others for your pain. We all want to do this. We all want to believe our parents did this to us, or our husband or our wife did that to us in the divorce... We all want to blame, blame, blame. But what we forget is - we set it in place. 

The main lessons of this soul mate topic are, for instance, don't blame others for painful relationships. Know how much you love them. But also, how much you will not allow them to put guilt upon you. That's a very big lesson because that guilt is put there deliberately to demean you. It is put there deliberately to demean you because you chose for it to be put there. Your job is to turn to anybody who demeans you and say: Excuse me. That is only your interpretation of who I am. My interpretation tells me I'm wonderful and my God loves me. They have no comeback for that. 

Be grateful, be grateful that you have had all these lessons come into your life because one day, one day when you make that transition...one day, as I like to say when you fall off your perch... One day you'll be able to look back with a bunch of friends and loved ones and see this last episode of your incarnation cycle and say: By golly, here's what I wanted to do and this is what I left having learned. And then your soul soars.

Sometimes I have to say to people very difficult things. I remember when Alfred was getting started, he just fought me tooth and nail, thinking he had the answer. And time after time after time, Spirit proved he did not. That is was nothing more than a lesson.

So what I want you all to hear is there is no way you should ever be so angry with anyone that you lose your self-awareness, that you lose your spiritual being. There should never be a time in your life when lessons are so strong that you want to give up. Because the truth of the matter is you put them in place. And the wonderful thing about it is once you really begin to understand: Oh, I see there's a continuity in what I'm doing, I keep repeating the the same things over and over again. Why are you doing that? What is going on for you that you continue to do this? Time in, time out, over and over and over. It is because you have not learned the lesson of the lesson. You have not gotten the value. But the moment you get the value, it's like this great weight is suddenly removed from you. Relax children. Soul mate friends, soul mate animals, are there for you to also have fun with, and provide unconditional love.

How many of you today emailed someone that you think may be feeling alone and wished them Happy Valentines Day? I did that this morning. I sent out Valentines to people I know happen to be by themselves right now. Think, everyone of you, send one person, even though it's late, send one person a Valentines Greeting. Just a kind word, that's all. And watch how much better you feel for doing that. It will help change your life.

Alright Alfred that concludes the lesson for this evening.

“Why Is It So Hard To Be Loved?” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“Why Is It So Hard To Be Loved?” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Why Is It So Hard To Be Loved?

August 9, 2014

Alfred:

Hello everyone and welcome to GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE. This is Alfred, the Padawan to the Modern Day Mystic himself Hans Christian King. And we're coming to you live with a brand new topic for this show. Thank you very much for your patience over the last couple of weeks. We've been running around Mexico taking care of things. Now that things are taken care of, we're coming back at you. But before we get to our topic, which is "Why Is It So Hard To Be Loved?", first let's talk about some housekeeping. Of course we have on Facebook our "Random Acts of Kindness". It's not really a Contest, it's rewarding you for helping us help others. Basically, if you share any of Hans King's Quotes on Facebook we will randomly pick people to give Audio Lessons, Video Lessons and whatever prizes we just feel like giving out randomly. So please join Facebook if you haven't already - Hans Christian King1 - or  you can go to the front page of HansKing.com for our Facebook Page and “Share”. The more you “Share”, the more chances that we'll randomly pick you and just give out Free Stuff. And secondly we'll be posting a lot of Tele-seminar and Interview replays. Hans was recently on the John Burgos Show and I, myself was recently interviewed talking about Soul Mate Relationships. Those are going to be posted on Facebook when there's a replay. And Jennifer, can you you please tell everybody the dates of the replays are going to happen?

Jennifer:

I sure can Alfred. Hi everyone, it's great to be with you again. There's a lot going on this week.  I believe we have 4 Interviews that are happening. First up is the Interview Hans did on the Awakening Heart Network. That's replaying now through Monday, August 11th. This Interview is also on HansKing.com. If you look under "Free Recordings", you'll find it at the top of the page. On Wednesday, August 13th, Hans will appear on The Year of Miracles Tele-seminar. Also on Wednesday, August 13th, Alfred will be making an appearance on The Passion and Intimacy Tele-seminar. And on Thursday, August 14th, Hans' appearance with John Burgos on Beyond The Ordinary will be replayed. If you missed that one the first time, be sure and catch it this Thursday! Alfred, these will all be posted on Hans' Official Facebook Page so just in case I missed any, everyone please check back on Facebook for updates. Thanks and back to you Alfred.

Alfred:

Thanks Jennifer for letting us know when the replays are going to happen. And of course just randomly keep checking our Facebook Page to find out when we are going to be broadcasting Interviews. We do have 2 Facebook Pages. One of them is a "Follow" Facebook Page. We're no longer using that one. We're only using the "Like" Facebook Page. If you happen to wind up on the "Follow" Facebook Page. If you happen to wind up on the “Follow” Facebook Page it will say "We're No Longer Using This Page", please go to this particular Facebook Page. Because we're only making Announcements on One. So basically if you're at Hans King's Page and you have "Liked" Hans or you can "Like" us, that's the right place to be to get information about Announcements, Random Acts of Kindness, Interviews and all kinds of other kinds of fun stuff. And I think that's pretty much it for the Announcements, so without further ado, I'll present to you the Modern Day Mystic himself Hans Christian King.

Hans:

Boy, you were a bit wordy today. A lot of things to say. Hi everybody, welcome back. Yes, we've been running around getting a lot of stuff done and so happy to be back with you. Most people in my profession and people around the world take breaks in July and August and the first of September. We didn't mean to take this big of a break but we're glad to be back with you and hope everyone is having an absolute wonderful summer. It is hot, it is humid where we are with very little, if any rain which no one here seems to understand. Anyway, God is great and I'm sure it'll rain when it's supposed to. I had a call that I did the other day and on the call, a very nice woman out of New York said to me: Hansy, she said: Why is it so difficult to be loved? She said: I've never sort of allowed myself to be loved. And of course the answer comes back through the heart that says: Do I deserve to be loved? Why are they loving me more than I love myself? Or: Shouldn't my parents love me? Or: Shouldn't I be accepted unconditionally by my friends? Why is it so difficult to be loved? Dear people, at some point all of you had asked this question. Start with the "I am". "I am being loved." If you knew, each and every one of you, how much unconditional love you receive every single day, both in the waking hours and in the sleeping hours, you are surrounded by a pool of love, friends, helpers, people who are dedicated to your dharma. And so we like to say: You know, you couldn't be alone if you tried. You have so much love out there. You need to go to that mirror. Remember that mirror trick that I taught all of you some years ago? And I said: Go stand in front of the mirror and look in the eyes of the person looking back and you and say: I don't know who you are but I'm going to find out and when I do I'm going to take very good care of you and I love you very much. Try that. Try to first love yourself. Because the creation of you is singular. There is not another you anywhere in infinity. You are unique and you and your relationship with your god are unique. There isn't anyone God loves more than you - you're so unique. You have to find the uniqueness of yourself. You know you hear me say that everyday when I get up I go and look at a flower or lI ook at a tree or look at the clouds. And I am so full of love at that moment to just be able to be with the trees, with the flowers. Even if it's snowing, I'll say: Isn't this beautiful? Finding beauty in what you see, feel and touch and looking in the mirror and finding the beauty of your own soul... Allowing people to say: I love you. Allowing people to bring you a flower or someone to say: Thank you for helping me. I love you. I get, every single day of my life, I get emails that are signed this way: Thank you for all you do. I love you. Every day. And sometimes it's hard because in my profession you have a tendency not to be able to remember everybody that you see because we see so many people. But I think: Isn't it incredible that somebody took the time to say: Thank you, I love you. So I say to all of you: Thank you, I love you. Your mind chatter develops a program and I call it "conditionality". And it can prove to you why you're not good enough to be loved. How's that working for you Alfred? 

Alfred:

It really is true that if you're looking for love to first love yourself. It is an unbelievably difficult task because normally the humanness of us wants to feel better by getting something. If you want to feel love, then you look for someone to give you love, you look for love by getting love. And what we're trying to tell you is: If you're looking for love, first go within. To love yourself. To be who you truly are. Of course do all the work that we've been talking about year after year. Do the inner work. But what we're talking about here specifically is: Love yourself. Trust your soul. Love your soul. Love who you truly are. Be that vibration of love. Know that you truly love yourself. Then when you go out looking for a soul mate partner that person will be attracted to the vibration of love that you are. If you haven't done this work, the inner work of loving yourself, imagine the vibration that you're giving off. Imagine the vibration that other people are picking up. Imagine the people that are being attracted to that vibration. So if you really want someone to love you truly, first start with truly loving yourself.

Hans:

I was talking with a friend today and during the conversation the friend was saying that their partner had gotten upset with them about something that hadn't been done and was hollering and screaming and being upset and they decided to use the old thing that we've taught them to do - which is at the moment, just love that person. Just go through, find the love inside your heart and love that person. And they said very shortly the whole thing was dissipated. Remember when I say to you: *You can't shine the light in the dark. The light will always  persevere...always. Learning to go to yourself every morning and say: I deserve to be loved today. First by myself, to be loved by who I am, even if I may not  know who I am, I am my best friend. No one will ever love me more than I do. Now let's stop right there. Think about what I said: No one will ever love you more than you should love yourself. And if that is happening to you, you are failing at the very game of life. You want someone who can see in you what you see in you and that's what when we call “someone being able to see you". To see that essence of that little angel in you. To fall in love with the person behind the eyes. That's why I have you go to the mirror and look in the mirror and talk to yourself, remind yourself you are your best friend. Remind yourself how much love that you have for you. Discover the wonder of "you". And when you do that it's like a magnet for other people and other situations. Pretty soon you begin to get things from others that say: Thank you for reminding me that I love you. And all people start to say little things to you and kindnesses start to come to you because people can feel that you have a kind heart, your essence is kind, your essence is love. Alfred says something that's key. If you're looking outside to be loved, you're failing at the game. That love comes when you identify the love that you have for you. It doesn't matter what others think of you. It doesn't matter what others say about you But it surely matters how you feel about you. And once you fully get that, once you fully understand that, your whole life will take on an entirely new direction. It's like accepting abundance for instance. You can't search for abundance, you won't find it. You have to become abundance. And when you become abundance, abundance becomes you. If you seek after love after love, you won't find it. But if you love you, it will find you. Remember your grandmother used to say to you: Never go looking for love. It finds you. Always. And the greatest gift you will ever give yourself is the wonder of your own human spirit. The love that God has for you. The love that Spirit sees in you. When I'm doing an appointment with somebody, I look past what I see, and all I can see is the little child inside of the person standing or sitting in front of me or on the phone or doing a Skype with me. I don't see who they're displaying. I see the essence of the Godforce in their heart. So that when Spirit looks at us, They have unconditional love. We teach you this year after year. Spirit looks at us, They have unconditional love. They don't see any flaw. Only we see a flaw in ourselves. Okay? Alfred?

Alfred:

And that's a lot to do with the inner work is when we stop being hard on ourself, when we stop picking on ourself, when we let go of our traumas, when we let go of those things that are haunting us, when we stop beating ourselves up and move over to "self love", "self unconditional love", just letting those things go which have haunted us for so many years... The true you, the essence of you, the soul of you, the Spirit in you will come out, will shine. You're uncovering that which you are. By doing the work, by letting "out" the loving soul, the loving being that you are and you let that shine, then all of a sudden the people that you wanted to attract to you will be without you having to look for them because then they can finally see who you truly are and be attracted to you.

Hans:

Thank you Alfred. Thank you. Sometimes we come from families that don't necessarily reinforce their love for us, or who may, for whatever reason, not have been loved when they were a child and find it difficult to love themselves, therefore love you. But if we operate ourselves out of a place of total love for all of them, realizing that everyone we meet is a product of the environment they were raised in. That they had set the agenda. They chose the parents for whatever agenda, whatever lessons they needed to learn. And we just see them as unconditional love. Even if they yell at us...no matter what happens. Of course friends, there are always going to be people who are not emotionally sound, or mentally well, who do great damage. And it's very hard to love those people. But if you operate to them without judgment and just send love - that's it - just love. We pulled down the Iron Wall across Europe. We pulled down that horrible wall in Berlin. We got rid of cruise missiles without firing a shot because it was the "right thing to do at the right time and love prevailed"...not armaments...love prevailed. So if you're feeling unloved, it comes from a very weak place in your own heart. The moment that starts to happen, the moment you start to feel alone, stop for a moment and say: Wait a minute. I'm my best friend. What am I talking about? I'm all I need. I am enough for me. And that's why I did the CD Series "You Are Enough". To help you to understand that all you need to do is see in you what God and Spirit see in you. That's it. Not what you're doing, not what you're wearing, but just looking in that mirror and knowing at that moment: Oh, my goodness I AM my best friend. And I love me and I know that my god sees in me all of my possibilities, all my potentials. No matter what your age, no matter what your profession. I have a thing that is concerning me an enormous amount. For those of you who are yelling, you'll probably raise your eyes, but we will see who is right in the end.  If we do not get cellphones out of our children's hands and our young people's hands, they are never going to experience true love and a life. It is not going to happen. I know people who can't get in a car without watching their cellphone. I watch people who can't eat meals in restaurants, who can't go to movies, who cannot do anything where they shut off their cellphone. Nothing. I watched a young man here in Mexico the other day during an entire movie he never brought his eyes up from his little smart-phone of some kind - never. He never saw the movie. I see people on buses, I see people in department stores, walking the streets, with their eyes glued and what is happening is they are becoming this new electronic age that impersonalizes all of us. I saw a very, very nicely dressed man and a woman, in the 50's the other day at a restaurant in Asheville in North Carolina. They came in, they sat down, they brought the menus over, they picked up their smart-phones. The waiter came back 3 times and finally they ordered. They looked at their cellphones or whatever, smart-phones. They looked at them during their entire meal. They never spoke a word to each other. That's concerning me. And if you find yourself doing that - you're running away from who you are. It's an escape mechanism. Love yourself enough please to not do that. Alfred's is currently raising his eyes over here because he knows how I feel about this. Alfred, what do you think about this?

Alfred:

It's a really tough one and I've boiled it down to "how much time do you take for yourself" verses "how much time do you take for others". Spiritually speaking it really doesn't sound like the best thing, but you really first need to take time for "you". One of the exercises that we go over in Intuitive Development and even when I teach Automatic Writing and Advanced Channeling, is you have to let go of everything in order to get in touch in the vibration of nature, in order to get in touch with the vibration of who you truly are - the vibration of Spirit. Being on these electronic devices - I can pretty much guarantee you that's pretty much not the vibration that's going through your body. Okay? If you're looking for love, if you're looking for self-love, you have to make sure you take time for you to vibrate as you, to vibrate as a soul, to vibrate as love and as I have found out and many people in my situation who are in IT or anybody who just has a smart-phone, that's not the vibration of those little gadgets, that's not the vibration of working with technology. So just try to carve out "you" time. Time to go feed the ducks, time to walk in nature, time to go look at flowers. You're talking to somebody who could not understand flowers 2 years ago, could not understand nature a few years ago. And if it wasn't for the Great Mystic himself, I probably wouldn't...

Hans:

The Great Poobah to you.

Alfred:

Yes, the Poobah. Is that your new name Hans? The Poobah?

Hans:

I had that a couple of years ago.

Alfred:

The Grand Poobah.

Hans:

The Great Grand Poobah, yes.

Alfred:

So talking from someone who's experienced life in the extreme of technology... Yes, it's great it'll help promote your career. Yes, it's great to keep in touch with people. But you are in control and that is not spiritual. Spiritual is letting go. Spiritual is about connecting to the vibration of Spirit. And that's what we're trying to say here is if you're trying to find love in your life, first let go of all of those things, surrender all of those things, stop looking outward and look inward and connect to the vibration of love “within you” first.

Hans:

Thank you Alfred. I said to a friend of mine this morning: What would happen to you and I took this cellphone, this smart-phone, away from you right now and turned it off? And you could see in his face absolute concern. Because this person's on vacation, alright? And I said: And I turned it off for 3 hours. And he said: Well what if somebody wants to get in touch with me and what if this... I said: That's not the issue.  I asked you what you would do if I took this away for 3 hours. And so that person had no place in the person they've become for that reality. No place to go to the beach without taking the cellphone...I guess it's called a smart-phone. No place to do anything in their life without it. Date applications, Taxi applications, Grocery applications... And what I'm going to say to all of you and I want you to all remember this: Operating on the smart-phones is opposite of being a spiritual being, period. Period. First comes “the you” and what you give and do for “you”. That's what Alfred was talking about. Then what you do is another matter entirely. How you operate the rest of your life is completely different. But if you're unable to shut off your smart-hone, if you're unable to back away from you computer, if you find yourself taking your smart-phone to dinner, operating it in the car, then children you are losing the essence of your own spiritual development. That is not loving yourself. That's hiding from yourself. So for all of you who want to practice spiritual development, do so in a way that you provide a peaceful, loving space to love yourself. And I watched Alfred struggle with this. To this day I watch him struggle with taking the cellphone to a restaurant...the smart-phone. There is something being built into our children that said it is the appendage of you. No it's not. It's a device manufactured by people to control the minds of people. I realize I'm getting old but eventually people will see this. Alrighty Alfred, I think that concludes the lesson for today. 

“Communication with Spirit” - Rebroadcast from 2013 - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“Communication with Spirit” - Rebroadcast from 2013 - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic:  Communication with Spirit

July 12, 2014

Alfred:

Hello everyone and welcome to MODERN DAY MYSTICISM being broadcast on The World Puja Network. Tonight's topic - "Communication with Spirit". Without further ado, I present to you Hans Christian King.

Hans:

Good evening everyone. Good evening. Thank you for being with us this evening. Beautiful day here in the Great Smokey Mountains and the trees are coming out, the rivers and streams are full. So I think that summer is coming a little bit, I think.

For many years people have said to me: What does the Bible say about Angels? It's very clear. In the Bible...let's go to the Greek translation of the Bible for instance. It says that: An Angel is a messenger or a bearer of information. But each and everyone of us has an ability to connect with that Angel, to connect with that bearer of information - all of this habit. Unfortunately through the many years of our lives we've had a tendency to sort of paste over it, to paper over it, to paint over it, to where it is very difficult for the Spirit - those loving Angels - to get through. So "Communication with Spirit" is a matter of recognizing #1, you have it and that each person who is listening to us this evening has souls in the spirit form who assist you in your journey on a daily basis. No one is ever without Guidance. It is a matter of recognition. It is a matter of opening up and accepting that you have it. And beginning to limit the mind chatter opens the door for all the possibilities. As always I bring Alfred on-board here for a moment. Alfred how did you first recognize that you had Angels, Guides, Helpers, Friends?

Alfred:

Well there's a difference between receiving your first communication and getting an understand of who it was from. So is it my first communication or my first understanding?

Hans:

Your first understanding Alfred.

Alfred:

I would say through Automatic Writing...

Hans:

Um hm.

Alfred:

...is the first chance that I was able to get very clear communication from Guidance that specifically had to do about my life and that came through me. So it was my first direct contact with my Guidance.

Hans:

Um hmm. Did you have to go through a process of...for me it always was so I didn't go through the process... Did you have to go through a process of belief in it? How did you get past the mind chatter that may have thrown up doubts? I think that would be very important and helpful to our listening family.

Alfred:

It's a quiet determination that I talked about last week is that you have to be determined to say: Look brain I know you really want to run things, I know you've been running things for the last 30, 40 years - let's give this a shot. Let's just try it. Let's try it for a week, 2 weeks. If we don't like it, we'll go back to way things were. But maybe it will work. If it does work, hey let's at least try it and make sure. So you have to be very, very determined and resolute that if you're going to do it - doit. Or don't do it. Yoda said: Do it, but don't try.

Hans:

Do or don't do but don't try.

Alfred:

And that's it. You can't be sort of pregnant. You can't sort of be spiritual. Sure you can try to be spiritual but you asked me the thing that really was the determining factor in me being able to receive communication - it was absolute determination to put aside my mind chatter and connect to that which might be...could be.

Hans:

I remember when you used to go into your office and stay in there for hours and you had a sign that said: Don't even think of knocking. And that said to the outside world that you were actually sitting with Spirit and developing communication. Is that how it worked?

Alfred:

When I first started, yes. Basically I locked myself in a room and cut off all communication. Later I came on to realize that's how the great Masters learned self-realization, learned to receive guidance. In India they went into a cave in the Himalaya's. The Monks, whether they be Christian Monks or Buddhist Monks, went to a Monastery and isolated themselves so they weren't interfered with in order to meditate, receive guidance, go inward. So I got lucky and found the same type of path.

Hans:

You know what I have found with so many people is this...it's not so much mistrust, I think as it is "fear to believe". When we say to you: Every person is assisted by spirit form. So in other words these souls are in spirit form. Each and every one of you has Guidance, again Helpers, Friends. And I know that so many people want to believe that is true. But they find it very hard to apply. I remember one lady just looked at me and she said: Are you sure? Are you sure Hans it's true? Well Angel, I've been working with it for 56 years so for me it absolutely is true. Now I've been talking to you folks about this particular class that we're teaching...been talking about limiting the mind chatter. Now I've been talking to you a long time about that. But one of the reasons that you learn to limit the mind chatter is that by doing so the better able you are to hear Guidance. That's the key. So in other-words, less is more. And so, now people say: Well Hans, how did you turn off your mind chatter? For the work I turn it off completely. But in the beginning I had to work on it. I was the same as everybody else. Because the fact was that I was in the human form. And again, Spirit always reminds us that while we're in human form we are susceptible to human frailties, you see. And so there's a part of the naturalness of the human form that wants to "believe" that it knows best, that it is in control, it is taking caring of us. So to risk or to venture "outside" of that belief causes quite a raucous in the consciousness and I call it, of course mind chatter. But the more you learn to push the mind chatter aside, the clearer you get in "Communication with Spirit". It's that simple, you see. The more you work on the mind chatter, which is what I've been harping on you folks for so many years, the more you learn that the more you counter the mind chatter, the more you get from Spirit. Alfred was that so for you?

Alfred:

There's a lot of side benefits that we've talked about - happiness, bliss, peace but the hugest benefit you get from clearing mind chatter is that it makes a space for guidance from Spirit to enter your life. And that's where we're taking the teachings now. We're moving it up a level...taking it up a notch to say: What happens when you let go of so much?  Let go of bad habits, let go of bad thoughts - it creates a space.

Hans:

Um hmm.

Alfred:

The questions is: What do you put in there? We say: Nothing.

Hans:

That's exactly right.

Alfred:

Enjoy the peace, enjoy the bliss, be happy, do nothing, relax. And then we're taking you on the next level which is: There's now a space for Spirit's Guidance, Truth, Blessings to come into your life.

Hans:

Well what you're saying is absolutely correct. You know the gifts of the previous lessons on mind chatter is clarity Alfred. It really is that simple. But I find in my work that people want so much to believe. They try so hard to believe. But belief is very simple you see. It just "is". Now on my way down here this evening from upstairs, we have a recording studio downstairs, I thought I would go outside and as I did there was a bunny rabbit sitting on the walkway. And the little bunny froze and I froze and I just started to talk to him and I said: Well I have to go to work now. And he just looked at me and turned his head. Then he remembered his fear. But for a moment...for a moment...he just sat there and looked at me. The same when you're in human form. For a moment if you but believe, you can take those moments and stretch them and the more you stretch them the clearer you become. Something came up today that would concern or worry most people. I just looked at it and I thought: Well this is interesting. No, I choose, I choose not to go there. I choose not to go there. I choose to simply "be". Which is practicing what I teach. Because whatever the mind chatter is saying it basically isn't true. All of us from time to time have had great moments of clarity. And in that clarity we find ourself...we find our truth. Clarity allows space you see for Spirit to present guidance to you. And that's what we're trying to teach you. This is what we're harping on. All these different things that you keep thinking we sayover and over again - if you put them together you will understand why. Clarity brings you your Guidance. Have you found that so Alfred?

Alfred:

Clarity is not clarity of thought - the way we're talking about it. Clarity is...

Hans:

Lack of thought.

Alfred:

...it's lack of thought. It's lack of mind chatter. It has a lot to do with the class that we just taught which is Spring Cleaning for Happiness. It's letting go of old clutter that you don't need to have. What we're actually saying - it's not like real life if you put it in a closet and let go of it it doesn't bother you. Yeah, if it's something that you're trying to hide and stick it in your mind it will bother you...

Hans:

Yes it will.

Alfred:

So clarity is letting go of old habits, letting go of mind chatter. It's being peaceful. It just is. That's the clarity we're talking about.

Hans:

Simplicity itself. Remember always the truth and clarity are simplicity itself. What is in your way - altogether now, come on - what is in your way? One, two, three - your mind chatter. That children is what is in your way. And once you begin to understand that you begin to giggle at it. You laugh at it. Because you see some of the things that you do to deliberately, absolutely deliberately, try to scuttle your own ship! And then you call me and say: Well Hansy, why am I doing this? Because you don't believe. You're still operating out of the mind chatter. To get clear communication with Spirit - #1 you must first go inward. You know go -  inside of yourself and release perception. Now that's...Alfred there you go have fun with that one.

Alfred:

Well that's what we've been talking about for the last month is we've been talking and harping about letting go of perception, letting go of opinion, letting go of things such as trauma, letting go...just letting go of everything you possibly could and we've just been talking about it so much but we've saved the best for last. The main absolute reason and it's the core - absolute core of Hans' teachings - to let go of mind chatter, perception, opinion...these human aspects...is because you will open yourself up to an army of supporters, an army of love with infinite knowledge and infinite resources to guide your life. And the best part is they know your dharma. They know why you're there. You've asked them to guide you. But for the first time you're going to say: Okay, can you come guide me now? I'm opening space in my life for you to help.

Hans:

The key here is when Spirit sees your willingness to let go of perception through mind chatter... When They see that, when They understand: Aah, they've heard it! A smile comes over the face of your Guides, your Helpers...comes over God's face. A smile that says: Thank Heaven. Now they can do their real work. Now they can begin to move forward in love and light and find out what it is that they came to do. For many of you the internal struggle over self worth, self esteem...just learning that... Folks you hear me say it but do you ever put it to consciousness? “You already are enough.” Nothing you are going to do or create is ever going to make you better than who you already are for God. And we all have so many heartbeats. We all have so much air to breathe. That's it...and then we go home. And then we meet all up in our classes that we'll be doing on the Other Side, when we meet up, and you do your life's review and you say: Hansy, thank goodness I listened "or" Hansy, I wish I had listened. Be in the group that says: Aha, I listened. By releasing that which you perceive to be true, you create space for Spirit to present truth and miracles in your life. Again, by releasing by what you think to be true through your perception, you create space for Spirit to present truth and miracles to you. Alfred?

Alfred:

This is the real essence of the lesson tonight. You have two choices. Listen to what your mind perceives to be true. Listen to the opinions in your head. Or, listen to what your Guidance is telling you. You can't have both. Well should I say it's really difficult to have both. Okay? Why is it difficult to have both? Well imagine listening to a Professor on stage but you've got headphones on. Well the headphones are going to block what the person on the stage is trying to tell you. It's really difficult to listen to two people talking to you at the same time.

Hans:

Yes.

Alfred:

Usually for us poor humans we can only listen to one thing at a time and hear one thing at a time and concentrate on one thing at a time. So it's a choice. It's a choice whether you want to believe what your mind is telling you or to let that go and open yourself up to the unbelievable possibilities, the unbelievable love of an army of family and friends just waiting to bless you and support you...

Hans:

And open all these wonderful doors for you.

Alfred:

...and it's almost impossible to describe all of the things that can happen once you allow your Guidance and once you allow the Universal Energy into your life. You just have to live it. And then when it hits you, you just say: Oh... And that's something that you as an individual need to do. It's not something that we can tell you. We can tell you: Here's the water. That's all we can do.

Hans:

You know Alfred somebody wrote a book and I forget who it was but they said: It was there all the time.

Alfred:

It is there all the time.

Hans:

All the time.

Alfred:

And that's the issue is if you're so caught in your head you're not going to hear anybody trying to give you guidance. They're not going to whack you over the head unless it's really important or life threatening. But basically on a general, every single day basis, your Guidance, your Angels are guiding you.

Hans:

Yes.

Alfred:

And that's the essence is they are always there.

Hans:

You're never alone.

Alfred:

You are never alone. But if you're in your head, you are alone. Because you're blocking them. And again another essence of tonight's teachings is that by letting go of what you perceive to be reality, by letting that go, then all of a sudden you are available to receive what is actually reality, what is the purpose of your life.

Hans:

So in other-words, we go back to our original statement. What is in our way? Our mind chatter is in the way of our peace, in the way of our joy, in the way of our possibilities, in the way of the blessing of ourself to ourself. Mind chatter is the single most destructive element in nature as far as this man is concerned. Let yourself be free. For instance, Alfred and I are going toteach a class called "Walking Between Two Worlds". We will teach it at the Agape University in Los Angeles. And people say: Well what's that mean? It means learning how to literally walk this path with one foot in this dimension and one foot in the dimension of Spirit. Yes, you can do that. And a lady emailed me: Well how does that work? Because you believe. Here's what you believe - That you are in fact an Angel having a human experience. Your spirit, your soul, an essence was chosen to have a human experience. So you learn how to reattach to that spiritual quality of who you are and then how to garner the most out of this world. As the Christ pointed out very clearly: Learn to be in this world but not of it. Once that settles in you, once you hear that, your life changes. Yes Alfred?

Alfred:

A lot of what we're talking about is very, shall we say, pie in the sky. Okay? Miracles, Truth, Guidance...

Hans:

That's what the mind chatter like to get a hold of.

Alfred:

Yes. (Alfred changes his voice) "And they're not giving you any hard core examples, can you really believe this hogwash, what are they really talking about, they're just trying to fool you."

Hans:

Alfred that's very good, I like that. We'll get you a job as a voice over man.

Alfred:

(Laughing) Yeah, I've had some battles with my mind chatter. So let's give you a couple of examples that really happened to us. Okay? A couple of years ago I was working on Hans' book and I said: Okay Hans it's time to start looking for a publisher. Now the graduate in me would say: Okay, let's do some market research and let's find out who Hans' direct and indirect competition isand let’s find out what publishers they use and let's make a sample of the book and start sending it around to the publishers and let's find out what the normal percentages are and how much the negotiation should be and start getting a short list of potential publishers and then discussing more details with all of those... And I wasn't even a quarter of the way through that and Hans says: No. Spirit will bring us a publisher. And I said: I'm sorry? And he says: No. Don’t do any of that. When it's time They'll bring us a publisher.

Hans:

You looked very incredulous at me like I had lost my mind.

Alfred:

I was speechless and I said, as I've been teaching: Okay, let's try it. What’s he worst thing that can happen? Nothing. I'll go back to the way, the insanity that I was going to do it...

Hans:

But what happened Alfred?

Alfred:

But what happened is I printed out a copy of the book and Hans says: Let me carry it around. Well about a month later Hans was in Los Angeles doing readings and a client he had for about 20 years who happened to own his own publishing company says... What did he say Hans?

Hans:

He said: What's that sitting beside you? I said: It's a manuscript for my book. And he ran across the table and he grabbed it and said: It's mine. I will publish it.

Alfred:

And that's what happens when you allow "space". That's what happens when you "trust". Miracle - what is a miracle? A miracle is something that happens for your benefit that you didn't do.

Hans:

Um hm.

Alfred:

That's a miracle.

Hans:

Well the miracle that I think of is Alfred is actually putting yourself in a place to receive the miracle.

Alfred:

And that's your job...

Hans:

And that’s your job.

Alfred:

...to create the miracle. That's a little bit advanced, but it's along the same principle is if you want to hear Guidance - turn left, yes, no, go straight ahead, stop, yes this is for you, no that's not for you - you need to "hear" it. If you want to receive truth, if you want to receive miracles, you need to stop being so busy. Stop thinking. Stop thinking you're in control. Stop thinking you know the best way. Possibly...

Hans:

Wow, that was really a statement from you.

Alfred:

It is. Trust me. It is.

Hans:

(Laughing) Oh my goodness. Oh my goodness...

Alfred:

Grinding my teeth on that one. Because that's what they teach all of us is: You are in control of your life. You can be anything you want to be. And we're saying: Sure. Okay. How's that working for ya?

Hans and Alfred Laughing

Alfred:

Are you stressed out of your mind?

Hans:

I used to say to Alfred - How are you doing in there son? (Laughing)

Alfred:

Did you go to sleep arguing with yourself every single night...do those voices in your head keep you up at night?

Hans:

He once said to me...I was giving him a little dressing....and he says: WHERE DO YOU COME FROM? And he just couldn't get it. He was so educated and so caught up in the appearance of that education and the bank jobs and the hard work and all that and he goes: Where do you come from? And I said: From peace...from peace.

Alfred:

And what I'm telling you is you can believe that that's the best that there is or you can try to just open yourself up to things that you thought unimaginable. Here's a really simple one. Think we mentioned this once or twice...really simple. You walk into a room. All of a sudden you look around. You don't know anybody, but you walk into a room and and something tells you: Ewh, that person's kind of icky. And your brain says: Look, he's got a gold watch. He's really nicely dressed. All those people are around him. We should go over there. And your heart tells you: No. Something's wrong with that situation. Something doesn't feel right. Well if you've ever watched...what is that show...American Greed... Is that the show? It's always the people with the big gold watches and the boats and the yachts and the signed photos who are the people who are the scammers. Well guess what? Your Guidance and your higher-self just may have saved you a bunch of time. Why? Because you listened to that and not your mind chatter. That in itself is truth. That in itself saved you a lot of pain and agony. Very simple example of how your life could be better by not listening to your mind chatter.

Hans:

Thank you Mr. Alfred. The reason folks I use Alfred a lot...one of the reasons is because he's so fresh into the experience of declining the information from the mind chatter. And for many of you I know it's been a big help to have a younger person...because I've been at it a long time...and so it's just natural for me. But it wasn't natural for him. So this has been very, very important to us. And I believe Alfred that that concludes the lesson for this evening. 

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