“Mean People” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

“Mean People” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Mean People

November 22, 2014

Alfred:

Hello everyone and welcome to GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE - Wisdom for Your Soul. This is Alfred the Padawan Learner to the Modern Day Mystic himself Hans Christian King. We've got a doozy of a topic for you today: Mean People - and how to deal with mean people from a spiritual perspective. But first I'm handing you over to Jennifer who takes care of Facebook and our Random Acts of Kindness. If you don't know what that is, Jennifer please tell them about our Random Acts of Kindness and what's going on with us for the next couple of weeks.

Jennifer:

Thanks Alfred. Our Random Acts of Kindness Event, as many of you already know, is an ongoing series of gift-giving that we've been doing on Hans' Facebook page. We love it when folks spread Hans' message by sharing his posts and events so we jump in every now and then and randomly choose people who have shared the most and we give them gifts to show our appreciation. We're giving away goodies that range from a couple of audio lessons to full classes and videos. We've given away a lot of good stuff and we have a lot more to give! Thank you all so much for all you do. Keep sharing and if you haven't already done so, please come and join us on Facebook. Hans' page can be found under Hans Christian King1. That's the number 1. We do have some exciting events coming up in December, so keep an eye out on Facebook and on our Events page on HansKing.com. We'll be posting more information as the events get closer. And that's all for now Alfred. Thanks everyone.

Alfred:

Thanks for that Jennifer. We really appreciate you taking care of Facebook because that is the way that we reach out to you is through social media. As you may have heard we do no traditional marketing. Everything we do we rely on word-of-mouth. If you're happy with our Products, if you're happy with a Reading with Hans, if you've had a class with me, we'd really appreciate it if you tell others or just simply go onto Facebook and share what we're doing. Share one of our Daily Quotes, share with your friends, we really appreciate the help of getting the word out there. So for today's topic: Mean People... Before I hand it over, I'm going to give you something to ponder. Could you image that people are mean only because of your perception? So without further ado, I present to you the Modern Day Mystic himself Hans Christian King.

Hans:

Hello everybody, welcome to the show, glad to be back with you. Interesting topic: Mean People. This was actually sent in by one of our Circle Members and we're so happy to respond to that. Please remember that we do encourage you to participate with the show and send in questions that you have on basically any subject that you feel you would like to be enlightened with. Alfred, how do they do that?

Alfred:

Sorry, I forgot to announce that Hans. Yes, thank you Yasmin in Vienne. Vienne is Vienna, Austria. Thank you Yasmin for the topic. And if you have a topic that you'd like us to talk about, you can either go to Contact Us on HansKing.com or I think there's also a place on the Radio Show page to send in your topic. And if we happen to choose your topic, we'll let you know. And of course if there's something personal to deal with that topic, we'll try to address it also. So thank you all for sending in your topics. We really appreciate it. It makes the show a little bit more interesting. So Hans...

Hans:

Yes sir?

Alfred:

Is it that people are "mean" because of people's perceptions?

Hans:

Well, yes. You're on the right track there but let's remember something. Let's remember what the teaching says. The teaching says: Who someone is and their behavior are two different things. So we may see Alfred, someone do something  we perceive as mean, but that does not necessarily mean that the individual themselves are mean. They may not even realize that what they're doing is mean. They sure wouldn't like to have it done to them. So what do we do Alfred, when somebody does something mean to us?

Well our normal response is to, I'm sorry, but overreact. Because they're not actually doing it to you, they're doing it to a circumstance that they're living in. They're doing it from a place within themselves that is defending themselves by attacking. But are they really trying to hurt you or are they just simply not aware of their behavior? That's a tough subject, Alfred. And I know that you sometimes disagree with me on this. Tell me what disagreement you might have here.

Alfred:

It's really looking at "why" the person is doing that in the first place.

Hans:

That's right.

Alfred:

Is the person reacting to their opinion, their judgment of their world?

Hans:

Yes. From their personal pain.

Alfred:

What they've been through. And trying to completely understanding someone's life, someone's karma, someone's experiences, as we've told you before, is impossible. Because think about it. You're with yourself 24 hours a day. How much of your life do you completely understand? Okay? And if you're having a hard time understanding your karma, your dharma, your lessons, trying to do your inner-work, trying to clear out your gunk in order to become more peaceful, how can you have a judgment of what somebody else is going through and what somebody else does?

Hans:

Oftentimes Alfred I'll see someone say something or actually do something that appears to be mean and inside of me I will say: Bless them, I hope they understand what effect this is having. Because most people who do mean things really aren't aware of the effect it has on other people. 

Alfred:

So here's a good question Hans. So would there be any mean people if you didn't have a judgment of their actions?

Hans:

No. Because the person...you're actually having a judgment of the person, not a judgment of the action. So no. We wouldn't perceive people as being mean if we had no judgment. It's our judgment, as you know, that gets in our way - always.

Alfred:

But regardless of our opinion, some actions do produce negative karma. If someone does something that produces negative karma, are we as individuals supposed to do anything, spiritually speaking?

Hans:

Well use it as a lesson if you choose. Here's your opportunity to say: I choose not to have a judgment of that person and what they're saying or doing has no effect on me. It's not a statement of who I am. It is a statement, in fact, of where they're at. And as long as you use it that way, then you can take negativity and turn it into a positive for yourself.

Alfred:

Yes, I always like to reflect upon one of the greatest leaders and teachers of the world that said: Be the change you wish to see in the world. If you see something...

Hans:

I think that was Gandhi.

Alfred:

Yes. Actually it was The Mahatma who said: Instead of reacting out on what you see or you perceive to be wrong or mean, go within and first deal with it yourself. Okay? So that's one of the lessons that you can take is when you have a judgment of something that you perceive to be mean or wrong...

Hans:

You need to look at yourself at this point Alfred.

Alfred:

...is to look at yourself.

Hans:

Yes, exactly.

Alfred:

And that's what we're trying to tell you here. Right, Hans?

Hans:

Absolutely. It's how we perceive ourself. When somebody says something, or does something that appears to be towards us or a criticism of us or something that we have done, remember always - none of your business. Seriously children, none of your business. What they are saying, what they are doing has utterly nothing to do with you. But how you handle it has everything to do with your spiritual growth. If you become the wilted lily because of somebody's attack on you, then they have won. Not only have they won, but they've allowed you to hurt yourself and degrade yourself to be hurt by that action. If you turn to that person and say: Sorry, that's not my problem. They will get so mad, they will get so angry, but it's the truth. That's the key. It's the truth.

Alfred:

Oh, that's a great response. When somebody's mean to you, to look at them and say: Thank you for helping me practice patience.

Hans:

Yes. Exactly.

(Alfred and Hans Laughing)

Hans:

So mean people ofttimes without meaning to have the absolute opposite effect of  what they're trying to accomplish. They make you stronger. There's a saying somewhere, I don't know where it is - what doesn't kill us makes us stronger. We learn from adversity. We don't grow in the light children. We grow towards the light, to the light. So we learn our really valuable lessons when things often seem very complicated, very difficult, and we find ourself being hurt. The mother picks up the phone and calls you and says something that's disparaging to you. You have to, very quietly, say inside of yourself, sorry mom this is not my problem. You can turn to the mom and say: Thank you for your opinion, but I choose to disagree. And refuse to argue it any further. That makes people crazy when you won't argue their point of view. It makes them absolutely insane. This is one of the reasons Alfred, we say: Not my problem. Because no one has a place to go from that. Except they use these wonderful words: Oh, you're in denial. In denial of what? It's not your problem. It's their problem.

Alfred:

So regardless of your opinion of whether somebody is doing something mean or not, there's just some people that give off negative energy, negative vibration. Hans, what can people do when there's a person who's giving off negative energy? Is it that they would just do protection exercises?

Hans:

Yes, and we have those Alfred in our classes, in our on-line service. I think we might even have a free download on that. But yes, you can just go to your Guidance and say: I choose to surround myself in love and light. I choose not to allow this emotional tirade or this situation to affect me in any way. And I always say every day: Please bring light into that that would bring darkness around me today. Every single day I've said it for 50 years. Folks, you do the same and you'll see the wonders that come to be.

Alfred:

So in case anybody doesn't have Intuitive Development or doesn't know where that exercise is, one of the things that we try to teach you is to surround yourself...for some reason the typical type of light that comes to me is like a silverish grey and to either form a bubble around you or form a bubble in front of you and have that bubble have the intention to have that bubble absorb the negative energy. Believe it or not it works.

Hans:

It really does work.

Alfred:

Hans likes wrapping Saran Wrap around yourself.  

Hans:

You do the bubble.

Alfred:

I do the bubble. So that's one...

Hans:

So they have options, Alfred.

Alfred:

Yes.

Hans:

Saran Wrap or a bubble.

Alfred:

Or whatever type of "thing" you want to put around you, just simply work with the Other Side to have something deflect or absorb the negative energy so it doesn't reach you. Okay? And then, of course, sometimes the negative energy does reach you. I have a doctor friend of mine from Rhode Island who someone had an issue and it wound up getting into her body unknowingly. I did some Reiki on her. So for reason if you're around someone who had a physical problem, or you're around a mean person and you can tell that energy got into you, you can go to a Holistic practitioner, a Reiki practitioner, an Energy practitioner, an Acupuncturist, to help unblock the energy and remove that energy from your body. So there are a bunch of different things that you can do if something happened to come through to you. Okay? So here's a real good one, not just dealing with the energy but what should you do if someone does something that you perceive as mean to you? How's that one Hans?

Hans:

Aah. What can you do if someone's done something mean to you? Forgive them by saying something... I don't even mean forgive them. I would say if someone does something mean to you, go inside of yourself and say: This is not true. This is not my problem. I send them love. I send them light. But this does not affect me. I choose to use this as a teaching to reinforce the love and light that I am. And I know that sounds very crazy. Spirit has never been big on forgiveness. Because if your intention is to do something bad to somebody, that's one thing. But if somebody gets hurt by something you might have said or done but it was in no way your intention to hurt anybody, you don't need to be forgiven. Because the goodness of your heart will shine forward anyway. How often have we done something or said something that we felt later: Oh, my goodness that hurt. Oh, I shouldn't have said that. And we'll go back and correct it.

Alfred:

And a lot of forgiveness has the assumption that something was wrong. If you have the assumption that something was wrong, then you would say okay, I forgive them for that wrong or mean thing that they did. And that's what we're trying to tell you is if you have the perception that you know what, it's just something that somebody's going through and there is nothing wrong. If you don't have a judgment that they did anything wrong, they're just dealing with life, is there anything to forgive?

Hans:

Exactly...exactly.

Alfred:

Okay? So speaking of interesting people who approach you and are around your area is family.

Hans:

Aaaahhh...

Alfred:

How should you...

Hans:

The big hurt... (Laughing)

Alfred:

...perceive mean family members Hans? What do you...

Hans:

Oh boy...

Alfred:

How many clients do you have that ask you that question?

Hans:

Oh my God, thousands through the years. I keep going back to something... I'm trying to educate you all on this. You have to shift your perception and so I keep repeating myself today because this one perception applies to everything. When someone is being mean to you, when somebody is hurting you and your family, they're saying things about you, or saying things about other people, you cannot let that in children. And you do that by internally saying: Not my problem. Do not engage others in their idea of who you are. Do not engage others with their idea of who somebody else is. I have people who talk to me about someone that I'm very fond of and they'll say oh this person is this and this person is that and they did this and they did that - this is a really wonderful person by the way - but people are hurt by the lost expectations sometimes. And I'll always say: For me this is a wonderful person and I love this person and I have no judgment of this person and I'll say perhaps you need to look at why you have a judgment.

And with families, families will always try to take sides and bring certain members on to their team and there are other members on the other team and Alfred, you of all people know that with your family and other families, how they take sides and they see people with certain people and... Remember all that?

Alfred:

Oh my God, holidays... Holidays were, okay who is coming? And if this person isn't coming well the other people can't come because these people are coming. And for the people who are coming who can sit near who, who can't sit near who, who has to sit away from...

Hans:

Is that not just this side of insanity? This side of insanity?

Alfred:

It was. It was insanity.

Hans:

And to get caught up in that. That's why so many of you will say to me: Hansy, I don't want to go home for Thanksgiving. Then don't go home! It's okay. Know you don't need to forgive yourself for not going. You choose not to disturb, hear this children, you choose not to disturb you ease. And when you do, you will become dis-eased. Do not disturb your ease. I pre-recorded the Michael Beckwith Show yesterday and one of the things that we were talking about is the fact that the world as we live in it today is nothing more than an illusion. Now all of you have heard me say is there anything going on in your life you did not create. So we're walking through our creation, other people's creation, somebody else's creation, and it's all perception. There's no reality to it. Is the wind blowing from the east? Yes, end of subject. We don't need to know why it's blowing from the east. We do not know what it's supposed to do. It's blowing from the east. 

As spirits in human form we tend to take on the frailties of the human condition which is always analyzing everything and every single moment. So we go back. What's the biggest problem we will ever have? Our mind chatter. And as Alfred's been pointing out today - our perception. A little more on that please Alfred.

Alfred:

Well there's two ways to deal with mind chatter. So if you've been listening to Hans' teachings, the biggest focus is by letting go of mind chatter. In this topic what we're trying to do is to not have you get new mind chatter, not have you get new things to think about, not have you bring new negativity into your life. By simply understanding that mind chatter comes into your life because you have a perception or opinion about something, you have a judgment about something, and that judgment sticks with you and you have to do something because you have to protect yourself against what you had a judgment about and you have to make sure that that doesn't happen, and you have to protect and control what's going on around you - mind chatter. So one of the topic's main focus of this Mean People is if you don't have a judgment or an opinion about others actions, you don't start the mind chatter cycle. How's that Hans?

Hans:

I think that's absolutely perfect. It's the mind chatter that has the perception of  what somebody does and calls it mean. What we're saying to you is, when it happens, make it simple - bless them, release them, release the thought, don't allow it into your heart, don't think about it, not my problem, that's their problem, let them deal with it.

Alfred:

Especially, believe it or not, this applies to family members.

Hans:

Yes, absolutely. Folks I want to get this across. This is not anything that I want Alfred to talk about. I'm going to tell you: You are not responsible to make your family happy. You are not responsible to live up to their expectations of how you should be. You are not responsible for the pain, the sadness, and the losses of the individuals in your family. Your job is to love them equally, release them knowing that God will take care of them. You cannot fix your family. You understand me everyone? Set yourself free. Visit with them. I said to my mother, a very long time ago, I said if you cannot treat me with the same love and respect that I have for you, it's best we not talk until we can do that. And she said fine. And we never spoke again and that was 31 years long before she passed away. That had nothing to do with me. I was taking care of me. I did not care about what she was so enraged about which had nothing to do with me. I reminded her of somebody else. And she would blow all these things up and then I would become responsible for her pain. And it never had anything to do with me in the first place. I want everybody to hear that. No matter what has gone on in your family, I don't care what it is, back away from it and do not be responsible for that.

Alfred:

That really reminds of one of the teachings in the early part of Intuitive Development. We can actually expand this a little bit. The teaching was: What someone says...and we're going to expand this, or does... So what someone says or does is not your problem. What you think about what someone says or does is your problem. How's that one Hans?

Hans:

I think you're onto something there young man. I really do.

Alfred:

So the focus here and a lot of spirituality is not about what's going on outside of you. It's about becoming peaceful inside of you. Okay? Let me repeat that again: Spirituality in general, is not about what's going on outside of you. It's about creating a peaceful, loving place inside yourself. How's that Hans?

Hans:

Excellent, excellent, excellent. And that peaceful place that you find inside of yourself will resonate outside of you into many different forms. It will be seen by many different people. So that peaceful place that you find inside of yourself, as you grow it, it begins to emanate outward from you. And you'll find that people are less likely to attack you because they see it does them no good. That's when you win the battle of the lesson for you is when you're light is so bright that others cannot dispel it and they know it. And that's when we say: Not my problem. And Alfred, I think that will conclude the lessons for today. Thank you for your input.

Alfred:

Well I hope you all enjoyed that one. That is a “huge” topic. I was a very mad person for many, many, many years because of the mean people in my life.

Hans:

Oh gee, I never noticed... (Laughing)

Alfred:

No. Uh uh, do yourself a favor and save a lot of money – let go of mean people. 

“The Hero's Journey” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

“The Hero's Journey” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: The Hero's Journey

November 15, 2014

Alfred:

Hello everyone and welcome to GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE - Wisdom for Your Soul. This is Alfred the Padawan to the Modern Day Mystic himself Hans Christian King. We have a heck of a topic today: The Hero's Journey. If you're searching for meaning in your life, then listen in. And if you think there's anyone else who would be searching for meaning in their life and would like to know more about the journey that that takes, please "share". We greatly appreciate those of you who appreciate what we do and find meaning in it and think there's others who would also find  value in what we do. If you could, please "follow" us on Facebook and "share" with your friends or you can RT (re-tweet) us on Twitter. We do no traditional advertising so we really rely on you to help us get the word out. And this is one of the things that we do each week to be of pure service is simply giving away a Radio Show. Life changing lessons in a little hour package.

Here on GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE we do our best to guide your soul to the best life it could possibly have. So for our topic today: The Hero's Journey. Without further ado, I present to you the Modern Day Mystic himself Hans Christian King.

Hans:

You want to think sometimes about heroes, explorers if you will. People who were willing to exit the journey they were on and begin to perhaps look around.  You know, the easiest thing for us all to do is to continue to paddle downstream because it's the path of least resistance. But every once in awhile, every once in awhile, we glance over to our left, or we glance over to our right. Oh look at that beautiful meadow...oh look, there's a tributary to this stream...I wonder what's up there... But that's all the further it gets. Because the path that you're on is the simplest. It presents itself as a no-brainier. It says if you do this, thus, and such, here is the result. But the result is always the same. It brings you to a place of not being fulfilled.

Great explorers got off the main stream but their canoes on their backs, like the Indians did, and went off on these different tributaries searching for another way, looking for something different, something maybe stimulating. Such is life. As humans we have been taught that the path most frequented is the right path for everyone. But if everyone did that path and everyone stayed on that path, absolutely nothing would have been discovered. There would be no Internet, there would be no Television, there would be no Airplanes. Everybody would have said: No, that can't be done. Just follow this path here, it will take you to where you need to be.

So a hero to me is somebody who says: Well, I thank you for your opinion but I'm really feeling like I want to look over here, perhaps at that meadow, or look over here perhaps at that other stream just to see where it takes me. And then society says: Aah, but wait a minute. If you go down that path you could fail. And you can say: Yes, what you're saying is true, but what is failure? Because another path, or another solution will present itself. So a hero is somebody who says: I will find another way for my life. 

Alfred, you're a younger person, what say you on this subject?

Alfred:

And a lot of our clients, and also in my own life, there's something inside of us that helps us, tries to guide us, direct us towards that which would bring us meaning, that which is part of our life's dharma, our life's path. And a lot of the part of The Hero's Journey that we've been hearing about from our clients is the courage it takes to follow a voice inside of you that you can barely identify with. What do you tell clients Hans when they say they feel they should do something and they need courage to take that step towards that bumpy road?

Hans:

What I like to remind them of Alfred, is that in my 60 years of service, I have yet to know anyone to jump off the cliff that the net did not appear. Always. When you feel you need to make a right or a left or jump off the cliff, the Spirit has your back. Because what you're saying when you say: I'm going to jump. I'm going to create something new. You're saying: I believe. I trust that there must be something better than what I'm doing. And of course always, as all of you know, the enemy in all of this is the negative mind chatter. You'll notice that the mind chatter doesn't normally support you in your decision. It sends up all kinds of fears and doubts. It says: Oh my gosh, what if, what if this, what if that...what if, what if - who cares? For every what if, a solution will appear. Always. For every what if, a solution will always appear.

There are no endings. There are no beginnings. There simply is, in and of the moment. So when you trust to take another path... I had a lovely lady the other day and she said to me: You know Hans, I have been a school principal now for 25 years. And she said: Although I love working with my students and my faculty...the staff, she said: It just isn't me. And I said to her: Well Mary, what is you? She said: Well, I did the mirror exercise like you asked me to do and I told myself I was going to find out who I was and when I did I was going to take very good care of me. And I decided I'd always wanted to go to Greece but I never could put that together. And she said: So, I did some checking around and I found several schools. And I applied for it and she said I got a job in Athens. And she said: I'm going there in a couple of weeks to start a brand new life. She says: But when I did that, all I could hear, Hans, is you saying: And the net will always appear. She said: When I made that decision, all these different doors that I had never seen suddenly appeared. And that's the courage in the hero is the "quiet knowing". I believe, I know, I understand, I am protected.

Alfred:

And that's what we're trying to tell you is if you're looking for what would make your life memorable, is to have faith, is to trust that voice inside of you. You may not hear it loudly, you may not hear it clearly, but it will point you in a direction you may not even understand. And hopefully you'll be able to differentiate what that voice inside of you is saying, what your Guidance is saying, what your soul is saying, and hear it differently from what your mind is telling you. And that's a lot of what we try to help you with is to help you get in touch with your inner-self, your higher-self, your true-self, your soul, your Guidance, to follow that inner voice towards meaning.

Hans:

You know folks, I'm rather blunt as many of you know, but one of the things that I say to people that sort of sets them back... They will say: Well Hans what I want to do... And I say: Wait a minute, hold on. I'm not interested in what you want to do. And they look at me. I said: Tell me what you're going to do. Now folks, there's a hero there. Don't tell me what you want to do. Because when you tell me what you want to do you come from a place of lack and the energy that supports that is an energy of lack, an energy of scarcity. When you say to me: Hans, I'm going to do the following... You can add: I don't know how, but I know that my Guides, I know that my God will present me with the possibility. And folks, every time it happens. And there are times, for all of us, when we ask Spirit for something and we're willing to go down that road but we're slightly in front of the timing. I could name some people right now in our wonderful audience who sometimes jump the gun and then they wonder why the Spirit didn't support them, but they don't know the Spirit hasn't supported them because they don't know when the timing for it is. A hero is somebody who follows an idea and sees it through to the completion. And for all of you, you can be the hero in your own life. 

Alfred:

That's a really good point. Two things here that those of you who are looking for meaning should pay attention to. When something just pops out of you. When there's a deep desire to do something and you wonder where it came from... I'll reflect upon my own life. For example, I'm 15 years old living in a group home, which basically is an orphanage, and I looked at the counselor one day and she asked me: So, what are you going to do when you get out of here? I said: Oh, I'm going to go to college and travel around the world. And she just looks at me and says: You're in a group home. And I said: I don't care. I'm going to travel around the world and go to college and that's what I'm going to do. And I looked at her and I sort of looked at me and said: Where did that come from? Anyway, when those little Aha moments happen about what you're going to do and you have no idea where it came from - pay attention. Okay?

Hans:

Absolutely. That's the key. Pay attention.

Alfred:

Pay attention. So that's the first thing. The second thing is, as you said, you may be a little bit ahead of your time. Well eventually I graduated college and I went looking for that international job. Well I was still ahead of my time. Six years later...six years...I knew it was going to happen, I just had patience. Six years later I landed a job that allowed me to work in 18 countries. I just knew it was going to happen. And it's to have faith and trust in that inner knowing.

Hans:

Now hold on for just a moment. Exactly what you're saying - to have faith and trust - and Alfred you made it okay not to know how it arrives. I think that was one of your keys is not knowing how it arrives...

Alfred:

Absolutely...

Hans:

...but knowing it will arrive.

Alfred:

...is just keep knocking on doors, keep looking at doors. But one thing that we teach, especially in Intuitive Development, is don't have an expectation of how it's going to arrive, be peaceful, be aware of vibration and energy.

Hans:

That is such a key, Alfred. Because people...when it doesn't show up immediately, they start to run their crazies, they get depressed, they say God doesn't love me, or I guess my dream can't come true. It's the patience, don't you think?

Alfred:

Absolutely. Patience and not having an expectation of how it's going to happen. So many times people say: Well, when I get money then I'll do this. Well, no because sometimes, for example, somebody has a spare ticket, somebody has a spare seat, somebody has a spare car... Remember that? A friend of ours didn't have a car and he was asking for money and you said: No, you don't need money to have a car. And he looked at you and said you were crazy. And what was it a couple of weeks later that somebody said I have a spare car sitting in my driveway, why don't you use it.

Hans:

That's right.

Alfred:

So make sure when you're looking to do something, do not place an expectation as to "how"...

Hans:

Well Alfred that also happened to you. Remember?

Alfred:

In what?

Hans:

In a car. Didn't someone...

Alfred:

Oh, that. Yes! Yeah, I donated my car to some Breast Cancer place and all of a sudden something told me: Don't look for a car; it'll eventually show up. And I said: Really? Well, okay. Well I had a motorcycle...I was driving a motorcycle back and forth to work. It was Southern California so you didn't have to worry about rain. A week later somebody shows up, to make a long story short, had lunch with somebody I hadn't seen in 10 years and he said: Oh, we're moving to Florida and we have a car and we'd be willing to give it to you at a very cheap price if you just wait a couple of more days until we leave and then come and pick it up. Low and behold, it was the car I had been dreaming about for 3 years. The exact car. I was so happy I could not believe it, but I believed that the thing inside of me that told me just be patient, it will arrive.

Hans:

I can hear people saying: Well it happened for Alfred, but those things never happen for me. That thinking will not help you. Alfred didn't know when the car would show up. He didn't know that anybody would be giving him one for a very small price. But he knew inside of him, he knew that if he just held tight, it would arrive at his doorstep.  And folks, this is a key belief you must work on. A quiet knowing. When you prepare yourself as your own personal hero to make a change, to jump off a cliff if you will, having this little inner-awareness that says: I'm fine, I'm loved, and God has my back and Spirit is my navigator. When you do that, it doesn't matter whether it shows up immediately in your expectations.

What matters is that Spirit sees a belief. Energy follows thought. They look at your dharma and say: Okay, they want to go over here but they did ask us to help with this other thing here, there. Okay. And then we can get them to where they need to go.

For so many of you older souls, which most of the people who listen to the show and are members of this show are what I call an older soul. They're seekers. And I like to say the good book says: A seeker findeth always. When you have this quiet awareness and you believe that, doors will appear children where there previously were no doors. I forget who said that, but it's absolutely spiritual principle. Now I can remember when Alfred first came to see me in Los Angeles for his reading at the recommendation of a lady friend of his. And he had this intense need to be a seeker. He was dabbling in this thing that was pretty good and Reiki that was pretty good. He was looking around. And at that moment he knew he found what he needed to hear. And he changed his life. Now Alfred, have you noticed that when heroes tend to change their life other people around them think they're a little crazy?

Alfred:

Yes. (Laughing) 

Hans:

Did that apply to you too? (Laughing)

Alfred:

And that is part of the hero's journey. It's not just that you're a hero - doing something that scares you. Listening to this inner voice you may not completely understand, it's that you're going to have peer pressure going against you, you're going to have the media going against you, you may have your closest friends sitting you down and having an intervention saying don't do this. I had a few of those.

Hans:

Who even said I can't be your friend if you go down this path. Alright?

Alfred:

And that was where it really takes a hero's courage. Now, is there anything wrong? No. And that's where you really have to understand that in spiritual growth, you may be going down a path that others that you've been with for many, many years, or are very close to, won't go down. And that is a hero's journey is to go down a path and leave those people you've called friends behind. Now again there's nothing wrong with where they are...you were there.

Hans:

No. Not at all. And I think that's a very key element right there. Because they can't see your road doesn't make them bad people. At the moment they can't see it. But ofttimes, they circle back and see you in your happiness in your new path and say: Wow, congratulations. Job well done.

Alfred:

Sometimes. And there's other people that they continue doing what they're doing but...

Hans:

But that's where they need to be.

Alfred:

...and Hans has told me many, many times: Ask Spirit to give you people, new friends, of like vibration. Like vibration, like spiritual type of friends that are according to your path. And yes, they do eventually show up. You do eventually get new friends that are of like mind.

Hans:

Some of my dearest friends, throughout my life, have actually been people who don't know how to believe in what I do. But loved me, and supported me, hands down. Because they saw the belief in me that I held and then saw how other people were moved and effected. And even though they didn't know what it is exactly I did, most of all these people were extremely well educated and so to venture outside of the norm was stuff you hid. You hid it under the table. You went to see a lecture but you never told anybody you were going. That type of thing. But those people need to be where they were. Most of those people have now passed over and they're a great help to me as I move down my path. 

If I had listened to every person, every doctor, who told me this would happen, that would happen, something else would happen...I was born with all these different illness and all...I would never have made it if I had listened. I heard them talking but I didn't listen to what they said. Big difference. Okay? So be the hero  in your life and Spirit will always present the net when you jump. Always. No one is excluded from that truth. Okay, Alfred I think that will conclude the lesson for today.

“Beyond The Void” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

“Beyond The Void” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Beyond The Void

November 8, 2014

Alfred:

Hello everyone and welcome to GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE - Wisdom for Your Soul. This is Alfred, the Padawan to the Modern Day Mystic himself Hans Christian King. And we have a wonderful topic for you today "Beyond the Void". And you probably have found out about this, either through Facebook or Twitter, and we would sincerely appreciate you helping share the word about our Radio Show or anything else that we're doing. We do no traditional advertising so we do rely on your word of mouth and we do appreciate your support in helping us help others.

And if you haven't already joined up for Facebook, please do. You not only get information about what's going on but you get Free Quotes from Hans himself every single day - Inspiration from the Modern Day Mystic. If you're a fan of course on Twitter, what we send out each day on Facebook also goes there. So you have your choice of social media. Just trying to reach out to you in any way possible. So for this week's topic "Beyond the Void" - I present to you the Modern Day Mystic himself Hans Christian King.

Hans:

Good afternoon everybody. How nice to be back with you again. This is a subject that I've heard from so many of you: Well what do I do with The Void? What's going to happen to me when The Void is over? How did I get into The Void? And throughout the years, I've tried to explain to you how important the Void is. Because at a certain time in your life... By the way Alfred, this is coming from some of our listeners, isn't that right?

Alfred:

That's true. This topic was sent in by one of our Spiritual Circle Members. Now you don't have to be a Spiritual Circle Member to send in a topic. But this was from one of our newer Spiritual Circle Members. And if you'd like to submit a question, you can submit it via the Radio Show Page, submit it via Contact Us.  But if you'd like us to talk about something that you deal with, send it in and it may be one of the topics that we're talking about.

Hans:

Absolutely. And for everyone that I have ever known, there is a certain time in one's life, and this can occur once, but usually about two to three times in somebody's life this happens,  when the plan they've been working on, when the life they've been living, for whatever reason, appears to start getting disconnect energy. It feels like: Hm-mm, I don't know...Am I on the right track?...This isn't quite what I thought it was going to be...I feel I've done all I can do with this... And we begin to sort of back away a little bit. That's the Spirit encouraging us to look at our chalkboard. Is it full? Well, if in fact you are feeling disconnected, the board is full. 

There are things on the board you don't want to change. Or shall I say, are very reluctant to change. And so it can be a little off-putting. It can be a little fearful as you watch things begin to disappear...energies, people, jobs, relationships, children, parents... All kinds of things begin to get sort of thrown into a top-hat. It's like "I'm out of control", "I don't seem to be able to get anything to work", and the more you try to fix it, the worst it gets. 

Now I've talked a lot about The Void in the past. But again we do get questions from people saying: Well, what do I do? First of all, if you're in The Void, sit down, be quiet and recognize you're in The Void. Oh, this is scary. You have a process of letting go about to develop. And this alone scares many, many people. I talked to a lovely lady today and I had to let her know that she had to let go. And she said: How do you let go of your perceptions? That's very hard because our perceptions are so entrenched in us, our perception of our parents and how they should be, of our lovers how they should be, of our children, our bosses, our employees, our dog, our cat... We have a perception of how they need to interact in our life so we can feel good about ourself and feel safe. But sometimes folks, we come to the end of the old movie that has been playing as our life and Spirit says... I think I told you all...when I was much younger...they do it to this day. When I am to disconnect from something, the Spirit will suddenly, out of nowhere, say to me: Hans, time to go now son. And I know that at that moment, what I've been doing is about to change. Time to go now. 

And so somewhere deep inside of you, you can hear that: Time to go. Time to disengage. But there is this thing that you've heard me say throughout the years that you've been with me and that is that we tend to be frightened of the unknown. We have this tendency, I like to say, of putting a demon or a dragon in the unknown and how can we be afraid of something we don't know? It's really interesting. So when one comes to The Void, it is time to be peaceful and safe.

Alfred, I'm going to bring you in about here. I know in your teachings... How does this work with you?

Alfred:

Well that was a good explanation of what is The Void and basically how you  recognize it is simply that stuff that has been part of your life for a really long time, for most of the time for no reason, it just starts to fade away. And the more you try to grab at it, the more it try to pulls away from you. That's basically The Void. The Void is Spirit purposely taking things from us. Okay? And a lot of us are concerned about why Spirit we purposely take things from us and even if we could understand, how most of the time we don't, so a lot of the questions have to come from: Okay, we understand what The Void is but how do we listen to Guidance to know that they're taking things from us? How do we work with Guidance in order to get through The Void and not extend it? 

Hans:

Well part of what we need to learn how to do Alfred is to help people to understand that when you're in The Void nothing is wrong. Get that craziness out of your head. Nothing is actually wrong. But when you're in the human form and The Void starts and you have to start letting go of things, I think it's just fine to go ahead and have a good moan. Lord knows I do. You may not like what is happening, but you have to understand it's to your highest good. So, when you're in The Void and you sit down, you must learn to be still. You must calm the mind chatter and say: Okay, where to from here? I'm prepared. Present me with the doors and I will follow.

Alfred:

So as Spirit is taking things from us, which apparently they would be purpose for our highest good, how do people look at this as an opportunity?

Hans:

Because Alfred, if you have a board that is the board of your life and you write on it, at a certain place there's no place left on the board to write. You have to erase the board or you have no place to go. So letting go is getting. Most people don't know that. If I'm right-handed, and I need to pick up a glass of water and I'm holding a pen in my hand, what do I have to do with the pen? Both serve me, but I have to put one of them down. You put down what you're holding onto in the moment. And in the process of putting it down there is the power of trust that comes forward. The lesson of trust that if I put down the pen will I be able to pick up the water and then again will I be able to pick up the pen?

So when you're going through The Void Alfred, there's two sets of fears. The first fear is the fear of disconnect from what you have as the known. So the minute that starts to disconnect, fear, doubt, confusion, anxiety come up. And then on the other side of that is the fear of the unknown, the fear of The Void, what if nothing happens, what if I go through all the process of letting go, letting God, all of that good stuff, what if I do that and there's nothing over on the other side?

Alfred:

Let's pick a topic that a lot of people can relate to. A huge part of The Void happens to be around relationships. How many times Hans have we seen a relationship that Spirit said: You know what, it's better that you two are not together. 

Hans:

Oh yes.

Alfred:

But one of the people refuses to believe that and keeps chasing after, and keeps chasing after, and keeps chasing after, saying: I don't know why we're splitting up. I don't know why it can't be. But Spirit is saying: It's for your highest good not to be together.

Hans:

That's correct.

Alfred:

But the person doesn't follow Spirit's advice. Let's use this as an example of how to go against The Void and what the person should do to go with The Void. How's that Hans?

Hans:

When you go against The Void on that issue Alfred, you drag a negative energy towards you. You actually disconnect from your true possibilities and the more you hang on, the more what you want will disappear. Because the energy that supported the relationship in the old is over. And the more you hold onto, the tighter your grasp of it is, the more the new that you were going to participate in, begins to dissipate. So Spirit in its wisdom pushes you back into the old energy where you will stay in nothingness.

Alfred:

That is how The Void gets extended.

Hans:

The Void absolutely gets extended. You couldn't be more correct. The Void gets extended because people refuse to change. They just refuse to. They are going to prove that they are right, come heck, come high water.  And I know a dear lady who I absolutely adore as a human being, been a friend of mine for over 30 years, who continues to this day to go after a relationship that doesn't exist anymore. And cannot understand why the Spirit hasn't opened a new door. The Spirit can't open the door because she's standing in the way and she won't allow the Spirit to do its job which is to close down the old. She actually keeps taking the phone call, she keeps opening the emails... I've got at least 5 or 6 of these wonderful people, and at least 2 or 3 men who do the same thing, and they keep... It's like a therapist would call it a denial. I think it's far beyond denial. I think it is an utter and absolute refusal to see the benefit of letting go.

Alfred:

So for someone in this situation, what would be the right thing to do. How to get through The Void when Spirit is trying to take something through you. What would be the fastest way to do it?

Hans:

Sit down, be still and go to the place of the simple "I am". In this moment, I am peaceful. In this moment, I trust in Spirit. In this moment, I know that letting go of this subject, (and then state the subject), it is to my highest good. I choose not to allow my mind chatter to continue to pull me back into dysfunction. I am now free. That's what has to be done.

Alfred:

Now a lot of times this would deal with other things that we think are real important.

Hans:

Yes.

Alfred:

Such as jobs.

Hans:

Yes.

Alfred:

Okay. How many times have people tried to get a job that didn't work for them?

Hans:

I can't even tell you. I can't tell you how many people I know, and good people in our group here, our little family, Radio family, who hold onto the same job year after year after year that doesn't advance, and doesn't get them any work because they think this is where they need to be because they don't trust if they look outside. Just begin to look outside, that they would find something. And what if they found something and they got into it and they didn't like it? You see? What if they get fired? They would rather deny themselves their possibilities by hanging onto what doesn't work.

Alfred:

You know what this reminds me of?

Hans:

What?

Alfred:

The devil you know verses the devil you don't know.

Hans:

Couldn't have said it better. Exactly.

Alfred:

But what is the devil you know? Your ego, your consciousness, your mind chatter.

Hans:

Yes. It's a refusal on the part of the individual to believe they deserve better. It's a refusal to believe that they deserve better than that. So they give themselves the limitation that they live by. There is no limitation Alfred. None. The only limitation that we have is the limitation that we impose upon ourself. And in The Void, the Spirit tries in every way they know how to get us to disconnect from what we think is our life when it doesn't work anymore. And I've seen Spirit get people let go. I've seen it. Because they wouldn't listen to the fact they needed to make a change. 

Alfred:

So the opportunities that are for us in The Void really are by letting go of what we have, we get which Spirit believes is for our highest good?

Hans:

Absolutely. It's absolute. And so when I really think that we need to look at is what happens for us when we're in The Void. What is it the Spirit sees that we do? Does the Spirit see that we say to ourself: You know what, The Void is here, time to witness it. Okay. I know the Spirit has my back, I believe that they're going to take me where we need to go... Or do we, once again, go back to the struggle of: Do I believe that God is good? Spirit knows best. Spirit has my back. So it throws us back into consciousness of fear, consciousness of doubt. When if we truly believe, no matter what appears children, no matter what appears, we know the outcome is better than what we're going through at the moment.

Alfred:

That's a really good point. That's one of the main questions is: How to work with Spirit to erase the blackboard.

Hans:

Yes. This is the key. Be willing to let go of what does not work anymore. We all go through Voids and it's a time when Spirit says: Time to go now. This has been played. This has been done. But what I've noticed Alfred, in The Void, is the huge amount of fear, anger and resentment that The Void pulls up in many people...some very spiritual, fabulous spiritual people that I know, when it happens to them, something's wrong. And folks, sometimes The Void lasts a little longer than we'd like...sometimes. You know a good way to get it to speed up? It's start telling yourself nothing's really wrong. It's The Void, there'll be some changes, you'll be strong because Spirit has your back. I choose to be peaceful in The Void. Choose to be peaceful in The Void. That's they key Alfred. Because when you're peaceful in The Void, you say: I believe in you. I trust in you. I know you've got my back in this Void. Even though I can't see why, it winds up to my highest good.

Alfred:

Here's a good one that somebody had sent in about The Void. Old souls in their 40's, you had mentioned a few times to many, many, many people, that's it around 40, 42 that people transition from whatever they were doing with their life of spirituality... How does Spirit use The Void to help them in that transition?

Hans:

The Spirit uses The Void as a catalyst to say: Alright, time to move on. And they usually hit us with The Void, women about 42, men about 38, who are older souls. Most people listening to this show today are older souls. And so Spirit in its wisdom knows when the game has been played, when the script has been read, when the play has been acted, it's time to go. In human form, we look for similarity for safety. It's nice to go where everyone knows your name. Okay?  It's nice to be witnessed. It's nice to be recognized. It's nice to see the same flowers grow. The same tree send out new shoots every year. It's nice to have the appearance of continuity in one's life. But that's not the road less traveled. That's the same road, doing the same thing year after year after year.

In my life...when I was a little boy, I think most of you know this statement...when I was a little boy I said to Spirit: When I grow up I wish to be a gypsy. And my goodness everyone, I have lived up to that. I think most of you who've known me for some time have known that I have been a gypsy and I have had a very incredible life. Because no one thing holds all our answers folks. Life, true life, is about multiple emotional states, multiple ideas, multiple adventures. No one adventure is everything. No one place is everything. So when the Spirit feels you've learned whatever you've needed to learn from whatever you've been doing, then they begin to move you out and put you in The Void and 42 year old people, especially 42 year old women, between 42 and 52, you will normally see old souls make very large transitions in their life. Some people a little longer, some people a little shorter. But when you keep seeing things that don't necessarily you feel work for you, or somebody's angry with you, or somebody's trying to cause you problems, just bless them and say: I know this will pass. I will get through this. Yes Alfred?

Alfred:

So you can actually say that The Void helps you transition into a new part of your life...into a higher experience.

Hans:

That's why I love The Void Alfred. Because it does usher up the possibility of new beginnings. And folks, in all the years, in all the years I've been in service, longer than most of you listening to this show today have been alive, I have never seen anyone jump off the cliff without Spirit providing  the net - ever. It may not necessarily show up in your exceptions, but the net always appears. When you finally believe, doors appear where previously there were no doors. It's your consciousness that dictates your own pain. Alright Alfred, I think that will conclude the lesson for today.

“The Possibility of Miracles” - Replay from October 20, 2011 - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“The Possibility of Miracles” - Replay from October 20, 2011   

- by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: The Possibility of Miracles

November 2, 2014

Alfred:

Good evening everyone and welcome to MODERN DAY MYSTICISM with Hans Christian King. Tonight is a very interesting topic - "The Possibility of Miracles". And what a wonderful time it is to start discussing miracles as Hans is so great about talking about bringing things into our lives. Without further ado, I present to you Hans Christian King.

Hans:

Good evening everyone. This is Hans Christian King. Welcome to the show this evening. Tonight's message, if you will, is exactly what Alfred said - "The Possibility of Miracles". Someone asked me a while back: Are miracles possible during times of lack? Oh, Heavens yes! In fact miracles shine brighter during times of lack. I have a dear friend, named Judy, and her license plate says: You Miracle. During times of lack is one of the few times we actually turn to Spirit and ask for miracles. During times of plenty, when everything seems to be going along fairly well, we don't bother to ask for miracles, because the appearance is we don't need them. And what we don't realize is the fact that we don't need them is the miracle.

Your connection with Spirit is always there. It only ebbs and wanes as you ebb and wane. Miracles, if you like to call them miracles, happen every day, all day. Let's say that you have to drive across town to your Dentist. On the way you pass many thousands of cars safely - that's a miracle. Every night that you go to sleep, you pray for unconsciousness, knowing that you will wake up in the morning. Although how that happens you don't know - that's a miracle. Flying across the country at 35,000 feet at 550 miles an hour and arriving safely in an aluminum tin can - that's a miracle. Every day, every day, you can count the miracles.

Awhile back Alfred was talking to you about the fact that he and I were busy running around catching miracles everyday. And that was true. We got so many miracles that we had to wind up asking them to turn off the bubble machine for a little bit so we could catch up with all the miracles they sent for us to do. Remember, lack is only an appearance. It really isn't true. You hear that? Lack is only an appearance, it's really not true. Lack is what your mind believes is happening, not what is actually happening. Have you ever noticed that how broke you get, somehow money arrives again? Have you ever noticed how sick you get with the flu, cold, whatever, have you ever noticed you get well again? Remember what I tried to teach you for all these years - that appearance is only passing through you. It is not your lifestyle, it is not where you're staying, pain, despair. The appearance of lack is replaced continuously in your life - there's another miracle. How many of you say: Oh, I don't know how I'm going to pay the rent this month, or I don't know how I'm going to pay the car payment, and somehow it gets paid. Do we ever stop for just a moment for just a moment and acknowledge the miracle that Spirit made to help you through?

There are going to be times in your life, in the appearance of lack, that things do not show up in your expectation. That is going to happen. But the fact that you are alive, the fact that you have options and choices is the miracle. You know children, sometimes we get slammed to the ground with what I call a trauma to the soul. And our heart if broken, and we're crying, and everything looks so bleak, and lack is everywhere...lack of joy, lack of hope, lack of the appearance of money. But all of those feelings, if you think about it, remind you you're alive.  And if you're wise you will know that no matter what the despair, no matter what the appearance, it will pass.

I once called a Wise Man that I know and his name is Ned. And something very awful had happened in my life and I was looking for him to fix it for me. And he wasn't being unkind, he was being a teacher, when he said: Hans, this will pass. I've got to go. And I thought, how cold, how unkind, how unfeeling. But he was right. He was absolutely right. Two days later it was all gone. It passed. So what I learned in the middle of the appearance of the disaster, if you could call what was going on for me, I had bought into the appearance of it. Forgetting all the while that it only came to visit me, it was only passing through, it wasn't going to stay so why should I spend all my time, you know, being upset about it. 

I have a wise lady friend of mine who used to say when something incredible in appearance would happen to her, sort of a down-time thing, she would say: Um hmm, I wonder what I can make of this this time? I wonder what I can make of this this time? And she always came to the same conclusion: I can grow myself through this. I can look at this as a tragedy or I can look at it as an opportunity. There's the miracle. Children always remember that few things actually are as they appear. I know that sounds crazy to you, but it's true. Our perception tends to blow things out of proportion. Our perception tends to say that this is real, or that pain is real, or this is happening, when it's only an appearance. And if we say what my friend Alexandra used to say: Hmm, I wonder what I can make of this. I wonder how I can grow myself through this? She used to refer to being alive as "the human scene". "The big illusion of the human scene" is how she used to call it. She was an advocate of Joel Goldsmith, if any of you are old enough to remember Joel. And he talked about how we become victims of the human scene - how we get caught up in the appearance, and we forget that every day that we wake up, and we have these challenges is and of itself, a miracle.

I thank Spirit every night when I go to bed for the miracles that occurred in my life this day. And being in human form, and my staff with tell you I get crazy sometimes, and then I wind up giggling at myself remembering: Ah, you teach what you need to learn. Well, this happened today, so what am I going to learn from this? I have learned that my in my 68 years kids, that most appearances are illusions, most fears don't happen. We spend an enormous amount of time in our waking hours in our lifetime being concerned about illusions and about things that never benefit us.

I was giving a reading the other day to a lovely lady in London and she would not let Spirit fix her by explaining what was going on in her life. She kept saying: But this...but that...but what if this happens...what if that happens? And she so was caught up being a victim of the situation that she had lost all her sense of spiritual understanding and awares. And this was a young lady of 45 or 50 who taught this truth. But her relationship had said to her that morning: I don't think I can do this anymore. And she had no coping mechanisms in place for that situation.

You know, I have a friend that he used to say: You know Hans, relationships are like the subway, there'll be another one along here in 5 minutes. In other words, whatever your lessons is to learn through relationships, it will be presented to you. That's a miracle. Setting up housekeeping with someone who is opposite of you and you find a way to make it work, that's a miracle. Teaching a baby how to ride a bicycle, that's a miracle.

If we live in the possibilities of miracles. and don't live in the victimization of fear through illusion, our life takes on an incredible sense of wonder. Because no matter how difficult the lack may appear, remember always it has a corresponding opposite - that's how good you will feel, sad as you feel, how happy you will feel. Like a pen, I said this the other day, or a pencil - one writes on one end and one erases on the other. Everything in life, children, has a corresponding opposite. I repeat these truths through the years because we have a tendency when lack appears to forget our truth. Half the battle of spiritual growth alone is just trust...just trusting. Didn't somebody just write that 90% of success in life is showing up? It's true. Just show up! The worst isn't going to happen. The worst is that you believe it's true. Whatever the lack may appear as, half the battle of spiritual growth is to trust. And if you simply trust that no matter what is presented to you there's an answer, there is relief, it is growing to and through something... And sometimes you're in a relationship with someone and you love this someone to pieces, but you forget that this person came with their own baggage. They came with their own victimization. They came with their own lack. And you see this person and you love this person but every once in awhile their demons and their devils show up. Why, you think yours don't? But when you love someone you say: No matter what this appearance is, no matter how you're behaving, I see you you know. I see you. To me, that's the greatest statement you can ever say to another human being. I emailed James Cameron as a joke and said: You stole my line. I've been using that line for 45 years - "I see you". 

Children trust in what you do not know. Trust in what you do not see. Every day. I don't quite remember, I don't quite remember what they said how many times, every day you trust the air, you breathe automatically without thinking a thing about it. You drive your car automatically without thinking a thing about it. You go to bed, you wake up, without thinking a thing about it. You don't go to bed  saying: Gee, I wonder if I'm going to wake up in the morning. You don't get in your car and say: Gee, I wonder if I'm going to have a bad accident today. You trust. You don't say I wonder if there's going to be any air for me to breathe today. I wonder if my heart will beat one more time. Trust in what you do not see. Trust in what you do not know. Because if you have a heart, a pure heart of trust, then you will know that whatever you will go through in your waking hours and in your bedtime hours, whatever you will go through, will always be to your highest good. Only the mind gets in there and messes with that reality. So having an understanding, having an awareness, that that God that loves you so unconditionally is always present, omnipresent in your life. The Spirit, the Messengers, the Angels - they're all there for you. Not lumping you into groups, not comparing you to others. Knowing full well that you're on a journey, you're on a mission. Knowing full well that their role is to walk “with” you, not “for” you. Knowing you have the ability to make decisions through a spiritual heart, not a mind that's filled with doubts and fears, but a spiritual heart. 

My friend Alexandra used to say: No matter what shows up today I'm prepared for it because God is my champion. Spirit, they're my warriors. And I know they will turn the appearance of lack into the appearance into the miracles of opportunity and possibilities if I just believe. She's now 98, and she doesn't know who I am anymore. But if ever there was a champion in spirituality in my life, it was Alexandra. I have never known, nor I doubt will I ever know anyone who so lived their truth as she did. The mind, of course, has deteriorated due to dementia. And so she's walking in two worlds at one time now. But who she is is always in my heart. What she taught me, I can never ever forget. All of you will have an Alexandra at some point in your life. And even if from time to time you may disagree with what they say to you, remember Spirit helps us choose our friends to grow us. Spirit presents us with interesting possibilities through our friends, disappointments through our friends. 

But the greatest gift that Spirit ever gave you in the appearance of lack, is the person looking back at you in the mirror. If you could simply take all the nonsense that's going on in your life, put it in a basket, put it in the garage and just say: From this day forward I am living a miracle. I have no lack. I am everything I need. Allowing Spirit to work on your behalf, allowing Spirit to open new doors. There are millions of miracles in your life waiting to occur. Lack is a refusal to accept miracles. The appearance of lack has nothing to do with money, children. Lack is a place in your heart that said I am not good enough for miracles. Therefore I will live in fear. Living in fear... I once told you that fear was it's own food. It creates lack on a daily basis. It creates lack from morning until night every single day of your life. The mind does not wake up in the morning for most people and say: You're enough for me today! We have no problems, we are a miracle, we expect miracles.  On the contrary it says: I wonder if I'll have the rent money. I wonder if he or she still loves me enough. I wonder if I'm going to get fired. I wondering if I'll ever get another job. None of the things I have just described, believe it or not, are of any importance in the long run.  All, children, the only thing that is important is the relationship to you and your God. That's it. There are no boundaries in that love. There are no victims in that love. There's only love in that love. 

I have been accused from time to time as being simple minded or simplistic. I thank whoever started that rumor for me because I'll tell you what, I love my life and I love who I am. I love my intention. I love what I am doing. I'm not saying to you, beautiful people, that I am perfect. But I had a sign for many years on my refrigerator door at my home in Mexico that I loved. It said: I'm so far from perfect I'm pleased. Blue, see if you can take that and run with it, okay? (Hans laughing) I'm so far from perfect I'm pleased. 

I have people in my life now... You want to talk about miracles? I have people who are listening tonight, making this broadcast possible, making the live streaming possible, the Facebook possible, people I don't even actually know...I've never met them. But their love and dedication to what, with Spirit, I'm trying to accomplish, what we're trying to say, has no bounds. It is amazing the beautiful people who have shown up. For those of you who are tithing to us so that we can produce these shows and the ministry, thank you, thank you, thank you, and you all know who you are. Sometimes I can't get right back to you, but please know you're in my heart and I thank you very much.

Tell Spirit the miracles you would like to see in your life and leave it alone. Remember to watch the mind chatter as it comes in and starts to play you up a bit. And it will do so. The mind is so fearful of a miracle that it continues to throw up the appearance of lack because it doesn't know what else to do. It would have no job if ever there was no need to worry. The mind would have no job because it doesn't have any congratulation skills. It doesn't have anything in its being that helps it to understand that it's nothing more than the opposite of God. The mind isn't fixated on the wonder of who you are, the mind isn't fixated on everything being okay. The heart-mind knows that. But we tend to, through the years, as the appearance of lack and tragedies and disasters in appearance occur in our life, it keeps reminding us: I told you so. I told you you weren't good enough. 

Folks, there is oftentimes a situation where a person, sometimes in the humanness, is operated by two consciousnesses. Always go with the one that's in the light please. Never listen, never listen to the anger. Never listen to the fear. You know, the ugliest puppy deserves to be loved just as much as the prettiest puppy because there's absolutely no difference in the puppy's love. Sometimes situations do not appear to fit what you think is your modus operandi...how you would do things, or how you would be. But remember you haven't seen your dharma yet. You don't know what your soul chose to create. And sometimes the appearance of lack is nothing more than a lesson. And what is a lesson? A miracle waiting to happen. Because once you understand the lesson, the miracle occurs. 

The burden, the pain... I was talking to a lady a couple of days ago and I believe she was out of Toronto. And she was angry, and she was resentful, and her husband had left her of 36 years, and all the terrible things that he was, and all of this and I said: Excuse me, are you saying that you regret having gone into the relationship? She said: It's the worst thing I ever did. I said: How many children do you have? She said: Four. Now, I said, are you resentful for being in the relationship. Oh my God, she said, maybe the relationship was between he and I to bring those angels on-board life. I said: You got it. And when that role was finished, there was no more purpose in the relationship other than to be friends, and to be a family for those four children. That's the miracle. You brought them on-board through heck or high water, you got them through, you got them up, you got them out, and they're good citizens. That is the miracle. But you're operating out of a place of lack. Woe is me, poor is me, oh look at my life, who's going to want me at 56? Who cares, I said. Who cares? You mean the only thing you have in life is validation from another person? Where's you? You've been married for 30 some years, I don't want you to have another relationship. And that's what Spirit said: We don't want you to have another relationship right now. We want you to have you. We want you to rediscover who you are. Let's bring you to you. 

Sometimes children, sometimes when relationships no longer can survive or endure, we believe that something is terrible, something is wrong. The only thing that is wrong, that I know of, is when you start to throw stones and sticks at each other, rather than witness the wonder of what you had, regardless of whether you had good times or bad times, it was all mixed up. You had them both. Seeing your baby in that birth room for the very first time and you both start to cry. That's a miracle. Would you trade all of those miracles of the first step, the first tooth, out of your anger towards a partner that doesn't want to be with you anymore? Turn to that partner and say: Oh my God, thank you, thank you. And no matter how bad they're being, if they're fighting you for money, or support, whatever, say: Thank you for these children. Thank you for all the years we worked together. Because it's true. Do not be a victim of your own love. Bless the person, thank them, and move on.

The heart's a funny creature. It wants to keep calling up the invalidation. I have  been there, I know. But if you really think about it, would you have traded all the good times, would you have traded that experience for not having done the experience? I don't think so. There are times in our lives when we've taken up with somebody and said: Well, what did I do, take leave of my senses? (Hans laughing) But in the moment, it seemed liked the right and proper thing to do. Find the humor in it as I'm doing with you tonight. Find the humor...and say: Well... I once called my friend Ned and I told him about something and I said: I fail to understand what the lesson in this is. He says: Well, would you do it again? I said: No. He said: There's the lesson. He always taught me with very short, cryptic comments that were meant to grow me. One of the great lessons that Ned gave me, when I was in my 20's... We were to attend a meeting in San Francisco and as a young man of 22, 23 years old I thought I knew everything. We were walking up the court house steps to this meeting. He says: There's one thing I want you to do for me today. I said: Alright sir. He said: Shut up and listen. You don't have the answer Hans. Not yet. And I did. And when I turned my mind chatter off about how I thought the proceedings were going, it was amazing what I learned. So when you shut the mind chatter off, you'd be amazed at what you hear. You've heard me for years say: "You see what you look for you know". When you turn your mind chatter off in how it perceives things are that are appearing to you, you'd be amazed what you can see. There's the miracles.

So the possibility of miracles occur every day. The miracles are waiting to happen for you. Folks, I don't get you pep-talks, I give you spiritual wisdom. And maybe it's a spiritual pep-talk, who knows? But it's true. Miracles are waiting for you every single day. All you have to do - stop the mind chatter, stop listening to lack, stop being in lack, and let's see what happens for you. Alrighty, that's the lesson for this evening.