Saturday, September 20, 2014

“Understanding Your Own Soul” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“Understanding Your Own Soul” - by Hans Christian King 
Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show
with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com
and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com
Topic: Understanding Your Own Soul
September 20, 2014





Alfred:
Welcome to GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE - Wisdom for Your Soul. I'm Alfred the Padawan to the Modern Day Mystic himself Hans Christian King. Say Hi to everyone Hans.

Hans:
Hello everyone. Welcome, welcome to the show, welcome to the class.

Alfred:
And we're going to see if we're going to be transferring the show from audio only to video. So we'll see what happens. Let's go over our Housekeeping for the show, as always. The Announcements for this week is there is going to be a replay of Transform Your Life By Changing Your Intentions on the Your Life Without Limits Tele-seminar. That replay is going to start on September 26. That and all the other replays we always announce on Facebook. 

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So onto this topic. Our topic for this video is Soul Mate Relationships Part 1 - "Understanding Your Own Soul". Soul mate relationships are agreements between two souls. If you want a great soul mate relationship, make sure you're able to hold up your side of the bargain. It's difficult to have a strong relationship with other souls until you have a strong relationship with yourself. So Hans, let's start with the basics of "you"..."the soul". Can you help people understand that they are a "soul in human form"?

Hans:
Well certainly, Alfred. Thank you. One of the things that I like to remind people, that Spirit reminds me...they love saying this: We're just baby angels having a human experience. We are not the body. We are not the mind. We are simply Spirit. And when we begin to understand that... I think it's crucial for you to know that you can't have a relationship...a meaningful, powerful relationship, unless you have something to bring to the relationship. This is important. So many people look to others to define who they are. "I'm looking for my other half" or "I'm looking for my better half".

One has to realize that just who you are in this moment is all you will ever need to be. It is "perfect". No one can make you better than you are. That's simply an Old Wives Tale. Because Spirit did not make a mistake when you were created. If you are going to participate in a soul mate relationship, it takes two souls of equal power. You have your power, they have their power, and you come together in a way that you share your gifts with each other, and with those that you love. 

So soul mate relationships... In order to have a soul mate relationship, you yourself have to have a relationship with yourself. You've often heard me say Dr. James Allen's famous saying: They themselves are makers of themselves. It's very important that these little things that I say like that go home to your heart. Because what you have to understand is no other episode, no other person, is going to make you complete. That is impossible. 

Alfred:
And that's a good summary of this session. Part 1 - "Understanding Your Own Soul" and the importance of your own soul in soul mate relationships. Here's some examples of what Hans is talking about...some internal soul problems that maybe you want to take a look at if you're looking for a soul mate relationship. What we're saying is "go inwards first".

For example, Hans, are people drawn to the same type of problematic relationships?

Hans:
Yes.

Alfred:
Can you give an example of what that's like.

Hans:
Well, in relationships we already have a set karma/dharma that we wanted to work on. If we wanted to work on personal self-esteem, we might actually continue to create relationships that actually invalidate us. If we wanted to work on being good enough, we'll attract people that put us down. So it's important to remember, that what we said earlier, is that we have to arrive at relationships as  equals.

Now if you keep attracting the same relationship over and over and over again, it says you're not learning the lesson. I've had many clients who have literally had the same relationship 4, 5, 6 times with different people. Because their expectations remain the same. They never change. They want the person to be a certain way, to do a certain thing, to be treated a certain way... When they don't realize that already who they are is enough. But they have such little self-esteem sometimes that what happens is that they don't believe they're enough. And this can really affect your ability to have a loving relationship.

Alfred:
And another issue...this is a really big one with the clients that we have internally  as a soul...and these issues really do cover up the loving soul that you are. For example, do you have issues with your parents? How often does that come up Hans?

Hans:
Well, we're going to be dealing with this as we go through this class but it's huge, Alfred. It's really huge. Because it's some of the very first "learning's" that we ever allow into ourself is the judgments, or the love, or the criticism, or the acceptance, of our parents. Okay? So it's really important to understand that we are products of our humanness if we're not careful. 

If you tell a child, for instance, that when they're born that they can first start to understand how perfect they are, if you tell them how wonderful they are, if you tell them that just who they are is enough and God loves them just that way, you're going to wind up with a very balanced adult. On the other-hand, if you're born into a situation where you've chosen self-esteem as the primary lesson, then you will feel a sense of rejection, you will feel that nobody understands you, and you will line yourself up for the relationships that will absolutely invalidate you. 

So your job, literally, is to catch yourself and say: Wait a minute. That's not what I signed on for. That's not who I am. Who I am is this baby angel that God loves so much.

Alfred:
And we're just continuing on this theme right now of "why" having a stable relationship with yourself is so important to start. This is just an awareness.. For example, are you a victim? Are you bringing that victim role to your relationships? 

How many clients have you had Hans that have been victims?

Hans:
Thousands...thousands. I had two today. Thousands of people are victims of their history...their human history. Victims of false perceptions, victims of not really understanding the whole picture, and then having the mind chatter invalidate or cause problems. The mind literally works overtime in its attempt to disengage you from your spiritual essence, your soul, your heart's lesson. It works overtime in trying to create drama, guilt. It works overtime trying to make you less than you are. So that you become so dependent on the mind chatter that the heart and the soul have no place to speak, hear, or feel. 

So it's important that we learn, early days, and you can learn that all of your life, it doesn't matter how old you get, you can still learn this lesson: You are already enough. Okay?

Alfred:
And here's a good one Hans. How many times have you heard people blaming God for their problems, been blaming God for the life that they have?

Hans:
Well that's very convenient because that way you don't have to take responsibility. You can become a victim of a situation and people will feel sorry for you and again you don't have to even worry about it because you are not being responsible because it's not your fault. And as long as you continue to do that, you will never learn the lesson.

Alfred:
And what we're trying to communicate here is that in order to be a good soul in a soul mate relationship, what we want you to do is find your peace, your happiness, joy, bliss, by starting inside yourself. Okay? And what we're going to do is outline two different steps right now to help you to get to that inner love, that inner peace, that connection to your own soul, to start the relationship with your own soul, to form the relationship with your own soul, so that when you get to a soul mate relationship with others, you show up as a soul, not as trauma, not as your history, not as things that you think that happened to you. But instead you show up peaceful, happy.

The first step, and this is the basis of Hans King's teachings, is to remove the "junk" inside your mind. Otherwise known as mind chatter. Hans, walk us through very quickly how getting rid of mind chatter can help you form a relationship with yourself, your soul.

Hans:
The mind chatter is the filter by which you view the world. So the mind chatter has the judgment of everything that it sees, that it hears, that it feels. The mind chatter always reminds you that you're not quite enough. And as long as you allow the mind chatter to do this... People say: Well I'm helpless. I can't help what the mind chatter's going to say...

The other day we did a show Alfred, as you remember, and we said that: Fear and Doubt can only live in the house you build. Remember, all that's going on in your mind is attached to a house you built. You were not born this way. This is not a "naturalness". This is something that you applied at some point along the way because as children we tend to believe what our parents tell us, what society tells us, even though it's not true. And it's only when we begin to question, and we say wait a minute, that doesn't feel right to me. 

Alfred, you're very big on feelings, telling people how to "try this feeling", "try that feeling". It's very important, Alfred, for people to understand that the mind chatter is not the most important thing in their life. It's the least important thing in their life. Their humanness, their attachment, their connection to God, is of paramount importance.  And at any stage of the game, anywhere along the way, you can literally change your mind's perception. 

Alfred:
And that is a pretty good overview about the first steps in how to uncover your soul, unburden your soul, so that when you walk into a soul mate relationship it's actually you, the soul, not your perceptions, your opinions, your expectations, your trauma.

This is a very quick overview of the two different steps. We're just talking about step one right now. We'll be getting into these exercises of letting go of mind chatter, psychic development, letting go of all these things in a little more detail. Right now we're just making you aware of what is so important in soul mate relationships.

The second step that we're going to be walking you though is how to build your own self-esteem, how to love yourself, how to realize you are enough. Why is that so important when forming a relationship?

Hans:
Because all of what you just said, so rightfully so, all of that comes out of the mind chatter. It doesn't come out of the soul. It doesn't come out of the spiritual heart. No Godforce is telling you that. Spirit isn't telling you that. You are actually telling yourself something that is a lie, that it is not true. And once you begin to really understand: Wait a minute, my mind's telling me things that aren't true.

For instance, the mind will constantly warn you what "could" happen, what "might" happen...constantly. When you finally understand that it's not telling you the truth, yet you're reacting to it continuously... I have a dear client that I received information from today and this poor thing has worried about her house being sold, worried about getting a house, how all of this was going to happen... And Spirit's advice to her, continuously along this path was: Follow your heart. 

And when you understand that by following your heart, the Spirit is holding that heart in their hands and they will open the doors for all that you need, all that you require, when you stop listening to the mind chatter. Because the soul cannot operate with the Spirit when you are busy occupying that place with mind chatter.

Alfred:
How about loving yourself first Hans. Why is loving yourself so important?

Hans:
Because it's all you have Alfred, basically. You don't have anything else. You don't own any part of the body, including the mind chatter. The love of yourself is the greatest gift you give to yourself. 

You know we have a product out there called "You Are Enough". And in the opening it says: What if you discovered that tomorrow morning there was nowhere you needed to go, nothing you needed to do, no one you needed to become, nothing you needed to learn... That who you were in that moment was enough for God. I said that on The Allen Cohen Show and he said: My God, what a concept. 

You already are enough. And we're so invested, Alfred, in how we look, how we dress, the makeup we put on, the clothes we wear...I mean it's just unbelievable. The houses we live in, the cars that we drive. All this in an attempt to make us better. And that breaks Spirit's heart because they already made you perfect. You were perfect when you were born, you are perfect now. So giving yourself the gift of that awareness, that you already are enough, will change your life.

Alfred:
And these two steps that we're talking about - Step 1: Removing the "junk", removing the mind chatter and then Step 2: Of loving yourself. Realizing you're enough. Building your spiritual self-esteem. They help each other. The more mind chatter that you let go of, the more you're able to build your self confidence. The more you let go of trauma and your past, the more you're able to love yourself in the moment.

Hans:
Yes.

Alfred:
And we're going to be going through these two steps in much more detail, giving you more exercise in the upcoming lessons. But we wanted to, at least, get the point across that the most important soul in any soul mate relationship is you.

Hans:
Alfred, I received an email today from one of our Spiritual Circle Members who said that after a year he finally got it. And he said he woke up this morning and all the weight from all the fear and the doubt and the money stuff and the relationship stuff...all the stuff that he had created through the mind chatter had vanished because he had turned his life over to Spirit. He said this morning it felt like a giant weight had been lifted off of him. 

And that's what I want our dear friends out there to understand that you can, absolutely, without fail, lift all of the sadness, all the despair, all the loneliness, attract to you the perfect partner, attract to you the abundance that you seek. All of that is already there, and the only person who's blocking that is you. So giving yourself you, giving yourself the love of you, is the greatest gift you will ever give yourself.

Alfred:
Well Hans that pretty much wraps up Part 1 of Soul Mate Relationships. Anything you want to add just to wrap that up?

Hans:
Yes. Everyone can do this. This isn't reserved for enlightened people. Everyone can learn to go to the mind chatter and close the door. That's going to be the key for this week. Close the door to the mind chatter and watch and see, Alfred, how peaceful people become. This is going to be paramount and I look forward to continuing this class next week.

Alfred:

Thanks everyone for joining us in Part 1 of Soul Mate Relationships. Stay tuned for Part 2.

Saturday, September 13, 2014

“The Magic Within Us” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“The Magic Within Us” - by Hans Christian King 
Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show
with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com
and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com
Topic: The Magic Within Us
September 13, 2014




Alfred;
Hello everyone and welcome to GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE - Wisdom for Your Soul. This is Alfred, the Padawan to the Modern Day Mystic himself Hans Christian King. We are traveling so sorry about the interesting audio quality. But as always, we do our best to give you a just a little bit of guidance so that your soul can shine each and every day that you incarnated in this human life. Today's topic is: "The Magic Within Us". And before we get to The Magic Within Us, I'd like to pass it over to Jennifer to go over what's happening this week that's coming up.

Jennifer:
Thank you Alfred. We have one Special Event that's actually occurring right now, through the entire weekend, and that's the replay of The Awakening To Abundance Tele-seminar. "Spirituality in the Now" is the topic. The links for this can be found on Hans' Facebook page and on the Events page on HansKing.com. And I have to add, just for a second, how much I admire your dedication to everyone even when you're traveling on the road managing to get the show out and questions answered and lessons taught. That's wonderful. Thank you. We have lots more coming up in the near future so stay tuned. Back to you Alfred.

Alfred:
Great Jennifer. Thanks for those announcements and of course you can keep up-to-date with what's going on either by going to our Facebook page. If you haven't already, please "like" us on Facebook and we're ever so grateful if you "like" us and want to "share" what we do with your Facebook Friends. We really appreciate it. We don't do any traditional advertising so we rely on you and  your word of mouth in telling other people to help get the word out and help us help others. Of course you can also go to HansKing.com and under “Spiritual  Community” you can find our “Event Calendar”. Of course you can always sign up for our Newsletter also. And if you sign up for our Newsletter you get free mp3's as soon as you sign up and also you get free mp3 audio lessons every single month that you're signing up for our Newsletter. So which ever way you want to communicate, or contact with us we are ever so grateful. So now off to the topic for the day, I present to you the Modern Day Mystic himself Hans Christian King.

Hans:
Hello everybody. Welcome on-board. I was kind of amazed when Spirit told me what the topic would be today. I had asked: Well what you like to speak about today? And they said: The Magic Within Us All. And then I said: Well explain. And he said: This is what I was told. When we come onto this plane, we also arrive with a little...a little stack of magic tricks, okay? And those magic tricks are “forever”. We can use them, we can apply them to whatever situation that we want, we can conjure up all kinds of things. But The Magic Within Us All means that if you have “faith” and you “believe”, you can make your life and any situation in that life go your way. Miracles, magic. You are the magician of your own life. You can pick what you would like to do, where you would like to go, the results you would like to see. You are the magician of your own life. And what's so wonderful about that is nobody else actually has your bag of tricks. Nobody. Because your bag of tricks was given to you based on your particular dharma and the karma that you have accumulated. So it's unique unto you...unique. And so what I want everyone to understand is that no one doesn't have a magic bag. We all have a magic bag. What does that mean? It means that in each and every one of us there is a place of belief that miracles can attach to. There's a place inside of each and every one of us that holds the answer we're already seeking. So our little bag of magic tricks simply says: I believe them. Now when a magician, he or she, we'll just call it a magician, is about to do a trick, they never say: Gee, I wonder if this would work. They already know it works and half of the trick is the magician knowing it works. Half of your getting through this incarnation is “knowing” you have gifts. There's a magic within each and every one of us that connects directly to Spirit. So we can say: Well, I started to do this but I don't like it so I'd like to change it and I'm going to go down this road instead. Boom! Suddenly out of nowhere, energy produces itself to make that trick happen. So we can re-set our magic over and over and over again. And remember no one else has our bag of tricks. Alfred, would you like to say something here?

Alfred:
Well I think there's a lot of different things that we have when we're born. Some of them are specific skill sets that have to do with our dharma. Such as if you desire to be a musician, you just were able to pick up a guitar and play it, or were able to just play the piano without lessons. That's part of the magic that follows you into this lifetime are the things that come natural to you are pretty much in tune with that which you wanted to experience - your dharma, your path in life. And I think that's a huge part of the magic that you were born with, that comes with you, that's inside of you.

Hans:
Yes. We are all born with our own little bag of goodies. And remember that we are all unique to our own magic. Others may look like they're walking the same path but they're not. Their path is slightly different than your path which is slightly different than someone else's path. We're all going in the same direction, we're just in different cars. So recognizing that there is a magic about you that you can literally make anything you wish come true... Now, mind you, sometimes it happens right away, sometimes it takes a little while. But if you set your intention, and know and believe like the magician does, absolutely you will see this dream come true. It doesn't matter. And no negative karma can ever stop your bag of tricks from helping you create your life. Never. So when you say to yourself: Ah, I would like the experience of doing this or doing that...whatever it is. I wonder what I have in my bag of tricks to make this come true? And the very first thing  you pull out of your bag is "I believe". When you say "I believe", it reinforces the intention. Then, with the "I believe", you trust in the reality of it. So all of these little goodies are in your bag. Now here's the wonderful thing...I keep bringing this up because I think it's important because I have a lot of people who say to me: Can I change my mind or am I stuck in what I originally started to create? You may change your mind at any time. However children, always remember that there is a "time" element. Now what do I mean by that? When you set your intention and you pull out your goodies from the bag to make it happen. And then you say: You know what this is not going the way I wanted it to, I don't think this is what I wanted to do, but I think what I would like to do is thus. Spirit then has to pull the energy back from what you were creating with your bag of magic, put the tricks back in the bag, and then they have to clear the space and then they say: Okay, where to from here? So don't think that you can be going on one path and shift in the middle of it and immediately it will change, because it won't. It takes just a little time. What is time? It is irrelevant to Spirit. Whenever the energy redesigns itself. It can be a matter of an hour, a day, it can be two weeks. However, knowing that it is changing to the new intention is the key. So “belief”  and “trust” and “knowing” are three of the ingredients in your bag of tricks. Having those... You're dreaming...I want you to think about dreaming. Dreaming and wishing and hoping and all of those things are all part of the magic of your life. You can literally be sitting in your chair in your living room and project yourself into that pretty house that you saw down the block. Just literally project yourself right into it. And you can say something like this: I know and I believe that some day I will have the experience of living in a house like that. So you take one of your tricks "I believe", you take "faith", you take "knowing", you take "trust", and you point them in that direction. Somewhere along your path, if it is meant to be, and most of our dreams are, that will come to pass. I have probably a thousand clients through the years who have said to me: I dreamed it when I was a child. I knew it and I believed it and here it is. How do we know this? Once again because energy follows thought. So your bag of tricks is very, very powerful. You always hear me say: Be careful what you pray for. Because you are entitled to operate with your bag of tricks in creating your life. And no dharma is ever so destined that it would ruin your ability to create with your bag of tricks - ever. So inside of each and every one of us is a little magician waiting to pop out. And the energy for that magician is "faith" and "belief", "knowing"...no doubting. Have you ever noticed that people on this show will say: Do you think I'll get this job? What have they actually done kids? They've actually said: I'm not certain I'm going to get this job. So they've added a negative thought to a positive wish. And they cancel each other out. And if you cancel out the intention for your own dream, then nobody else can dream it for you. 

Alfred:
That's a really good point Hans is a lot of us know the very unique gifts that we were born with. I'll go back to say, the guitar player that he "knows" he's a gifted musician. That he was born with the skills to be a musician. But does he doubt  that that's what he's supposed to do? Or does he say? I “trust” this is what I'm supposed to do and “believe” that the universe will provide him enough opportunity to bring what he does, play his music to the world, and he can earn enough money to keep a roof over his head. And that's what we're talking about. Is what you've requested to do with your dharma is not only the magic that's inside of you, it's what the universe has been requested to support you in. So if you're a musician and you decide to become a banker, you're going to be wondering why you keep getting fired and having fights...

Hans:
That's right.

Alfred:
However if you do trust the universe that you are supposed to be a musician and not follow what everybody else does, then you truly believe that they will support you in that. Those are the miracles that we're talking about.

Hans:
Yes.

Alfred:
That following what's inside of you and trusting that the universe will provide the miracles needed for you to follow your dharma is what Hans is talking about.

Hans:
Each and every one of you is your own magician. Each and every one of you have a facet of the Godforce within you that no other person has quite the same. You are "unique" with your bag of tricks. You were given all that you need...all that you need. Your job is to stand in the moment and say: I am and it is enough. No more striving to be better. No more striving to change your life. Just “know” it. Project it forward. Take your tricks out of your bag and say: I "know" that the perfect job for me, that feels the following way, is already on the way as I am writing, as I am speaking. Having no doubts. But your mind doesn't like your bag of tricks. And your mind will say: Oh, don't be silly. You know that doesn't work. Well yes, it works for other people but you're not good enough for it to work for you. I talked to a person yesterday, just having a conversation, and they said to me: I really wish I could do this or I really wish I could do that...I know that's not going to happen but boy I sure wish it would. Now what do you think their changes are of making that happen are? Two: slim and none. But the person who absolutely "knows"... My goodness kids how many people have we watched on TV or read about who came from abject poverty, no education, but had inside of them a little fire that says: I am somebody. I'm not the bottom to any pile. I am somebody and my God loves me and this is where I'm going. Didn't know how they were going to get there, that's irrelevant. That's the mind demanding to know "how" and "why" and “where” and "when". I remember a story that Alfred told me quite a few years ago in which he said he “knew” the kind of banking job that he wanted. He wanted to be an International Banker, he wanted to travel, he wanted to do all the things that they do. Nobody was offering him this job and the jobs they did offer him were not what he wanted. But he never lost his belief that that's what would happen to him one day. And out of nowhere one day, a year later I think he said it was, someone said: Well we need somebody to do this kind of a job. We need somebody to travel for us. We need someone to live overseas. And Alfred what did you say? I'm your man or something like that? (laughing)

Alfred:
I'm in. But it has to do with an internal knowing with what you're supposed to do with your life. You have two choices - do you ignore that internal knowing of what you're supposed to do because you think it's just some fantasy of hope dream or do you follow that dream. And that's what we're trying to tell you is that dream that you were born with, those innate skills that you just have, that inner knowing of what you're supposed to do with your life... You can ignore it or you can tie into that magic and tie into the magic of the support of the universe...

Hans:
Yes, and tie into your bag of tricks. Absolutely. So Alfred was there a place where you doubted you would get this kind of a job or did you always know it?

Alfred:
No, I just always knew it. And that's the funny part and that's what I try to teach some of my students is: If you don't know where the words are coming from, if you don't know why you say certain things, if you don't know why you desire certain things - that's where you're supposed to go. If you try to figure out life, if you try to understand life, if you "think yourself into something" , if you can give yourself 10 reasons why you should be doing something, be very afraid, because that's your mind trying to comprehend life. What we're talking about is the miracles in life. That which you don't understand, that which is innate, that which you were born with, that which is just part of you. If you follow "that", then you're going to have a pretty cool life.

Hans:

So again, your bag of tricks centers in your "belief". And Spirit and the Godforce doesn't believe in anyone more in the world than you. When you do, as Alfred was telling you, and you have this absolute innate knowing, you "know" it's true...you don't know how, you don't know where but you "know", you “know” that is going to happen for you because that is the experience that you have chosen. You get your bag of goodies out - trust, belief, faith, knowing - all the energy that is around you is then focused like a magnifying glass and eventually you can burn a hole through all the despair, all the no's, all the aggravations to a clear, new space. So having a quiet knowing, having a quiet understanding that it already is so, that it is already in the making because you have set the intention with trust and faith. You use all your little magic. And you know you never run out. The bag never runs out of tricks...ever. So the same bag of goodies that you arrived with is the same bag of goodies you'll take home with you. So you never run out of: Yes I am; Yes I can. Never. It's only when the mind chatter comes in and starts to tell us "why" something can't happen that we get ourself in trouble. That's why I asked Alfred was there ever a time that you "didn't believe" you would get it. And he said: No, I always knew it. And that folks is the key. So we have seen people come from terrible places, from wars, from concentration camps, limbs lost, families lost and take their life with their bag of tricks and turn it into something rather extraordinary...extraordinary. Because they "knew it", and they "believed it", and they worked and they did what Spirit sent for them to do. Okay? So, yes you are unique. No, no one else has a better bag of tricks than you do. You say: Well how come Joe Blow over there is worth $500,000,000 and I'm worth $500? You don't know what that soul's experience is about. You don't know that. But if you say: I know that I'm going to have more than enough as I do now, but a larger enough. Everything in your life begins to gravitate towards that. I have a client folks that you all know and he lost his fortune 4 times. Count them - 4 times. None of which were his fault. Each time he lost his fortune...some of those fortunes were $200,000,000, $300,000,000... Each time he simply sat down in a chair, got out his bag of magic tricks and within several years had recreated what had been lost. Because there was no place within him that said: I can't do this. There's no place inside of him that turned him into a victim. Oh, look what's been done to me. Didn't have time for that nonsense. Had a "knowing", had an understanding. So each one of you have the same bag, different ingredients, but they equal the same based on your dharma, based on your karma. No one's bag of tricks is greater than anyone else's bag of tricks. Okay? So such joy and hope follow "belief", "knowing", “accepting your divinity”, “accepting the Godforce within you”, “knowing that your God does not love anyone more than you”, knowing no matter how meaningless your life may seem - to a person who can't walk - you getting off your sofa and going for a walk after this show is a miracle beyond comprehension. For a person who can't see - to be able to see a hummingbird, as Alfred saw yesterday, just hanging out - is a miracle. You are a miracle to someone who is dying. The miracle of you is enormous and your bag of tricks never fails. It is always there. It is always there with you. Okay? Alfred I think that will conclude the lesson for today.

Saturday, September 6, 2014

“Karma and Your Next Life” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“Karma and Your Next Life” - by Hans Christian King 
Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show
with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com
and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com
Topic: Karma and Your Next Life
September 6, 2014






Alfred:
Hello everyone and welcome to MODERN DAY MYSICISM being broadcast on The World Puja Network. Tonight's topic: "Karma and Your Next Life". Hi, I'm Alfred, the Padawan to the Modern Day Mystic himself. We have a interesting topic. We have the subject and a lot of the questions were sent in by our Spiritual Circle Members. So we have an interesting topic that was requested by some of Hans' followers. So without further ado I present to you Hans Christian King.

Hans:
Good evening everyone. It's wonderful to be back with you this evening. A beautiful day here in the mountains of Western North Carolina. This particular subject "Karma" has been asked in so many different ways by our clients throughout the years and I've tried very hard to help everyone to understand exactly what "Karma" is. Karma is the sum total of all the thoughts you produced, all the deeds you produced, while you were in the human form. We like to say that the Universal Law that governs all things is the Law of Cause and Effect. Now, this Law was put in place by the Great Spirit...by God if you will. Now God does not regulate the Law on a regular basis for you. The Law regulates itself and it's impeccable. It cannot be altered, it cannot be changed, no matter what we think. So Karma, after awhile, produces a Dharma, or a history of deeds. And your Dharma, when you're returning to this Side, speaks to issues left undone, issues that you want to do. So your Dharma basically speaks to how you worked on your Karma. Some of the questions that have come in to us... Here's one: Is Karma God's law to regulate good and bad behavior? No, it is not. God doesn't regulate good and bad behavior. God allows us our own energy to regulate our own good and bad energy and that again is called our Dharma. In our daily life we produce our Karma and our Karma that is returned to us and adds to the Dharma in our lives. So we are constantly working on issues and situations that we might have not come across before and we feel we didn't do right by those issues and we really stress to make certain that we live within the very fine law of good Karma. Now is Karma simply part of your live review? Yes, it is. But you also bring in with you your Dharma so that the Karma would be how you operated in your last lifetime. So your Dharma would be how you wanted to operate. In other words, your Dharma speaks to the things you might have missed, the things you want to work on. So it is the sum depository of all your thought. Now Cause and Effect is a difficult lesson to try to explain to people   because it is the sum total of all thought at all time that operates in and or around you both in this dimension and the next dimension. In other words what is advancing towards you is being produced from your Dharma. So it is how you handle what is being produced. Now if you are a person who is let's say a rather loving and kind individual and does good deeds and tries to think of decent thoughts for other people and love animals and the trees... In other words if you operate in a loving, peaceful place, that is the energy that will begin to return to you. Now if you are an individual who has struggled a lot and may be very unhappy and angry in a previous lifetime, then that energy is being produced "for you", "by you". Now let's remember one thing that's very important. And I had a lot of problems with Alfred on this one. I'm going to go to him shortly. There is nothing being given to us we did not either produce or ask for. Alfred, you had quite a problem with that when I was trying to help you with that. Do you remember?

Alfred:
Oh yes. Especially for us old souls who had ever so interesting family lives. One of the hardest lessons, but most miraculous and freeing lessons, was that you asked for your childhood.

Hans:
Yes.

Alfred:
And once you get the fact that as an old soul you wanted a lot of lessons up front so you could have more compassion and do more things later on in life, then it finally made sense to say: Oh, well yes. If you've been through the easy stuff as an old soul you would want more and more difficult lessons earlier in life...


Hans:
Yes.

Alfred:
So yes, it did resonate with me eventually that I asked.

Hans:
I remember that you struggled with that though.

Alfred:
Well yes, of course.

Hans:
You once said to me: I would not have chosen...

Alfred:
Of course. For those of us who have been 10, 20, 30 years thinking I was as an abused child. It may take a couple of months to get rid of that 20 or 30 years.

Hans:
In some people's cases it may take a couple of lifetimes.

Alfred:
Yes. 

Hans:
Someone wrote in here: Can God dictate what you must do? Absolutely not. God is a benevolent loving God. It does not dictate to anyone anything. The Laws are immutable, they are in place - period. We either choose to live within the confines of those rules or we venture outside until we get smacked enough by our own thought forms coming at us that we begin to see: Oh, wait a minute. Maybe I need to change the way I perceive things. Did that happen for you Alfred?

Alfred:
Yes. You have a choice to follow your mind, follow your ego, and then you're just in isolation and misery and pain "or" you can try something different, try these spiritual things that Hans tries to teach us every week and see if you feel different. And basically I came up with a little thing to say: Hmm, maybe God wants you to be happy. Maybe corporations or the western way of being stressed out of your mind...let's try a different way. Let's try to be happy. And that was a little difficult to let go considering, as many of you know, I paid an enormous amount of money to learn how be stressed out of my mind. I'm sure a lot of you also have that situation. So it is a "choice" but it takes a little while to incorporate that choice into your life. 

Hans:
So can God dictate what you must do? No. After the Laws are in place and you've agreed to be part of the Law, which is what you do, then God turns loose and allows the Law to run its natural course. Now here's an interesting question that was sent to us: If you have created negative energy through a deed, is it God's will or yours to revisit the issue? Yours. Very, very simple. The Godforce does not "interfere" with the "humanness" of us. Remember what we've always tried to teach you: In that one of the greatest gifts that God gives you is the Law of Free Will. Through time you will learn, through lifetimes, how to regular yourself. You will learn what brings you positive energy, positive awareness and you will learn what brings you negative and harmful energy. But you are the only one, both here and in Spirit, who judges your actions. What say you Mr. Alfred?

Alfred:
Well that makes sense that by following the Law of Free will that you are ultimately in charge of what happens. You're in charge of your pain, your misery, your suffering... You're in charge of your happiness, your bliss, your joy. You're in charge of whether your deeds bring positive or negative energy to yourself or those around you. I didn't know that. I was taught there was only one way and this is the way and that's it...this is the path. And I'm like: Well, if I'm following this path and I'm so successful, why am I so miserable? What we're trying to tell you is there's a choice. You have choices. “Everything” is a choice. Your life is your choice, your Dharma - your path in life is your choice. How you handle things on a moment to moment basis, that's your choice. And that's a huge amount of what I've learned through the years of Hans' core teachings is in every moment, in every thought and every action, by the Law of Free Will you have a choice. Yes, many of those choices are very difficult. To let go of someone you love, to leave someone who's abusing you, to walk away from family or friends are of not like-mind or vibration. Those are very difficult. But it's a choice and you have the choices to stay where you are or go a different path. You have a choice to follow the crowd or create your own path in life. Of course, the ones where you're creating your own path and leading the way, those are the more difficult ones but if you've think about the people who've done the difficult deeds in life - Mahatma Gandhi, Martin Luther King, think of the good that they have done. That's pretty much the life of an old soul. You have been trained young, you asked for those lessons and now it's you choice whether you're going to follow through, learn the lessons and do great things in life. But even though it is your path, even though you have chosen it before you were born, every decision you make determines the strength of your soul. And that's where soul growth comes from.

Hans:
Yes.

Alfred:
That you choose, by the Law of Free Will, what you do, what you think.

Hans:
Now there's an important statement from Alfred. It is very important to remember that no Godforce, no spiritual force, makes us come back to visit this plane. We make that decision ourself based on what our soul has chosen to learn after recognizing our previous lifetimes. The positives and the negatives we say: You know I'd like to revisit that subject. That's not what I would have done. I would have tried something else. I would like the opportunity to go back and adjust that. And that's when I've taught you that you get together with your pals and buddies and with your Guides and Angels and you look at your Dharma and from the Dharma - which is the sum total of all you've already done - you create the possibility of what you would like to learn during this next visit. You see? Now I want to point out again to you that no one puts your lessons in place but you. No one makes you return here but you. So if you want to blame anybody, blame you. And I mean that in the nicest of ways. Realize you are living the totalness of all of your previous lives in this lifetime. That's why I said to you awhile back what my dear friend Alexandra used to say: I wonder what's in this for me today? You see never becoming a victim of it. Because when we become a victim of it, we say there's something wrong. I would say that 90% of the questions that are asked of me about relationships, people already know the answer to. They just don't want to hear it. So the Law of Free will simply states: You are ultimately in charge of what happens in your lifetime. There are exceptions to every rule. We have murder, we have bombings, we have tragedies of various kinds... But even then if you return to Spirit early you will still want to come back to another lifetime and get on with the process. Okay? So understanding that Karma and Free Will govern your Dharma, Karma and Free Will open you up to the possibility of the all the good you are, all the possibilities that you have chosen. I think one of the greatest possibilities is to choose to not be a victim of anything. Alfred, what do you think?

Alfred:
True. That is your mind trying to protect you. That is your ego trying to protect you by saying: These people did this to you. You have to be careful. We have to protect you from that happening again. And that is what isolates you from happiness, Godforce, Guidance, bliss, peace. It is not protection that makes you safe and happy. It is letting go of the past. It is believing that there is nothing more important, or nothing more relevant, than just the current moment.

Hans:
So everything, as Alfred is saying, is in the moment. It is how you react to the conditions that are advancing towards you. So if you stop for a moment and you think: Oh, God didn't choose this job for me, I did. Spirit didn't choose this partner for me, I did. Spirit didn't choose where I choose to live or what clothes I choose to buy or what car I choose to drive, I did. And once you begin to understand that then you become a little more responsible to yourself in the decision making arena. Most people that I have known have known in the beginning whether or not whether a relationship would work for them or not. But what they chose to do is to confuse attraction for a positive sign. In order words: Oh, I'm attracted to this person...  But is it a physical attraction? Is it a personal attraction from the soul? What is this? And rather than take their time and discover what's in the relationship, they head off right away to buy furniture and build a house. And then when it all falls apart, because there was nothing there in the first place, then they get angry and say: How could God be like this to me? And the other person's a schmuck. And woe is me. Is Karma merely a choice whether to revisit an event to grow your soul? To some degree that is true. 

Alfred:
So it seems that Karma basically just keeps "notes" on what you've done in life...

Hans:
Yes, that's a nice way of putting it. Yes.

Alfred:
That when you go back to the Other Side and you're reviewing your life and you review your Dharma about what things you did and what things you got to, Karma comes in and helps you understand: Did you them, shall we say, well? Did we do them according to your expectations? Did you create negative energy in the universe? Is there something you might want to revisit or was there a new issue that Karma attracted to say: Hmm, that wasn't in my original Dharma. I did get into a sticky situation. Let me go and revisit that to see if I can do a better job. And that sticky situation was, shall we say, taken "note of" in your Karma? How's that for a review?

Hans:
Not bad. There is a little one sticky wicket folks. And this is the part you don't want to hear and Alfred this is the part you don't like - Thoughts are living things. And in every action, there is a reaction. So every time we step on an ant, every time we send a negative thought towards another person, all that is being placed in the Karma and being attached to the Dharma. And that means that all those things that you have done that are negative or hurtful to other people must be visited upon yourself. So here's the key folks: The cleaner the thought, the kinder the next go around. So it isn't just that you think about a good thing every once in awhile, you need to shift yourself into as positive a life as you can. Okay? Now people ask me: Is there any kind of a Dharma that stops us from being who we'd like to be in this lifetime? And the answer is: No. There's no such thing. However, some people may have to struggle like the dickens to get where they want because there was so much negative Karma attached to them that they chose to work off...they have to work that off first. But it always comes around anyway. So, Alfred on Karma and Dharma are there any questions that you might have?

Alfred:
No, I think it's trying to explain a very complicated subject in a very simple way that would really help people understand that it may be incredibly important to them to focus on what's going on in their life. And yes it is important to focus on what's going on outside and what you do and maybe even less as to what's going on with the rest of the world. Because, for example, you had mentioned that even "thoughts" are possibly part of your Karma...

Hans:
Oh, they are. There's no doubt whatsoever.

Alfred:
Such as if I had a negative thought about someone, then that becomes part of your Karma to say: Hmm, maybe next life I want to see if I can have positive thoughts...

Hans:
Well you will be led in that direction. We actually are removed from some of the  response. In other words, when we're coming back, Alfred, there's automatic attachment of negative deeds to the Karma as you enter, despite all the other things you want to do.

Alfred:
And as I think it was Mahatma who had a very long list of things to say: Be careful of your thoughts because they eventually could become actions. And that's why you do the inner work is that your actions also create Karma and if you have good thoughts, if you are peaceful, if you are happy, then your actions will be positive, giving positive energy. And during your life review you can review your Karma and say: Hmm, I did good things. So Karma basically is, as we were talking about, something that tracks the sum total of your actions, your being, your energy, your thought, your way of life, your reaction to circumstances that eventually you revisit and is brought to you during your life review. Okay? And then once you say: Okay, this was my Dharma, here is my Karma of basically reviewing how I thought and reacted to all of the individual situations throughout my life. Then with the guidance and wisdom of those who are all around you, you can say: Okay, well let me determine if and when if I come down next time what is going to be my new Dharma, my new path in life so that I can address those issues that created negative energy or negative Karma in my past life. I think I can do a better job. And again that's you. That's the Law of Free Will coming in and coming in and saying: I'm the one who is choosing to revisit this issue, to revisit this negative Karma, to revisit this negative emotion, this thing that I did that I wasn't very happy with. I can do a better job.

Hans:
Yes. True.

Alfred:
How's that for a review?

Hans:
Not bad for a foundling. Very good...

Alfred:
Foundling? 

Hans:
Foundling.

Alfred:
Is that above or below Padawan?

Hans:
It's right in there in the same area.

Alfred:
It's a form of Padawan?

Hans:

(Hans Laughing) Yes... It's a form of Padawan. I think that will conclude the lesson for this evening Alfred.

Saturday, August 30, 2014

“Fear and Doubt Can Only Live in the House You Build” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“Fear and Doubt Can Only Live in the House You Build” - by Hans Christian King 
Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show
with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com
and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com
Topic: Fear and Doubt Can Only Live in the House You Build
August 31, 2014





Alfred:
Hello everyone and welcome to GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE - Wisdom For Your Soul. As we were talking about last week, we have a new tagline. Thanks to all of you who sent in all of your taglines and those of you who voted in our Tagline Contest. The one that won was "Wisdom For Your Soul". And as we were explaining is that we provide wisdom for all aspects of your life so that you, a soul having a human experience, can have the best life that you possibly can. That's why we talk about so many different subjects here on GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE - Wisdom For Your Soul. And before we get into the topic for today, I'd like to turn it over to Jennifer to discuss any Events that are happening this week.

Jennifer:
Yes, Alfred. Hans was recently the Opening Speaker for Season 5 of Beyond The Ordinary with John Burgos. And that show is being replayed this weekend. You can check it out at BeyondTheOrdinary.com. That link is posted on Hans' Facebook Page. That's all I have right now. Anything else that comes up for the week ahead will, as always, be posted on both Facebook and Twitter.

Alfred:
Great Jennifer. Thank you for the Announcements. And of course we do our best to announce what's going on the day before or the day happening when something does happen on Facebook. And we sincerely appreciate all of you who have “Liked” us and those of you who are “Sharing” what we do. We do no traditional advertising so we rely on you to get the word out. And we are ever so appreciative of your efforts to help us help others. So for today's topic - "Fear and Doubt Can Only Live in the House You Build". Without further ado I present to you the Modern Day Mystic himself - Hans Christian King.

Hans:
Hello everybody. Welcome to the show.  We are very happy to be with you today. It's a beautiful day. And you know, at a certain time of your life every day is a beautiful day. And I wish that I could help people to understand that every day is a beautiful day. We're blessed to be on the planet, we're blessed to be doing what we're supposed to be doing, and I'd like everybody to hold a thought for our dear friend Joan Rivers as she hopefully tries to regain consciousness after her medical emergency. She's brought a lot of laughs to a lot of people. Made a lot of people really angry. But I think she's pretty remarkable for 81 years old. So I am praying. I hope you all do too. A couple of days ago I tweeted, yes, Hans King is tweeting if anyone can believe that. I tweeted something that Spirit said to me. Guidance said: "I'd like them to understand that fear and doubt can only live in the house they build". I want everyone to stop for a moment and think about that. What does that mean? It means that fear and doubt are an illusion manufactured in the mind. It is not really true. Yes, there are horrific events that happen in some people's lives, wars, accidents, things of that nature... But for most people that does not happen. And some day we will talk a little bit about what happens when those events occur. But for most of us the greatest, probably most difficult thing we face in life is the illusion generated by the mind chatter. I once said to someone: Do you realize that nothing you are saying is actually going on? And she stopped me and she was quite angry and she said: Well of course it's going on. It's this and this and that and that... She went down this list and she said: I've been afraid since I was a little girl and all of these things that could have happened to me... And I stopped her. And I said: Could have happened to you, but they didn't. No, but she said: I was afraid and I was eager to get out of the circumstances. And I tried to help her to understand that she built a house to receive fear and doubt. They're old friends you know. They go out together, have lunch, what have you...talk about how they can best mess up what you're doing in life. But if you would understand that deep inside of you are a series of rooms and doors, love is one of those doors or those rooms. Fear is one of those rooms. And when you begin to understand: Oh, wait a minute! Are you saying to me that I'm attracting the fear and the doubt to myself because I actually have built the room to receive it? And I was saying: Yes. And then you begin the long journey of trying to prove to me that isn't so. Remember all that is coming towards you is coming out of your own fear, your own mind chatter. Alfred would you jump in here for a little bit and tell me of your experience. The reason I bring Alfred in is he has a much younger experience and it is different than my experience.

Alfred:
Fear and doubt really, from a spiritual perspective, don't exist. And what does that mean from my point of view is the worst absolute thing that can happen, that you could be fearful of, that you would be doubtful of is you leave the human body and go back to the Other Side which is reality. You're only here temporarily for the existence of the soul having a human experience.

Hans:
And the illusion of being in the existence.

Alfred:
Yes. And the illusion and the difficulty of overcoming the illusion. So if you think about what's the worst thing you fear...what is it? Going back to the Other Side, going Home, going to a wonderful world of peace and harmony...

Hans:
Well gee Alfred, aren't we all going to do that anyway?

Alfred:
We are. And if you put it in that perspective - what could you really fear? Oh, I may not succeed this lifetime. Okay. Well, you go back to the Other Side and say: Oh, let me give that another shot. And you come back down. There is no time. You can come back down and reincarnate as many times as you want. Just because you didn't do as well as you think you could, fine. You go back up to the Other Side and review it and you have another go at it. I think that's probably the other thing that's most worried about is: Am I going to do well this life? Well you don't have to worry about that either.

Hans:
No, you don't Alfred. You couldn't be more correct. Because you see folks, this is but a "click" in time. If you've ever listened to a Grandfather Clock, "click"..."click"..."click". That's your life. The largeness of your life is that you have billions of "clicks". Now I'm not saying to you that you should hurry up and run Home. No, no, no. On the contrary, what you want to do is hurry up and learn your lessons. You've heard me often speak about: And what makes you think that anything is wrong? Things are thrown at us and... For instance, I made the mistake yesterday and I don't know what I was thinking, of turning on the News. And the 2 channels that are side-by-side are FOX and MSNBC. And I watched one for 5 minutes and watched the other for 5 minutes and turned them off. Because all they are is someone's "opinion" of what's going on. People who have absolutely no comprehension, no inside information, nothing... They're just making it up. You see? And that's what we do in our life Alfred is that the way we are trained, the way life is presented to us as a child through our family, our fears are the fears of our fathers. Our fears are the fears of our mothers, our grandmothers, our grandfathers, our siblings. Our fears were never with us when we came in. There are, children, exceptions to that rule. Always an exception to every rule. The exception being sometimes someone has suffered what you have hear me refer to as "a trauma to the soul". And when that happens, when that occurs, sometimes there's what I call a "carry-forward-memory". That's when I find the value of past life regression. Now I know Alfred you've gone for past life regression and you found some things. And I believe you found it quite helpful. Is that right?

Alfred:
That really was amazing because I remember a long time ago when I was in the Boy Scouts I actually had my Life Saving Merit Badge. I was a Lifeguard. But for some reason during Lifeguard training they wanted us to dive beneath the pier. And about 15 Lifeguards dived beneath the pier to check if everything was okay and popped up the other side and I sort of looked at that and I said: I'm not doing that. And I was the only one. And it just...pure white fear came over my body and I absolutely could not understand why I did not like swimming underneath things. I could swim anywhere. I could swim a mile no problem at all. But not underneath things. And finally I had a past life regression and it was because I had drowned because something had been on top of me like a ship or something.  And I specifically remember the exact same feeling when I went through my past life regression. Now, did it exist? Does it exist? It existed in the past and it's a carry-forward memory but it doesn't exist in the "now".

Hans:
No, it doesn't. And folks, here's a little homework you can do over the next week. If something's bothering you, something you heard strikes a little bit of a fear cord in you, or some doubt arises on a subject, stop yourself for a minute and say: Is this true? Is any of this true? Is this an actual fact or is my mind making it up because I have a place inside of me to believe something bad could happen. But is what is going on right now actually true or is it my mind chatter's interpretation? And if you start to do that Alfred with everything that comes up that's fearful or scary, you will literally change your life forever.

Alfred:
And that's an interesting way to look at it is is look at fear and doubt from a spiritual perspective. Fear and doubt are "human" - I'm not going to have enough money, I'm not going to find a partner, this is not going to happen or that is going to happen. All of that is about control, security. Those things are the complete opposite of spirituality which is abundance is unlimited, love is unlimited, your soul is unlimited. The humanness of us worries about: Do I have enough time? Am I going to run out of time? Spiritually speaking Einstein knew this - there is no time. 

Hans:
No. You can't run out of it then.

Alfred:
So if you get into a place of fear and doubt about anything, look at it and say: Am I being human? Am I looking at this from a human perspective? If I look at it from a spiritual perspective can those things I'm worrying about even exist? 

Hans:
Excellent. Thank you very much. And that's the interesting thing is is what we're thinking about true? Does it actually exist? Or have I been so programmed that I've built a room in the house of my soul that provides me a space to put that fear, to put that doubt, to put that anger? You've heard me throughout the years...I love this old British saying that says: You see what you look for you know. But does anybody actually hear that? It's an old metaphysical saying that comes out of pure truth - You see what you look for you know. That's the room in the heart that you provide for the fear and the doubt to scare you. I once told you that 96-98% of everything we ever worry about - this is a scientific study - 96-98% of everything we ever worry about actually never occurs. But we spend upwards of 37% of our waking day being concerned about it. Now folks just think what you could do with that 37%.

Alfred:
Be peaceful. Be happy. Be joyful. Be grateful. Be in the moment.

Hans:
Be peaceful. Go to the park with a loaf of cheap bread and feed the ducks. They don't care whether it's cheap or not. They love the carbohydrates. Just do something. Do something differently. Don't operate any longer out of fear and doubt because you are all baby angels having this incredible human experience. Stay off the News. We've got so many wonderful channels out there now from the Discovery Channel to HGTV. All kinds of wonderful channels doing all kinds of wonderful things. We have that now. If you want to watch TV, watch those things. I drive my folks a little crazy because I'm really fond of HGTV. And I watch how things are built, I watch how things are cooked. I like the Food Channel. That type of thing. And that's really, to me, quite enjoying. Alfred he likes his Jeep Building and Car Building Shows. So find something that's fun, that's light. But watch even when you're doing that often the mind chatter begins. Okay? Alfred talk about that a minute. That in the minute of doing something quite wonderful the little devil tends to creep in.

Alfred:
Well if you're in the moment usually it doesn't. But sometimes if you're out say going for a walk, there'll be something...oh your mind chatter, your ego, your program that says: Shouldn't you be thinking about this? Shouldn't you be worrying about that? And it will take you out of the moment and bring you to what possibly could happen in the future or what you should be considering doing or what you could be doing other than being in the moment.

Hans:
Um hmm.

Alfred:
Okay? And that I think is your best spiritual defense is to say... The thing that I do is if something like that happens I say: Okay, if this is a valid thought, I kindly request the Other Side to remind me of it when I'm done being in the moment.

Hans:
(Laughing)

Alfred:
If it's not a valid thought then They're not going to remind me.

Hans:
(Still Laughing) That's right. Get the heck away from me... Folks find always the humor in how you succumb to the mind chatter. Make it funny. Make it a joke. You know every once in awhile I'll say: Oh, there you go again silly thing! There you go again. So even in my life and all the teachers I know, to the person, I can tell you people who periodically the mind chatter gets the better of them and they forget to lock the room, the door where they are saying it's okay to come in. You've got to lock that up. Draw a picture. Get some paper, draw a picture of a room with a big lock on it. Picture yourself drawing some keys and mark that room "Fear and Doubt". This is your home for Fear and Doubt.  But as of today, this very moment, you're going to lock that door. And you're going to take that key and you're going to throw it into the woods, you're going to throw it into the ocean. And when you're doing that you are saying: I give you no more power to exist in me today and for the rest of this incarnation. I am free of this fear. I am free of the doubt. It has no home here. I am free. Now you may have to do that gentle friends, over and over and over again. But in the end you will win. Always. Because it was never attached to you in the first place. You already had all the love, all the acceptance, all the non-judgment, all the joy is your birthright in the human form as your soul entered that form. You were complete at that moment. All the rest is an add-on. It's an addendum. It has nothing to do with who you are. Now you didn't know you were building the room to hold the fear and the doubt. Because we were born into a world that segregates out humanness and replaces it with fear and doubt. I remember watching a movie...it was something out of India or Indian...I forget who it was. But I remember Professor Godbole when James Fox is running around and saying: I can't find my tie pin and all... And he says: I have to get to the court because she's up in the trial and all that. And Professor Godbole said: What are you going on about? He said: I have to be there. I have to help. And Godbole stopped him and he said: Young man what makes you think that you have anything whatsoever to do with the outcome of this trial? It has it's own life and it will proceed down that road.

Alfred:
That's a really good point is one of the most important aspect we're taught as human is that "you" are the person who is in control of your life, "you" are the person who can get what you need to serve out of this life. That is a very human thought. That is a very separating thought. In that line of thought you are separating yourself from the humanness you have yourself. And God's going to say: Okay great. If you think you've got it figured out, go for it. We're just going to hang back here and relax.

Hans:
Exactly.

Alfred:
And as many of you know spiritually speaking, the complete opposite is to surrender the outcome. So what we're doing is we're pointing out that the reason fear and doubt exist in your life is because there is an aspect of your life that is human and simply consider applying a spiritual principle in that area such as control and surrendering.

Hans:
Lock the door. Because the greatness of your spirituality far exceeds any power that any mind chatter, fear or doubt could ever have over you. When we say to you: Not my problem - we don't mean to insult you. What we're saying is your problem that you're going through is made up by you. It is not my problem. I don't wish to be upset by what you're doing. Why are you doing that? I had the pleasure to speak to a woman yesterday. She was so caught up in fear and doubt that it had literally destroyed all the possibilities in her life. She never took a partner because her mother once said: Yes, but they can leave you. Because her father did. She never got a good job because her mother said: It's a shame you're going to have to find a man someday to take care of you because you're just not bright enough. She bought that. 57 years of it. None of it was true. None of it will ever be true. But she provided a space. In other words she built a house from that sadness, that pain, that doubt to live in. And she made certain that she fed that by proving that nothing had happened good for her and what she couldn't see was that she had never allowed anything "good" to happen for her. She became a victim of her own consciousness. And when I tried very hard with Spirit to remove it, she tried very hard to put it back in place. For those of you who are healers and teachers, for those of you who work in the work that I work in, Alfred works in, sometimes folks, people have built such large homes to house their fear and doubt that you couldn't knock them down with a bulldozer. Alfred you know this to be so.

Alfred:
If you identify with it, if you think it is you, if you think you're past makes up who you are, there's really nothing we can do to help you.

Hans:
No.

Alfred:
That's it. If you understand that your past is simply that - the past. It is nothing more than a memory, if you understand that your past has made you stronger, built your character, be grateful for your past - but it is not where you are. Where you are is in the moment. Then you have a place to move out of that to say: No, this is where I am. That does not exist. It is not who I am. I am where I am in the moment. Those things are now are not me. I have choice. And that's what we're trying to teach you.

Hans:
Okay, that's very good. Just hold it there for a second. Choice. Alfred do you know that most people don't believe they have a choice out of fear and doubt?

Alfred:
Because we're not told we have choice...

Hans:
Correct.

Alfred:
We're told you have to drink Coke and... And I just saw on a commercial today the newest thing - exercise your face to look younger.

(Hans laughing)

Alfred:
You have to look younger so you have to exercise your face.

Hans:
Yes, that's it.

Alfred:
You have to look slimmer, you have to earn more money, your car has to be newer. Are you tired of driving that boring old car?

Hans:
Oh my goodness...

Alfred:
Wouldn't you want a nice new car to show everybody how successful you are? 

Hans:

Isn't that funny how we're taught from Day 1, and as most of you know I have a soapbox for this, we're taught from Day 1 - we're not quite good enough. Here's what we have to do. We have to eat Wheaties so we look like an athlete. We have to have our hair colored so we can look like the gal on the box of Clairol. We have to look and dress a certain way. Our bodies have to be a certain way. Folks, 99% of all people age and there really and truly isn't much you can do about it but watch your eating, exercise and be sure that you have a good mental attitude. Our friend Joan Rivers, whether you like her or you don't like her, has actually gotten better with age. She truly has. She's at the absolute height of her career. And for those of you who've ever watched, I think it was in 2011 or 2012, her movie - it's amazing because she is without a doubt what many of you are - Survivors. She doesn't have a place in her heart to say she can fail. I want every one of you to not have a place within you that says: I'm not good enough. You know one of the biggest products that we have out that reaches more people than anything we do is: You Are Enough. Why? Because most people don't know that's true. There is nothing you're ever going to do for the rest of your life that  will ever make you better than who you already are. You can dress differently. You can live in a big house. You can have lots of money. But it all goes away one day folks. It all goes away. And what you are left with is the essence of you. Just a divine baby angel who came to visit in the human form. You are eternal. You are love itself. You are the radiant aspect of the Spirit in human form. Therefore what you want to always understand is that Spirit is your Source. Spirit is walking with you. Spirit is holding you. Spirit is saying gently to you: Mmmmm, you deserve better than that. You see? You deserve better than that. Don't build a room or a house for fear and doubt. Build a house of love, acceptance. I am enough. Not only for today but forever. I had an interesting experience Alfred today. I had a wonderful client who had called and in speaking with her, she was still caught up in her childhood and her teens and early 20's with her family. She was so caught up with this that she actually believed that she was still in that although the parents, the grandparents, they were all dead. They were all gone. They were all back in the Other Side. But she was still living in the pain, in the doubt, in the fear, the anger, the resentment - she was still in that place screaming out: Why? Why? Why did that happen? Look what happened to my life. Rather than say: Whew! Wow, I'm glad I'm out of that! I'm not going to let that come into my life anymore. That was then. I'm not that person. I'm a different person. I'm this person here. A person in love, in light, of myself. Now folks, many of you actually believe the pain in your life. You believe it. But if you stop for just a moment and you say: You know, let me think about this for a minute. Why am I still in pain over something that happened 25 or 30 years ago? You see, you're in it because you built the house for it to stay. You built the house for it to live and you feed it continuously. And until you stop feeding the pain, the disappointment, the fear, it will continue to live in the house that you have built that you don't know you built. Alfred, I think that will conclude the lesson for today.