Monday, April 6, 2015

“Judgment and Opinion”- by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“Judgment and Opinion”- by Hans Christian King 
Spiritual Radio Show Transcription
GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show
with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com
and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com
Topic: Judgment and Opinion
April 6, 2015







ALFRED:
Hello everyone. Welcome to GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE - Wisdom for Your Soul. This is Alfred, the Padawan Learner to the Modern Day Mystic himself, Hans Christian King. Today's topic is "Judgment and Opinion". Something a lot of us struggle with.

But before we get to the topic of the day, just a few housekeeping announcements. Hans is going to be back on Lisa Garr's Money and Manifestation Summit. That's the big thing that's happening. Hans has been supporting Lisa for many, many years. And on April 9th, you can listen to Hans being interviewed by Lisa Garr.

There are a lot of other interviews and seminars that are happening. Of course you can always find them on Facebook. Please "Follow" us on Facebook or Twitter. And you can find us on HansKing.com. Our Event Calendar is under Spiritual Community. 

And whenever you hear or get a tweet about us, either on Facebook or through Twitter, we really would appreciate it if you could forward that. We do no traditional advertisement. It just doesn't work. For us, what works is You. If you believe in Hans, please pass along what we do. Please "Share" or "Re-tweet" what we do. That's how we do things. If we help people, we just request a little help back from you. Wonderful thing called karma - what comes around goes around. So it's our job to help people. How about just lending a hand every once in awhile and just helping us help others. So we'd really appreciate your "Shares" and "Re-tweets".

So off to the topic for today "Judgment and Opinion". So without further ado, I present to you the Modern Day Mystic himself, Hans Christian King.

HANS:
Good day everybody. So glad to be back with you today. "Judgment and Opinion"... Wow, can you imagine going through your life with no judgment or no opinion? You know, that's what we were supposed to do. That's what Spirit, that's what God lined us up for. No judgments, no opinion.

But unfortunately, we live in a society that points out to us, every single day, what's wrong. What “could” happen, what “might” happen, what “has”  happened... every day. And then we have all the pundents on TV and all the reporters and the writers for the magazines who all have their opinion, which is nothing more than a judgment. They don't know. I'm watching, right now, the country go crazy with this nuclear deal with Iran when nobody knows the truth but the President and Secretary of State and his staff. But all these judgments, all these opinions, all this fear, is pouring forward. Whether you like Mr. Obama or you do not like Mr. Obama, he has the best interest of our country at heart... and always has had. 

So when you come into this world, you come in with no judgments and no opinions. Well where do you get judgments and opinions “from”? Well, it starts with your family. Because each member of your family has arrived and wherever they are in their life, having gone through multitudes of pain and upsetness and not knowing and most people don't have really peaceful times anymore and so they sort of built up this wall and they make it somebody else's fault. Oh, well your grandfather did this, and you know if your grandfather had just taken his money and put it in here we wouldn't have this problem we have today with money, and your father lost his job and nothing's ever been the same since. 

That's what we do. We start forming judgments and opinions. True spiritual performance for the self is when you say: It is that it is and it is fine. Because every single thing, kids, that you come across in your life is meant to help you. Every relationship, every child, your parents, are meant to grow you. Therefore “nothing is wrong”. 

I remember when that Buddhist Monk said to me... He said: Well young man, what if you found out that absolutely nothing was wrong? And I couldn't... I couldn't, kids, get my head around that thought that actually nothing was wrong. He said: It's only your perception of what is happening that makes it look wrong to you. Okay? Only your perception. And that's where your spirituality comes into play. 

Because when we have a perception, it says that we have a knowing. No we don't. We have an idea of what we think should be right. But someone once said: There's your opinion, my opinion, and the truth. Interesting, isn't that? In every argument there are two sides who believe they are correct. In every war both sides pray to some kind of a god. 

Simplicity, always children, is truth itself. And the simpler you make your life, the less turning on FOX News, or listening to pundents, the less you do that, the less you set yourself up to hear discord, anger, resentment, the purer the energy around you becomes. And as that energy becomes purer, your life becomes sweeter, it becomes kinder, it becomes nicer. But when you allow the mind chatter to rail on and on and on about this is wrong or that is wrong or why did this happen... It just “is”. 

You will always be taken care of by Spirit - always. God knows you're here. Yeah, for some of you you've chosen what appears to be little more challenging lives. I did. Alfred did. But does that mean... And this is what I want you to really all hear - does that mean anything is wrong because you have a more challenging life? No. It's just that you chose very challenging situations to grow your character. And it is your character that you take back to Spirit when you leave here. How you did, how you handled... Remember, Spirit never looks at the deed - ever, ever, ever. They only look at the intention behind the deed. I've been telling you kids for years now.

We set ourself up in a situation that says: If only I had this... Or if only I could do that... If only I had a partner I know my life would be perfect. But that's not true and you all know that's not true. If only I had enough money, everything would be perfect. Well, there have been times where you've had plenty of money and then you worried about not having it.

Learning that you are enough, learning that you have enough, learning that fear is about the possibility of lack, fear is about the possibility of not finding love. I'm counseling a dear friend of mine and she keeps talking about a relationship... not having a relationship. And I said: It's not about the relationship. It's about the relationship you have with yourself. And on Saturday, we spent 3 hours helping people to understand that it's not about the love out there, it's about the love in here, the love inside of us. 

We present ourselves to Spirit and to God as very needy and very sad because we don't have something. When we have surrounding us, every day, love... every day love. But we don't look at that as an asset. We look at it as: Yes, we have love but it's us, where's my partner? That's not what it's about. Love always comes when you're not looking. Stop looking for love. It never happens that way. Only when you're not looking, it shows up. And it shows up in the most unusual ways. Okay?

Judgment, anger, resentment, are all products of a sad place in our heart. We need to blame  people, we need to become victims of people, and we need to become victims of situations. When if we would stop one day, sit down and say: I'm done; It's over. I'm going to listen to Hansy's "You Are Enough". And I'm going to follow my life from that point. I absolutely refuse to be intimidated, I refuse to allow myself to be fearful, and no matter what negative thought comes into my head I intend for it not to be able to stay any longer.

Alfred?

ALFRED:
A lot of people try to understand what happened. Where does these judgment and opinions come from? Why are they so prevalent? A lot of it is because of the way we grew up. We looked towards others who we thought knew more than us. Thus we took on their judgments, their opinions of life, whether they're family, friends, or media. And part of spiritual growth is to understand that you are unique. There is absolutely no need for you to take on anyone else's opinions and judgments. And in reality, any judgment, any opinion, is simply mind chatter because you understand the universal truth - that it is impossible to have a proper judgment or opinion.

Because you don't  know everything. You don't know complete dharma, karma, experiences, attitude... anything. So quite simply the simple spiritual practice is by doing the inner work you're letting go of all of those judgments and opinions. That is a huge part of letting go of mind chatter, that is a huge step towards getting inner peace is letting go of all of those things you picked up as you were growing up.

HANS:
And Alfred, I think it's important for people to remember they didn't do it deliberately.

ALFRED:
No.

HANS:
Nobody set out to be in pain, nobody set out to be unhappy. It happened along the way. Okay? It happened along the way. I was watching a movie on TV and the young man about 13 or 14, he found out that his girlfriend really didn't like him very much and she gave him back his ring. And he came home and his dad sat him down and said: What's going on son? And he told him. And he said: Ah, growth. And the kid said: Well what do you mean? He said: Now you're growing. Remember something, you're more important than the ring. You're more important than the person that you love. You are enough for yourself. And it was just like somebody took a page out of a book of mine. And I thought: Isn't that wonderful that this is going out.

Knowing that no matter what appears, it's only a lesson. It's not going to do you in. We pick our lives, we pick our partners, we pick whatever lessons that we choose to learn. But judgment shows a weakness in the soul itself. Judgment, blame, victimization, all of these things show a lack of understanding of the principles of truth. So sit yourself down and say: From this point forward, I will no longer live in the space that I have been in that is causing me such sadness. 

And children I know people who have more than enough abundance who God has blessed unbelievably who still struggle every day. So having funds, having good health does not mean it brings happiness. Happiness is a place that resides in your heart when you touch the Godforce within.


And Alfred, I think that will conclude the lessons for today.

Saturday, March 28, 2015

“Listening to Spirit”- by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“Listening to Spirit”- by Hans Christian King 
Spiritual Radio Show Transcription
GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show
with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com
and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com
Topic: Listening to Spirit 
March 28, 2015







ALFRED:
Hello everyone and welcome to GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE - Wisdom for Your Soul. This is Alfred, the Padawan Learner to the Modern Day Mystic himself, Hans Christian King. I'm coming to you from Toronto, Canada while Hans is in bright and sunny Palm Springs, California. So it's going to be an interesting time to record this. But we're going to do the best that we can. That's all we always do. We just have very good intention to be of service.

Many of you know already, but just in case you don't know, starting on April 4th, we have LIVE Classes that are coming to you. 3 weeks of Classes. The first 2 weeks are about "Soul Mate Relationships". We thought it would be a good idea to do this sometime around Valentine's Day, but happened a little bit later than we thought. So for anybody who wants to understand about Soul Mates... and not just Soul Mate Lovers but any type of Soul Mate Relationships... How about Soul Mates like your parents and siblings and friends. Come join us for the first 2 weeks.

And on the 3rd week, we're going to be talking about Fear. The one thing that can really stop you from living part of your dharma is fear. Those 3 weeks are being sold as one class. We're basically giving it away for $97.00. 

HANS:
That's the truth. (Laughing)

ALFRED:
It is. We are really giving this stuff away. So just go to HansKing.com and on the front page of HansKing.com there is a Video that we've put up, letting you know   at a very high level, of what would be in the class. And you can also get the link off the front page of HansKing.com either by clicking the Video or where it says "Classes New!" or "Live Classes - New!" Go there and register and you'll be taken to the Class. There's a Countdown Timer with everything that's there. Highly recommended. 

We've done the Relationships Class once already and we haven't done it in quite awhile. So this is the first time, I think, in over 2 years that we're doing a LIVE CLASS. So, please tell your friends and anybody who's interested in Soul Mates to join us.

HANS:
Well you know Alfred, we are getting this in in time for Easter.

ALFRED:
Aaaahhh... 

HANS:
You see? You didn't think of that did you?

ALFRED:
Yes.

HANS:
So it's perfect.

ALFRED:
It is. It always is perfect. So we have a very good intention to help as many people as we can. So please feel free to "Share" our Video, "Share" the Class, there is a "Share" on the registration page. Please tell people. Again, we're not doing this for the money. We're doing this to help as many people as possible. And a great thing! Not only do you get to participate, but if for some reason you if can't make one of the Classes, you immediately get access to the recordings. Even if you take the Class and you want to go over it before the next Class, you get immediate access to the recordings.  

So you get a heck of a lot of Spiritual Teachings for $97.00. So that's the big news. For anything else, feel free to "Follow" us on Facebook or on Twitter. Of course get our Newsletter, our Monthly MP3 that comes with the Newsletter. We give away a free audio lesson every month, just by getting the Newsletter. Or you could just go to HansKing.com and under Spiritual Community is our Event Calendar to find out what's going on. We try to keep that updated as much as possible.

So now off to the topic for today "Listening to Spirit". What is one of the most important aspects that you need to pay attention to when you are channeling or trying to receive guidance? So without further ado, I present the Modern Day Mystic himself, Hans Christian King.

HANS:
Hi everyone. As you know, one of my great teachers. of course. is Yoda. And one of the things that he said to Skywalker was: Don't try. Do or don't do. But don't try. Now why did he say that? Because in the 'trying' is a human mind intention, you see? And when the human mind intention gets involved... You can set your intention but then go away from it. 

That is going to allow you to not sit there and wonder: I wonder if I'm going to get anything. I wonder if it's going to work today. I wonder what They're going to say today. All of that, that is coming out of the humanness 'need to know', is actually, Alfred, interfering with the direct channeling abilities.

ALFRED:
Yes. And that's something that we've been discussing, especially with our Spiritual Circle Members who send in questions about how to receive guidance, is that any aspect of humanness, including simply asking questions, is interfering with your ability to hear. Because asking questions means you in your human self think you know what the question is and your inviting your humanness into the channeling session.

HANS:
Yes. And that is when you fail yourself, people. Okay? Sitting down to blank out the space that holds the mind chatter, frees up a space for Spirit to begin to enter into a light conversation with you. Now I say 'light' because they won't come in and hit you over the head with a board... normally. They did with Alfred. But that was the only way we could get through to him.

But for most of you, a quiet understanding that 'it already is so', you see. It already is so. There's never a time you're NOT in communication with Spirit, people, never. One of the problems that I have found, Alfred, with people trying to channel is the 'trying' aspect. It literally gets in the way of the 'I Am' principle - that says 'I already am'.

ALFRED:
It's very, very true that trying is an aspect of humanness. 

HANS:
Yes.

ALFRED:
That means you're trying to be something that you're not already. And one of the easiest principles of Spirit to remember is that you already perfect.

HANS:
Yes.

ALFRED:
Everybody questions: Okay, well why do we come down if we're already perfect? But simply saying you are already perfect... If you all want to be in spiritual form, if you wish to communicate with Spirit, start from the basis that you are perfect and that you need nothing and that everything is effortless.

HANS:
That's right.

ALFRED:
So if you are channeling correctly, it should be absolutely effortless. Which means you need to tell your humanness not only to be peaceful and quiet but to absolutely do nothing besides be a simple, blank slate and effortlessly connect to the Other Side.

HANS:
Yes, absolutely... absolutely. And you know folks, when you say: I'm trying. What are you saying? You say: I'm not. And that's the message that you're sending to Spirit. I know I'm not in touch with you but I'm trying to be. Wrong message. They won't respond to that message. By having a heart that says: I am, daily, in touch with Spirit. I would like to sit down and feel that love right now. You hear the difference, Alfred? I would like to sit down and hear and feel the love. I'm not 'trying' to be in touch with Spirit.

There are certain things... for instance Circles or Seances where there is a Medium present to enact a certain vibration that allows people on the Other Side to speak to people on This Side. That's one thing. But you yourself are never out of contact with the Spirit - Never. But your mind chatter disconnects you from your peace and your space of loving partnership with Spirit by this constant trying  to understand it. What They're saying? All of this... This causes you a problem,  definitely.

ALFRED:
Especially things like: What are my Guides names?

HANS:
Yes.

ALFRED:
How are They related to me? Does that not sound like trying to understand it? And what we try to say is: There is nothing to understand. If you are trying to understand the names of your Guides, how it's going to work, what it's going to sound like, what types of information They're going to be giving you, you are inviting your humanness into the session.

HANS:
Exactly.

ALFRED:
You are putting yourself in limitation by trying to understand it.

HANS:
I didn't know who the names of my Guides were for many, many years. I called them 'Friend'. Yes, Friend I feel you. Yes, Friend I hear you. That type of thing. I didn't say: Well, I'll only believe if you give me a name. And, Alfred, that's what a lot of people do. They're waiting to get a name as if the name qualifies the reality.

ALFRED:
Exactly. They say: Okay, if I understand, if I get a signal, then it means I'm going in the right direction. No. That's a human approach. And again, if you try to approach receiving guidance and channeling the Other Side from a human approach, you are inviting limitation, you are inviting interference, you are inviting separation from the Other Side. It is by letting go of the mind chatter, letting go of thought, letting go of understanding, letting go of trying... Simply going into the most peaceful place, blank place, possible, that it's going to work.

HANS:
Yes. And it will work for all of you. Remember, the less you 'try' to channel, the more you will. The more you 'try' to channel, the less you will. Because the word 'try' gets in your way. It's the mind chatter that says I need, I'm wanting to believe... all these things. But it doesn't say I trust and believe.

When I sit down, folks, for over 35, 40 years, I went out into the world somewhere to see 8 people a day, 6 and 7 days a week. For years and years and years and years and years. I never one day ever sat down and said: I wonder if I'll be able to get anything today. I had what they call a 'knowing'. A simple knowing. And the knowing was 'it already was'. I wasn't separate of that truth because I walked in it. 

We gave a class recently, if you remember Alfred, at Agape International, on Walking in Two Worlds and showing people how it is that they can believe that they already are receiving information from the Other Side and then there's the appearance of reality on This Side. Notice how I say 'appearance'. But everyday that you get up... When you're asleep you're already on the Other Side. When you get up the energy from the Other Side doesn't say: Oh, bye. I'll see you next time. No, the energy follows with you into your daily life. And learning to access says: I don't try, I do.

ALFRED:
So on that note, Hans, let's just simply summarize. This human world is the exact opposite of what it's like to be in Spirit.

HANS:
That's correct.

ALFRED:
So if you wish to communicate with, be as Spirit, do the exact opposite which is do not try, do not understand. Okay?

HANS:
That's why Yoda said: Do or don't do. But don't try.

ALFRED:
But you are to be in a blank space. Understand that you are already perfect. That you need nothing. You do not need to understand who or why or what or how.

HANS:
No... no.

ALFRED:
It is from that place of nothingness that there is everything. It is from that place of nothingness that you separate from your limitation. It is from that place of nothingness that you invite Spirit to enter.

HANS:
And Alfred, I can hear our folks out there right now saying: Well, wait a minute. I need to know! No, you don't.  And Alfred, that's very hard... what you just gave hard. It's absolute truth but it's very hard for the human mind to accept that it is not in control.

ALFRED:
That's exactly the point.

HANS:
And to believe, Alfred, into nothingness. You used that word several times. That's spiritual truth.

ALFRED:
If you want to understand and if you want to be in control, that's what you're going to get. If you wish to talk to the Other Side, then you need to be the opposite of understanding and control.

HANS:
Yes. Absolutely the opposite.

ALFRED:
It is a spiritual truth. Hope that helps. A really complicated topic but...

HANS:
It's a tough one, Alfred.

ALFRED:
It is.

HANS:

It gets the people's minds a'runnin' quite well. But just know, always, that there's never a time, gentle people, where you are not in touch with Spirit. And I think Alfred, that will conclude the lesson for today.

Saturday, March 21, 2015

“Being in Service”- by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“Being in Service”- by Hans Christian King 
Spiritual Radio Show Transcription
GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show
with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com
and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com
Topic: Being in Service
March 21, 2015





ALFRED:
Hello everyone and welcome to GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE - Wisdom For Your Soul. This is Alfred, the Padawan Learner to the Modern Day Mystic himself, Hans Christian King. We've got a very interesting topic today "Being in Service". 

But before we get to that, we have a very important announcement that we'd love you to share with everyone you possibly can because this is a very, very rare opportunity. We haven't done this in years! We're going to be teaching LIVE Classes. And we're going to be teaching via the internet - LIVE STREAMING. We're going to be reaching out to everyone, anywhere. So wherever you are in the world, you can attend.

So once we set this up, we can reach as many people as possible. So if you go to HansKing.com, there are “Classes (New!)” and under “Classes (New!)” there are “Live Classes – New!”. There's also a link from our homepage. And we're telling you a little bit about what we're going to be doing which is Intensive Spiritual Development - "Finding Yourself and Your Soul Mate" and “Fear: Conquering the Inner Demon” Again, this is going to be LIVE STREAMING ONLY. 

It starts April 4th and goes for 3 Saturday mornings in Pacific Time. But we've made it so that you can attend LIVE whether you're on the East Coast, West Coast or even in Europe. But regardless of where you are, everyone will have immediate access to the recording of the Class. So for some reason if you can't make 1 of the 3 weeks, you can watch the recording. Or if you see something you want to review before the next Class, you can review the recording.

So again, it starts on Saturday, April 4th, and goes for 3 Saturday's from then. We do have a "Share" link on the page so if you see there's someone who would be helped by either "Soul Mate Relationships" or "Fear: Conquering The Inner Demon", please "Share" with the button that's on the Registration Page which you can find again, on HansKing.com. That's it for the majority of the important stuff this morning...

HANS:
Alfred, everything that you have to say is important.

ALFRED:
Yes. So if you want to know more about what's going on, of course "Like" us on Facebook, "Follow" us on Twitter. Either of those will get you a free Daily Quote for Inspiration from the Master himself, Hans King. And that's the best way to find out what's going on. We also do "Random Acts of Kindness" where we give stuff away. Of course we sincerely appreciate if you "Share" what we do on Facebook or "Re-tweet" what we do on Twitter. We do no traditional advertising. So as I was mentioning before, we really do appreciate when you help us get the word out. Basically you're helping us help Hans help others. So talk about good karma going around. Okay? 

So now off to the topic of today, Hans, "Being in Service". Can you start off and let us know what does it mean to "Be in Service".

HANS:
It starts with an intention. There's an old saying that goes something like: Kindness and compassion are the coin of service. It's the highest state while in human form you can possibly reach. Okay? So again, kindness and compassion are the coins of service. It really is the highest state you can achieve in human form. What does that mean? It means that each day you wake up with an intention to serve another person. Not to throw yourself to the ground and worship at the feet of anyone. But to have a kind thought, to do a kind deed. To set out each day to make the world just a tiny bit better than when you woke up because you were in it.

My father, all his life, woke up every morning to make someone laugh. Up until his 80's that's what he loved to do is make someone laugh. I myself wake up every day to make a difference for someone in the world. And I am blessed to be able to accomplish that each and every day.

ALFRED:
Something that people really are concerned about Hans... We've heard this many, many, many times from our clients is: When you are of service does it mean that you need to give up your income?

HANS:
Oh Good Lord No. Thank you for bringing that up Alfred. It doesn't mean that at all. People didn't give up their income, Alfred, to take down the Berlin Wall. They didn't give up their income to destroy the Soviet Empire. We did it with intention to make a difference. To bring light into a darkened place. Again, intention, service. This is what changes mankind.

ALFRED:
So again, on a similar theme, do you need to give away what you do for free? Is that 'of service'?

HANS:
Well that's all very nice and if you're in that position I say absolutely. But you can't lose the value of your service because you work for free. What I'm trying to get at is, in the Bible it says: A man is worthy of his hire. So if there's no one to pay your rent and your electricity bill and buy your food and all those wonderful things... and there are people who do that for people in service. If there isn't someone to do that for you then no, you need to charge for what you're doing. 

I've often said that it is very strange in America that if you have 3 people in service, and 2 who charge nothing, and 1 who charges say $25 or $30, who will they go and see? They will go and see the person who charges the $25 or $30. Because in our country we believe that more is better. However, that's not a license to gouge. And I've had so many people say to me: Oh, I wouldn't charge if I read it. And I said: Well how would you survive? And they never yet had an answer.

ALFRED:
From my point-of-view, when it was a transition from giving things away to actually charging, the way I look at is: Is the person receiving more value than what you're charging?

HANS:
Yes.

ALFRED:
Are you changing their life? If you're changing their life, okay. Then do you think they really care about the $50 or $100 you're charging them?

HANS:
Exactly... exactly.

ALFRED:
Okay? 

HANS:
And I know it sounds, folks, it may sound very self-serving. But it is true that you must place a value on what you do. You simply must.

ALFRED:
Here's a good question, Hans. Does God approve if you help others and receive an income?

HANS:
Of course. I've said for years... I joke with all you kids on the Show, you think God doesn't know what it costs to live here? Come on, It invented it. Of course it does. And if you can't maintain yourself... This is what happens folks... If you're not able to maintain yourself in your service through your fees, you go into what I call survival issues. 

And survival becomes all that there is and you desperately are looking for work or you're working part-time or everything is about can I meet the rent, can I pay the bills. And when you go into that place, you lose the value of service because that's where your concentration is. You cannot be effective.

Now I also want to say one thing, Alfred, it doesn't mean that there's a license to gouge either. Be reasonable in your fees.

ALFRED:
Here's a good one, Hans. From all your years of being in service and raising your rates throughout the years, what advice can you give people? How can they make a living being in service?

HANS:
You have to start from the beginning with the intention is what I've always taught you guys. You have to start with an intention. And, we know, science now seems to understand what we've been saying - That energy follows thought. And if you have pure intention to be of service... 

Here, I'll give you an example. I knew this wonderful gal, I still do, who worked in a big Silicon Valley company, middle-management, and she was one of the best clairvoyants I had ever met. This was a couple of years ago and she was just a crackerjack. But she said to me: Hansy, I can't make a living at it. And I said: Well here's what I want you to do. I said: Do you have Psychic Fairs around your area? She said: Oh, yeah. I said: Okay. I said: Go and register for those Psychic Fairs and they'll make you charge a minimum, little fee, and I said: Begin to do more and more of those as you can. Wherever you can, give some service away,  volunteer, do things for people, so that you begin to build up an understanding that it isn't about money, it's about the service. However, the money is important.

Now, I'm not sitting here today telling you she makes as much money as she did when she was full-time at the computer company. However, what she did was learn to balance the two together. So she works 3 days with one, and 4 days with another. So it does work out.

ALFRED:
And that's a really hard thing is that a lot of times it's not a clean transition from being in corporate or to make money.

HANS:
Exactly, Alfred. Here's one of the things that I think that happens for many people who are so incredibly believing and wanting, Alfred, to serve and all that... And they say: Now God will open the doors and I'll walk out of one into the other.

Normally, children, that does not happen. Normally, there's a foot-path. I remember, Alfred, when you first got started, and you were so frustrated because it didn't happen in your perception. And yet, I said: Keep going, keep going. And gradually, the Spirit balances your energy and before you even know it, someone says: I'd like to give you this. And they'll give you $25 or $50 or $100 and you'll look at them and they'll say: Oh no, that was worth that to me.

And slowly the Spirit then opens... See, you already are abundant as we've all worked on abundance issues. So what you're doing is by saying: I'm going to harmonize myself with my abundance through service. It takes a little time. But, oh, don't lose your patience please. Okay?

ALFRED:
Yes. A lot of people say they wind up having to work two jobs for a little while...

HANS:
But that's fine. You know what that shows, Alfred? That shows Spirit your intention to serve. If you're willing to stretch yourself... I was talking to Alfred the other night and I said: You know I drove over a million miles in my service. I flew over a million and a quarter. And I went to lectures where there were only 6 to 8 people in the audience. I drove over snowy mountains, and through snowy passes, and ice, and skidding, and all that, to see 4 people because they had signed up. They were showing me their intention, now I needed to show them mine.

I remember when Brian Weiss was coming into the Central Valley in California. And he came to do a lecture and there were either 6 or 8 people in the audience. And what did he do? He just said: Alright everybody, come on down to just these front seats here. Let's just be a family today. We'll sit in our living room. And that's what service is. It's not having an expectation of oh, if you don't have... 

I'll give you an example. I was to do a lecture recently. It was a 3 hour class and the people sponsoring it said: Well, you know, we only have 12 people who have signed up. And Alfred and I said: Oh, that's just fine. And when we got there we noticed that a class was letting out because there were all these people in the room and I assumed the class was letting out. I said: Well how soon can they get out because we've got to get started. We have a time limit on the room. And they said: No, these are your people. There was 137 people in the room.

Set your intention and Spirit will fill the vacuum. Okay?

ALFRED:
And a lot of this has to do with 'patience'.

HANS:
Oh Lord... Don't you dislike that word, Alfred? (Laughing) Patience...

ALFRED:
Patience. And no matter what religion or spirituality...always patience is a virtue.

HANS:
I remember when Alfred would holler and jump up and down and carry on... "I'm tired of waiting". Remember those days, Alfred?

ALFRED:
Yes... (Hans and Alfred laughing) Waiting... waiting and being patient.

HANS:
It is a lesson but it brings me, Alfred, always back to that old saying: And what makes you think anything is wrong? These lessons, if you watch them through the years as we give them to you, you will see, kids, how they weave themselves together and form a tapestry of trust and belief. Yes, Great One?

ALFRED:
Well that seems to be the end of the topic for today, Hans. What do you think?

HANS:
Yes. Because I know we have quite a few questions.  






Saturday, March 14, 2015

“The Internet and Social Media”- by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“The Internet and Social Media”- by Hans Christian King 
Spiritual Radio Show Transcription
GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show
with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com
and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com
Topic: The Internet and Social Media
March 14, 2015






ALFRED:
Hello everyone and welcome to GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE - Wisdom For Your Soul. This is Alfred, the Padawan Learner to the Modern Day Mystic himself, Hans Christian King. Hans, have we passed 9 years of this? Of going back and forth of me being the Padawan? Has it been that long?

HANS:
(Laughing) It's been 9 years. Yes, it was 9 years in January actually.

ALFRED:
9 years. Imagine that.

HANS:
I know. And I'm still alive. God is great always.

ALFRED:
I have lost my hair though.

HANS:
Yes, well you never had much hair to begin with so...

ALFRED:
No.

HANS:
...that was okay.

ALFRED:
Well everyone, as usual, we have an interesting topic for today and we're going to be a little bit relevant for the times. Today's topic is "The Internet and Social Media". So we're going to be talking about how could you be spiritual while surfing and dealing with social media.

Of course, let us get to some housekeeping. One of the biggest things that's coming up is a 3 week class. The first 2 weeks, April 4 and April 11, are on "Soul Mate Relationships". The 3rd week, April 18, is on “Fear: Conquering the Inner Demon". So 3 weekends in total. Those are Saturday mornings so people on the West Coast, the East Coast, and even in Europe can participate. No, you don't need to go to every single class. Every class will be recorded. 

You can find out more information about each class, and to register, at   http://www.hansking.com/__live_classes___new_ .

HANS:
Alfred, some of my clients have been asking me...for instance, Australia and New Zealand, and China, how they participate in a live show.

ALFRED:
At 2:00 in the morning probably.

HANS:
Exactly...exactly. The problem is how are they able to ask questions? They're asking 'can they send their questions in the day before the show'?

ALFRED:
Of course they can send their questions in early.

HANS:
Okay, great.

ALFRED:
We'll be taking questions - live questions - questions that you send in early. Of course the questions are about the class. We'll be giving out Handouts. You'll have the ability to stream over the internet so anyone anywhere can participate in these classes. We tried to time it so the majority of the world would be able to participate. 

Again, these classes will be starting on Saturday, April  4 at 10:00 a.m. Pacific Time each Saturday, 1:00 p.m. Eastern Time each Saturday, and 7:00 p.m. Europe.  April 4, April 11 and April 18 – same time each Saturday.

I think that's going to be pretty early in Asia. But again, if you're not going to be up and you happen to sleep through, everyone is going to get access to the recordings. Okay?

HANS:
Right, exactly.

ALFRED:
So that's the big thing that's coming up. A lot of things are happening. Lots of interviews, lots of opportunities to Call In and talk to Hans. Probably too many to talk about. If you go to http://www.HansKing.com and under Spiritual Community, you'll find our Event Calendar. Of course you can also find these things under our Newsletter. There's either 2 or 3 opportunities just this month to call into the Radio Shows that Hans will be on and you'll be able to possibly talk to Hans. So the best thing is either get our Newsletter, which of course not only do you get a free MP3 when you sign up, but you get a free audio lesson also every month that you get our Newsletter. 

So we're just telling you we're grateful that you're participating. And of course, you can “share”, believe it or not, we're letting you “share” the audio lessons whether you get one yourself or from signing up in a Newsletter, you can “share”  the Newsletter and “share” the MP3. Just send it along to anybody that you want. So even if you are getting the Newsletter, please “share” those Newsletters with everyone because many of you already know we do no advertising - none. 

We completely rely on you, word-of-mouth, that hopefully we've helped you in a particular way, and if we've helped you, please we would sincerely appreciate it if you pass that on. That means re-tweeting our tweets, sharing our posts, forwarding our Newsletter or just telling people. Say: Hey, go to HansKing.com. That's what happened to me 9 years ago. Somebody said: You need to go talk to Hans. (Laughing) Yeah, that was...

HANS:
Are you guys still friends? (Laughing)

ALFRED:
That was 9 years ago...

(Alfred and Hans laughing)

HANS:
That'll teach you to listen to advice.

ALFRED:
Yes, so for people that you really want to shock the heck out of them say: Go see Hans! They might never look at you the same. But they probably will be a better person for it.

HANS:
Well eventually they'll be grateful...but maybe not in the beginning.

(Hans and Alfred laughing)

ALFRED:
So off to our topic for today "The Internet and Social Media". This is a heck of a topic because we're now interacting with each other so much more over the internet. So just like trying to be spiritual in a human world, how do you be spiritual in an internet world? So bringing in the Modern Day Mystic himself to talk about this, I present Hans Christian King.

HANS:
Hello everybody. This is an interesting topic and there are sub-topics. I believe, Alfred, that's what you're going to ask me are the sub-topics. Is that right?

ALFRED:
Yes.

HANS:
But before I ask Alfred to do that, I'd like to let you know how Spirit feels about the internet - Not too good. They like the fact that we all are on this wonderful highway in the sky. But what They don't understand is why we are so willing to turn loose of all of ourself and put ourself out there on the internet that way. 

And Alfred, under that, I believe you have a couple of topics. But you may want to look folks, because what Spirit has said to me is that in time, people will start pulling back and pulling away from the internet on their personal life. Because to put out your information and where you are and what bank you're going to and who you're having an affair with and where you are at this moment has caused an awful lot of concern for an awful lot of families. 

So, Alfred, under that particular heading, what are the some of the sub-title questions?

ALFRED:
A lot of it has to do with thinking that your behavior and interacting on social media are different. And what we're going to try to tell you is - really think about it because it's not your behavior. It's how you're interacting with other people. For example, the first topic that we'd like you to think about when interacting over the internet or via social media is: Whatever you're doing - is it kind? 

HANS:
Yes. If you're using the internet to gossip, if you're using the internet to talk another person down, things that you may not want to say to their face, then the internet is not for you. That's not where you want to be. If you're using the internet to judge another person, or to share gossip you heard from someone else, the internet is probably not for you. If you're looking to hurt someone who may have hurt you, the internet, the social media stuff, is not for you. 

Look at what you're doing, what you're saying, and why. In order to be one with Spirit you have to hold yourself very close to your heart chakra. And when you start to give away bits and pieces of you on the internet, for whatever purpose, whatever reason...and Alfred and I will be going into those areas in just a moment...but it doesn't matter. Then you are, what we would say: Then you become a tad bit scatty. Your energy becomes scattered. And once that happens, you get caught in a spiral that you send this out, and somebody sends something back and someone says: Oh, they shared that... 

And pretty soon what you said, is all over the world, without your permission. That dilutes your spiritual base. It's alright to surf the internet, it's alright to watch cooking shows, it's alright to join Audubon, it's alright to use discovery and all. That's wonderful. That is educational, sharing. But when you use the internet like some of these reality shows that are on television, to listen to gossip, to spread misinformation so that someone would think that you know more, then you're again diluting your spiritual base. And you want to be very careful of that.

Remember one of the great wisdom's from The Christ was: Learn to be in the world but not of it. Make certain that you're not spending so much time on social media that you have lost who you actually are and in some cases wanting permission from others that you don't even know.

ALFRED:
And along those lines, we want to always be considerate. Whether we're in the human world or internet world, of whether you're dealing with ego. So when I'm posting something, am I boasting? Am I in ego? Am I in image? How's that one Hans?

HANS:
Very true. It's very true. It's very, very true. Are you being kind? When you're sending an email to someone, are you sending it with affection, are you sending it because you feel this person needs to know something that you saw on the television or you heard that might affect them in some fashion, or are you gossiping?

ALFRED:
Or are you talking about yourself?

HANS:
Yes.

ALFRED:
How wonderful you are...

HANS:
You become verbose and... Exactly, Alfred. Are you just trying to show people that you're very smart and you know a lot? Where are you coming from when you use social media?

ALFRED:
Yes. What we're trying to say is, in these things, don't behave differently just because you think you're just typing it and posting a picture. Most spiritual people know that ego is really not the best thing. If you're boasting about yourself, if your boasting about your pot, things that you've accomplished, if your posting pictures of yourself... Really, are you being spiritual or are you promoting ego?

HANS:
And I want to say something to all of you. What is with these selfies? How ego based is everybody getting? Posting pictures of yourself here, pictures of yourself there, pictures of yourself with your girlfriends at a shopping mall... I've seen people recently, when Alfred and I were in Mexico, we saw a young man walking around with one of those cameras on a pole taking pictures of them walking, taking pictures of them talking with people, some of them he didn't even know. And you have to ask yourself: What have we done that makes our people so insecure that they have to get approval from people they don't even know in order to feel better about themselves? Okay? We need to look at 'why' we need to do this.

ALFRED:
And along those lines is it that you're trying to seek approval?

HANS:
Absolutely.

ALFRED:
Are you trying to feel better because of what you're posting? Are you seeking someone's approval? How's that one Hans?

HANS:
It's the truth. This is a big one. Why do you feel you need to have the approval of people you don't even know...that you don't love? Why are you trying to impress other people? Why? So someone can say something about you that you don't believe in yourself? That's the moment that you stop and say: Wait a minute. Hold on. I'm better than this. 

People poke fun at me and laugh at me because I still have a flip phone. And one of the reasons I have a flip phone is I'm not interested in all that other stuff. I'm not interested in things that invade my privacy; not interested in it. And now Alfred, you can expand on this, now I just saw on CNN that every time you buy a cellphone there is a paging thing in there that anybody can trace where you are.

ALFRED:
Yes, yes.

HANS:
Is this what you really want in your life? That everybody knows where you are at all times? Where is your self-ego? Where is your self-esteem people? You can see I'm on a soap-box about this. But it's driving Spirit crazy that we are losing our individuality. Our spiritual individuality is being sold to the internet. Just like those coupon things that you clip on your key chain when you go to the market and they say: Here you get this discount. That is a scam people. That is meant to track where you bank, it's meant to track what you buy, where you get your mail, and how to advertise to you.

Have we reached a point where we are so insecure that we feel better being lemmings than individuals? That is not spiritual. That is not a spiritual nature. You see? That's not a spiritual nature. Yes, Alfred? I think everyone's going to be probably crabby with me at the end of the show.

ALFRED:
Well, these are questions we really want you to contemplate. Not just as a spiritual being when you're interacting with humans but when you're out surfing, do you use the internet... Here's a good one - are you looking for something better 'out there'?

HANS:
Oh, yes.

ALFRED:
How's that one Hans?

HANS:
Well it's the truth, isn't it. We're looking for something beyond our experience,  because we've put ourself in limitation. Today Alfred and I were out running some errands and I watched him and as we went around the corner... You know we live in a place where the mountain literally touches the ground and you can walk up and touch the base of the mountain. It just comes out of the rocks straight up. A huge mountain, Mount San Jacinto. And he went: Wow! And he didn't see that I saw that. And I knew what he was saying: Can you believe that? Look at that mountain and I can go up and put my hand on it. There's something to look for.

We have a little baby bunny here in the back that lives around the rose garden.  And he comes out and he just looks all around and he uses the thorns in the roses in order to safeguard himself against coyotes and owls. And just wondering at God's handiwork. Wondering at the blessing of who you are. Opening yourself up to all the possibilities of you. Or are you on the internet?

Folks, I am on a soap-box but this is what I saw the other day. So Alfred and I were out with some people and the people next to us, a family of five, count them...from the second they sat down they had their iPhone things out...I'm not up on the iPhones but Alfred, what are those called? Um, android types of things... And they sat down and the waiter had to come 3 times to ask them what they wanted because they wouldn't get off long enough to tell the waiter what they wanted. Then they complained that the food hadn't been delivered. But they forgot that they hadn't ordered. And then during the meal they all used their devices through the entire meal and never spoke to each other one single time, stood back up, walked out and into the parking lot still on the phones. Wow...

ALFRED:
That's actually a really good point. They're looking for something better out on the internet. When they realize the most important thing in terms of a loving, caring relationship is sitting across the table from them...

HANS:
Exactly.

ALFRED:
So the whole point of this one is if you're out there looking for something better, what are you not doing? You're not paying attention to what is really important 'to' you.

HANS:
Which actually, Alfred, is you.

ALFRED:
Yes, well you and a relationship sitting down...

HANS:
Yes. And if you're sitting down with a friend, a buddy, a lover, whoever you're with at the moment, you're sitting down to be with them. Then for the love of Heaven, turn those devices off or leave them in the car. But that has now, Alfred, become 'fearful' for people to do. I see people run back into restaurants and say: Oh, wait a minute I forgot my cellphone. They really mean their Android or iPhone. That is how connected we are now to getting approval. Which is, Alfred, what you started out with in the first place. Seeking approval.

ALFRED:
Does anybody love me? Did I receive an email? Did I receive...

HANS:
Alfred has a joke that he uses every morning, kids. And after breakfast he'll say: I wonder if anybody still loves me. And he'll turn his phone on to see. (Laughing) But it's getting serious people. People are dying because of comments about them on the internet. Kids are killing themselves. This is serious. Gossip and innuendo... It's time to pull back in.

Use your device. Of course you can use your device, of course you can send your friend an email, of course you can look something up. Absolutely. But I'm on my way to the bank and here's where I'm going and I'm going to take out $40.00... What are you - insane? Are you insane? What is the matter folks? Stop that. Pull yourself back into yourself. Find something that's meaningful and rewarding in your life.

ALFRED:
And that's a really good lead in to our last topic for today - is this a moment to protect? In other words maybe you shouldn't share what you're doing in this moment.

HANS:
Exactly! Exactly, Alfred. I have seen and heard some of the most outrageous things that people share. Senators emailing pictures of their private parts. Excuse me. What have we come to? It's time to find out what privacy looks like again. Because, I'm pointing out to you kids once again, we are losing our spiritual individuality and identity because of those devices.

You can be as spiritual as you want in your head. But if you're using those devices to dilute the essence of who you are, you are not the spiritual person you are thinking you are. And I'm sorry if I sounded crabby. But I'm not. I'm just concerned. I'm concerned for everybody who cannot get off their iPhones. That worries me.

ALFRED:
Yes, and what I tried to bring to the conversation is the difference between your behavior, the way you watch it when you're interacting with the human world spiritually, really shouldn't be that different when you're interacting out on the internet and in social media. Don't view it as a chance to do something different, view it as: Am I being consistent in who I am regardless of who or how I'm interacting.

HANS:
Exactly. I wanted to thank my friend Dan for asking us to do this. I think we've done one other of these as well. And Dan it's very important to me that you continue to monitor this for me. But it's a very good topic folks. Learn who you are, hold it close to you. Don't cheapen your soul. Okay?

And folks, I want everybody to remember, once again, that God does not love anyone more in this world than you. Take care and we will see you next week. Bye, bye.