“Conspiracy Theories” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Show Transcription

“Conspiracy Theories” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Conspiracy Theories

July 18, 2015

HANS:

Hello everyone. What a beautiful day, no matter where you are. Every day that you wake up, every day, is a beautiful day filled with opportunities beyond the mind's limitation. Okay?

Today's topic is “Conspiracy Theories.” There are some people in our Country, I'm only talking about our Country, who make a living on scaring people. Now, for many years I did the Whole Life Expo's in Miami, Los Angeles, New York, Philadelphia and San Francisco. 

And every time I did a show, some of you may have remembered that and seen what I would do. They would put me on a Panel. There would be about 9 people and they would always put me on the right-hand side and we would start out with these well-known conspiracy People about the stock market, 9/11... just everything.

ALFRED:

Oh, will the banks crash? Will the U.S. economy crash?

HANS:

Everything.

ALFRED:

Should you put money and gold in your home safe?

HANS:

Oh, thank you Alfred. Oh, my gosh.

ALFRED:

Should you diversify into gold because the whole economy's going to crash?

HANS:

Exactly. And so all these people, and you can see the people, there would be 300 to 500 people in the audience getting fearful... fearful. And then the Moderator would say: And Hans King, what do you think about this? I said: Well, it's a bunch of malarkey. There's nothing wrong. All these people are well intentioned. But the truth of the matter is there's no fact to anything they've just said. It's their idea. It's nothing more than their idea and their opinion.

And when you speak like that, you say: I don't believe in God. I don't believe in Spirit. You believe the worst. And every year I would point out to these people who had given these predictions about all of this, about what was going to happen, I would remind them that nothing of what they'd said actually happened. 

And here's how they do that. As these conspiracy theorists get to the place where they'd said this or that or the other thing was going to happen, they quickly change to a brand new conspiracy, and this one becomes even bigger. Oh, well we don't care about that one. We need to caring about this one because this one because this one has just come up. This is the one we're going to worry about.

Folks, the United States is just fine. It's fine. Yes, we are going to have very sad moments where someone who is emotionally or mentally not quite stable is going to do some terrifying acts... just like the 4 Marines that were shot yesterday. I'm just going to say to you this: We're going to, for a little while longer, going to have situations where someone may be hurt in our Country. We hope not, we pray not. But it could happen. 

But the conspiracy theorists have thousands of people being killed, bridges being blown up, monuments being blown up, the government falling. Please don't believe that. Get on with your life. Knowing always that God loves you.

Again, there are going to be some people who cause some problems. But I,  sometimes in a weak moment, turn to a particular network. I won't give it any  names... and they will be talking about... You know that network where everything is Alert! Alert! Alert! That's called fear. Alert! Even no matter what is - Mary Jane gave birth to twins in Portland, Oregon Alert! Alert! It's hysterically funny. Unfortunately most people don't know that that particular network isn't giving you the truth, they're giving you the fear.

And people get hooked into the fear. And that's why the conspiracy theorists are so popular. Because they just go from one thing to another. Now the latest is the Iran Nuclear Deal. Oh, it's going to destroy the world... Obama signing that is the Death Deal to the United States... Gay Marriage is the Death Deal to organized religion. None of it, children, is true. It is nothing more than someone's opinion to get your attention, to get you fearful. Because fear controls people... always.

That's why I would say when they would get to me: Don't believe a word of it. None of it's true. And you could just see the audience begin to smile and sort of take a breath and I'd say: You're okay, kids. God loves you. Anybody can live in fear. I happened to do an event recently where one of the main conspiracy theorists, when they found out that I was on-board, surprised them, they  suddenly got too sick to do any of their program. Because I announced I would be coming and I would be in the audience. 

And suddenly all of the events were canceled. How is that possible? It's because they know that you cannot shine the dark in the light. And that somewhere along the way people would come to me and say: Is what they said true? And I would say: No, it's not. Don't lend your heart, don't lend your spirit to fear. Alfred, have you noticed that yourself?

ALFRED:

Yes. And what we're talking about is when there's News - when “they” are coming to get “us.” What we're trying to say is the majority of these conspiracy theories are "what is going to happen." We were just watching the TV the other night and somebody was on there saying: It's an absolute "fact" that within 5 to 7 years, because of President Obama's deal with Iran, that Iran will “absolutely” have nuclear arms within 5 to 7 years. I just looked at that and said: Really? That's an absolute fact that something "is" going to happen in the future? 

HANS:

They've adjusted that, Alfred. Today they said: It's going to be 10 years.

ALFRED:

Oh! Oh, they absolutely...

HANS:

They absolutely know now it would be 10 years.

ALFRED:

… positively will. And one of the spiritual lessons that we try to tell you is: If something could possibly might happen in the future, and it takes you out of the now, then go back to being in the now.

HANS:

Yes.

ALFRED:

Because the reality is no one can predict... occasionally Hans... (Laughing) what's going to happen in the future.

HANS:

I'll tell you this. No one is going to die in our lifetime or your children's lifetime through nuclear weapons from Iran - ever. And please folks, don't worry about the State of Israel. She is way more than capable of taking care of herself.

ALFRED:

Okay, so the first thing you want to ask yourself when people start talking about these conspiracy theories - will the banks crash, will the economy crash, should you be fearful of all of these things, should you change your behavior about what could possibly might happen... Then stop and realize you have a choice. To believe the opinion that these people proclaim to be the truth - like the world is going to end. When was going to end? 2012?

HANS:

Oh, yes... everything. And you know they were telling Alfred and I this: It was the end. Be prepared for the end. The Mayan Calendar proved it. Well, Alfred and I, at that time, happened to be living in the Capitol of the Mayan Nation which is a place called Merida. And the Mayans had no idea what we were talking about. And they were doing cruises down here saying: Come and see it before everything is destroyed. And these people were making huge amounts of money taking people down to talk to the Mayans about the destruction of the world... the world is ending.

The Mayans looked at them and said: We never said that. We never said that. It's the same thing, Alfred, they did in what was it 2000, 2001 - it would be the end. Everything would stop running because of the computers. The computers didn't know how to switch to the new time and all of that. None of it was true, children. None of what they're expounding now is true. 

The United States is not going under. Europe is not going under. And then we just had this recent fear - these conspiracy theories taking about how the United States is going the way of Greece very quickly. That this Greek crisis is going to crash the market. I need to explain this to everybody if you don't know now. The Greek economy, the GDP of the Greek economy, is the size of the State of South Carolina. It has no potential, whatsoever, to crash Europe or the world's economy - none. 

So why do people look for conspiracy theorists? Because their own life has gotten so tedious, or hum-drum, they need to prove there's a reason for their pain. The world is no good, the world is falling apart. On the contrary it's a wonderful world. There's far more good in the world than there is evil. It's proven every day.

I don't know whether some of you have had a chance to go on-line and see the gentleman up in Alaska, and their family, out on this boat. And it was good sized boat. I think it was a houseboat. They're going across this lake and suddenly 4  deer come swimming at them. The deer had been frightened into the water by some bears and they were trying to get to the other side of the lake. But the water was so cold that they were beginning to get hypothermia. So they started swimming towards the boat. 

The people on the boat let the side of the boat up so the deer could climb on and they sat down in a little pod and stayed there and allowed the people to pet them and try to warm them up. And when they got to the other side of the lake, the deer didn't get up. They stayed there for awhile in the sun trying to warm up. And gradually the people helped to get them off the boat. One deer couldn't make it. So they got a wheel barrel and they put him in the wheel barrel and they took him over and put him on the dock and then they sat down there. 

And when they got up, they all turned to the people as if to say Thank You and all walked away but one... who stayed longer to say Thank You. Those are the types of stories you can go online every day and find. Or the golden retriever who has adopted all these birds. There is an endless supply of good in this world. 

So when you turn and you listen to these conspiracy theories... One of my best friends, ever, for years, called me two days ago and said: What are we going to do about these chem-trails? The spraying of our Country with all these horrible illness and things. I said: What are you talking about? He said: Well didn't you know all those chem-trails that you see... I said: Those aren't chem-trails. Those are ice particles from jets. And when you fly at that certain level the disruption of the air flow causes that.

Have you ever noticed that after the jet passes, everything begins to clear up? It has nothing to do with chemicals. He said: Oh, no. They've been spraying our Country with all kinds of bacteria and... I said: Are you listening to Late Night Radio again? He said: Yes. I said: I know what you're listening to. I said: We're not being sprayed by chemicals... at all. But this is what I'm talking about.

Alfred brings up things constantly. He says: Well there goes another "fear campaign." Right, Alfred?

ALFRED:

Yes. And we're helping you identify what are these particular conspiracy theories. The first one that we talked about is what possibly might could happen in the future that they say is absolute fact. Okay, should you be scared of somebody's opinion that they declare to be the truth? Well, spiritually speaking - No. Because  it takes you out of the "now" and you start believing what is "outside" of you.

The second thing is should you be concerned and change your behavior about what is going on external to you? Okay, should you be afraid of what they say on Late Night TV or Radio? Should you be afraid of something that might have some relevance? There's currently some underground political agenda that's actually running the Country... 

There's a conspiracy theory, I'm sure you've all heard many of them, about our current President. And the reality is, spiritually speaking - what is the most important thing in the world? That is the question. And what we like to say the most important thing in the world is: Do  you chose to be happy and peaceful in the moment - regardless of what's going on around "you?"

And that is, for us, one of the most important spiritual lessons that we're trying to say. Even Mahatma Gandhi, during one of the most tumultuous times in existence, when India was uprising against the invasion from Great Britain. He said: No, it doesn't matter what's going on. He said: Be inside you the change that you wish to see in the world. Be free inside you first. That's where it starts. That's where your peace and happiness comes from.

HANS:

We did a show, folks, you may have listened to it, I hope you did, about 2 months ago and the title was "Fear and Doubt Can Only Live In The House You Build." The English have a term I love. It says: You see what you look for you know. So if you've built a house for fear and doubt, fear and doubt is what I guarantee you you will find. And I will guarantee you somebody will feed you that information that you need to hear to put that in that house of fear and doubt.

I constantly get asked: Who's going to be the next President? I can tell you... probably "someone" will be the next President. Alfred, didn't you tell me recently that somebody told you that the election's going to be postponed or moved or something of that nature?

ALFRED:

Oh, we have a question that we're going to answer about that. Somebody was asking us if the election is going to be postponed.

HANS:

Oh, my goodness. Can you imagine?

ALFRED:

Because of some theory.

HANS:

No. I'll answer that question at the proper time. But no it's not. It's not going to be postponed. There will be an election. We will have another President. We will have a new Senate. We will have a new House to some degree. But the Country will proceed on. We will proceed on. Many of our current problems that we have today - and I know I'll get in trouble for saying this - one of the biggest universal laws is called "cause and effect". There was something that caused our Country to interfere with other Nations in another part of the world for no apparent reason. The cause of that has brought an effect upon ourselves. So this will pass. 

So, folks, don't look for sadness and it won't find you. There's going to be times in all of our lives children, when we don't feel well, we may even get sick because we're in human form. The body may get sick. We may lose our job. We may be a little low on money. All of us. All of us from time to time will have the appearance of some testing and a little struggle. But always remember this one thing I tell you over and over again: You cannot shine the dark in the light, the light will always prevail... so long as you look for it. Always look for the light. Always look for the silver lining.

Buddha said: In the end these things matter most - how well did you love, how fully did you live, how deeply did you let go. Let go of fear. Love. Live well. You don't need money, children, to live well. You need belief. You need belief. And so, just remember that when you hear all these conspiracies... Remember how we were told that the President was a lame duck, he'd never get another thing done, he was finished, he was over, the House didn't vote for his Trade Deal and nobody was going to fund his Iran Nuclear Deal... All this stuff... None of it happened. 

Because the light of Spirit is shining on us "now". Don't trust anybody who says they want to return us to yesterday. Yesterday was not nearly as wonderful as some of you may think. We have been struggling for a very long time in this Nation to bring equality to all of our peoples, not just a few specific peoples, all of our people. Our complexion is changing. Our dynamics are changing. And the conspiracy theorists would have us believe that we have to return to a time when we had prejudice. A time when people where people were not free to be who they are. A time where one class of humanity tried to rule over the rest of everyone else.

So conspiracy theorists want us to believe the darkest of times are ahead of us. But I'm 72 years old and I can remember the first time I saw that. I was walking in Los Angeles on Sunset Boulevard and there was a man with a Sandwich Board which said: The End is Near - Repent. As far back as humanity has been, there has been what I used to call "doom and gloomers." Alfred, you've know of this before, haven't you?

ALFRED:

Yes, and what we're trying to tell you is that they're actually trying to influence your behavior. That if they scare you into thinking the economy's going to crash, the banks are going to crash, they're going to sell you gold... if you're afraid. If you're afraid that they're coming to get you, then they're going to sell you Survival Products.

HANS:

Exactly. Oh, that's the new thing. I don't whether anybody's seeing that...

ALFRED:

Oh, I just saw something that said: These dried products will last 25 years. Oh my God...

HANS:

I know... I just saw somebody on TV, Alfred, who is somebody that we used to all look up to, a Senator, who now is promoting a new deal that says: Our Country is going to be collapsing soon. I know this person who can help you and it'll cost you nothing to go to the site. Except when you get there, and then there's the big fee. And I'm thinking we thought this person was above all of this nonsense. This person talked about all these things as being terrible... and is now doing the very same thing.

Don't worry about whether you have gold. You know they keep selling gold and gold... even gold futures. There isn't that much gold available to sell those futures. Does anybody realize that? That's the same thing as when you go to buy a time-share in a specific building you want and they've said: Oh yes you can have this time-share. What they don't tell you is there's no space left in the time-share. They've already bought another building and they're going to put you over in that one.

I used to stand out in front of this time-share in Puerto Vallarta and tell people: Don't go in, you'll lose your money. They hated me there. Okay? So the greatest gift you can give yourself is don't let the mind chatter around conspiracy develop. And some of my best friends still get fearful. 

Okay Alfred, that will conclude the lesson for today. Thank you for all your help.

“Accepting The Now” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“Accepting The Now” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Accepting The Now

July 11, 2015

HANS:

Hello everybody. What a beautiful day it is today no matter where you are. This is a beautiful day, absolutely beautiful. Today's topic is "Accepting The Now." For many years you've heard me discuss about trying to look at where you are. You know most people live a daily life that is a projection of what they'd like to see in their life today. But it's "out there." It's out in the ethers. You'd like to have this place, or you'd like to have this partner, you'd like to have this job... And we spend most of our time outside of our own spiritual and emotional arena looking at what "could be." What we'd like to see.

And Spirit always brings us back to the moment of "it is now." Your life is about "now." Where are you "now?" And we simply don't want to do that.  We want to say: Well, I'm here but I'm going there. I'm here but someday I'll be there. And we constantly do this. We constantly live "out there" in the possibility that the mind creates for us. Rather than in the actual moment. And one of the things that Spirit teaches us is that each minute has a value. Each day has a value.

You've sometimes heard me say that on any given day 4 billion people would trade places with you in a heartbeat because their perception of where you're at is so much greater than their reality. We look at it and say: Oh, gee well...  I got the rent paid, or the mortgage is due, or the car payment needs to be paid. And we constantly are doing battle with the “not enough” syndrome. Things are not enough.

A wise person would say to you: Have you all you already need in this moment? If you listen to the emails that come in today, and every week, almost all emails are about what “could” happen... what you'd like to see happen... why isn't this happening... why isn't that happening... And each time you do that you invalidate the lesson of "the now"... the moment of now... how important "the now" is in your life. Remember, we put a series of "nows" together and that creates our life, you see? Not what we fantasize on, not what we imagine, not what we prayed for, not what we hoped for. 

Life is in the moment. Accepting the moment in your life, right now, as the most important time in you life right now. And finding a value. Going out in the garden, finding a flower. Yesterday Alfred and I saw an Iguana who was doing battle with a bunch of blackbirds over some bread and chasing the blackbirds because they were stealing his bread. Now all he knew in that moment was he wanted that bread, and so he scattered everybody else away and puffed himself up and nodded his head up and down and showed how tough he was. But really, he just wanted the bread.

So in your daily life, when you wake up in the morning, say something like: I love this day. I appreciate that I have this day. I wonder what this day holds for me. Not immediately start wondering about this thing or that thing or something else... but just "in the moment," what's in this for me today. Alfred, do you have something on this topic?

ALFRED:

A lot of our clients are confused about the difference between everything you need is “in the moment" and us teaching, and everyone else... a lot of spiritual teachers teaching about manifestation, abundance, things that you want in your life and how do you reconcile the difference between the two? But the reality is they go hand-in-hand together. And how can they? If you have everything, why do you ask for something?

The reality is that in the brain's way of dealing with things.... it holds the energy.  I'm going to happier “then,” I'm going to be peaceful “then,” “when” I'm abundant,  “when” this thing manifests. That is very human way of going about it. Spiritually speaking, you hold your energy in the moment and when you are abundant, you are abundant in the moment. Now asking Spirit to work with things... You can create the energy, ask for the vibration, ask for the feeling, but "release it."

See, that is the major difference... you're not holding the vibration about something manifesting or abundance happening. You are releasing your wish, releasing your desire, and going back to being in the moment. So there is no problem with asking Spirit for something. It's whether or not you are holding onto that energy or releasing it and trusting the Other Side.

HANS:

Thank you, thank you, thank you. As I do this show, I have flowers on my computer... it shows me my different kinds of flowers. And I have to tell you each and every flower is living it its moment. It's not worried about tomorrow. It's not worried about anything. It's just in the moment. And then comes the bee along to sit in the flower. The bee is where it wants to be and the flower is where it wants to be. So in the moment, it is perfect.

I'm just going to run a little scenario here. This is Spirit speaking... this is me speaking. Let's say that you have a nice little one bedroom, or for that matter a studio apartment at this time in your life, and you long for a larger apartment, you long for a bigger experience. Perhaps an experience of living somewhere that's different than where you're living. We spend far more energy producing those thoughts than we do being grateful for where you are at the moment. Acceptance. Being available to know that this "here," wherever you are right now is the foundation or the groundwork for that tomorrow. 

We've set our intention in place. And we "know" that this is so important because we cannot get "there" without being "here." It's impossible. There's an old saying in England that I love that says: The person who starts at the top is certain to drop. This I have found to be absolutely correct. You must climb your way up the ladder. But you start, number one, what I have I taught you - Intention. Making the moment okay for now. Not struggling, not using this to say: Oh, my apartment's too small... or you know I don't like the area that I live in and my neighbors don't like me... No, no, no. Being grateful for “the moment of the now"... that's what's important.

ALFRED:

And being grateful for what you have also goes hand-in-hand with manifestation and abundance. Because if you hold on to what you don't have, you're telling Spirit: I'm not grateful for what I have in my life right now. Why would They give you anything more? The lesson here is to be grateful for where you are in the moment. That understanding where you are is perfect. And if something happens to show up in your life well that would be fine. But it does not take away from your gratefulness for which you have in your life right now... or where you are in your life right now.

And this is very difficult for older souls. Because older souls, as we know, go through more difficult lessons. And that is a very difficult thing...

HANS:

That's very important, Alfred.

ALFRED:

… is to understand that regardless of how long the lesson goes on... how old we are in our lives... to be grateful for the situation that we're in because it's a lesson that we asked for. Okay?

HANS:

Yes. Isn't that one of the keys?

ALFRED:

It is the key because even if your life isn't as you want it to be... as your mind tells you it "could" be, as your mind perceives the way it is, the truth is, for many of us old souls, we're in the middle of what we asked to work for, to work through, to learn, to experience. And it is "that" which you need to be grateful for. It is then that Spirit realizes that you've learned the lesson.

HANS:

Absolutely, Alfred. If I have a deck of cards and it looks full but only one card is missing, can you actually play a game without that card? It would be very hard. So by accepting where you are, in the moment, in the wisdom, in the knowledge, in the understanding that it is part and parcel "of" your dream. Not trying to go to a better place from a place of victimization, from a place of something is wrong, from a place that is the appearance of lack. But a quiet knowing and a quiet understanding that I accept this because this is where I am to be and am supposed to be here, at my request.

This is part and/or parcel of my tomorrows. And when someone comes into your life and they're in your life for a long time but the relationship just doesn't seem to work anymore, we should never throw stones at that person - ever. We should be blessing that person, loving that person, wishing them well. That's what's important is appreciating the moment. Because it's out of the moment that all of your tomorrows come. Okay?

Alfred, I think that will conclude the lesson for today.

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“Ignoring The Illusion” - by Hans Christian King Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

“Ignoring The Illusion” - by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Ignoring The Illusion

June 27, 2015

HANS:

Hello everybody. Welcome, welcome, welcome. You should see the hoops we're having to jump through in order to be able to do this today but it makes us happy to be able to get to you. The topic for today is "Ignoring The Illusion." You know folks, in life, you often heard me say that: Life is nothing more than an illusion. And I preface it by saying: You know, there's nothing going on in your life that you did not create. The mind, however, is an entirely different entity and it actually believes that these are real problems... that these things that you're going through you need to be concerned about, you need to be worried about.

This month I asked my dear friend Melinda to please write about this subject. And I have to tell all of you, she's done a terrific job and you'll see it in the Newsletter which will be coming out when, Alfred?

ALFRED:

We usually do them in the first week of each month and there's about 2 or 3 years of Articles and Spiritual Topics specifically for women. You can find those in the Newsletter, or you can go to HansKing.com and under "Free Resources" you can find the "Free Articles for Women."

HANS:

Life, as we know it, is based on what each one of us is busy creating. Okay? That's something that's very, very hard for people to grasp. They believe what they're seeing is real. But folks, everyday in your life you pass through other people's emotions, other people's creations. So nothing is actually planned folks. Spirit has an overall plan for all of us and we stay on that. But everything else... how you arrive at your destination is entirely up to you. Okay?  

And so having a quiet understanding that: Oh, wait a minute, this isn't real... I had a dear lady friend of mine email me the other day and her life has just gotten so complex. She's worried about money, she's worried about being alone, she's worried about whether she'll lose her job, she's worried about whether she'll make her mortgage payment, her light bill was too high... this and that. It's just non-stop. But none of it is "real" and none of it is "true." But the mind chatter continues to invest in the appearance of it. And the more the mind chatter invests in the appearance of it, the larger it gets and seems to become "real."

This is why I say to you... You know I did a lecture at Agape some years ago and one of the questions that I asked was... about 1,400 people in the audience, I said: Can anyone in this room tell me what's going on in their life that they did not create? And nobody raised their hand... nobody. But you also don't sit around and sit that I'm making up this stuff either... for yourself. You know you're having these fears and doubts but you normally don't say: Am I just making this up? Is this real? Why am I lending energy to this?

So one of the things that Alfred and I teach is when you learn to start to pull yourself back from the appearance of what you've created, your whole life as you have known it, changes immediately. Alfred, any words on this?

ALFRED:

One thing about ignoring the illusion that we want you to understand is how much your mind tries to trick you into making what it thinks is "real". It's not just that mind chatter reminds you of the past or makes you worried about the future. But it makes you "feel" as though those things are actually "real." And the truth is - it's the past, it's gone, it doesn't exist. But your mind will not just simply remind you of what happened. It will remind you of the emotion, or it will remind you of the pain like it was yesterday. And you need to ask yourself when you're feeling something that's in the past to say: How real does it feel? But how long ago really was it? Was it last year, five years ago, ten years ago, twenty years ago?

HANS:

Exactly.

ALFRED:

But your mind is making it "feel" like it was yesterday. That's not the truth. That's an illusion. And the same thing also with the future is if your mind is making you worried about something that does not exist, because the future does not exist yet, it feels like it is "real." What if this could happen? What if that happens? And your mind makes you start freaking out and worrying like it is the truth. Like it is actually happening. And you're getting all stressed. And the reality is it's an illusion. Your mind is making you feel stressed about something that doesn't exist.

HANS:

And I've noticed, Alfred, that through the years when Spirit and I in our sessions try to remove those fears and those doubts from the people, they try desperately to hang onto them.

ALFRED:

And that's what we're trying to say is just because you "feel" something is real, doesn't mean it is real. It is an illusion. Okay? So it's not just that your mind presents you with false truths in its speaking but it makes you "feel" things that are not true also. And it really detaches us from a state of ease, it detaches us from our peacefulness, it detaches us from who we really are.

HANS:

And as we've always taught you - No two things can be in the same place at the same time. So when you're busy running all of this stuff... How often, Alfred, have both of us heard: I don't think Spirit hears me. They hear you. You have no place to hear Them. You're too busy manufacturing all of these illusions and not only, children, do you manufacture them, you spend time and effort investing in them, re-creating them over and over and over again.

So it's really important to sit down and ask yourself: Wait a minute. Is in fact any of this true? And what you're going to find out is: No, it's not true. But your mind chatter will try to tell you that the illusion is real because it created it. And like Alfred said earlier, it's always a matter of what "could" happen.

ALFRED:

Yes. For things in the future, things that "could" happen, there is a difference between thinking about something in the future that "could" happen and what your mind does to you which is making you believe that it is "real" and that you should actually prepare yourself and feel for that thing that is real that doesn't exist in the future.

HANS:

(Laughing) I know that if you're listening to this now. Alfred's smiling. It does sound funny - but it's true. Have you noticed that most of the questions that come into this Show are questions about what "might" be going to happen? And them some of them are about "why did that happen"... which used to be a "what if this happens?" Because being in the human form we tend to take the improbable and turn it into the appearance of reality. Have you noticed that, Sir?

ALFRED:

Especially if something has happened to you in the past, your mind wants to protect you. It wants to control the distinct possibility that what it's telling you is the truth and it's going to happen again and you need to protect yourself. And it needs to remind you of what happened, so that you can remember what happened, and you can feel what happened, in case it happens to you again.

HANS:

Exactly. It tries to reinforce itself.

ALFRED:

So the funny thing is that your mind is actually bringing to you that which you're trying to avoid.

HANS:

Exactly.

ALFRED:

How's that one for a "why?" So you're trying to avoid the thing. But in the reality, your mind is bringing it to you every single day by you thinking about it and the mind makes you "feel" like it actually is happening. So if you think about that, your mind is actually really convoluted. But it's so hard and that's what we're trying to tell you, is to tell the difference between something that isn't "real" - the past and the future... in this case the past, something that happened. It's over.

Now we do have a lot of Advanced Meditations in the Intuitive Development Class that help you separate who you are from things that happened in the past. We're trying to tell you right now just to be "aware" that your mind is doing these things "to" you. It's much more advanced to say: Okay, now that I'm aware that these things are lie, what do I do with the lies? How do I handle them?

So what we're talking about is whether your mind chatter is making you believe or feel something is the truth is really to dissect the matter and determine: Is this truth? Is this real?

HANS:

That's the key point, Alfred, right there. Is it truth? No fear is truth. Now there are moments in our life where somebody may cut us off on the freeway or there's a close call with another person in some sort of endeavor you're doing where fear will come up.

ALFRED:

Or your child is running around the house with a knife.

HANS:

Yes, well that would do it.

ALFRED:

Yes, that's real fear.

HANS:

Did you ever do that, Alfred? Or was it a broomstick or a baseball bat?

ALFRED:

We used to play with elastics. Like shoot elastics. And my parents would always scream: Be careful! It's going to hit you in the eye! And one day it did. The elastic went in the wrong direction... That's real. Okay? But the majority of what your mind tells you we want you to take a look at and dissect it calmly and say: Is it real? Is it really appropriate that I'm on high alert feeling these emotions.

HANS:

So basically what we're saying to you is investing in the illusion of what the mind chatter is creating takes you directly away from your ability to engage Spirit. And the more you do that, the more you invest, the less and less and less... And then you wind up emailing Alfred and I and say: Where has God gone? Where has Spirit gone? They haven't gone anywhere - you have. The adage is that: No two things can be in the same place at the same time.

ALFRED:

And what we're trying to tell you is: God is always there. Guidance is always there. Spirit is always there. Universal energy, abundance, love - that is always there. The question is: Are you allowing your humanness to separate you from that which always is? Okay? Let me say that again: Are you allowing yourself to separate from that which always is? Are you allowing your mind chatter, are you allowing these feelings to come in and take over you and separate you and block that which always is around you?

HANS:

We do that ourself, children. We simply do it ourself. Alfred, I think that will conclude the lesson for today.

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“Online Social Life”- by Hans Christian King

“Online Social Life”- by Hans Christian King 

Spiritual Radio Show Transcription

GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show

with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com

and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com

Topic: Online Social Life

May 24, 2015

HANS:

Hello everybody. Today's topic is "Online Social Life.” This is a question that my friend Dan has asked me quite a few times... and I've kind of avoided it and I know I shouldn't have done that. Because Spirit is ready to address anything. 

But, folks there's a huge amount of people... many of them very young people coming into this world who actually believe that life originates out of the computer screen. Now hear me through, don't get made at me... they do. And they move all of their life - hopes, desires, problems, personal satisfactions out of the computer screen.  And they're beginning to believe that's what life is.

I can remember a time when I had to pull Alfred up short because everywhere we went he brought his iPhone and every time we sat down he was taking emails and sending texts. And I had to say to him: Wait a minute. That's not life. He said to me: What do you mean? I said: No, no, no. That's what you do, that's not your life. And he wanted to argue with me... and then he began to see how dependent he had become.

Alfred, throw something in with this will me will you?

ALFRED:

Business online is a wonderful tool. It really helps you communicate with others. But, of course, what we're talking about here is spiritually speaking... Are you looking for a social life or even meaning online? Could looking for meaning or social life online lead to happiness or could it lead to depression?

HANS:

Exactly, Alfred. And that, Alfred, is one of my main concerns. We have an awful lot of lonely youngsters, teenage children, young adults, who... for whatever their situation is at home are longing for some companionship, for someone to see them, for someone to understand who they are and where they are and what their frustrations are. And they believe they can get that through the computer. But mostly, Alfred, somebody will sell something to these people.

And so one of my pet peeves is that we don't steer our children back out into society at an early age through games, or through fun classes, theater, music, all kinds of stuff that are out there for youngsters today. We don't do that. We keep babysitting them with the computer. And what you're doing is destroying the childrens ability to form natural relationships. The relationships like I had, Alfred had, my parents, his parents, all of your parents out there. 

We did not have the computer to tell us who we were and who we could become if you believe the computer. All the computer is there to do is deliver information. And much of it, when you are searching, has to do with buying something. So what I'm trying to get across to people is it may be time to look at the way we hold value in our children. Because so many kids are so very lonely. They come from, perhaps broken homes, their parents may not be able to see who they are.

And there is this quiet frustration and anger. And may I say folks - suicide. If you can believe that. Suicide from youngsters who feel so alone. They feel there's absolutely no hope. Nobody will every hear them. Nobody will ever see them. But we do have organizations that help these children. We do have groups... even Government money has been thrown into trying to help people to see there's life outside of the computer.

Now about 2 years ago, I think it was, Alfred, maybe 3 years ago, I was blessed to be able to be Keynote Speaker at Agape's Revelation... where we're going next week. But one of my joys was I got to speak to the Young People's Group. And they were just the same as any other kids. They were blown away. They finally got to see what I do and one kid said: Oh, I used to do that when I was a kid. How do you get back and do that? They're involved in programs with each other. They were learning how to communicate with each other. And my heart just soared. It was a big hit. 

And as we go down life's path I want to do more of those. Helping people to understand, helping these kids to understand that they are somebody. Not waiting to become somebody... that they already are. And I want the kids out there to know, that however you perceive God to be, it does not love anyone more than you. You are the reflection of God in human form.

Alfred, when did you come across that awareness for yourself?

ALFRED:

Really when I sold a phone and didn't have a phone for a month. (Alfred chuckling)

HANS:

Oh, I remember that. I was a little worried for you honestly. (Hans chuckling)

ALFRED:

Yes. I actually went through withdrawals. I actually forced myself, on purpose, to sell my phone early and knowing I was going to wait for a new phone to really wean myself off of it that I realized how addicted I was. And that was something I really didn't even realize is that people are searching for meaning, people are searching for something online.

And Hans, what's your opinion of "are online relationships as satisfying as real relationships?"

HANS:

Oh, absolutely not. No, no, no, no. You have to develop, Alfred, a relationship by being "with" someone. Even if its going for a coffee or the two of you sitting on the beach watching seagulls walk by. That's how you develop a relationship. You do not develop a relationship electronically. I don't care what any scientist out there tells me. You will not have the same impact on your life from a computer generated relationship as you will from a personal related person... a person who is relating to you, a person who can see you, a person who gives you actual hugs... a somebody who kisses you on the forehead and says: I see your value. I get who you are. I really like being with you.

You can't get that on a computer, Alfred. And where my fear comes is that no matter how many of these computers are going to be around, for a long time, in the end it will always boil down to the need for human companionship - always.

ALFRED:

And that's what I see as the major issue is people are trying to "replace" human contact with things like posts and tweets. 

HANS:

Yes.

ALFRED:

And what we're trying to say is "no," you have to start from having human contact.

HANS:

That's right.

ALFRED:

And if it's fine for your human friends that you have human contact with to tweet them and post them once in awhile. But a lot of the depression is that people are thinking they don't need to go out, they don't need to interact, that they're going to get the same type of meaning, the same type of fulfillment by using Facebook and Twitter. And what we're really telling you is that could lead to serious depression.

HANS:

Very much so... and to suicidal thoughts.

ALFRED:

Yes.

HANS:

That, folks, is a proven fact now.

ALFRED:

So if you're online a lot and you're feeling depressed, what we want you to consider is the place that you're looking for happiness may be leading you in a direction different from what you're seeking.

HANS:

Yes. And you know it doesn't make any difference who you perceive yourself to be. God and Spirit perceive you to be love personified. And even though you look around your life, kids, and you say: But, there's nothing here for me. It's because you're not creating anything. Maybe you come from a broken home, maybe something bad happened to you as a child and you don't trust society anymore... But Spirit loves you. Every single one of you.

And when you put yourself into a position that says: You know what? There's got to be something more than this. There's got to be something more than me sitting here 15 hours a day playing on the computer and trying to find romance... trying to find someone who sees me. It won't happen. They're all temporary. It's all a mirage. It's all an illusion. And in the end you'll be left empty handed.

Kids, get out there. There are hundreds of clubs, if not thousands, in this nation of ours who will help you if you're straight, if you're gay, if you're bi-gender, it doesn't matter. What matters is you get out and you interact with other kids and young people who are going through the exact same thing that you are. And you're going to find that you'll meet somebody and they'll say: You know what? I really feel a lot like you.

And I want you to know that in that moment when you hear someone say: I can feel you... Oh, my God there's another one, I'm not the only one. Your life changes for the rest of your life in that moment. Okay? And kids, and you adults also, this scolding from Uncle Hansie - stop that incessant putting everything you are and everything you do on the internet. It is going to come back and bite you. So bad is it that even our President has said to the kids: Don't do it.

And some of the accounts out there, that own these accounts, are saying: You know what? You're putting too much information out here. Hold something back that is called "you." Don't confuse who you are with what you do. I don't care that you put out there what you do, but I care a lot that you put out there who you are. Because you don't want anybody out there to be aware of who your little baby angel is until you want to share that with a partner.

ALFRED:

I think it's that people are really trying to replace real life with an online life which is why they're so willing to post absolutely everything. I don't need to this in real life because I can do it online...

HANS:

Right.

ALFRED:

And what we're trying to say is: No...

HANS:

No, you can't.

ALFRED:

First comes your "real" life. And do a couple of things here and there online. But if you're depressed searching for "meaning" and you're replacing physical contact with online interaction, then you really need to take a look at it. Because you're losing your social skills by being only online. You're losing physical contact by being online. You're not feeling anyone's presence. You're not feeling anyone's touch.

HANS:

That's very important. Even a hug, Alfred... for a lot of these people. No...

ALFRED:

A hug, a handshake, what's it like just to be in someone else's presence. All of these things you do not get from online. That energy... you share energy, you share emotions with other people. And the human body needs those things.

HANS:

Absolutely. We were born for love. We were born for affection. And you cannot, children, get that on a computer. You just simply can't. And I hate to say this to you but many of the online relationship people who have said: Oh, I found somebody. I would say to you that 50% of those have dissolved already.

You have to build it. It's a good way to open a door for you. Because what so many kids and young people have out there today, Alfred, is a No Vacancy sign on their forehead. Because something has burned them, something has hurt them. Maybe someone said that they weren't attractive. Maybe somebody said they'll never amount to anybody. But they need to know that the Spirit, when it  looks at you, says: Oh, my goodness you're perfect for me. And God says: You're perfect for me.

And I'm not going off on a religious path. I'm just telling you you guys need to go back to the source. The emotional source where all human beings is that we're baby angels in human form. Pure and simple. And there are organizations, there's social clubs, meeting clubs - free things - won't cost you a dime, that just go sit and listen to somebody or some music. Your chances of meeting people are very, very good if you simply shut off the No Vacancy sign.

ALFRED:

Yeah. And just make an effort. For example, "Meetup." Yes, it's online, but you schedule meeting other people in person. And there's a Meetup on just about every topic in the entire world. There are spiritual groups, there are book clubs, poetry clubs, hiking clubs, bicycling clubs...

HANS:

There's more of that in the United States than anywhere else on earth, Alfred.

ALFRED:

And whether you look on meetup.com or just search for local groups another place, the point is to get "offline" and actually have physical contact with people. Yes, it may be awkward because you have to have a little bit of social skills, but you need...

HANS:

Yeah, but you can't learn social skills without being social.

ALFRED:

That's the whole point is you're going to lose social skills by being online... But get off, get interacting with people. Then you'll find what you're looking for.

HANS:

Absolutely. And you know, Alfred, there's a large group of my clients, that are basically hard working people. Most of them are single. They go to work and they stop at the grocery store and they get home and they say: I'm too tired to go anywhere. Somewhere in that week you can find something you can do where you don't get up the next day to work and you can go and do it. I had one lady say to me: Oh, I'm terrified of driving at night. I said: Have a friend take you. Get out of the house.

ALFRED:

Take a taxi...

HANS:

Exactly.

ALFRED:

Just take a taxi. Go to a bar. You don't want to drive anyway.

HANS:

No. And don't go to a Movie because that's more, you know, closing yourself in. When Alfred says: Go to a bar. He doesn't mean to get drunk. He means: Go around. There's some Jazz Bars, there's all kinds of young organizations that play music and have non-alcoholic beverages, and they have all kinds of hiking, swimming classes... All of that stuff. It's out there. 

And for you older people who have given up... you 55, 60 year olds who have given up, you're doing that to yourself because there are plenty of people out there that would love to get a hug by you... plenty of people who would like to share their children with you and you share your children with them.

ALFRED:

Things like classes for us younger to middle-aged kids, take a class at a community college. I took a Welding Class last year.

HANS:

You had a ball.

ALFRED:

It was absolutely hilarious! Take a class. What's it going to cost you at a Community College - $50. You don't need social skills. You sit there and talk about whatever the class is. Take a Cooking Class. Okay? All of these options are to get out and meet other people.

And for those of you sick of the bar scene... Well, yeah, there's a reason you're sick of the bar scene because it's all about ego, it's all about alcohol. So that's what I mean. In a Meetup group, find something you like to do, whether it's a common interest like biking, roller blading, art, poetry...

HANS:

Well there's just so many things out there now, Alfred.

ALFRED:

Yes. Just check meetup.com and use that to get offline and interacting with other people so you can find what you're looking for.

HANS:

Folks, have you ever noticed that when you're using the computer how fast the time goes? You suddenly look up and you started at 7:30 after dinner and it's a quarter to 10? And you accomplished absolutely nothing. If you took that time to run down to your local book store... Because most of the good book stores have speakers for free, doesn't cost you a dime, you don't have to buy anything whatsoever... Just little things like that. That's what Alfred and I are talking about.

Make yourself available for you to get out to become someone... risk becoming someone other than that person who's becoming reclusive, who's becoming housebound, who's only safe going to the market and work and back. Be something better than that.

Alfred, I think that will conclude the lesson for today. 

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