GUIDANCE FOR YOUR LIFE Radio Show
with Hans Christian King www.HansKing.com
and Alfred Ricci www.AlfredRicci.com
Topic: Soul Mate Lovers
November 23, 2013
Alfred:
Hello everyone and welcome to “Guidance For Your Life”. Hi, this is Alfred the Padawan to the Modern Day Mystic Himself. Today's topic is: "Soul Mate Lovers". We're going to be covering different types of soul mates, particularly soul mate lovers but before we get to that, Hans Christian King and I are going to be talking about us. Some of our new members have been asking "What is a Padawan? And who is Alfred? We all know about Hans, since he's been around for well over 50 years, could you talk a little bit about yourself?" So that's been the subject of the emails we've been getting Hans.
Hans:
About 8 years ago I started a process of trying to find someone who I felt could represent my teachings. My basic spiritual teachings and understanding, and who had the type of sensitivity that would allow them to continue my work into the future. I took a long time in this as when you've been in a particular profession as long as I have been in this wonderful profession of mine, you begin to develop what you call "absolutes". Certain teachings from Spirit that are absolutely essential in others growth. And if you all remember the movie Star Wars...
Alfred:
One of Hans', oh what would you say Yoda is to you?
Hans:
He's a hero.
Alfred:
One of Hans' heroes is Yoda and I started looking into Star Wars a little bit more closely and there was a documentary... And come to find out Joseph Campbell lived near Skywalker Ranch. And then I found out Joseph Campbell was one of the best metaphysicans of his time. His teachings, such as The Force, were involved in Star Wars. So what I realized is that a Padawan, as per several definitions such as Wookiepedia or Star Wars Wikia, which I'm sure Hans has no...
Hans:
You really are serious, right?
Alfred:
He-he. Padawan, Padawan Learner, Jedi Apprentice, A Jedi In Training is referred to as a Force Sensitive Adolescent who has become a one-on-one apprentice with a Jedi Knight Master.
Hans:
Who am I, the Jedi Knight Master?
Alfred:
You actually are.
Hans:
Ah...
Alfred:
So if we refer to Hans King as The Jedi Master, The Force is actually God and Spirit, and I'm learning from the Master himself, that makes me a Padawan.
(Hans chuckling in the background)
Hans:
Padawan.
Alfred:
Padawan Learner.
Hans:
And this is actually a question from some of our listeners?
Alfred:
Yes. So there is quote about a Padawan... This is very cute...Qui-Gon who was the Jedi to Obi-Wan Kenobi, there's a quote here that says: "Be mindful of the living force my young Padawan" and if that doesn't ....
Hans:
That tells it right there.
Alfred:
That tells about our teachings. We talk about the Godforce. We talk about Spirit. We talk about vibration, universal energy. So for those of you who have watched Star Wars, you will see or hear a lot about Joseph Campbell's teachings in Star Wars.
Hans:
I think we've covered it.
Alfred:
So that is how I became the apprentice to Hans and that's why I refer to myself as the Padawan which is the apprentice to the Jedi Master.
Hans:
And hopefully, eventually Alfred you will have a Padawan that you teach to continue the teachings.
Alfred:
Well actually Mike wanted to know what he was. So he is currently referred to as a Youngling.
Hans:
Yes, he's a Youngling.
Alfred:
So Youngling is in the last series of Star Wars where there's the Jedi Academy. Actually I think it's Star Wars I and II when they went back in time and had the Jedi Academy. All the very young Jedi Apprentices who were not yet Padawans are referred to as Younglings.
Hans:
You do know we're going to get a lot of questions on this.
Alfred:
Go watch Star Wars.
Alfred:
It's all because Hans loves Yoda and the teachings...
Hans:
And I also love teaching. And when you find someone who can hear what you're attempting to say, you find someone who resonates with the teaching, who resonates with what you perceive the truth to be, then that person and you are dedicated to bring light into this world and to do the very best that you can to make certain that people can find their path. And that's what I've been blessed to do for 56 years now.
Alfred:
We actually had a couple of people over the years ask: "Is Hans taking on any additional Padawans or Apprentices"? And since then what we've come up with is Private Intensive Sessions and on-going counseling sessions. So we've taken Personal Readings to another level. We don't necessarily have Apprenticeship Teachings yet. But this is about as close as you can get where you can spend 2 days, 4 days or even an entire week with Hans and I. And that's under Personal Readings - Private Intensive Sessions - at hansking.com. So that's what we have so far so if someone else wants to become the Padawan to us then we'd be happy to talk to you about what's available.
Hans:
I think that this is a wonderful program. I see the difference in people's soul direction Alfred when they come away from these Intensives. It's really mind boggling. Alrighty Alfred, I believe today’s topic is "Soul Mates". Is that correct?
Alfred:
It is. Today's topic is "Soul Mates". This is probably one of our, if not the most requested topic, but the topic that we counsel most people on is relationships. There is a six hour course that we have on relationships, So when we talk about relationships on this show, usually we pick one specific topic of Sacred Relationships. There are many. And one of the major topics of Sacred Relationships, spiritually coordinated relationships, are soul mates. So without further ado, I present to you Hans Christian King.
Hans:
Good afternoon everyone. How nice to be back with you. Indeed today's topic is “Soul Mates”. I want to start with: What is a soul mate? A soul mate is someone who has been with you in lives, many of your lives, that you have grown comfortable with. That you have found a common train of thought, a common feeling, common goals. And so we tend to re-incarnate with these people. A soul mate is someone that you have worked with, been together with, over many, many lifetimes. Not only in this dimension, but the dimension that we come from and return to. So it's an ongoing trust, an ongoing understanding, an awareness of each others soul and the direction of that soul. Now, I'd like to say to you that soul mates come in several different varieties. Not to put too funny a point on it but for instance, there is such a thing as soul mate friends. What is a soul mate friend? Here we go again. A soul mate friend is someone that your soul has known before. You've worked with that person before. You know sometimes we're out about our daily life and all of a sudden we see someone or come in contact with somebody and we say to ourselves: Funny, don't I know that person? Or, I feel like I've known that person before. That of course would be a soul mate friend. And soul mate friends come into our life, throughout our lifetime, to be mirrors, growth partners for each other. Sometimes they stay in our lives, sometimes they go. There are all kinds of soul mates. But the ones I want to deal with today are soul mate friends, soul mate lovers and what is the difference between those two. You know folks, we can even have a soul mate in an animal. For instance a little dog or a little cat. This is very, very prevalent in society today. A soul mate friend again is someone that your soul recognizes; it witnesses. You often come across someone in your life where you say to yourself: Funny enough, I feel like I know that person. I don't remember them but why is it I feel so comfortable with that person? That person would be a soul mate friend. Someone that would be a mirror for you; you a mirror for them. Again, growth partners for each other. What is a soul mate lover? A soul mate lover, once again, is also a soul mate friend but it's slightly different. One of the things that I say to my clients is: When you meet someone, it's really important that you do not jump right into a physical relationship with that person. Because more times than not it fails. And the reason that it fails is because you're really soul mate friends, not soul mate lovers. Alfred, I'm sure you've been there. Alfred, can you tell the difference between the two? How would you tell the difference between the two?
Alfred:
It is extremely difficult to tell the difference between a soul mate friend and a soul mate lover which is why Hans and I recommend that if you're getting into a relationship and there is an immense attraction, to resist the urges that you might have to jump into bed. Because the universe is supporting the relationship and universal energy is much different. It is much lighter than human physical energy. And a lot of people, including myself after many years of learning from Hans, still have a difficult time understanding the different types of universal energy. Specifically the different types of energy that support different types of soul mate relationships. So, the first thing we say is: If you feel a magnetism towards somebody, don't take the risk of jumping into bed so fast...
Hans:
Oh, Heaven's no...
Alfred:
Take some time to find out, what is the purpose of this relationship? Who is this person to me? Get to know the person. Which you're going to want to do either way.
Hans:
Well you can go for coffee without having to jump in bed. Can you tell the difference between the two? Yes. Yes, you can. If, in the beginning you take the relationship one step at a time, you will slowly begin to get an understanding that there's less lust and more friendship. There's less need and more acceptance. When you find a true soul mate friend, there's nothing that can shake that. When you find a soul mate lover, there are many things that can get shaken up as we all know. What is a soul mate lover? Well first of all, again I repeat, a soul mate lover is also a soul mate friend. You know about the lover as you go along a little bit like Alfred would say: Not in a hurry. Don't be in a hurry to do anything. Just be there in the relationship with no expectations. Now this is a very difficult thing for many people to do. If you have a feeling for someone you can always say to your guides, your helpers, your angels if you will: I am available for the right action on this issue with this person. And you just open yourself up to the possibilities. Okay? The possibilities. A soul mate lover evolves out of a soul mate friendship. One is very helpful in leading to the other one. Now there are times people, there are times when you meet someone and BAM! you get hit like somebody threw a bottle of warm water on you. BOOM! And you go: What the heck just happened? Most of the time you've come across a soul mate lover from your history. What do you do with that? You be patient. You be still. You don't get yourself in a hurry and start making foolish mistakes. If you quietly know and accept that this may be your soul mate lover, it will evolve every time into what it is supposed to be. Why does a soul mate friend feel like a soul mate lover? Alfred, I'm going to let you walk with this one for me.
Alfred:
Because the universe supports the relationship. If I may go back just a little bit about why the universe would support a relationship... When you're on the other side and you're planning your life to come down, you make agreements with soul partners on the other side that say: You know what, I'm going to come down and support you in this way. I'm going to come down and support you in that way. And you come down in soul groups. Well, some soul mates are going to come down and say: You know what, we're just going to be friends. I'm going to support you with this lesson. I'm going to support you with that lesson. We're going to hang out and have some fun. That is a soul mate friend. And then you get some other soul mates that decide: You know what? Let's be in a relationship. For either just playing around or for having kids. And those are soul mate lovers. Either way there was an agreement made in the spirit before you were incarnated and born. And the universe, those on the other side, universal energy, spirits, guidance, everybody, however you want to refer to it, the Godforce, supports that relationship. So when you come together you are going to feel an energy that is supporting the relationship. You are going to feel a magnetism to get in touch with, to spend time with that person. Now of course the universe, in every way possible, does not give you the details. It's up to you to find out the details.
Hans:
You know somehow that doesn't seem fair.
Alfred:
I know it doesn't. But again we'll say: What is the purpose of taking a test if you know the answers? This is the school of Life. And as with everything to do with this life, it is about discovery, it is about character growth. So even in the terms of friendships you'll say: Yes, this is the direction you should go in, which also feels the same if it's your career or relationship, but the details of why you you should be going in that relationship are not included. So what you feel...
Hans:
It doesn't hardly seem fair does it?
Alfred:
But you'll become enlightened when you leave the body and go back to the other side and that's why it is so difficult. Because number one, you have decided to tell the universe to support you in the relationship. But by universal law they will not give you the details of anything. They will just say: You asked to go in this direction, it's up to you to go in that direction regardless of what part of your life that direction is. So that's why you will feel a magnetism, why you will feel an energy. But the details are left out.
Hans:
Absolutely Alfred. Absolutely. Everyone wants a soul mate lover. Does everyone get a soul mate lover? The answer is: Not always. Sometimes the relationship that you are going to be about will be about the relationship between you and yourself. Which is enormously important. Making yourself your own soul mate friend. Finding a place in your heart that says I am enough for me. I am enough for God. And becoming your own best friend is becoming a soul mate friend to yourself. It is my belief and in my teachings from Spirit, that one of the greatest soul mate relationships you will ever have is the one you develop with yourself. Because dear ones, no other person coming into your life will ever be greater to you than you. It is impossible. It is utterly impossible. So I say to everybody who is looking for a soul mate lover: First become your own best friend. So that you actually build a place within yourself to recognize your soul mate lover as they come in. I believe that soul mate friends are equally important as soul mate lovers. What do you think Alfred?
Alfred:
Absolutely. Soul mate friends are there for two reasons. One to have fun. Just go out and hang out and run around the world and experience life...
Hans:
And to hold your hand during difficult times.
Alfred:
To hold your hand during difficult times. And also to present you with your lessons and to help make you a better person. So friends and lovers are there to present you with lessons and make you a better person. Soul mate lovers obviously are involved with you at a much deeper level. But something that Hans said was very, very important. And we want to try to make this as clear as possible is that: The better person you are, the more you let go of, the more you follow Hans' teachings and let go of things that don't serve you, the more you uncover who you truly are, the more you connect to the universe, the more you connect to guidance, the better able you will be to recognize a soul mate lover. This is very, very important.
Hans:
Yes it is.
Alfred:
If you're looking for a soul mate lover we tell you: Go within.
Hans:
Yes, absolutely. And that's the key Alfred.
Alfred:
It is the key because you're thinking: Okay, my soul mate lover is out there. And we say: No, think of it this way. The more you go within and let go of that which is not you, let go of things such as: Is something wrong? Let go of pain. Let go of trauma. Let go of these things. Let go of baggage. Let go of anger. Let go of those things that are not really you. And number one, you become a better partner. And number two, you're more able to connect with the universal energy and know when the universe is telling you that this is something or someone that you should pay attention to.
Hans:
And Alfred, the universe will tell us. They will start sending us clues and little newsflashes, if you will. That's always the case don't you find?
Alfred:
It is. And it's one of the topics that's coming up in a few weeks. And you'll notice the topics are going to be building upon each other during the next several weeks. For the next couple of weeks we're going to be talking about "letting go". And why that helps you receive guidance. How they helps you connect to the universe. How that helps you connect to those souls, those angels who are watching over you, helping you, guiding you on your life's path. And eventually guiding you to a soul mate lover.
Hans:
Very good, Alfred.
Alfred:
So pay attention to the next couple weeks.
Hans:
Pay attention. Keep a pad and a pen nearby so you can jot down these little newsflashes that Spirit sends to you. I would like to bring up a topic that I have not shared with Alfred as of yet. He'll find out about it today. Spirit and the Godforce are our soul mate friends. They are people who have agreed to be there for you, work with you, open doors for you, who hear your heart, who know where your sadness comes from, who knows where your doubts and your fears lie. And they add energy and love as soul mate friends to help open doors, to all of the possibilities in your life. So does everyone have a soul mate friend? Everyone has soul mate friends. Many soul mate friends. Again your guides, your helpers, your angels, all the people who've agreed from the other side to work with you - soul mate friends. And for many of you, you also have soul mate lovers who have passed back to the other side with you but did not come back this time. Now I want to stop for just a moment here. I want to talk about what happens when we lose a soul mate lover. Someone we have been with, someone who has been our friend. How do we cope with that? Many young people have not had that experience. When you get to be my age you've had that experience or most likely will have that experience. When you lose a soul mate lover, is love over for you in this lifetime? The answer is: Absolutely not. We have already programmed various people who agreed to come in who have been your soul mate lover before, who agreed to come in and take up a position in your life for the next part of your journey. So oftentimes, we lose one person and we pick up another. But it is never to replace the love or the lover that we had. It is for the next experience of love. So can someone have several soul mate lovers in a lifetime? Absolutely. I've known individuals who have had three, four magnificent relationships but always physically survived them. But you must leave yourself open. Number one, Alfred what I have found, is that many of my clients, now I don't know but you can look and see what you clients feel about this, but I've found that many of my clients still ponder whether or not they're good enough to have a soul mate lover. Have you found that to be true?
Alfred:
And that is one of the most difficult lessons that Hans and I have found with our clients is that: Am I good enough? It is the path of an old soul to deal with more difficult lessons. And unfortunately a lot of old souls misinterpret this lesson as: Why is my life so difficult? Why am I getting bombarded? Maybe God just doesn't love me. Maybe I just deserve all this pain in my life. So self-esteem is a major issue with a lot of old souls. But that has absolutely nothing to do with whether or not you're going to have a soul mate lover in your life. Yes, okay you asked for difficult lessons. You're an old soul. That is the path of an old soul. Because you've done all the easy stuff already. If you're an old soul you've said: You know what I've done the easy stuff; let me get the hard stuff. But the fact that you're getting bombarded with difficult lessons and your lessons with self-esteem are two completely separate issues about whether you're going to be having soul mates, soul mate lovers, whether your guides love you and watch over you or not. Yes, absolutely you're going to have soul mates. But again let me come full circle. The more you work on yourself, the more you go within and do your spiritual work and get over yourself and get through your lessons the more available you will be. The better person you will be when that soul mate relationship arrives.
Hans:
And for many of you, who want a soul mate relationship, I hope you will listen to the teachings today. What we're trying to say to you is: Start with the Self. You've heard me often say: No one completes us. We are our own divine energy and representative of the Godforce. If you know, in your heart, that you're your best friend, then I guarantee you if you are to have a soul mate lover in your life, one will arrive. Again I point out: How does one recognize a soul mate lover? It simply occurs. There's no effort to it. It's just gentle. It's like being hit with that wet noodle again but knowing that it feels safe. Finding common goals, getting to know each other. This I think Alfred is the key, is the getting to know one another don't you think?
Alfred:
It is. And we really go into a lot of details about the different types of soul mate relationships there are including siblings, parents, relatives, not only just friends and lovers.
Hans:
And our little pets.
Alfred:
Our little pets...
Hans:
Which is where I'm going shortly...
Alfred:
Yes... And we go into the reasons why there are these soul mate relationships and how do you get along with these soul mate relationships in the much more detailed Sacred Relationships Class that we have in the Store at hansking.com.
Hans:
How does one get to see that class?
Alfred:
Well if you go to hansking.com and under Store, then you can look under Audio Classes or Video Classes. That is one of our much longer lessons. As we were trying to say, we do our best to give away as much stuff as we can for free, including this weekly radio show, but we only have a limited amount of time. The Sacred Relationships Class goes into much more detail about this topic. It's 6 hours and even available in Video so we can take you into our living room.
Hans:
This is fun!
Alfred:
It is...
Hans:
You can meet Bella everyone.
Alfred:
And you can go into the Store and take a look at that. And we also have some other recordings about relationships. Some other audio lessons that are shorter and more available. Again that's on the Store on hansking.com.
Hans:
So many of you ask me, through your emails: Can I have a soul mate animal? Yes, you certainly can. There are many of you out there today and there's many of us here, because both Alfred and I have had these, where you know that the little animal, no matter what it is, a kitty, dog, bird, goldfish, whatever. You and they have a special bonding. I have a friend of mine that I spoke to the other day and he has just lost his cat. And he had been with that cat and they slept in the same room together, ate breakfast together, had a great life together for 23 years. And his kitty passed away. I didn't see him this upset when his mother passed away. What is it that these little soul mate creatures give us? They give us unconditional love my friends. They give us something that life in general may not give us as much as we would like. Soul mate friendship - unconditional love. No expectations, but love offered and received. So yes, we can have soul mate friends as animals. We also have soul mate friends as parents, as Alfred brought up sisters, brothers. You may find one particular sibling that you just resonate more with than with other member of your family. That would be an old soul mate friend. So we call these groups that incarnate together, in soul groups, as Light Families. They come in together, they work together, they're mirrors and growth partners for each other. That's why we tend to repeat the family structure in our re-incarnations. But yes, someone can have a soul mate lover who passes that is brought in to be with them for another relationship. I've known people to have three and four of these in a lifetime of say 80, 85 years. The most important thing again I point out to all of you is to recognize the divine soul mate within yourself. I think this one thing is more important than any other thing you can do to guide you towards the inevitability of your soul mate relationship.
Alfred:
That pretty much sums it up.
Hans:
(Laughing) I just gave Alfred, what is it a "deer in the headlights" routine?
Alfred:
That pretty much sums it up. If you're looking for a soul mate to fix you, no. No, you fix you and make yourself available for that soul mate relationship, for that soul mate lover. Don't look for somebody to fix you. You need to have the intention to fix yourself first. Yes, they will present you with lessons. Yes, they will help you along you path. But you need to start the process first.
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